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Dj Monterio Obituary

DJ Monterio

Pembroke, NH - DJ Monterio, of Robinson Road, passed away suddenly on Sunday, October 27, 2024. DJ was born June 11, 2003 in Concord, NH, the son of Dean Monterio and Aimee (Tanguay) Monterio of Pembroke.

DJ entered this world with a sweet, mischievous smile that he carried through the rest of his life. His affection and love for those around him was evident at a young age, often asking people "are you happy?", just to make sure they were having as much fun as he was. He was never shy, and was able to connect with adults and children alike. The love he had for the outdoors brought him so many friendships and established how he would spend most of his time. Whether it was hunting, playing baseball, four-wheeling, fishing, skiing, boating, snowmobiling, or sitting around a campfire, DJ was always his happiest when he was outside doing his favorite things with the people he loved.

DJ was a graduate of Pembroke Academy class of 2021. Before graduating from high school, he started working for Aspen Ridge Construction, which wasn't just a job for him. He grasped what it meant to work hard, learning from and leading his friends in a balance of passion for the trade and having fun while doing it. If DJ were to have a motto in life, it would be "work hard, play hard." DJ recently started his own company, Viridis Builders, and bought his first house at the young age of 21.

It's impossible to list all the reasons DJ was so loveable. He was kind, always kept his promises, and always smiling. It's rare to find someone who was so loyal and reliable, especially at such a young age. He was the first to show up when you needed help building some steps, fixing a roof, or just wanted a laugh and a smile. He always "had a guy" for something, because he was "the guy" for so many others. DJ will be missed by so many. He did things for people because he wanted to, and he did it without telling anyone.

DJ cared deeply about building memories with friends and family. From his early days, many of those special memories were made on Cape Cod, where his family home was. From watching movies in the back seat on the car ride down, to fishing on the pier, to giggling on the swings and jumping off way too high, DJ learned about the world and who he was. While his passing is tragic, his beautiful, kind, curious spirit rests in a place where he can eternally celebrate what life meant to him.

In addition to his parents, DJ is survived by his siblings, Taylor Monterio and Mason Monterio; his paternal grandmother, Paulette Tanguay of Bow; his paternal grandfather Bruce Monterio and his partner Karen Howard of Dennis, MA; 2 aunts, Kristin Harmon of Manasquan, NJ, and Julie Boucher and her husband Craig of Concord; his Uncle Todd Monterio and his wife Jennifer of Chichester; 5 cousins, Jack Harmon, Nolan and Nora Boucher and Preston and Trevor Monterio; his 'brother' and best friend, Dylan, and countless other friends and family.

He was predeceased by his maternal grandfather, Richard Tanguay, and paternal grandmother Marcia Monterio.

Anyone who was lucky enough to share a moment or a laugh with DJ in recent years knows that he was probably showing up in a bathing suit and sunglasses, whether it was to work, the lake, the bar, or family dinner. To honor his love for casual comfort and the simple things in life, we encourage everyone to show up to the celebration of life like DJ would, wearing clothes that represent "the good times." Swim shorts, sundresses, tank tops, flip-flops, and jeans.

Memorial Visiting Hours will be held on Thursday, October 31st, from 4 to 7 PM at the Waters Funeral Home, 50 South Main Street, Concord.

Celebration of Life will be held on Friday, November 1st from 2 to 5pm at Pembroke Pines, 45A Whittemore Rd, Pembroke.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Concord Monitor on Oct. 30, 2024.

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KIERAN Kelly

June 5, 2025

Hugs and prayers to you all.

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Joy Anderson

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Kate

November 5, 2024

So sorry for your loss and ours. A bright young man whose absence will be felt in our communities for our lifetime. We mourn with you the absence of all the wonderful things he would have helped build and create and the legacy he would have left. Our hearts are with you at this most difficult of times.

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Amy Lacen

November 3, 2024

I just no words! Wished this wasn't true!!! Having watched him grow from an adorable baby with that Kool aide smile to a young handsome young man with a Kool aide smile ... It's been such a quiet week here at my house... We are all feeling this tragic tragic loss of not one young man but two Life is so precious! Always hold your loved ones close! My heart hurts so much as so many people effected by this loss of two beautiful young souls DJ & LUCAS FOREVER 21 REST IN THE SWEETEST PEACE BOYS

Tim Harmon

November 3, 2024

heartbreaking and will always love and remember you DJ. Thank you for being a great cousin to Jack...he loved being together with you all the time no matter what you were doing. You will be beyond missed.

