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David Bemis Obituary
He worked for Nortel Networks since 1999 as a computer science software engineer. He had a passion for cycling. He enjoyed camping, skiing and hiking. He also played four years in the Dover High School marching band as an amazing percussionist. During his college career he was a member of and rode with the cycling team. He also enjoyed playing golf with both his dads and his brother. As well as gardening with his Mom and his sisters. David had a dazzling smile and a very uncanny ability to make people laugh and feel loved. He was much loved by all who knew him
He is survived by his father, David Bemis, Sr., his wife (Debi) of Kingsland, GA, his mother, Helen Flanagan, her husband (Neil) of Dover, NH, grandmother, Miriam Bemis of York, ME, brother Mathew Howard Bemis wife (Christine) of Hampstead, NH, sisters Katherine Lynn Bird husband (Greg) and nephews Jonathan and Devin of Smithtown, NY, LeeAnn Marie Flanagan of Brighton, MA, and Sara Emily Bemis of Rochester, NH. Three great aunts; Eva Cliché of Riverside, Eileen Kimball of Berwick ME, and Ann Kimball of Berwick, ME, paternal aunts and uncles are Dennis Bemis and his wife Sally of York Me, Debbie Hollis and her husband Robbie of Somersworth, Bette Rochette of Dover, Judy McKenna of Rochester and her husband Quintan, maternal uncles, are Lamont Beaudette and his wife Florence of Swansea MA. Roland Beaudette and his wife Jenni-Lynn of Somersworth, Steve Beaudette of Dover. Mr. and Mrs. Steve Goodman of Audubon NJ, Mr. & Mrs. William Slaven of Voorhes NJ, Mr. & Mrs. James Flanagan of Sicklerville NJ, Mr. and Mrs. Kevin Flanagan of Sewell NJ, Mr. and Mrs. John Rogers of Somerdale NJ, Mr. & Mrs. Brian Slaven, of Moosic PA, and Mark Slaven of Salem NH, many cousins and good friends.
Relatives and friends may call Friday, May 18th from 2:00 PM to 4:00 PM and 7:00PM to 9:00PM at Tasker Funeral Home 621 Central Ave in Dover. A Funeral Service will be held Saturday May 19th at 10:00AM at Saint John’s Methodist Church 28 Cataract Avenue. Reception will follow immediately after the Church Service at Fellowship Hall. You are then invited back to the family home on 75 Old Dover Pt Rd Dover NH to celebrate Dave’s life.
Memorial donations may be sent to:
University of New Hampshire Cycling Team
128 Main Street
Durham, NH 03824
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Cynthia Hollis
May 10, 2025
I think of you all the time, Cousin. Missing you always and wishing you were with us.
Cathleen Harris
May 10, 2025
You are always in our hearts.
Debbie Bemis-Hollis
May 14, 2022
This memory comes every year. It gets me to thinking of how soon you were taken from this earth and how you lived a a very good life in such a short amount of time.
Remembering the good times and making everyday a good day. ❤Aunt Debbie
Helen Flanagan
May 14, 2021
Still miss you terribly every day but this day always hurts more. Miss you so much, it makes my heart ache. Love you Mom
Cathleen Harris
May 10, 2021
You are still sorely missed and always in our hearts. ❤
Uncle Robbie and Aunt Debbie Hollis
May 14, 2020
Keeping you in our hearts and thinking of you always with a smile on our faces. ❤
Kelley Huxtable
May 13, 2018
Bemis your light shines on in so many of us. Know you are forever present in our hearts and memories.
Matthew Bemis
May 12, 2018
Still missed bro! Still going strong!
liz carter
November 12, 2015
David you are dearly missed i remember baby sitting u and the crepes ur mom would make when i was told about ur loss helen i prayed for you and your family
February 24, 2015
No it is not an anniversary, nor a day to remember anything special that we may have shared. Simply another day of missing my first born favorite son. I visited my second born favorite sons family today, as he was away on a business trip. You would be so proud of your brother, he is such a great Dad and husband. They have a beautiful family and home and such wonderful children. I am so sorry Dave for failing you, I did not live up to be the person you thought I was. If it were merely love then I would not have failed because God knows how deeply and thoroughly I have always loved each and everyone of you. Love you Dave, Mom Isn't it simply amazing how long one can survive with a shattered heart, I watch the struggle with Aunt Florence and I wonder why...
