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Lee Lajoie Obituary

Lee Lajoie

Pembroke, NH - Lee G. Lajoie, age 62, succumbed to ALS (Lou Gehrig's Disease) on December 24, 2024 at Concord Hospital, with his family by his side.

A life-long resident of NH, Lee was born in Concord, the second son of Leo G. and Caryl (Burbank) Lajoie, where he was raised with his three brothers, Stephen, Kenneth and Thomas. Lee attended Saint John's Regional School and Bishop Brady High School, which provided a solid Christian foundation for his life-long personal and professional development. Upon graduation, he knew he wanted to be an electrical engineer and immediately enrolled at Northeastern University in Boston, MA where he spent several Co-ops working with Public Service Company of NH, now Eversource, and Northeastern University in Boston MA.

Lee graduated with a Bachelor of Science degree in Electrical Engineering and began working for Public Service Company of NH full time in 1984. He served as a mentor for many young engineers while working in the Laconia, Hooksett and Manchester offices. He was a wealth of knowledge and the first guy to call when there was a problem. Lee was also a skilled electrician as his family and friends can attest. While working full time, he obtained an MBA from Southern NH University and later became a Manager of Systems Resiliency for the balance of his Eversource Career. Lee was an accomplished power distribution engineer, providing expert testimony to the NH Public Utilities Commission and was highly respected by his coworkers throughout his 37-year career. Lee retired from Eversource in the summer of 2021 and was diagnosed with ALS in November of that year.

Lee was an avid hockey player and referee. For over 20 years, he skated with the Laconia Hockey Legends. He was also an accomplished and respected ice hockey referee. He was certified as a USA Hockey official for almost 20 years from 1995 to 2014 and for the National Ice Hockey Officials Association (NIHOA) from 2006 to 2014. Lee was a mentor to younger officials and was a frequent contributor to USA Hockey's training clinics during his active officiating years. Lee had to hang up his skates when ALS robbed him of his ability to maintain his balance on the ice.

Lee also enjoyed motorcycling on his BMW, completing trips to the "Tail of the Dragon" in North Carolina and a cross country trip to the Black Hills of South Dakota with his buddy Al,for the annual Sturgis Motorcycle Rally in 2019. Lee and his brother Tom enjoyed many adventures on their Russian URALs - motorcycles with a sidecar. (The details of which are omitted here to protect the innocent- wink.) Lee's retirement plans included taking all the stellar rides in the US and in Europe. He had to sell two of his four motorcycles and gifted his favorites to his brother and son when ALS robbed him of any grip strength. Lee lost his ability to drive a car in 2023.

Lee led by example at home and in his community, giving the gifts of time and talent to the Capital Regional Food Program and the Concord Community Players. In 2019 Lee was awarded the Volunteer Hero Award by the Capital Region Food program for recognition of his outstanding service and commitment. In 1995 he was given the Osy Strong award by the Concord Community Players for service above and beyond the duties of membership. Although his onstage career peaked in high school, he remained active backstage and involved with the NH High School Drama competitions for many years.

Lee was a gadget-hound and was always in search of unique abor-saving devices. He loved to cook and would bring everything but the kitchen sink to the annual family gatherings at The SeaWitch in Surry and Camp Kwitchabitchin in Ellsworth Maine. Lee's love of gadgets served him well as he adapted to the progressive loss of physical functionality brought about by ALS.

Lee is survived by his parents, Leo and Caryl Lajoie; his wife of two years, Anne (Godbout) Lajoie; his daughter, Devon (Drewes) Morrill and her husband Keith of Vergennes VT; his son Artie Drewes and his wife Annie of Brunswick ME; his brother Stephen and his wife Kim of Pocasset MA; his brother Ken and his wife Teri of Manchester NH; his brother Tom and his wife Carol Leonard, of Ellsworth Maine and his grandchildren, Emerson, Elias, Evangeline and Kellan, as well as his niece Rachel and his grandniece Emerald.

Visiting hours will be held on Tues, January 7th from 4-6 PM at The Waters Funeral Home, 50 South Main Street, Concord, NH.

A Requiem Mass will be celebrated on Wednesday, January 8th at 10 AM, at Christ the King Parish, 72 South Main Street, Concord, NH.

Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (ALS) is a motor neuron disease which results in progressive muscle weakness and paralysis. Eventually ALS affects all of the muscles needed to move, speak, eat and breathe. The exact cause of the disease remains unknown although 10% of cases are genetically linked. Life expectancy is 3 to 5 years and there is still no cure for this fatal disease. Lee made it 3 years and one month from his date of diagnosis.

