Robert Michael Trilla

Robert Trilla Obituary

Robert Michael Trilla, age 45, beloved son of Carol (William) Keefe of Glen Ellyn, IL and the late Andrew T. Trilla; loving brother of Cary (Gerry) Walker of Niota, IL, Andrew H. (Mary Kay) Trilla of Clarendon Hills, IL, Thomas W. (Lorna) Trilla of Crystal Lake, IL, Judy Trilla of Englewood, OH, Nancy (Edward) Muisenga of Fontana, WI, Donald J. (Kathy) Trilla of Elmhurst, IL and Michael F. (Tracy) Trilla of Oak Brook, IL; fond uncle of Dustin (Stephanie), Lesley, Betsy, Jerry and Joseph Walker, Drew and Olivia Trilla, David, Lisa and Steven Bush, Thomas, Dana and Gina Trilla, Andy and David Eisch, Edward, Becky and Christine Muisenga, Amanda and Sara Trilla; dear granduncle of Abbie Dusenberry, Elizabeth, Anna and Brooklyn Walker; fond nephew and cousin to many. Visitation Thursday 5 p.m. to 9 p.m. at The Elliston Funeral Home, First and Grant Sts., Hinsdale. Friends will meet Friday at Notre Dame Church, Chicago Ave. and Norfolk, Clarendon Hills for 10:30 a.m. Funeral Mass. In lieu of flowers, memorials appreciated to American Heart Association Memorials and Tributes, Dept. 77-3968, Chicago, IL 60678-3968. Interment St. Mary Cemetery, Evergreen Park. 630-323-0275.

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Published by Chicago Tribune from Oct. 15 to Oct. 16, 2003.

Memories and Condolences
for Robert Trilla

12 Entries

Carol (Mom) Keefe

November 23, 2003

Thanks to all who have remembered Bob both through this page and with written notes, phone calls, e-mails, flowers and spiritual rememberances. It has meant so much to our family.

We miss him.....he left us too soon.... but our memories live on!!

Judy Trilla

November 21, 2003

I wanted to say thank you to Bobby's Columbus Family and Friends for setting up the year long guest book for my brother. It's such a difficult time and appreciate your thoughts and letters received.

Sincerely, Judy Trilla

Judy Trilla

November 20, 2003

Thoughts of "one of the little boys":

I was one of the "little girls". Boy, did we hate those few words we had to hear every nite when it was time for bed! "Time for bed, little boys." "Time for bed, little girls." And we'd stamp up the stairs so upset we had to go to bed before Cary, Gip and Tom. Well, at least I stamped up the stairs!! Over the years, being far away from family, often I'd look at all the pictures I have and think, Bobby was the cutest baby. It's funny how lately all I'm thinking about is us as kids on Winchester, in our backyard. We were so lucky to be raised in Beverly. I never wanted to leave our yard. At least, not until I entered 7th grade!! And yes, I'm the sister Bobby wanted off the ice!! Dad flew out the back door, in his bathrobe!! And brothers, I'd like to know why you guys always made me be the goalie?? I'll never forget all the sneaking back into St. Barnabas after we moved to Elmhurst. Never had an accident either, until Bobby was late at our pick up spot and we started rushing to get home. Two blocks from Big Ridge and we get hit by a police car. We were so scared driving home!! ..... For some reason, even though I'd get mad at Bobby for still being crazy as we got older, the last two years, when I'd see him, I felt a sameness with him. Felt like he was a wanderer like me. Both still trying to find our way. My heart aches for you, Bobby. My tears still fall on my pillow late at nite, or in the early morning hours. I wear your sunglasses everyday, turn on your Stevie Ray Vaughn CD for my ride to work, and long to hug you. I always knew you had a loving, giving, beautiful heart. I hope you and Dad watch me every day. I miss you so. "little girl, Judy"

November 19, 2003

Bobby Can Fly!!!

I wanted to pass along a little known fact about our brother Bob. He always felt he had the ability to fly. Throughout his life he took many lessons and here a just a few...

Lesson #1: At a very young age Bob enlisted the help of a helium balloon and launched himself from the back of our living room couch. Gravity won, Bob broke his leg! Lesson #2: Bob decided to own the backyard ice rink by clearing his sister from his ice. Dad launches Bobby, snowsuit is not aerodynamic to gain lift and Bobby eats snow!

Lesson #3: Bobby challenges road construction barriers on Mannheim Rd. while on his motercycle and fails at his attempt to brake any of Evil's records. Results in embarrament and many gravel scars! Lesson #4: Bob finds himself at a party filled with unfriendly warriors. Trapped without a traditional exit, Bob decides the window offers him a safe out but neglects to open the window or check the distance to the ground prior to leaving the party. Results in Bobby eating dirt, tending his fresh cut skin and wearing a cast on his arm!

Now that Bobby has gone to Heaven, we can be sure that he is making the most his angel wings.

Yes...Bobby Can Fly!!!

I love you and miss you little brother.

Tom

Greg Galotta

October 21, 2003

To the Trilla Family

I can't begin to tell you how sorry I am about Bobby. I just found out yesterday that he had passed.It saddens me deeply that I found out about this after the funneral.

I hadn't seen Bobby in many years,but believe me, the old saying out of sight out of mind doesn't apply here. I have many pleasent childhood memories of him (and all of you for that matter) I will always cherish.My heart and prayers go out to you all.

jane mcnichols-markey

October 17, 2003

Dear Carol,

MY deepest sympathy to you and you family on the loss of your son.

Robert will be remembered in my prayers.

Sincerely,

Jane Markey

Karen Dean

October 16, 2003

Judy, Sorry that I couldn't be there with you. You and your family have my sincere sympathy. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Amy Brentlinger

October 16, 2003

I am a friend of Bobby's from Ohio. My thoughts are with his beloved family that I have heard many, many fond stories of, but never have had the opportunity to meet. Our "V.I.P. gang" in Columbus will miss him very much. With sympathy, Amy B.

John Mannion

October 16, 2003

To the Trilla Family:

We are saddened to hear about the loss of Bobby. Though the years have passed, there are always fond memories that come to mind when our paths cross.

We extend our condolences to you.

From the Staff of Elliston Funeral Home

October 16, 2003

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

Deanna Thomas(Gagliardi)

October 15, 2003

I was a friend of Bobby's from highschool. He taught me how to drive. We always had fun and enjoyed movies together. I am sad for the Trilla family. May his memories live on forever and give some kind of peace to your great loss. My prayers for Bobby and his family will be near to my heart.

Paula Homuth

October 15, 2003

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.My prayers are with you all.

Paula Homuth (Lornas' sister)

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