Charlene and Glenn Vallee

November 3, 2024

To the Monterio and Tanquay family,
The Vallee family has you in our hearts and prayers. DJ was such a nice young man and will not be forgotten. We hope you find peace in all the love and support around you.

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Rebecca Landry

November 2, 2024

I’m so very very sorry for your loss. What a beautiful soul. I’m friends with Christine and Dave. This is so heartbreaking God Bless.

Lucie Chakmakas

November 1, 2024

Taylor my deepest sympathies to you and your family. So very sad to hear of his passing so young. Losing a loved one is very hard. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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Kevin Blasi

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Kevin Blasi

October 31, 2024

I'm so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for the family and all of DJ's friends. May you find comfort in your love for him and the joy he brought to you all.

Roberta and Ray Brooks

October 31, 2024

So very sad to hear of his passing so young. Our hearts are broken for the family. God bless and keep you in happy memories .

Sansoucie Family

October 31, 2024

Our heartfelt condolences go out to the Monterio Family and friends of DJ, may you feel the peace and comfort you need to get through this most difficult time, from each other and your community.
May you feel his spirit still with you until you meet again.
Sending much love and prayers to you all!

Gage Dumas

October 31, 2024

DJ was so kind and always looking out for people. Making countless memories with DJ over the years and especially the last couple of years, I will always remember the time I spent with him and his warm smile and kind heart. Dj will truly be missed by so many, my prayers and thoughts go out to his family and friends.

Kristen, CJ and Madi Lombard

October 31, 2024

Dean, Aimee, Taylor, and Mason,
We are so incredibly sorry for the loss of your precious DJ. We hope you find some comfort in his memories. Love you all....

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Kristen, CJ and Madi Lombard

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The Dumas Family

October 31, 2024

May your beautiful memories and family bring you peace and comfort during this time of tremendous loss. With all of the many things that DJ participated in, and the planting of so many trees, he is and will be forever around you

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Levi Putman

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The Dumas Family

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Susan Huppi

October 31, 2024

When I think of DJ I always think of his wonderful smile. I am not surprised that he asks if people are happy! I am thinking of him and of his family at this difficult time. He will be missed.

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John and Sherri Ferns

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Peter Tanguay

October 31, 2024

The lord has decided that your time on earth is complete. He has brought you to be with him in Heavan. You have brought happiness to all you knew down here on earth. Peace.

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Kelly & Dudley

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Kayleigh Smith

October 30, 2024

DJ,
The life of the party!
I feel so great full to have gotten to know you. DJ touched many lives in the very best ways, Always making sure everyone was happy and having a good time! You will be deeply missed, but never forgotten.
To the friends & family may you find peace and comfort in the memories of him

Julie Giannini

October 30, 2024

I'm deeply sorry for your precious loss.the kids and I are thinking of you and your family and extend our warm wishes to you.
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you all.

The Giannini's❤

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Mark and Sheila Commerford

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Mike gardner

October 30, 2024

I am so sorry for your loss .I couldn't sleep a wink when I heard what had happened it is just unbelievable such a good person hard worker just a role model for his generation I met dj on the job always polite never a bad day so so sad rest in peace dj gonna miss you bud

Beckee Jesseman

October 30, 2024

We will always love you and think of you as one of our own kids ❤

Nate Quinn

October 30, 2024

We have lost a beacon of light in our community. A reliable friend, an old soul and a successful entrepreneur. There's so few people in life who you can hang out with 1 on 1 comfortably; who are as wholesome, entertaining and as patient of a listener. DJ has been in my circle since elementary school and the impact he has had on my family and I is immeasurable. All of my love and support goes to Dean, Aimee, Taylor, Mason and all who have had the privilege of enjoying DJ's presence in their lives.

Karen Cloutier

October 30, 2024

To DJ’s entire family and numerous friends and acquaintances-

I am so very sorry to hear of DJ’s passing. I remember him best in fourth grade as a member of Sandy Valine’s Pembroke Hill school class. At the time I was the new principal of the school. I very much enjoyed meeting and greeting every single child that came through those doors. It was often quite fun to visit Mrs. Valine‘s class. The kids were all so happy and interested in every single thing she did in her classroom. DJ was a huge part of everything. I remember that little smile he would often give indicating he was up to something fun for everyone. He loved playing jokes on people back then and I remember him being my sidekick to a few pranks , we played on other students. All in good humor of course! That little curlyheaded, mischievous boy, as well as the man he grew into will surely be missed. Big hugs to all of his family and friends.

