Search by Name

Search by Name

FUNERAL HOME

BRENNAN-MATHENA FUNERAL HOME

800 SW 6th Ave

Topeka, Kansas

Marilyn Shaffer Obituary

Marilyn Lucille Shaffer Marilyn Lucille Shaffer, 84, Topeka, died Friday, August 28, 2015 at a Topeka hospital where she was readmitted August 20. She also was hospitalized in late February, 2015. She had pneumonia. She lived at Topeka Presbyterian Manor since January 2009. Earlier she lived at Homestead of Topeka since February 2004. She was born on April 29, 1931 in May, Oklahoma, the eighth of nine children, to Thomas H. and Mable E. (Robertson) Fleming. She moved from Oklahoma to Missouri in 1939 and graduated from Nevada, Missouri High School in 1949. Marilyn was employed by the Missouri Department of Social Welfare. She attended Bethel Baptist Church in North Topeka. She married Albert Clifton Shaffer on February 3, 1951 in Eureka Springs, Arkansas. They moved to Topeka in 1956 and lived many years near 50th and Indian Creek Road in the Seaman district. Marilyn and Albert enjoyed tending to their orchard and vegetable garden. She spent many summer hours canning fruits and vegetables. They moved into the city in 2003. He preceded her in death on June 8, 2015. They made three trips to Washington D.C., where they toured the White House, all the monuments, and nearby Arlington National Cemetery and the homes of George Washington and Thomas Jefferson. Surviving are four sons, Stanley Shaffer, Dennis Shaffer, Alan Shaffer, and Philip Shaffer, her three daughters-in-law, Sandy Shaffer, Pamela Shaffer, and Linda Shaffer, all in Topeka; a brother, Ralph Fleming of Accokeek, Maryland; a granddaughter, four grandsons, twin great-granddaughters, a great-grandson, and another great-granddaughter. Also preceding Marilyn in death was a son Michael R. Shaffer on June 19, 2014. Services will be at 11:00 a.m. on Thursday at Brennan-Mathena Funeral Home. Burial will be in Penwell-Gabel Memorial Park Cemetery, 6th and Gage. She will lie in state at the funeral home on Wednesday after 2:00 P.M. where the family will receive friends from 6:00 until 8:00 P.M. Memorial contributions may be made to the Good Samaritan Fund at the Topeka Presbyterian Manor, sent in care of Brennan-Mathena Funeral Home, 800 S.W. 6th Avenue, Topeka, Kansas 66603. Online condolences and fond memories may be left at www.brennanmathenafh.com. Marilyn L. Shaffer
Published by Topeka Capital-Journal on Aug. 30, 2015.

Memories and Condolences
for Marilyn Shaffer

Not sure what to say?





3 Entries

Nancy Lies

September 13, 2015

I was always very fond of Aunt Marilyn and Uncle Pete. So sorry to hear of her passing.

Brian Fleming

September 2, 2015

Best wishes to Marilyn's family. Brian Fleming (Son of Thomas E Fleming, Marilyns brother)

Jeremy Schwerdt

August 29, 2015

On behalf of the staff at Brennan-Mathena Funeral Home I would like to extend our sincere condolences to Marilyn's family.

Showing 1 - 3 of 3 results

Make a Donation
in Marilyn Shaffer's name

Memorial Events
for Marilyn Shaffer

Funeral services provided by:

BRENNAN-MATHENA FUNERAL HOME

800 SW 6th Ave, Topeka, KS 66603

How to support Marilyn's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Marilyn Shaffer's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more