Please consider a donation to the ALS Association of Northern New England https://www.als.org, or a donation to NH Catholic Charities in Lee's memory.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Concord Monitor on Jan. 3, 2025.

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Tim Bowen

April 18, 2025

Sad to hear of Lee's passing, I remember him well from Bishop Brady, as the big guy who knew a lot. Prayers to his family.

Ellen Barag

February 14, 2025

During my 45 year career in technical sales, I’ve encountered few customers that are truly as genuine, kind and supportive as Lee. I considered him more of a friend than customer and will miss those after Xmas parties of pool and beverages.

Karen Giguere

January 13, 2025

I had known Lee for years at PSNH/Eversource. He volunteered every year for the United Way and was my boss when he worked at 1250 Hooksett Road. Lee was a very thoughtful and generous man. He always had a smile even when he was struggle with ALS. I admired him for this. Sorry due to vacation I was unable to make the wake and services. Rest in Peace Lee.

Kelly Donahue

January 12, 2025

Lee and I met in First Grade at St John's School. He was a kind, caring person. I recognize his smile from those days!

Laurie Anderson

January 9, 2025

Im sorry to hear the loss of Lee. I have great memories of Lee during our time at Brady. my prayers are with all of you

Love, Jess Dunne and Alex Kutchin (friends of James and Molly)

January 8, 2025

We are so very sorry to hear about Lee´s passing. We only met him briefly at Molly and James´ wedding, but he seemed like a truly incredible person. We are sending big hugs to the family.

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Norm and Doris Ballard

January 7, 2025

We are so sorry to hear of the loss of Lee. Our sympathies go to his loved ones during this difficult time. Having known Lee for many many years in the Community Players has been a gift to us. There are no words to express how much we respected and admired him as a talented, kind, and gentle human being.

Gary Lemay

January 7, 2025

Lee was a really great guy. I enjoyed my time working with him and the friendly banter. There are a lot of good memories to remember over the years I knew Lee. As I write this one thing that came to me was what a great writer Lee was which I consider quite an achievement as a fellow engineer. Beautiful obituary and sorry he had to leave us way too soon.

Dumont Family

January 6, 2025

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Lajoie family at this time. May Lee rest in peace and may your memories bring you peace as well. On behalf of the entire Dumont Family.

Michael Steiner

January 6, 2025

Lee was my school friend from St. John's. We were also on a candlepin bowling team together. Unfortunately, we never did get to touchbase after school. But the memories I have of Lee will stay with me forever. RIP, my friend.

Paul Bacon

January 6, 2025

I knew Lee for years through the Concord Community Players. He had a very deep heart, and I always loved him.
Lee and Anne recently completed home renovations in Pembroke and I was/am the Building Inspector in Pembroke, so I got a chance to see Lee not too long ago and meet Anne. Both of them were exceedingly positive regarding Lee's plight. I frequently drive by the house these days and I always look in.
It's just so sad, Anne. You will always get a "pass" in Pembroke. :>)

Bill Demotta

January 5, 2025

So sorry to read of lee´s passing always down to earth and professional too young to go

David Murdo

January 4, 2025

J remember growing up and his family had a Halloween party. We would do Halloween events on the barn and then all go in the house and make pizza. Lee was also very active in the Conmuity Players. He will be missed. My prayers goes out to the family at a time when it should be a happy time but turned to be a sad time. Lee may of left but his memories remains in your heart and that cannot be taken away.

Georgette Bachelder, RN

January 4, 2025

My sincerest condolences on the loss of your son.

Paul Mulcahey

January 4, 2025

Lee was a great guy. Full stop. Played hockey with he and his brothers Tommy and Steve for years in Laconia, and they were the greatest of guys, all. Reffed countless games in NH with Lee in USA Hockey and NIHOA, and he had a photgraphic memory of the rule book. I always felt comfortable on the ice in any situation while refereeing with him, and playing with him. He will be missed, and has been missed since he lost his ability to skate. We all loved him in Laconia's hockey community and we have lost a wonderful soul. I wish I had kept in closer touch with him these last 3 years. My condolences to Tommy and Stevie and his wife an family (particularly his parents.)

Jay Thornburg

January 4, 2025

Lee was my son-in-law's father and we met in Vermont before the marriage of my daughter Annie and Artie. He and I connected immediately because he was that kind of guy, humble, intelligent, and easy to get to know. We also had a motorcycle connection and once took a long ride through NH, two fathers and two sons, a memorable ride. I won't forget his skill on the bike, nor will I forget him. So sorry to see him go.