Karen Cloutier
Past Principal at Pembroke Hill School
Retired, Cape Cod, Massachusetts

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Emily (Sabean) Mancuso

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Colin Moore

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Kristie Zanis

October 30, 2024

Oh DJ, you had such an impact on so many people. The world needs more people like you. Fly high sweet boy. Prayers, strength, and sympathies from the Zanis family, Tim, Kristie, Brooklyn, Kenzie, Samantha, and baby Harlee

Evelyn and Gerry Breton

October 30, 2024

Aimee, Dean, Taylor and Mason we are so deeply sorry for the loss of DJ. He was an exceptional young man loved by all who knew him. Heaven has gained a handsome angel. He will be watching over you. Hugs and prayers to all of you.

Beth & Sunna Ziakas

October 30, 2024

Dean and Aimee, we are so sorry to hear about DJ. Our deepest sympathies for you and your family.

Cynthia Davis

October 30, 2024

Tragic. Holding you all in my heart.

Martin and Mary Ruth Charette

October 30, 2024

Our hearts are broken for you, Dean. You and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers. Love to you all.

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Kieran Kelly

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Ray & Irene Vacher

October 30, 2024

We will miss you DJ, your smile, your humor and we will keep cherished memories of you forever close in our hearts!
Love, Uncle Ray & Auntie Irene

Joanne Varjabedian

October 30, 2024

What a beautiful tribute to such an amazing son, grandson, nephew, and friend to all

Janet & Jeff White

October 30, 2024

We got to know what a wonderful and kind person DJ was. May all these memories help during this difficult time. God Bless you all. Love & Prayers. Janet & Jeff

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Lily Weigand

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Brian Harriman

October 29, 2024

My Deepest Condolences to the Monterio Family and may you find Comfort with the people supporting you through this sad time.

Benjamin Kabanda

October 29, 2024

I'm in a so much shock. I am saddened that this tragic event occurred. I'm glad I went to high school with DJ for four years. Whenever he would see me, he would joke around and me ask me if I knew his birthday because he was shocked, I had a good memory. I will miss him so much and I will make sure to keep the memories I have of him in my heart. I am so sorry for your loss.

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Abby Collins

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Jessica Roma

October 29, 2024

Dean. Aimee, Taylor and Mason, I am so truly sorry for your loss. DJ was an amazingly special person, he was such a bright light and this is so unimaginable. I love you all so much.

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Jess and Mike Roma

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Laura

October 29, 2024

I´m so terribly sorry for your loss. My thoughts and condolences go out to you and your family

Wendy Barnes

October 29, 2024

DJ, I remember you as a little boy sitting in auntie Tilly’s house on the front porch running around. I may you rest in peace God bless love, cousin Wendy.

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Jennifer Joscelyn

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Todd Monterio

October 29, 2024

We love you DJ, Todd, Jenn, Preston and Trevor Monterio

Anna Gibbs

October 29, 2024

There are no words to describe your loss! Sending prayers of comfort and peace! Keep his love alive in your hearts by sharing those stories of his wonderful life cut way too short. Hugs!

Bob Cavanaugh

October 29, 2024

Will always remember what a respectful, kind young gentleman DJ was from being one his Coaches at PA to him coming into the restaurant recently telling me of his recent accomplishments. I could see how proud he was. Just devastating news to me and to everyone who knew him ( and Lucas). My heartfelt condolences to the Monterio’s and to all his family and friends.

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Love Papa

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Lance Adams

October 29, 2024

I’m so sorry for your loss. I too spent much my childhood fishing, hunting and boating in Yarmouth.

Lynn Lamy

October 29, 2024

So very, very sorry for your tragic loss. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers.

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Tom and Devin Farrelly

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Debra Stanley

October 29, 2024

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Monterio and Tanguay families. Love Deb and Tom Stanley

Thomas Phillips

October 29, 2024

So sorry for your loss, the kids and I are thinking about you.

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Christine Antonelli

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Deborah Coburn

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Terry Pina

October 29, 2024

My deepest condolences to the family. Wishing we could make it but husband has cancer and that day we have dr appointment that day . Love you guys

The Entire Staff of Waters Funeral Home

October 29, 2024

Offering our deepest condolences at this difficult time.

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