Debbie Hollis
May 15, 2014
We cannot see the wind but we can feel it. This is how I feel about you. We can no longer see you but I feel you are always with us. Always feeling blessed to have had you in our lives. <3 aunt Debbie & uncle robbie
Matthew Bemis
May 13, 2014
7 years ago today was the last time we spoke. Naturally we had such a great mothers day at a corner table in Newicks. We all still miss you. Brother! Brotha!
Debbie Hollis
July 12, 2012
This is the day the Lord has made. Let us all rejoice and be glad in it. Here is a candle for you Davey. We will always remember how you lit up our lives. Love uncle Robbir and aunt Debbie.
Amanda David
May 14, 2011
Love you today and always. Think of you often, I smile while watching movies and shows that remind me of you -Amanda Lillian
Jack Michaud
May 29, 2010
I'm not sure how it is that I'm just finding this now, but Dave was my best friend in college. I know several people also named him as such. I regret that I was unable to attend the funeral because I was headed down to Florida at the time for my grandfather's 90th birthday.
Dave is the only close friend I've ever lost, and before that I never realized how much I would miss and think about a deceased friend. I think about Dave very often, usually if I see something funny that he would think is funny too. I still can't believe he's gone. Hanging out with Dave in college made it feel like home away from home, and laughing with him when schoolwork was stressful made it feel like everything would be alright. I was inspired by his courage to change majors, by his perseverance to finish his college degree while working part time, and by the successful career he earned as a result. He is the reason I went back to grad school for computer science. Knowing Dave has given me a better life. I miss him terribly. The world is poorer without him.
Amanda Lillian David
May 14, 2010
We think of you all the time and miss you so much. Love you.
Debbie Hollis
May 12, 2010
It is hard to believe that it has been 3 years. Sometimes it seems like yesterday & sometimes it seems like a lifetime. You smiling face and your blue eyes are etched in my mind forever. I think of you everyday. love Aunt Debbie
Kim Fren
November 3, 2007
To Dave's family,
I just recently received word of Dave's passing. I lived almost next door to him in the dorms at UNH. I remember him as being funny and a great person to spend time with. He is someone I would have liked to know better. I am truly sorry for your loss. He will be greatly missed.
Cynthia Jokinen
October 24, 2007
I am sorry for your loss. My son was in a motor vehicle accident and I was devastated, but we were all lucky, because eh surviv As a mother I can feel the pain. Cindy Jokinen
Lisa Jacobsen
June 19, 2007
Helen, Neil & Family~
Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all...if you ever need anything...please let us know...
Take care of each other~~
Ken, Lisa, Katelyn, Emily & Annie
Cynthia Hollis
June 18, 2007
I can not even begin to explain how much my cousin Dave ment to me. While living in the apartment in my aunts house with my parents I got to see him a lot. As well as at family functions/cookouts. He and Matt were the older brothers I never had. Dave used to say things to me like "You can't wear that shirt out it says cheerio's across your chest" then turning to my mother he said "aunt debbie you're going to let you daughter go out in that shirt?" I would always laugh at him but he was always serious. I'd humor him and change my shirt. In a way, Dave helped me get into the college I'm going to now. I'm a photographer and Dave told me about an old rusted car that was in the rivine down the road from the house. The pictures i took of said car were in my portfolio that got accepted to Chester College.
He is missed deeply but the memories will last with me forever.Love you cousin dave.
