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1953
DIED
2011
Mark Bates Obituary
Mark attended elementary school in Warner. He was a part of the first graduating class of Kearsarge Regional High School in Sutton in 1971. He later graduated with a bachelor's degree in Physical Education from Plymouth State College in 1975. He was a proud member of Kappa Delta Phi fraternity. He was the ('unofficial') Arm Wrestling Champion at PSC.
He started his career at Weaver Brothers Construction in the summer of 1971 at the age of 18, working every summer until 1975 when he became a full time employee. He was foreman of the Goodwin Railroad Crew. He worked his way up from Laborer to co-owner and President of Weaver Brothers Construction which he acquired with his brothers in 1994.
He was the past president of New Hampshire Good Roads and the Association of General Contractors of New Hampshire. He was on the board of the Hopkinton Economic Development Committee. He served as Commissioner of the Contoocook Men's Softball League and was a member of the Concord Mashers Basketball Rec League. He was an avid snowmobiler, motorcyclist and competitive skier. He enjoyed ice fishing, and diving in warm waters. He enjoyed playing racquetball and was a popular competitive member of the Concord Racquetball Club. Killer was the ultimate sports fan, especially of the Boston Red Sox and New England Patriots. He loved golfing and was a natural with a club. He recently parred the famous Par 3 17th hole at the TPC Stadium Course in Ponte Vedra Beach, Florida from the championship tees while golfing with good friends.
Killer was the ultimate 'giver' of social kindness and was loved by too many to count. No one could light up a room with joy and laughter like Killer could. He once said that his goal in this life was to try to make the world a better place. And he did that with every little gesture, from every sincere 'How's It Going Today? Everything alright?" greeting to his state senator to the cleaning lady in his hospital room in Boston, to his generous monthly donation to his 11 year old Child Fund (one of many causes he contributed to)recipient in Honduras who wrote him recently to tell him that she thinks of him as her second father. He was truly one outstanding generous soul whom everyone loved and always looked forward to seeing. He was gifted in his ability to touch everyone he met in his unforgettable way, and all who knew him were truly blessed and impressed by his presence in their lives.
Killer was predeceased by his father Roger T. Bates in 2010.
He is survived by his mother, Virginia Bates of Warner; his brothers Peter Bates and his wife Ginny of Warner, and Jeff Bates and his wife Darcey of Newbury; two nephews, Jason Bates of Warner and Adam Bates, also of Warner; and a niece Jessica Chandler and her husband Jeff of Newbury; two great nephews, Andrew and Cole; his girlfriend Diane Begin; all his wonderful employees at Weaver Brothers (AKA Weaver Land) and his many cherished friends. Collectively they made his circle of life complete.
Calling hours will be held Thursday, July 21 from 5:30 to 8:30 p.m. at Chadwick's Funeral Home, 235 Main Street, New London.
A graveside service will be held Friday, July 22 at noon in Schoodac Cemetery, followed by a Celebration of Killer's life to be held at 114 Burnthill Road in Warner.
Flowers are welcomed, as are donations to the American Cancer, 360 State Rte. 101, Bedford, NH 03110, and William Weaver Scholarship, c/o NH Good Roads Association, Bayberry Commons, Concord, NH 03301.
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Memories and Condolences
for Mark Bates
gary parsons
July 15, 2023
Think of you every time I get an 8 on a par 4 and it's happening more and more these days. The crushed look on your face, the deep sadness followed up by let's get to the clubhouse for a vodka and lemonade!!!!! Miss those days my friend.
Diane Begin
July 13, 2023
I miss you every day. I imagine that will be the case until I see you again. It might be time, however, that everyone knows that you hated the taste of Jack Daniels!! Lol!! If only they had known, right? So many things......
Donnie Robbins
July 13, 2023
I don't how many times I'm somewhere or doing something and you come to mind! What a great friend! Thanks for always being there. Donnie
Gary Parsons
July 14, 2022
Some great memories of killer and our golf/fraternity friends (and quit sending down those 8s my friend)!!!!!!!
Donnie Robbins
July 13, 2022
Think of you often Killer - and always brings me a smile! Your friendship will never be forgotten. Ole Donnie Boy.
Gary Parsons
July 13, 2021
It's been 10 years my friend. You are missed more than you could have imagined. When we talk of the good times we had, you are mentioned often with smiles and laughs. You will always be with us and the stories will never die. Thanks for not sending too many 8s done on me :)
ROBERT DONOHUE
July 13, 2020
Miss you killer. Loved hanging with you and Dancer. Some great memories.