Darlene Olivo

January 4, 2025

I knew Lee from gatherings at his parents' house for Thanksgiving and Easter. I'm a friend of Carol Leonard and her husband Tom Lajoie. He was a lovely man and I am so sorry for his loss. I send my deepest condolences to his wife, his parents and relatives.

Sarah Streeter

January 3, 2025

It was a pleasure getting to know Lee over the past few months...so sorry for his family´s loss. No doubt he will be greatly missed.

COLETTE LEAVITT

January 3, 2025

To Lee's family, my deepest and sincerest condolences. What a beautiful and everlasting summary of an honorable life, well lived....only much too short. I met Lee on his first day of employment at PSNH. He was a young, eager Engineer embarking on a journey yet to be told. During his career, his skill, knowledge and professionalism brought him to be well respected quickly. His kindness and humor brought these same co-workers to become family. Lee was my friend, my boss and a mentor to many. He was brilliant, funny, kind, generous and the best hugger. We nicknamed him the Silver Fox. My heart is very sad for his wife, parents, children and siblings. Being a man of convicted faith, we know that he is now soaring with the angels, free of pain, warm in the spirit of love and eternity. God be with his family in the coming days. See you on the other side Lee.

Steven & Maria Manus Painchaud

January 3, 2025

Lee was a long time supporter and key volunteer for the Capital Region Food Program. He gave generously of his time and talent to the Holiday Food Basket Project. His good humor and positive demeanor was always appreciated. He touched so many lives in such a positive way, we are all better people for having known him. May his memory be eternal.

Elaine Duclos

January 3, 2025

I´m so sorry for Lee´s passing and the years he spent with this life-robbing disease.
I knew Lee and his family from years at St. John´s Church.
Lee was a good and loving man who will be missed by many people.

Wayne & Karen Davis

January 3, 2025

In 1986 when we began the WR Hockey Assn., Lee was one of our original members and was always a fun night of competitive hockey when Lee was playing. Even though those days are gone, the memories will always be there. We extend our deepest condolences to his family.

Bob Montmarquet

January 3, 2025

What a great friend and co worker

Tim Tsantoulis

January 3, 2025

I will remember Lee as an easy going professional who consistently applied his knowledge to provide benefit to a larger group of professionals. The company and its customers were well served by that level of dedication. Rest in peace Lee.

Steve and Dot

January 3, 2025

With deepest sympathy for your lost. May God comfort, bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Mark Strohman

January 3, 2025

I’m so sorry to hear of Lee’s passing. I had the good fortune to work with Lee over my years at PSNH. I extend my deepest condolences to his family. Lee will be truly missed.

Renee Cross

January 2, 2025

From my interactions with Lee he was a warm, friendly caring soul! My condolences to his family, Anne and Elizabeth and James

Terri Tedeschi

January 2, 2025

I did not know Lee well, but I will always remember him as one of the kindest and most genuine individuals I have ever met. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Jen Clough

January 2, 2025

One of the best, gone too soon! I will always remember your words of wisdom & your incredible smile.

Rest easy Lee. You will be missed!

Bob Krewson

January 2, 2025

Lee was one of the two people who interviewed me when I applied to PSNH. He was a smart engineer and a straight shooter who brought much to the table in his professional life. He will be missed by all who knew him. My prayers go out to the family.

Everett & Carmen Blaise

January 2, 2025

Anne and family;
Our hearts and prayers are with you in this very difficult time!
Lee will be missed by all who knew and loved him! He is now playing hockey with the Lord in heaven!!

Thomas Mitchell

January 2, 2025

Lee was a great guy and a great friend. Always a resource for engineering and construction knowledge and kind supportive words. I can attest to his love of making gadgets as he created a pvc potato cannon and fired it up in Vermont! The world is a little less joyful without you Lee. Rest easy and in peace my friend.

The Entire Staff of Waters Funeral Home

January 3, 2025

Offering our deepest condolences at this difficult time.

Wayland Bunnell

January 2, 2025

I met and knew Lee through The Community Players of Concord, NH. As long as I knew him he was one of our quiet, gentle giants, photographer for many of our productions, and behind-the-scenes hero. A very sad loss to be sure, and my heartfelt condolences go out to his family and friends. Wayland

Andrew Lawrence

January 2, 2025

We all enjoyed knowing and skating with Lee for many years, he will always be a Legend. My sincere condolences.

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