Courtney O'Brien
June 17, 2007
It seems appropriate that the first friend I ever noticed was a "boy" was Dave. Timmy, Matt and I were in Dave's room one summer day and Dave was playing the drums. Matt and Timmy were fooling around, not paying much attention. I was watching Dave play and something was different. All of a sudden, my very first playmate was actually this handsome, sweet, smart, talented boy with a drum kit. It was overwhelming for an eight year old, sure I had a crush on Michael J Fox and Kirk Cameron, but the were safely in my TV. Dave was right in front of me. I slowly and quietly backed out of the room. I probably didn't actually speak to him for the rest of the summer and he probably didn't notice. That same summer, a classmate of mine started to come and play at my house. The first day she was over she asked, "So when do we go over to Dave Bemis'?" She had heard that my mom and Helen were friends and thought it would be a good idea to play with me and therefore play with him. Smart girl.
Dave has become a standard for me here in NY. I ask, "Is this guy even a quarter of the man Dave was?" It's a tough standard.
Helen, Matt, Kathryn, Neil, Leann, I love you guys. I hope to see you soon.
Helen, thank you for all your help last week.
Love,
Courtney
Pam Deutchman
June 1, 2007
To Katherine and the rest of the Bemis Family,
I was very sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my deepest condolences.
~Pam
Joyce & Ralph Hammer
May 25, 2007
When you were a small child, I remember the smiles and giggles. When you were getting older, more smiles, laughs and splashing in the pool. You are going to be missed by many, and forgotten by few. Much love and Peace to those who loved you, that are left behind.
Dave Dupuis
May 25, 2007
Dave was trustworthy guy, a smart fella , and a good friend to all he touched. Dave, thanks for all the adventures...you will be forever missed.
Olivia Studley
May 24, 2007
I found out about Dave's death in a very odd way, which I'm still at a loss to describe. While I haven't had contact with Dave in many years, I remember him fondly from UNH and my first year after graduation. He spent alot of time with my family and I during those 2 years and its something I won't ever forget. I will always have a special place for him in my heart. Helen, Neil, Matt, Katherine, Leann, Auntie: My thoughts are with you all.
Vernon Pettengill
May 24, 2007
Dave,
I will always remember the good times growing up with you. Not to many people remember the time you saved my life when we were kids. Back in the late 80's David and I (his cousin) were swinging on a rope swing over the the river off of Spur Rd. When it was my turn, the rope snapped and I went crashing down through the ice into the cold river. I blacked out for a second and opened my eyes to David pulling me to safety. That left quite an impression on me. For this I have devoted my life to Law Enforcement in the pursuit of helping others. This is just one example of the kind of man David is. Unfortunately I moved away, and do not keep in contact with all of my relatives. David, I will always remember the good times we spent together in our youth. Aunt Helen and Family, I am very sorry for your loss.
Love,
Vernon
Kelly Gatewood
May 22, 2007
I was a classmate of Dave's in High School, we played drums together in the marching band. I moved away to Florida, in 91. I haven't seem him since. He was an awesome guy!! I have always missed him. My deepest sympathy to all his family and friends!!
Chuck Nogueras
May 22, 2007
Katherine,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time. I'm deeply sorry for your loss.
Keri Batchelder
May 21, 2007
Being a classmate of Matt's, I remember feeling as though Dave was a big brother to us all, that freshman year of high school marching band. As I read the other entries, I am awed by the incredible ways in which Dave has touched so many lives...I pray that provides his family and friends with some comfort during such a difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Kathleen and Brian Cleary
May 21, 2007
Our deepest condolences for your loss. Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Amy Conner
May 21, 2007
To Dave's Family:
My thoughts are with you during this very sad time. I will always have fond memories of Dave-I cannot reflect back on Junior High or High School without remembering him. From 7th grade English class to 10th grade Biology class, Dave was there making us laugh and smile.
Upon hearing of his passing, I was deeply saddened. He was a wonderful person and while I regret that I hadn't seen him in a few years, I'm warmed by the thought that the person I knew so well so many years ago, turned into an amazing man. He will be missed by so many, but I feel blessed having shared so many wonderful times with him.
