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Kay Lassiter Obituary

Kay E. Lassiter, 72, Valley Falls, died unexpectedly Saturday, June 16, 2012, at a Topeka hospital. She was born on April 4, 1940, at Topeka, the daughter of Clifford L. and Dorothea Harshbarger Coleman. She attended Central Park Grade School, Crane Junior High School, and Topeka High School, before moving to Valley Falls where she graduated from Valley Falls High School in 1958. Kay was the Delaware Township Librarian in Valley Falls for 31 years, having begun her service in 1981. She had served on the Valley Falls School Board for many years. She had a very strong faith, attending church weekly all of her life, most recently at Pleasant Grove Christian Church in Nortonville. She loved reading, cooking, singing, baseball, television, and keeping in touch with her friends. Kay loved her family beyond measure, especially her children and grandchildren. Kay married Raymond A. Lassiter on Dec. 5, 1959, at Valley Falls, and they spent their entire married life in the community. She was preceded in death by her parents and a brother, Clifford Lee Coleman, Jr., in infancy. Survivors include her husband, Raymond, of the home; two sons, Lee (Rhonda) Lassiter, Topeka, and Ken (Amy) Lassiter, Ozawkie; a daughter, Janet (James) Walbert, Lenexa; a brother, William (Linda) Coleman, Valley Falls; two sisters, Denise (David) Grater, Maynard, MA, and Janine (Chuck) Johnson, Valley Falls; six grandchildren, Bobby and Kristin Ross, Campbell Walbert, Haley Croft, and Brynne and Ivy Lassiter, and many nieces and nephews. The funeral service will be at 10:00 a.m. Wednesday, June 20, 2012, at the Pleasant Grove Christian Church at Nortonville. Burial will be at 1:30 p.m. at Mt. Hope Cemetery, 17th & Fairlawn, in Topeka. Visitation will be from 6:30-8:30 p.m. Tuesday (today), at Mercer Funeral Home in Valley Falls. Memorial contributions may be made to the Delaware Township Library or to Eddy Bazin PCM (Preaching Christ to the Multitudes) Ministries c/o Mercer Funeral Home, PO Box 6, Valley Falls, KS 66088. Online condolences are available at www.mercerfuneralhomes.com Kay E. Lassiter

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Published by Topeka Capital-Journal from Jun. 18 to Jun. 19, 2012.

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Kevina Wilton

July 10, 2012

Kay was a good librarian. Everyone knew her and she always put a smile on everyone's face who would walk in to the library. Kay was very kind, and she will forever be in everyone's heart.

M Warta

June 19, 2012

My mother, Bertha Hamon (103 years) looked forward to Kay's visits. She would bring books for her to read and was so good with the book selections. Mother will miss her cheerful visits. Our prayers are with the family.

Jim and Ramona Voutas

June 19, 2012

Our love and prayers to you as you celebrate the life of one so dear. May God hold you close as you share and treasure memories.

Gerald & Lori Darveaux

June 19, 2012

We know our heavenly father's love raps around you all... our heartfelt sympathy to all the family. The Lassiter family's light will continue to shine in the many lives that Kay has touched.

Cliff Ferrell

June 19, 2012

My wife and I have wonderful memories of Kay in the years we visited the Christian Church in Valley with my folks. Kay always welcomed everyone at the church with her beautiful smile. She was faithful to keep us up to date on church events even though we lived out of town. Our prayers are with her family. She will be greatly missed by many.

Christine Hile

June 18, 2012

Kay gave so much heart to others around her. I recall how she gave of her time and help to encourage many of the students in our community. She will truly be missed. My prayers are with you to give you peace and comfort at this time. She's now enjoying the fruits of her labors with her Lord and Savior. However, we will miss her bright smile and concern for others.

Jerry Ferrell

June 18, 2012

I remember when Kay and her family moved into our neighborhood. She was a great person and always had a smile and such a beaming personality. She will be missed by so many people. You have my deepest and heartfelt sympathies as this difficult time. I will be thinking of you all.

Amy Sue Bliss

June 18, 2012

Prayers for everyone~it was always a joy to see her during Janet's family events. So very very very sorry for your loss, and so suddenly. My heart goes out to your family.

Pat & Julie Sieve

June 18, 2012

Miss Kay will be missed by all who knew her. She has such a lively and upbeat personality and simply loved spreading joy to others. Our condolences to the family

Les & Betty Barnes

June 18, 2012

We are thinking of your family at this sad time. Kay was a wonderful person and loved life. She will be missed by her family as well as the community for her selfless contributions. I will miss her smile and cheerful voice. May all the memories of her life comfort you in your sorrow.

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