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Myrtis Palguta Obituary

(Asbury Park Press)

MYRTIS MAE PALGUTA
AGE: 92 WHITING
Myrtis Mae Palguta, 92, of Whiting, passed away peacefully Friday, Nov. 13, 2009 at Community Medical Center, Toms River, after a brief illness. She was to turn 93 at a birthday dinner in her honor on Nov. 19th. She was born, raised and educated in Cleveland, Ohio, the daughter of Myrtis and Edward Sixta. She lived in Savannah, GA, Gulfport, MS, Norfolk, VA, New York City, Rahway, and Forked River before moving to Crestwood Manor, Whiting, in 2004. A devoted wife and mother, Myrtis stayed at home and raised her only child until he was off to college in 1964. Then, at age 46, she returned to the workplace as an executive secretary for National State Bank, Plainfield, and retired in 1976. Myrtis was a gifted seamstress and there was no limit to her creativity when she pursued her love of knitting, quilting, and crocheting. She was an active member of the Lacey Women's Club and, during the summer months, could often be found enjoying her vacation home on Long Beach Island. In her later years, she loved nothing more than a spirited game of Rummikub with her grandchildren.
Myrtis was predeceased by her parents, a brother, Edward Sixta, and her beloved husband of 48 years, Joseph J. Palguta, in 1988. She leaves to mourn a loving son, Thomas Palguta and his wife, Lynn, Forked River; a granddaughter, Stacey Palguta-Womack, Hillsborough, and a grandson, Scott Palguta, Denver, CO. and a niece, Gail Hruby, Osprey, FL. She will be remembered for her dignity and the unconditional love and respect she gave her family and friends. Her life epitomized Brokaw's "Greatest Generation." She was quite a lady and will be dearly missed by all who knew her.
The family will receive friends at a viewing on Monday, from 1-4 p.m. at Anderson & Campbell Funeral Home, 703 Main St., Toms River. A memorial service will be held Tuesday at 11 a.m. at the funeral home and interment will follow at Ocean County Memorial Park, Toms River.

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Published by Asbury Park Press from Nov. 15 to Nov. 16, 2009.

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Erica Martinez

November 19, 2009

Stacey,

"We do not remember days, we remember moments".

Three significant moments I remember from my time at Seton Hall involve you. The first moment is when I walked into my first graduate class and you greeted me with a big, warm, friendly smile. That smile was comforting and I am happy that we were classmates and friends from that moment forward. The second moment is related to your lovely grandmother who I know you loved dearly. It was when you read aloud a descriptive observation story for Guarino’s class. You wrote the story while at your Grandmother’s beach home and it was so passionate and vivid that it literally brought me right there with you. I felt warm and relaxed. I know you love the beach especially because of the connection with your grandmother and the love you felt in her home. The third moment is our being silly and giggling during the first students’ hoodings while side-by-side at graduation day.

Stacey, I send you the biggest, warmest, friendliest hug during this sad time. I can only hope that my hug is as big, warm, friendly and comforting as that smile you greeted me with when I nervously entered the first classroom of my graduate school career.

I hope you cherish and re-live many special moments involving your grandmother to fill the empty moments given her bodily absence. I am sure your grandmother’s spirit will live on in your hearts and future generations!

My deepest condolences to you and your entire family

E
SHU 2009

November 17, 2009

Dear Tom, Lynn, Stacey and Scott,
Please accept our sincere sympathy for the loss of your lovely Mother and Grandmother. She will be remembered as gentle, sweet, loving, and devoted to her family. She also made the best blue cheese dressing ever!
Your tribute to her is lovely and very fitting. We hope you can find peace in all the wonderful memories you have of her.
Sincerely,
Geri, Joe, Joey and Jennifer Ascolese

Carol Kutsko

November 17, 2009

Dear Lynn, Tom, Stacy and Scott,
My sympathy to you for such a great loss to your family. Gail has lovingly spoken to me about her Aunt Myrtis. Although I did not have the privilege to meet Myrtis, your Mother and Grandmother must have been a wonderful lady to know. You have given her a lovely tribute. God bless.

November 16, 2009

Dear Tom, Lynn and Kids,

The most lovely lady we have ever known has passed and we will never forget her. The kindness and genersoity she showed to my family was so geniune and unselfish. I'll never forget "Mrs. Mrytis" buying my children birthday gifts if we were at my parents at the time of any birthdays.

My parents were so pleased to have such a wonderful neighbor whom they called their dearest friend.

What an honor to have known her.

Please know that you have our deepest sympathies.

God Bless You All,

John and Vicki Rosa and Family
Johnstown, PA

November 15, 2009

Dear Lynn, Tom, Stacy and Scott:

Our deepest sympathy!

The death of Myrtis is a huge loss to all of us. We loved her too.

She was a beautiful lady and one of the most patient, kind and caring persons we have ever known.

We had so many wonderful weekends at your home in NYC and ours in New Jersey when you were a little boy, Tom. Your mother was a wonderful cook. We cherish those memories.

God Bless You.

Love, Helen and Barbara Lyles

November 15, 2009

Dear Lynn, Tom, Stacy and Scott:

Our deepest sympathy! The death of Myrtis is a huge loss to all of us. We loved her too.

She was a beautiful lady and one of the most patient, kind and caring persons we have ever known.

We had so many wonderful weekends at your home in New York City and ours in New Jersey when you were a little boy, Tom. Your mother was such a good cook. We cherish those memories.

God bless you.

Love, Helen and Barbara Lyles

November 15, 2009

Tom, Lynn & Family:

The Maldet Family is mourning with you. We all loved Myrtis very much. She was our children's surrogate "grandmother". Myrtis was a true lady and respected by all who knew her. Through our numorus conversations we have all learned so much from her wisdom. Our greatest gift was to know and love your parents. We will truly miss her.

Always,
Dave & Dee Maldet
Glenn, Chris, Keri, Evan, Morgan & Lisa Chowske
John, Vicki, Tim, Todd & Tara Rosa
Joe, Diana & Courtney DeBlasio

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