My sincerest condolences-
Lynn Woodard
May 20, 2007
Dave:
I am having a difficult time understanding why such a vibrant person should have been taken from us so soon. Susan and I loved you dearly and regret having not openly expressed our feeling to you. Then again, I believe you knew it. As time passes, and my grief diminishes, I’m sure my mind will wander back to our sit down conversations concerning everything from cold fusion to global warming to science fiction, and the Red Sox’s chances each year.
During the time you were part of our household it was like having a second son. On Thursday evenings I would always remember to leave the porch lights on while conducting the nightly shut down before going to bed. It will be hard to shut them off on Thursday evenings; perhaps every now and again I will leave them on hoping you will come home and shut them off.
God bless you always.
Pat & Dave Dupuis
May 20, 2007
To the family of Dave Bemis,
I did not know your son very well, but my son, Dave Dupuis, was a good friend of his. They shared many times together in DHS Marching Band and again at UNH. Camping trips, mountain biking and just hanging out brings happy memories to my son.
In the few times he came to our home, I remember thinking..."What a polite,spirited young man he is!"
Our deepest condolences to all of you. Prayers go out for you to find some peace in the future knowing what a great son you raised.
Dave Adams
May 20, 2007
It is still unbelievable that Dave is gone, it is just not right, it should not be.
I worked at Nortel in the same department as Dave in all the years he worked there. Although I did not get to know Dave on the personal level that many others did, I did come to know his exceptional technical abilities AND his willingness to stop what he was doing and help whoever needed it. It is not an exaggeration to say that he was universally admired and respected at Nortel.
I think most of us are still in shock over Dave's death - I suspect the enormity of his loss will be felt once we finally try to get back to work and Dave is not there to patiently answer our questions, or share a warm hello, or make some other funny comment to make others laugh, or to be the good friend that he was to many at Nortel.
Dave was taken MUCH too soon - not everything in life makes sense.
While time may lessen the pain felt by all, I am sure nobody will forget the great guy that Dave was and the positive impact he had on all of our lives.
Kari Bjune
May 19, 2007
My deepest condolences for your loss. My thoughts are with you.
With Love,
Kari
Kim Woodard
May 19, 2007
I can't even find words to describe the loss of you on this earth, Dave. You were the most sincere and kind-hearted person. Always thinking of others. A gentle soul. I can't stop thinking of all the broken hearts those who knew and loved you will carry forever.
Tina Murphy
May 19, 2007
Helen- I am so saddened by your
loss. My thoughts and prayers are
with you.
Sincerely-Tina Murphy (Calef's Country Store)
Greg & Celia Coy
May 19, 2007
We are so saddened by your loss. Our deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Allen & Mary Wright
May 19, 2007
On behalf of all your friends at Laurel Island, our deepest sympathies to your family at this most difficult time. We will always remember the young man who could light up a room with his contagious smile. God Bless him.
Patrick Woodard
May 19, 2007
Dave,
Words aren’t enough. Over the last five years you truly became part of our family. But I’m not sure you really knew how much we thought of you. Whenever Kim and I visited NH you were there to brighten our lives. Every visit was accompanied by invigorating conversations - topics ran the gamut: politics, world affairs, business, sports, UNH, and beyond. We shared spur of the moment golf outings and backyard barbeques. You visited us in Seattle; I always envisioned so many more visits. When Kim and I started a family you became Uncle Dave to our son Matthew. This past Christmas when Kim and I returned from an outing, there you were cuddling with our 13-month old daughter (who’s been known to give many a familiar person a hard time). It’s painfully obvious how great a friend you were to so many. You would have been a great husband and father. You’ll live on in our hearts. Our prayers are with your family. Your time here was too short, but the impact was profound.
Ryan Ruel
May 18, 2007
Dave always had a smile on his face, could always make you laugh, and always (and I mean ALWAYS) looked at the bright side of things. A great friend, a brilliant engineer, an all around amazing man. I will surely miss him. (Dover High, UNH/IOL, Nortel)
Susan Ashman
May 18, 2007
My heart goes out to Matt and also to all of the family and friends of Dave. My thoughts are with you.
