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PHENIX JOSEPH AYALA-CLOUTIER
PHENIX AYALA-CLOUTIER Obituary
PHENIX JOSEPH
AYALA-CLOUTIER
Phenix Joseph Ayala-Cloutier, age 2 years, 6 months and 5 days, entered eternal life September 24, 2007 in Bixby, OK.
He was born March 19, 2005 in Tulsa, OK to James John Cloutier and Jessica Ayala.
In addition to his loving parents, he is survived by his grandparents: Dagmar Maria Ayala, Peter Lindsey Gibson, John and Sherry Cloutier; great-grandparents: Norma Butterfield, Val Cloutier; aunt and godmother Connie Greer and her husband Ryan; aunts: Sascha Rene Gibson, Michelle Shannon Ayala; godmother Mimi Tran; cousins: Baby Ethan Greer, Chandler Jordan Ayala.
Phenix was a member of First Baptist Church of Sapulpa and attended Victory Christian School. He loved fishing, dolphins, Spider Man, football, basketball, baseball, airplanes, swimming, friends and movies. Phenix was proud to say the alphabet from A-K and could count from 1-10. This beautiful young boy will be sorely missed but is now dancing with the Lord in Heaven.
Service will be held 2 p.m., Friday, September 28 at Moore's Eastlawn Chapel with interment at Memorial Park Cemetery. Moore's Eastlawn Chapel,
(918) 622-1155
www.moorefuneral.com
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A parent
October 8, 2007
Jimmy and Jessica--my heart goes out to both of you. I lost a child at the age of 3 1/2 and it's impossible to figure out how these things could happen. Just know that God had a plan for Phenix and now he's in Heaven with my baby girl. Cherish every moment you had with him and be thankful for the blessing of every day he was in your lives. Life will never be the same, but it will be richer because Phenix was in it.
Laura Taylor-Hollimon & Family
October 3, 2007
I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby boy, and the pain you feel. You and Your family will be in my prayers.
Sincerely,
cindy hilton
October 2, 2007
Jessie,
You were fortunate to have a beautiful child who is now with the lord in Heaven. You were blessed to have him on earth if even for a short time. A memory is a keepsake of time that lives forever in the heart. May your treasured memories bring solace during this time of loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
With Sympathy,
Cindy
Amy Bernabe
October 1, 2007
Jess,
I've read this guest book so many times, trying to find the words to say to you. Being a mother myself with a child the age of Phenix I cannot imagine the grief you are going through.. My heart aches for you and your family..I'm sure you know that God will lead you through this but please know everyday I will be thinking of you and praying for the pain to subside. I never had the pleasure of meeting Phenix, but knowing that he came from you let me know what type of little boy he was. You were so blessed with a handsome, fun, energetic little boy and I know he will be with you always. Please take care of yourself...
Love always,
Amy Bernabe (Van Huss)
Debbie Hatch
October 1, 2007
Jessee,
It has been years for you and I, but when I heard the news of your loss, my heart sank. Mom, dad, grandma, grandpa, Jennifer, and I all send our love and prayers to you and your family. I am so sorry. He was a handsome little boy who I am sure brought joy into your life! I know we are miles away, but if there is anything we can do, please let us know. I am thinking of you.
Ryan Cloutier
September 29, 2007
RIP Phenix you have given the world more then we can ever thank you for this seemingly senseless event has brought all of us closer together. Jimmy my brother he will always be with you GOD has a plan for all of this
Linda Campbell
September 29, 2007
Jimmy and Jessi,
I want you to know that I am very sorry about your son,Phenix. I am praying for you and your family. God is the only One who can heal this kind of hurt. Lean on Him.
1 Peter 5:7 Cast all your care on Him for He cares for you.
Joe, Stephanie & Kaleb Wachtel
September 28, 2007
We are so very sorry to hear of your loss, our deepest thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of sorrow...I hope that you may soon find peace in knowing that your sweet baby boy is a very loved angel in heaven...Although I was not fortunate enough to know him , we were friends with Michelle for quite some time as well as Dagmar and Sasha...Again I am so sorry...
Chuck and Shirley Linnet
September 28, 2007
Our deepest sympathy is sent to you on the loss of Phenix. Our hearts will never know the sadness and heartache you have. Just want to say you are loved.
Michele Davis
September 28, 2007
I'm very sorry your your loss.
Amy Upton-Shirley
September 28, 2007
Jesse, Dagmar, Michelle, Sascha, Pete & Andrew.. I am so sorry for your loss of little Phenix. Every picture I have seen of him he is smiling and looks very happy. I heard nothing but good things about how great of a mom you were Jesse, he was lucky to have you if even for a short time... I miss you and am thinking of you all.
Shawn Evans
September 27, 2007
We are your neighbors and even though we have never met, our hearts ache for you and your family. Please know that there are many in the neighborhood that are thinking of you and your family in this difficult time. Please contact me if there is anything we can do. God Bless you and your family.
Richard Krause
September 27, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep Phenix and all of you in my prayers and thoughts.
Victory Parent
September 27, 2007
My daughter was in your little boys class at Victory. I did not know your little boy but when we got the letter my heart sank. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and just remember that God has a plan. Your little boy is looking down at you today and smiling at his "mommy and daddy". I will be praying for your family to get through this terrible tragedy.
Cindy Stone
September 27, 2007
James, Jessica & Family:
My heart breaks in a million pieces for you all. God will mend your broken hearts, lean on him. We don't understand, but God has a reason and purpose. We are here for you James anytime. God bless you all. Mike and Cindy Stone
Suzanne VanOrsdol
September 27, 2007
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Brandi McGuire
September 27, 2007
Jessie,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Please know that you are in my prayers and if you need anything don't hesitate to call me. I'm sending my love your way.
Pam Lay
September 27, 2007
Dear James and Jessica.
Our heart and prayers go out to you and your family. We have grandchildren Phenix's age and wanted you to know we send our sympathy and love.
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