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Desma Oickle Obituary
Desma was born on December 21, 1976 in Rome, Georgia, the daughter of Daniel and Debra (Ward) Cook. She spent her childhood in Norwich, VT and lived in Gilmanton, NH for fourteen years before moving to Concord.
Desma currently worked as a human resource manager for PCC Structurals Inc. and had worked in Human Resources for the past ten years.
Desma enjoyed snowmobiling. She was a member of Childhood Cancer Lifeline NH and she was a Jarhead supporter.
Desma is survived by her parents, Daniel and Debra Cook, of Norwich, VT; a son, Colby Oickle, of Windsor, VT; sisters, Moriah Tidwell and her husband, Michael of Windsor, VT and Katherine Jameson and her husband, Dan, of Canaan NH ; 5 nieces and 2 nephews. She is predeceased by her son, Ryan Oickle in May 2009 and by her husband, George Oickle in December 2012.
Calling Hours will be held on Friday, June 28, 2019 from 4:00pm - 7:00pm at the Wilkinson-Beane-Simoneau-Paquette Funeral Home, 164 Pleasant Street, Laconia NH using the Carriage House entrance.
A Celebration of Life will be held in about a week with details to follow.
Burial will be held in Hillside Cemetery, Norwich, VT. at a later date.
For those who wish, the family suggests memorial donations be made in Desma's name to the Childhood Cancer Lifeline of New Hampshire (CCL), PO Box 395, Hillsboro, NH 03244.
Wilkinson-Beane-Simoneau-Paquette Funeral Home & Cremation Services, 164 Pleasant Street, Laconia NH is assisting the family with the arrangements. For more information and to view an online memorial go to www.wilkinsonbeane.com.
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Chris & Lynn chesley
June 29, 2019
We wished we had the chance to meet Desma
we knew Aaron and our thoughts and prayers are with you all
Buck and Linda Kennedy Morgan
June 28, 2019
Debbie, Dan and family, we are so sorry to hear about your daughter. We never had the pleasure of meeting her, but Debbie you will always be part of our Oak Grove Community. You have our deepest sympathy. I can't imagine what you, Dan and family are going through. Y'all are in our thoughts and prayers.
June 27, 2019
Heartfelt condolences to my friend, Dan Cook, and to Desma's other family members. I knew Desma when she was in high school, a 'good kid' and a friend and classmate of my daughter. What a senseless tragedy. Bill Moorman, Jefferson City, MO
June 27, 2019
Dear Colby and family, please accept our deepest condolences on the passing of your mom.
Denise, Joey and Semaus
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Leann Blaney
June 26, 2019
I worked with Desma at CAP. My thoughts and prayers are with Desma, her son Colby and her family. May she rest in peace with her son Ryan and husband George. God bless you special lady.
Shar Nick
June 26, 2019
May they embrace & rejoice in each other's arm's, Now that they are reunited in God's kingdom!
Fred & Faye Norful / Seggelink
June 26, 2019
Debbie, Dan, & family,
Please accept our deepest condolences for your loss.
Ron, Holley and Rachell Gamache
June 26, 2019
Desma you will always be in our hearts. We will miss you.
Jeff Clark
June 26, 2019
Desma we will always love you. Thank you for being our friend.
Laurie Isleib
June 26, 2019
May the family find some comfort knowing that she has been reunited with her son and husband. Rest in peace Desma.
Leisa & Roy
June 26, 2019
Desma's Family and Friends are in our prayers&thoughts during this very difficult time.
Barbara & Ted Brayman
June 26, 2019
We are so sorry to hear of Desma's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We extend our deepest condolences to your entire family.
Stephanie Bateman
June 25, 2019
I did not know Desma personally, but knew Aaron. My heart and prayers are with you all in this horrific time.
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