David Norton
May 18, 2007
Our deepest sympathy to your family.
Dave was a wonderful guy, one that became your friend from the moment that you met him. I remember him most from mornings in the fitness center at Nortel, and from the occasional time that I would tag along with the Thursday evening crew. I'll miss his sense of humor and can't believe I won't see him in the halls at Nortel.
You were a great guy Dave.
Party on brother!
Heart Broken,
Dave and Jill Norton
elizabeth vinson
May 18, 2007
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Katie (Hamm) Herrick
May 18, 2007
Our deepest sympathies are with your family during this most difficult times. Although I hadn't seen Dave in many years I too was in DHS Band and remember how much fun we all had together.
Scott & Debbie Kenrick
May 18, 2007
Neil and Helen,
We are very sorry for the loss of your son. Our deepest sympathies to your entire family.
Annie Keazer
May 18, 2007
I will never forget all the fun and crazy times I shared with Dave throughout the years of junior high and high school - especially our time in marching band. I will always remember the toast he gave as best man at my brother's wedding - it was a classic. My cheeks and stomach hurt from smiling and laughing, and I was welled up with tears by the time he was finished. I regret not keeping in touch better with Dave after high school, but it was always a great time when I did see him. He always had funny stories to share of his adventures with my brother and their circle of friends. It always impressed me the way they all kept in touch throughout the years, and I feel it is a testament to the kind of loyalty you received if you were a friend of Dave's. My thoughts and prayers are with you all as you deal with the loss of your loved one.
The McKennas
May 18, 2007
Helen, Neil & Family:
There are no words to express how sorry we are for your loss. Please know you are in our hearts and prayers, always.
Justin Orr
May 18, 2007
To say that Dave will be missed is a complete understatement. Dave was my babysitter when i was young, but more importantly he was, and still is a Mentor to me. He brought me hiking for the first time, and we both share a passion for bicycle riding. My thoughts and prayers go out to anyone who ever had the pleasure to meet David. I will keep pedaling for you buddy!
Oscar & Stephanie Purwin
May 18, 2007
Dave you were a truely great friend. Always there to help without question. Always there to say something funny. You will always be remembered. We miss you.
Leigh Tilton
May 18, 2007
Helen and family,
All of us at the Lottery are so deeply sad because of this tremendous loss. Please know that your entire family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Richard, Rebecca, Jean-Luc, & Christopher Beaudette
May 18, 2007
Our hearts and prayers are with each of you today. May God's Grace comfort and strengthen you each moment of every passing day.
With love and sincerest sympathy,
The Beaudette Family
Jason, Rachel and Mia Keazer
May 18, 2007
Dave was as good of a friend as a person could ask for. Honest, genuine, always up for anything and always there when you needed him. We had so many good times over the years and I'm glad I'll have those memories to keep him around in my heart. Rach and I were talking about Dave the other night and even with the sadness the stories always left us laughing. As much as I'll miss him, it's nice to know that it's hard to think about Dave and feel sad for long. Our thoughts and sympathies are with you.
Uncle Robbie
May 18, 2007
The true mark of a Great Man is not in what his accomplishments in life are, but more about how many lives he reaches out and touches.
All of us who loved him and all who ever knew him, know that these words are so true of David Jr.
My little Buddy grew into a TRUELY GREAT MAN!!
Our hearts are broken, but we take stock in the fact that the memeories of the times we had together will continue to warm our hearts and souls.
Jeanne Hausman
May 18, 2007
Helen & Family,
I was so sorry to hear about David. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you go through this most difficult time.
Donna Hardy
May 18, 2007
Helen & family
Having worked with Helen for many years, she would speak of her son's adventures. Dave's life was full of fun and family and he will be remembered in our hearts forever. My deepest sympathies to you Helen and your family for your great loss. If you need anything, just ask.
Your friend and co-worker
Donna
Julia DuBois
May 18, 2007
My deepest sympathies to your family. I remember Dave from music department events and he was always so nice and friendly to me even though I was just a kid hanging out with the band.
