To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Sponsored by Timmy.
Charles Tilly
July 7, 2010
My wife and I with our one-year-old daughter settled in Memphis in the mid-1960s. Detecting my accent, people frequently asked me where I am from. After telling them that I came from Hungary, I often quickly was told about Paul Penczner, who by then was well-established in Memphis and known by many. Upon my first visit to his Studio, he gave me my first tour of my new home city of Memphis through his artwork, without ever leaving the Studio. As I started to move around the city, I found his work in private homes, offices, public buildings, hospitals and churches. I was particularly impressed by the portaits he was commissioned to paint of local dignitaries. All of which demonstrated to me his artistic talents, and his love, affection and fascination with our city, its people and its lifestyle. I was equally impressed by Paul's work that depicted his life growing up in Hungary, his memories of WWII and his journey to the U.S. Paul and his wife Jolanda were then and for many years the focal point for gatherings of not only native Mid-Southerners and Americans but immigrants from all parts of the European continent. We shared stories of our lives in the old country as well as here in the U.S. We never missed celebrating anyone's birthday, or a national or religious holiday or holy day. I remember singing traditional Christmas carols from our native countries, along with the American favorites. While Paul Penczner blended into the American way of life quickly and well, he never forgot his native country of Hungary which prepared him to become a success in this country. Over the past decades he spent a total of many weeks back in Hungary, capturing on paper and canvas historical sites and events. During his visits, he never forgot his old friends, his hometown and the schools he attended in his younger days. He remembered growing up as an orphan, and all the help he received from many sources in his life over the years. Thus, with an open heart he helped many persons and organizations worldwide in financial need. He was indeed a very generous man!!! He was proud to be a Memphian, and an American, and appreciated the freedom and opportunity his adopted country gave him, but remained proud of his Hungarian heritage. Paul, on behalf of your friends, both here in the U.S. as well as in Hungary, I would like to say Thank You. Thank You for your words of wisdom, and your encouragement helping us along our journey in life on this earth and thereafter. We thank you for the good times we had together over the years. We also want to thank God for bringing you into our lives. You will be missed by all of us!!! Because of Paul's continued devotion to his birthplace, he was honored at his Funeral Mass at the Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception in Memphis on July 1 with a traditional Hungarian anthem dating back to the early 1700s. In that song, the lyrics are very powerful and the Hungarians are asking the Blessed Virgin Mother Mary, their Patroness, to not forget them in their need. It is often played in Hungary during Mass.
Jung-Mi (Rosita) Penczner
July 1, 2010
My dear Papa, whenever I'm thinking of you, my tears automatically start dropping, and it's hard to stop. So it is difficult to write now, but I can't wait until the tears stop. I would like to share my memories while they are still fresh. You were and are a very special person to me not only as my father-in-law, but also because I have never seen and met such a warm-hearted and generous person in my 50 years of life. You were a very good father-in-law to me for 21 years, and especially for the last 6 years (while Paul and I and our boys have been living in the Memphis area). These past 6 years were a great time for me to get to know you better - and I hope, for you to get to know me better too. Since I moved to the Memphis area, I was able to have lots of time to spend with you in your Studio, and to talk about the many different things we shared discussions about. I was able to learn about your childhood, about which I didn't know much before. You lost your mother at age 6 and lost your father at age 10. As you know, I'm a mother of two sons, and whenever I'm thinking of your childhood, always my tears drop when I think of how much you missed your parents, and of how difficult a childhood you must have had. That this was not your choice, but rather it just happened to you, makes me sadder. I also have very happy memories, as well. I already miss you so much, especially the times when I spent time and helped a bit with the cleaning and with other things at your Studio, and then whenever I left the Studio, you always kissed my hand and said thank you very much, I appreciate your help, and you squeezed and held my hand hard, so that I could feel how much you appreciated my efforts to help. Because of my limited English as opposed to Korean, I cannot write everything I truly feel about how vast my good memories of you are, and of how great a person you were and are. Papa, I believe that now you are in heaven, and are having a great time with your parents and your son Peter, who passed away before you and whom you deeply missed. As in the past as well, from now on you will be always in my prayers. Your burial plot is much closer to my family's apartment in Collierville than Midtown is, and so whenever my missing you will lead me to want to visit you, then I'll visit you, which will be often. Papa, I loved and love you so !!!!!!!!!! much and I miss you so !!!!!!!!!! much. Your loving daughter-in-law, Jung-Mi (Rosita)
linda disney
June 30, 2010
Dear Yolanda, My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time, Mr. Penczner was my friend and inspiration for many years, his support and encouragement was very important in my art career. He will be missed by so many people that he touched with his extraordinary talent, but his legacy will live on in his work. Linda Disney
Stanetta Connor
June 29, 2010
Dear Penczner Family,
It was an honor to meet Mr. Penczner several years ago at the Biblical Resource Center in Collierville. We will forever enjoy and treasure his Twelve Apostles at OLPH Catholic Church. Great man, great mind, great works of art. Thank you for sharing him. We share your sorrow and great loss. May he rest in God's eternal peace. Stanetta Connor
Charlotte Dean
June 29, 2010
Yolanda, I was very sorry to read about Paul's death in today's paper. I have many fond memories of you and Paul at Carol and George Gage's home--they thought the world of Paul. Carol died in 1987 and George several years later (1999, I think). I have several of Carol's paintings hanging in my living room.
While I have not seen either of you in many years, you both were good friends to my family and I remember those days with happiness--
Thomas Paul
June 29, 2010
I so vividly remember being in downtown Memphis in my first plein-air painting class with Paul. I was 10 and it was 1956. The smell of linseed oil still brings memories of painting still lifes in his studio, as a student in his Saturday class. The truth be known, my career as an artist, and now a Fine Art Dealer, was initiated and inspired by Paul Penczner. He will be missed but always remembered.
June 29, 2010
The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.
Tim Johnson
June 29, 2010
Forever in my Heart
June 29, 2010
I had a ball buying my two paintings from him and being in his studio. Linda Walter Memphis
MARY RINGOLD
June 29, 2010
My heart is truely saddened by the home going of Mr. Paul Penczner . I had an opportunity to know him on a personal/ professional level. I was his personal banker. I was always delighted to see Mr. Penczner when he came into the bank. He had a smile that would simply light up the world as he gave me his walking cane and proudly walked into my office without it. He would take care of his banking business and gently kiss my hand as he departed the bank. He protrayed a pillow of strength and joy that indicated he was in charged of the business at hand. I will surely miss Mr. Penczner; but cherish the moments and joy he brought to me at the bank. As I look at the painting Mr. Penczner gave me, I can see the sun rising and feel warmth in the room. That's the kind of love he shared every time he came.
Mary Ringold
Barbara Burch
June 29, 2010
I used to be a neighbor of Mr. Penczner. My prayers to his family. He was a very extraordinary man.
With sympathy,
June 29, 2010
DEAR MRS. PENCZNER, I WAS A STUDENT OF PAUL'S FOR MANY YEARS, AND HE REALLY WAS A GREAT PAINTER AND TEACHER . HE HELPED ME IN SO MANY WAYS. HE ALSO PAINTED A POTRAIT OF MY MOTHER AFTER SHE WAS DECEASED FROM A SMALL PHOTO THAT HANGS IN OUR HOME. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. MARY FRANCES INGRAM
Showing 1 - 12 of 12 results
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read moreWhat kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read moreWe'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreInformation and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.
Read moreIf you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read moreLegacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read moreYou may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read moreThese free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read moreSome basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more