Wayne Geher
June 8, 2012
Happy Birthday Mark (6/8/12). Having a shot of Jack in your honor.
Ann Walsh Kelley
March 3, 2012
So sad to learn of Mark's passing. I knew him well at Plymouth State where we shared the same group of friends. He was always such a warm, caring, witty, and generous friend. My heart misses him.
Mother Mary Elizabeth
March 3, 2012
We have only just now learned of Mark's death. It was a shock to us, it must have been awful for those of you who were blessed to be his family. Mark has been a long supporter of our Monastery in Massachusetts, St. Scholastica Priory. We will continue to forever hold him in our prayers and all the family that he loved so much.
February 7, 2012
Killer's Memorial video (Tribute to Mark 'Killer' Bates ) can be seen on Youtube.com by using the link below.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WcMvufnF8nU
Stu & Margie Michie
August 16, 2011
Our sincere sympathies to the entire Bates family. Killer was a genuine friend and all around good guy. His laugh will forever ring in our hearts and our memories. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him!!
Jack & Karen Drago
August 11, 2011
We just heard of Mark's passing yesterday and were terribly saddened. I met Mark (along with the rest of the Bates crowd) in the winter of 1970 while snowmobiling. It's been a fun and memorable 41 years in knowing Mark and all the enjoyment he gave us. God Bless!
Joan Drew Smith
August 4, 2011
I only heard of Mark(Killer's) passing today. I was saddened. He was truly a kind, caring, and generous man. I will miss our visits at Weaver Brothers. To All of his family, and loved ones, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I pray that God will comfort you with all of the sweet memories that you have of Mark.
Ken Rimm
August 3, 2011
Killer,
I will never forget the last conversation we had. That drink you mentioned we were going to have is going to have to wait for my trip to heaven. In the mean time, I will, on occasion, have a shot of jack and a Bud Light in your honor. You are dearly missed.
Dar
July 29, 2011
Killer...I regret never having met you. But I heard so much about you from my good friend Diane Begin. And...I can only imagine that you have a beautiful soul because Diane spent her life caring for you. May you rest in peace...thank God there's no more pain. Diane, I pray to God you find peace in knowing how much you gave to Killer in the name of love. You have such a pure soul and I'm so proud to call you my friend. Peace to you.
Lisa Hoey (Doucette)
July 27, 2011
R.I.P Killer, You will be missed dearly,My thoughts and prayers are with family and friends and the weaver bros family. Lisa Hoey (Doucette) laconia nh
Lorena Laprade
July 26, 2011
My deepest sympathy to Mark's family, friends and the Weaver Brothers family. I enjoyed working with Mark as did my employees. May you take comfort in you faith. L&D Safety Marking/Worksafe TCI
Jim Parsons
July 25, 2011
I will miss Killer's laugh and stories about my brother Gary and the rest of his fraternity brothers that he told during our golf outings. Thank you Killer for putting up with my lousy golf game the last 20 something years and making me laugh. You are missed already.
Candice Dussault
July 25, 2011
RIP KILLER, I will miss you deeply You truly are one of a kind !! Thanks for so many happy talks you were always smiling when I came in to clean the office and if i didnt feel like cleaning you always say sit down take a load off your mind have a cold beer with me and things will be better !!!! Thanks for making the world a better place. My deepest condolences to the Bates Family and all of his friends!! Miss you already Candice
Chris Moynihan
July 23, 2011
Killer always seemed to be able to make a good time better. Back in the summer of 1986 I worked as a laborer for Weaver Brothers and through this experience quickly learned the importance of a solid work ethic. I vividly remember Killer as a very good softball player who never seemed to be in a bad mood. I feel very fortunate to have known him.
Slickster
July 22, 2011
Killer-you will be missed by all-you will always be remembered by your caring ways-always making sure everything was all right-you were the life of the party-May God watch over you and protect you up in heaven-you will be looking down at all your friends-we will never forget you-your spirit will live on forever-
Bob Donohue & Michie Corporation
July 22, 2011
Mark was a great man. I enjoyed working with him for over 22 years. He has made such a positive impact in so many lives. It was a honor to know him and work with him. He will never be fogotten. He will be truely missed.
July 22, 2011
My deapest sympathies to the Bates Family. It was a pleasure to have known KILLER.
