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Lois Cox Obituary

Lois M. Cox, 72, of Topeka, passed away, Wednesday, July 30, 2003, at her home. She was born the daughter of Marvin and Genevieve Gaines on February 24, 1931. Lois spent her life giving to those in need through various activities. She was active in Pilot Club, the Battered Womens Task Force, Heartland Share and many other community organizations. Lois spent the last years of her life providing foster care services for Children In Need of Care. She had many different career roles throughout her life. These include employment at Menningers, Kansas Neurological Institute, Goodyear and Santa Fe. She was married to Wayne E. Cox of Topeka. He survives. Other survivors include five biological children and three adopted children. Her biological children are Stephen Cox, Gail Alderson and Cheryln Glover, all of Topeka, Dennis Cox, Palco, and Susan Schneider, Coffeyville. Lois also has four surviving siblings. Her sisters are Donna McCloud, Anchorage, Alaska, Wilma Phillips, Emporia, and Sandy Stutesman, Burlington. She also has one surviving brother, Virgil Gaines, Emporia. Lois had 12 surviving grandchildren and one grandchild that preceded her in death. Lois had one great-grandchild. She has many other friends and family that survive her. Lois will lie in state after 1 p.m. today at Penwell-Gabel Mid-Town Chapel, where the family will greet friends from 5 to 7 p.m. Sunday. Services will be at 11 a.m. Monday at the funeral home. Burial will be at Memorial Park Cemetery, Topeka. Memorial contributions may be made to the Lois M. Cox Memorial Fund and may be sent in care of Penwell-Gabel Mid-Town Chapel.

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Published by Topeka Capital-Journal from Aug. 1 to Aug. 2, 2003.

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Joan Alderson

August 7, 2003

I am so sorry to hear of Lois' death.

Gwen (Cox) Baker

August 4, 2003

Dennis, Steve, Gail, Sue & Cheri,

I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. I was at our Cox family reunion in Oklahoma when Gary & Becky told me of Lois' passing. I wish I could be there to offer my condolences in person. Please give each other a hug for me.

Cheri, it was good to see you & your Mom at my Mom's funeral. It meant a lot to me & my family. If there is anything I can do, please let me know.

Once again, I am sorry for your loss. Take care & God Bless.



Love, Gwen

Dean Bergquist

August 4, 2003

To all the Cox Family,



Thank you for all the great memories and friendships you've given me so many years ago. I never forgot any of you (grandmas, uncles, brothers, sisters, cousins, I think I knew them all!) Lois was such a giving person during her lifetime, I was always welcome whenever I came to her home. My sympathies and best wishes to you all.



Dean Bergquist

Rosemary Miller

August 3, 2003

To the Family of Lois Gaines Cox:



To Donna, Wilma and Virgil:

I know she will be sadly missed, as she was always there for you. I remember you all fondly, as I was at your house alot and she was at mine. Our live were intertwined for 60 years. I thought we would have a few more. I wanted so badly to come to the funeral. I found it impossible to find someone to take care of Gene for that time as he needs 24 hour health care. God be with you and give you the strength to go on.



To Dennis, Steve, Dale, Susan & Sherry:

I have seen you several times as you have grown up. I have heard about the grandchildren and seen pictures as we shared our love of family. She was so proud of you all and loved you dearly. I recently attended a funeral for one of Gene's cousins. The memory memo contained a verse that said: Remember me. Don't grieve for long. Smile for the good times we shared. I will be with you always.



Love from Rosie "Slack" Miller

Mary Beth & J. D. Gaines

August 3, 2003

Due to our work schedules, we will not be able to attend the services tomorrow, all though our thoughts and prayers will be with you. Lois was a very special person who opened her heart to many people. Beth benefited so much from her wisdom and friendship the summer she stayed with her. We will all miss her.

Norma Holmes

August 3, 2003

Lois was a loyal and true friend, I will miss seeing her very much.

Your friend Norma

Maggie & Bobby Gunnells

August 2, 2003

Wayne, our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this time. Mom (Marjorie Sheddan) is at home with brain cancer and won't be with us much longer so we are feeling your loss very strongly. If mom was able she would expressing her sympathy also.

Love

Magge, Bobby and family

Peggy Martin

August 1, 2003

Peggy S. Martin, CEO/President

The Farm, Inc.

Shirley McCollum

August 1, 2003

Lois was a special lady and a dear friend of mine. I worked for her close to 30 years ago and she still called me once in a while and she always asks about my mom (who also worked for her). Her family is in my prayers and my thoughts.



Shirley McCollum

Tammy Metzler

August 1, 2003

I am thinking about you in this time of sorrow. Lois was a wonderful person. I worked with her at The Farm, Inc. as the licensing specialist. God bless you. Tammy

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