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Thomas K. O'Connor, beloved son of Joan and the late Jerome O'Connor; loving brother of Jerry (Ili), Colette and the late Debbie O'Connor; fond uncle of Jenny, Erica, Caitlin and Hunter. Visitation Saturday, 9 a.m. until time of prayer 10:30 a.m., from John Sheehy & Sons Funeral Home, 7020 W. 127th St., Palos Heights, to St. Alexander Church. Mass 11 a.m. Interment Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. 708-361-4235 .

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Published by Chicago Tribune on Feb. 2, 2008.

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Laura Bakotic

April 26, 2009

Tommy, I just found out at Bob Kujawa's funeral about your death and I'm so sorry! You were always fun and really nice, Please take care of Bob up there! I lived across from Doug and we all had a few really fun times together! Rest in peace Tommy!

Patti Vaselakos

February 11, 2008

Tommy was one of the most loyal friends I have ever had. His friendship was rare and timeless. He was loved so much and was so special to Doug and I. His friendship, wit, humor,and kindness to others will be missed profoundly. My deepest spympathies to all that knew and loved Tommy.

Tommy and I on my wedding day

Dr W Douglas Vaselakos

February 10, 2008

Tommy was one of only a few of my lifelong friends. He had a great sense of humor, he was a great cook, he was a great hockey player, and he was a great golfer. Tommy came to my wedding in Hawaii and we travelled together. He was a loyal and significant friend, more like a brother. He will be greatly missed. I will try to honor his life and the dreams we had until we meet again.

Patti Vaselakos

February 10, 2008

It's been a couple of years since I've seen Tommy. His loss is a shock. When I saw Tommy he was the rare friend that time stood still when we were together. Tommy was one of the most loyal friends I have ever had.I hope he knew how much Doug and I loved him and how special he was.Tommy's wit, humor, kindness and sensitivity to others will be
missed profoundly. My deepest sympathies to all who knew and loved
Tommy. Rest in peace Tommy.

February 9, 2008

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Tom a'cookin

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Tom a'cookin

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Tom and Emmett

February 9, 2008

Morrison Waud

February 9, 2008

In the short time that I knew Tom he was like an older brother to me. I will always have nothing but good memories of the time we spent together and will carry Him in my heart with me wherever I go.

Denise & George Vaselakos

February 9, 2008

We just learned of Tommy's passing and want to express our sympathy to the family. Our family loved Tommy and have such wonderful memories of Tommy when we all were in Hawaii for our son's wedding. Tommy had such a kind heart and was a blessing to know. The Vaselakos Family

michael crowley and family

February 6, 2008

Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Jimmy Bandyk

February 2, 2008

Please accept my deepest sympathies. tommy was a good friend of my brother Brian. My fondest memories include Tommy, Bryan B., Jimmy C. and Michael G. spending their summers playing baseball in the backyard. I am sorry I missed the service, I am out of town until Wednesday

Tracey Waud

February 2, 2008

Tom was a roommate of my son's at New Hope. He was kind and caring to Morrison when he needed it most. Tom was at my house several times and always very polite and nice. He will be missed terribly.

Dorothy De Bickero Ripple

February 2, 2008

Such sad news. Still remember Danny carrying Tommy on his shoulders on the way back from dinner on St. Pete beach in 1976 or so. So very sorry.

Price Thomas

February 2, 2008

My prayers go out to Tom's family.

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