Carl MIcucci (Lawson Products)
Kim Smalley
July 22, 2011
New Hampshire's construction community mourns the loss of a great man. His presence will be missed but not forgotten. Deepest sympathy to his family and his employees. God bless and comfort you in your loss.
Ira & Barbara Migdal
July 22, 2011
Truly the good die young. Have a safe trip Killer, you have earned a first class seat on the first rocket to Heaven.
And to Jeff, Darcy and the rest of the Bates family; our deepest condolences.
Todd & Claire Drew
July 21, 2011
You left this world for a more peaceful place where you will continue to guide those you have left behind. You have made a difference in many peoples lives. Your life works will never be forgotten. Rest in peace. Our sympathies to you all,
Melissa, Jason & Gabrielle Nimtz
July 21, 2011
Dear Diane, our deepest sympathies to you for your loss of Mark. I know how much he was loved by you. He fought a courageous battle & you were right by his side the whole way. You were both fortunate to have found eachother. In the difficult days that lie ahead, know we will be here for you. Our sympathies to you & the Bates family. With love,
Hoppy Falzone
July 21, 2011
It is hard to believe you are gone and will truly be missed. Always great memories from Tooky softball,D.P. saying it's time to go to Legion, Parking and the Fair booth. Helping us out when I needed an expert to take down my barn after the main beam cracked and saving me thousands of dollars with the help of Scott. Some amazing times and will always keep those memories. So sorry to the family and all who loved Killer. Too young as always..............
Bruce Marshall
July 21, 2011
I knew Mark as being a very honorable and extremely kind man. I have nothing but good memories of him. I feel honored to have had the opportunity to know him. People with the honor, dedication, integrity and genuiness of Mark Bates are rare, he will be sorely missed!
David Long
July 21, 2011
Killer was a one of a kind original and one of the greatest people I'll ever get to know. Generous, genuine, loyal, someone you could always count on when it really mattered and funny. Make that very funny. He made you feel better just being around him and in the end that's the best kind of person to be. Good bye Killer and thanks for being such a great, great friend - I miss you already.
Condolences to Diane and the Bates family.
Kent & Christine Barton
July 21, 2011
The "Governor" of Kearsarge Ave will be missed very much, we can't believe you're gone. Always there with a smile, laugh & a big hug, you've taught us all some valuable lessons Killer. We'll always think fondly of you. Our deepest condolences to the family and all your fellow friends, we loved you Man!
Brian Lombard
July 21, 2011
Thanks Mark for the enjoyable times we worked together. Your work ethic was incredible, something you probably learned from your father who was also incredible. Working with you and Weaver Bros was always something I looked forward to. I always knew I could count on the best job possible, and that's exactly what you always did. You always had a smile and pleasant word, and were confident and assured of what you could do. I only knew you through work, but you added to the fullness of my life and reminded me that there are some truely great people in this world. Sad to hear of your passing... you will be missed.
The Flagg Family
July 21, 2011
Our Deepest Sympathies
Martha Karrick
July 21, 2011
Oh, Killer. It seems impossible you've left us. A wonderful friend of my late husband "Trapper" and me. You were an incredibly generous, giving man and we will miss you fiercely. David and I offer our very deepest sympathy to your family.
Robert Hatch
July 20, 2011
A great guy to be around. He left us way to early. A workaholic too. I have many good memories, mostly playing sports w/ Killer B.
July 20, 2011
"Killer" was such an upbeat, happy, people-loving, life-loving guy. His magnetic personality made people feel special and always welcomed. I enjoyed every conversation and cigar we ever had together!! All my prayers to those who meant the world to him. Sue B.
July 20, 2011
thank you my friend for helping and showing me anytime there was a question, and the road commitee meetings we would have at the local"waterinhole"
Jeff Donohoe
July 20, 2011
Always a smile and a kind word. A great guy! Far too young, you will be missed.
Kelly Smith
July 20, 2011
Such a sad day for everyone who knew Killer. We will all miss him dearly. Our deepest condolences to Jethro, Peter and the rest of the Bates family. Kelly Smith/Don Diachenko
Carol Greenwood
July 20, 2011
I will forever invision you and I along with others, on our make shift "Jamaiican Bobsled Run" on the Island of Antigua some twenty odd years ago. What a blast, so insanely silly but so much fun. I can hear your wonderful "Killer Chuckle" right now.... You maybe gone from this earth, but will never be forgotten. My condolences to your family and to all of the people who's lives you touched!