Josh & Melissa Bertoulin
May 18, 2007
We are all at a loss for words because of this tragedy. Dave was one of the kindest people you could ever meet. His warm personality and bright smile could make you feel welcome and at ease. Even if you knew Dave for only a day, you could truly say he had an impact on your life. He will always be remembered in our hearts. Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you Matt and the entire Bemis / Flanagan family.
Kevin McWeeney
May 18, 2007
Dave was a great person and I enjoyed working with him for many years. I know that if I asked Dave any question he would drop everything and listen and help, he will be missed by everyone.
Eric Johnson (Nortel)
May 18, 2007
Words cannot begin to express the sorrow felt over losing Dave. He was everything everyone should strive for. He was smart, funny, kind, generous and wise way beyond his years. It was my extreme pleasure to have worked with Dave. He was the best! Thank you, Dave.
“If the people we love are stolen from us, the way to have them live on is to never stop loving them. Buildings burn, people die, but real love is forever.”
The Crow (1994)
Nancy & Adam Daniels
May 18, 2007
Our deepest sympathies to you Helen, Neil and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Rick & Maggie Jones
May 18, 2007
Dave, Debi & Family,
Our sincerest sympathy to you and your family during this time. We can only imagine what you are going through. Please know that you are in our thoughts & prayers and may your memories of David help you through this most difficult time.
Cheryl Sullivan (formerly of GBMHA)
May 18, 2007
Matt and family,
I am terribly sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies go out to your entire family.
Bob Demaris
May 18, 2007
We were deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and sympathy are with you and your family at this most difficult time.
Osamu Kaminuma
May 18, 2007
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. You were a great guy and I won't forget how helpful and how kind you were. I won't forget your smile, either.
Barry Lloyd , Jr
May 18, 2007
One of the brightest, intelligent people I've known - his abilities and the things he knew and took the patience to teach were eclipsed only by his ability to tell a great story and find the lighter sides of life with humor and fun.
His warm smile embraced everyone and his wit urged our smiles.
While some weild their words as weapons he often used them as tools
carving images , telling a story that would no doubt leave many
with smiles and laughter.
A beacon to follow, a corner stone and warm friend to many
who impacted many lives in a positive way !
Sharyn Hocurscak
May 18, 2007
Dave,
Though you were the one of the "youngest" of the test group, you were really the wise old soul who knew how to live life to its fullest capacity. Your jokes and smile cheered us in the best and worst of times. Your vast knowledge of so many topics amazed us. Your love for your family touched us as you always spoke of them. Your generosity for people was sincere as you offered help to everyone in all capacities. You were an amazing and genuine hearted person who will be missed greatly. We were blessed to work with you and will remember you always.
Bob & Sue Daigle
May 18, 2007
To the entire Bemis family, we are sorry to hear of the loss of David Jr. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Craig & Rachel Mattern
May 17, 2007
The most cherished memory we have of Dave is his huge smile and his infectious sense of humor. He was such an engaging and caring person. Even with infrequent visits, we were always able to pick up as if no time had passed at all. A true friend. You will be missed greatly.
Lucy Nadeau
May 17, 2007
Dave, Debi and all of those who knew and loved Dave Jr.,
May you find comfort in the sweet memories of Dave. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless, Lucy and Michael Nadeau
Bev, Steve, Todd & Kim Regoulinsky
May 17, 2007
Helen, Neil and family, Our hearts are filled with saddness for you. Please know that you are all in our hearts and prayers. May you find comfort in the fact that so many people care. Your family holds many memories for us through the years.
Frank Skinner
May 17, 2007
Helen & Dave,
My heart is sadden by the loss of your son .Tho I didn't know him ,i'm sure like his parents he was a fine young man.My heart and prayers are with you.So many years have passed by since we last saw one another ,my condolences to both of your families .Perhaps when things settle down, perhaps we might could call one another to kind of catch up on old times but only when ya'll feel up to it.Once again ,just know your families are in my heart and prayers .May God be with you .
