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Shirley Wilkes McRae

1933 - 2018

Shirley Wilkes McRae obituary, 1933-2018, Memphis, TN

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Shirley McRae Obituary

Shirley Wilkes McRae

Memphis, TN

Shirley Wilkes McRae passed away May 18, 2018 in Memphis, TN at the age of 84. Born in 1933, she was the daughter of Carlton Wilkes, a prominent Memphis attorney, and Gladys Wilkes, a church organist. She received her B.S. from Texas Woman's University and her M.A. and M.Ed. from the University of Memphis where she was Professor Emerita in the Rudi E. Scheidt School of Music.

With a worldwide reputation in the specialized field of Orff Music, she was a composer, music clinician, children's choir conductor as well as the author of two textbooks, Directing the Children's Choir and Tutoring Tooters. Lesser known was her accomplishment as a classical concert pianist. Over her extensive career, she composed numerous choral works, both sacred and secular, for unison and mixed choirs as well as eight books of compositions and arrangements for Orff music classes. Her compositions and arrangements have been widely performed by school, university, community, and professional ensembles across the United States. The Tennessee Legislature designated her song, "The Song Inside of Me," as the official state school song for the Tennessee Bicentennial in 1996. Her professional honors include ASCAP awards four years in a row and the Dean's Creative Achievement Award 1991, University of Memphis. Four of her compositions have been commercially recorded by groups including the Rhodes College Singers, the Denver Women's Chorus, and the Memphis Boychoir and Chamber Choir.

She is survived by her two children, Teresa and Stephen, with whom she shared the beauty of life, the wonder of music, and a keen unfailing wit. The family will receive friends from 4 p.m. until the memorial service begins at 5 p.m. on Thursday, May 24 at Memorial Park Funeral Home and Cemetery, 5668 Poplar Avenue. Following her service, all are invited to join the family for a reception at the Parkside Event Center on the grounds of Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers, the family is requesting that any memorials be directed to the newly-established Shirley W. McRae Music Education Scholarship Fund, c/o Dr. Ryan Fisher at the Rudi E. Scheidt School of Music, University of Memphis, 3775 Central Avenue, Memphis, TN 38152-3370.

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Published by The Commercial Appeal from May 20 to May 22, 2018.

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Darva Campbell

June 7, 2018

Shirley changed my life forever, with her kindness, her encouragement, her willingness to share her gifts, and ... perhaps my favorite thing ... that little gleam in her eye that was just SO SHIRLEY. I have so many wonderful memories; Shirley showing me how to fix my choral arrangements, challenging me to take the extra step, encouraging me to continue on my personal path ... She allowed me to do some illustrations and the movement for one of her books, mentored me in Orff, cracked me up, shared her fabulous Peach Soup Recipe, and showed me how beautiful rhododendrons can be. I look forward to singing with her again one day, in God's Choir.

Barbara Moorehead

May 24, 2018

Terry and Stephen, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I wish I could be at your mom's memorial service today. I live in Jacksonville, FL now so that is not possible. I love you both. Your mom was a lovely woman.

Laura Hhrtmann

May 23, 2018

Your mom meant so much to me as we grew up as preachers kids and our parents were good friends. I always respected her. Later in life, I reconnected with her in my profession as a PT. She left such a mark on this world. I imagine the heavenly chorus sounds a little better now. My prayers and thoughts are with you in these and the coming days. Love, Laura Comes Hartmann

Tim Wiegand

May 22, 2018

Shirley changed my life, she was a wonderful mentor and friend. Her gift of music was from above, the angels will sound better because she is there. Love you friend. May her family find Gods peace during this difficult time.

Rhonda Tucker

May 22, 2018

Shirley was more than a friend and more than a mentor to me. She has always held the spot in my heart next to my own mother. She loved me and my children as if we were her own. Shirley completely shaped the teacher I became. My heart aches to sing, laugh,talk, do puzzles together and teach with her again. Stephen and Lane I am so sorry for your loss. Her beautiful spirit will live in my heart forever.
Rhonda Tucker

Robyn Lana

May 22, 2018

Shirley was a special friend, valued mentor, and beloved example to me. I have carried her in my heart for many years. I am so sorry for the loss and yet thankful she has peace in her next life. Shirley, thank you will never be enough for the personal gift you gave to me. You are loved.

Sue Mueller

May 21, 2018

Extraordinary musician, composer, teacher, and inspiration! Shirley, you are always with us!

Liz Goodman

May 21, 2018

Shirley was a dear mentor and beloved friend and educator. She had a sharp wit and was just delightful. I'm privileged to have known her. The world is a little less lovely, but heaven is in for a wonderful ride!

Staff of Memorial Park Funeral Home & Cemetery

May 22, 2018

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

Cak Marshall

May 20, 2018

Shirley was such a wonderful teacher and friend. She was my mentor teacher when I studied for my Teacher Apprentice Level for AOSA. The two weeks with her were weeks I shall always remember and cherish. Thoughts and prayers to her family and close friends. She will be sorely missed in the world of music education.

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24

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5668 Poplar Avenue P.O. Box 17144, Memphis, TN 38119-0885

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