Joshua Novelline
May 17, 2007
David was a friend of my dad at Nortel, and every time I went to work with my dad, David would always be there talking to him, he was always nice to me and the rest of our family, He was an all around great person with nothing but good qualities, My greatest sympathies go out to his family.
Josh
M-J Bailey
May 17, 2007
My deepest thoughts and sympathy are with you and your family at this time.
Lynn Nelson
May 17, 2007
Helen - I am so very sorry to hear about David's death. I recall your mentioning him to me often when you and I worked together at the Lottery. Please know I'm keeping you and your family in my heart during this tough, tough time.
Love, Lynn E. Nelson
Shanna Bickford Class of 1996
May 17, 2007
I am deeply saddened to hear of the loss of our classmate-Matt Bemis' brother, David. We hope you find strength through this difficult time. We all are thinking of you & hope for peace during your time of healing.
Robert & Linda Kinnison
May 17, 2007
So sorry to hear about Dave. His name was spoken of so many times in our family. My son Scott thought the world of your son Dave and often told stories of their adventures and fun times together. To me he was one of the nicest young men I have ever known, always a gentleman and eager to help others. I Pray for your family and for Dave to be embraced with God's loving arms at this most difficult time.
Kerry Grabowski-Hoban
May 17, 2007
I am sitting here trying to write the words which can best express my sandess over the loss of Dave, and there are none. He was a great friend whom I cherished and loved. Instead of trying to express my sadness over his passing, instead I will share my favorite Dave quote, " I'm a good time". This statement couldn't be more true, Dave always had a smile to share. I will greatly miss his smile. Dave......someday I hope to find peace in this release I love you Hoban
Andrea Brannock
May 17, 2007
David, Hellen, and Family-
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. David was an amazing person. I feel blessed to have known him. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.
Christopher & Elizabeth Stank
May 17, 2007
Friend, colleague, roommate!
You were a great friend and inspiration to all. I was left speechless when I heard what had happened.
I will always remember the fun times when we worked (at Nortel), and lived (on Faneuil Street) together. From the three o’clock Coke-times (with Dave N. and Rob T.), to your fajita nights at the apartment (with many people).
I know you had a great passion for both rode and mountain biking! Thinking back, I think that is one of the reasons why I got into biking! I will always remember the rides along the Minuteman trail from Brighton to Billerica, that at points seemed as thought we were riding to work more than driving!
Liz and I can truly say you were a great friend to both of us, and you will be missed! I hate to say goodbye, so I will say – until we meet again!
Chris
Gabe MacConaill
May 17, 2007
Dave was one of the nicest most considerate and compassionate people I've ever known. He always made me feel comfortable being myself. I can see from the other entries in this book that my experience was not unique. Dave was a wonderful person, my thoughts are with his family.
Thomas Roy
May 17, 2007
Helen and family...I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I extend you my sincere sympathy and condolences. May God give you strength during this most difficult time.
Your cousin, Tom
Dennis Morrissette
May 17, 2007
I am saddened by this loss. This is a loss the world will suffer.
May peace be shared with all who feel the pain of this loss.
Mary Crawford
May 17, 2007
David was a remarkable young man, I admired him. A very gentle and caring person at work. He never minded sitting with anyone to listen, and help. He was rare that way. He had the patience of a saint. I respected his maturity, intelligence, wit, his passion and zest for life. He had knowledge that went far beyond the technical aspects of the job, he was well rounded. Your son/brother/friend David, was a young man to be proud of. I feel fortunate to have known him.
Sekar Srinivasan
May 17, 2007
I'll miss seeing Dave around the halls at work at Nortel. He was one of the sharpest tools in the shed and always said hello and asked how I was doing with a smile to brighten anyone's day. He'll certainly be missed but we'll always carry his spirit forward.
Tom, Bonnie, Chris and Aimee DuBois
May 17, 2007
Our hearts are with your whole family.
May the strength in you all help to bring you closer in this difficult time.
Ethan Mallove
May 17, 2007
A lasting memory I will have of Dave is the time we got together for lunch at The Lemon Tree in Burlington when I first began working at Sun, just down the street from where Dave worked. As a fellow UNH Computer Science graduate and an engineer in the Route 128 semicircle, Dave was someone I would listen to and look to for advice. I will always remember him as a kind, funny, laid-back, and intelligent man. His early passing leaves me both depressed and in a state of disbelief. My condolences to all of Dave's family and friends.
Ray & Sandy Paquin
May 17, 2007
Dave and Debi,
Sandy and I are deeply sadden by your lost. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Erica (Coy) Holt
May 17, 2007
I am so saddened to hear of the passing of Dave Bemis. I will never forget how much fun he was to be around, especially at DHS band practices and events. My sincerest condolences to the Bemis and Flanagan families. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Julie McGray
May 17, 2007
Dave came into my life like a tornado and left just as quickly, but he
brought more joy to me than I could have ever imagined.
Words cannot express how much I miss him. He was an amazing man --so kind, loving, fun, smart, witty, thoughtful, insightful -- just a beautiful person, inside
and out. He truly lived his life to the fullest, making every day special and meaningful.
He once said to me, in his Dave-ish way, "I'll never know why you let me into your
world possessing these rookie skills". And I said to him "How could I not?"
How could I not -- anyone who met Dave knew what a magnet he was. You could not
help but love him. I am so blessed to have been able to have him in my world, and
I will never forget him.
My heart and prayers go out to his family. May they take comfort in knowing how much he
loved them, and how proud he was of them, but mostly, that he knew the same of them,
and considered himself the luckiest man on earth because of it. This I know because
he expressed it openly so many times -- another endearing quality that Dave possessed.
Dave, you will always be in my heart..... Julie
Chris Schadler
May 17, 2007
My heart goes out to Sara and her family as you all struggle to come to grips with this loss. My heartfelt sympathy and prayers are with you all.
Chris Schadler, Teacher, Spaulding HIgh School
Judy (Reid) LaVoie
May 17, 2007
Dave will truely be missed. We were in the Green Wave marching band together oh so many years ago. He always looked out for other people and definitely liked to joke around. Although we haven't spoken in several years, it is still such a shock to know that he is not with us anylonger. My sincere condolences to Dave's family and friends.
Greg (Noll) Paradis
May 17, 2007
Helen,Neil,Matt, Katherine & Family. We are so sorry to hear about your loss. You all will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Guy & Michelle Robertson
May 17, 2007
Our deepest condolences. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Denise D'Angelo
May 17, 2007
Jim and I have Katherine and the entire Bemis family in our thoughts and prayers.
Wishing you peace during this difficult time.
Matt Frades
May 17, 2007
Dave became a member of my extended family last year when his brother Matt married my sister Christine. In the relatively short time that I knew Dave, his personality and excellence left indelible marks in my memories. On one hand, here was a man who was physically strong enough to effortlessly carry a 100 pound backpack for many miles on Matt’s bachelor part camping trip. On the other hand, here was a man who confident and wise enough to express his emotions openly, unapologetically crying when delivering a beautiful and funny toast on Matt and Christine’s wedding day. Dave’s excellence shined brightly, and his presence was tall, not just physically but spiritually. Simply put, Dave effortlessly exuded both capability and humility. I’m sure Dave’s family knows these things better than I, but I thought there might be value in letting you know that even people who only knew Dave for a short time could sense that he was truly special.
Jon Raymond
May 17, 2007
As Dave's coworker for almost eight years at Nortel I found him to be one of the brightest and nicest persons to work with. He would always stop what he was doing if you needed any help or advice. He was a pleasure to talk with and he will be sorely missed by his friends at work. My heart goes out to his family and many close friends who have lost a truly special person in their lives.
Dave Novelline
May 17, 2007
My friend, my mentor, my hero,
You showed us all what it means to be great!
Your kindness, generosity, humor, knowledge, and wisdom brought light into all of our lives.
Dave
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