~ aka Beanie
July 20, 2011
Killer will really be missed at our annual kappa reunions.
Rod MacDonald KDP
July 20, 2011
Killer will really be missed at our annual kappa reunions.
Scott & Heidi Coen
July 20, 2011
Too young, too soon. Our hearts ache for your loss. May memories comfort you and bring you peace during this very difficult time. Killer will be missed. With much love to the Bates family.
Anne Breault
July 20, 2011
Mark "Killer" was my neighbor and friend. He truly was a great person and I will miss him greatly. The neighborhood won't be the same without him. My deepest sympathies to the Bates family and to Weaver Brothers.
July 20, 2011
Our deepest sympathies to Marks family, friends, and co workers. Mark was a wonderful fun loving guy, always willing to help a friend in need. Mark will be sorely missed.
Bill Gay and Family.
Garden City, New York
July 20, 2011
Our sincere condolences to the Bates family on the loss of there dear family member.
Bob Bhutto - Donovan Equipment
Bruce Addison
July 20, 2011
Killer has a unique gift to light up a room and brought happiness to everyone soul. His physical presence will be sorely missed, but his gift will last a lifetime. Especially, when we will try to imitate his laugh!
July 20, 2011
My condolences to your family during this difficult time. I didn't know you well, but you bring back some very fun and entertaining times. You will be greatly missed, Killer.
-Niki Smith-Polish
Wally & Debbie Bowers
July 20, 2011
Killer you will be missed . I have known the Bates family all my life. Killer was always great fun to be around.We loved playing softball with you.I know that he will keep every thing in heaven interesting.Rest in Peace and know you made a difference in this world while you were here.My condolences to the whole family.
Tom Proulx
July 20, 2011
My sympathies go out to all of the Bates family on your loss. I was lucky to know Killer as a pledge brother and friend. Your spirit and sense of humor will remain with all of us until we meet once again and wait for your next "story"! Rest in peace.
Tom Proulx
KDP class of 1973
Matott Family
July 20, 2011
Mark you are a great guy! I often think of your laugh, which made everyone smile! It is sad that you are gone from this world way to soon. We will always have fond memories of you! Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family! Rest in Peace....
July 20, 2011
The heavens just got brighter..it will not be the same here without you. Our hearts go with you to the grave and beyond. Doug Ryan and Charlene
Renee Richardson
July 20, 2011
To the Bates family, our deepest sympothy on the loss of a great man who we were very blessed to know. "Killer" you will be greatly missed.You will always be in our thoughts.
Ed and Renee Richardson, Salisbury, N.H.
July 19, 2011
I will miss seeing Mark on our semi annual concerts. Our years as roomates at PSC and co-workers on the railroad are memories that will never fade. You were a great friend and even more a great person. May we all learn from your leadership and sense of humor. Many will miss you but many will continue to love you. My condolences to Peter, Jeff, Ginny and their families. Dianne, thank you for keeping in contact with me. Mark, many will miss you, but we won't forget you. See you at the ZZ tops concert.
Rick "Greek" Matthews
Kate Hanagan
July 19, 2011
"Killer" was one of the kindest men I have ever met. In the short time I knew him, he will forever be in my memory. I'll never forget his ability to instantly brighten a room with his adorable smile and his silly antics. Only the good die young.
Dick Woodward
July 19, 2011
I never think of Killer, without seeing his smile or hearing his laughter. That I will have with me forever. Thank you my Brother. My thoughts and prayers are with Diane and his family. Buzzard
July 19, 2011
My sincere condolences to the Bates family for the loss of one incredible human being. Mark left a lasting impression on my life. He was a true friend Dick Powers (Hippie) Methuen Ma.
July 19, 2011
"Killer" our foursome at Den Brae will never be the same. But your spirit will always be with us.
RIP
Diana Spring
Jenn M
July 19, 2011
My deepest condolences to the Bates and Weaver Brothers family. Mark was a wonderful man to work with. Always smiling and saying what can I do to correct things. I will miss seeing his smiling face.
Steve Gallagher
July 19, 2011
Mark would always make you smile and I was proud to call him my frat brother... may you rest in peace and Friday I will hoist a brew in his honor!!!!
Dale & Lori Warner
July 19, 2011
A little piece of the neighborhood died with you. We mourn as one ...
Nicky Graham
July 19, 2011
RIP Buddy!..You could always bring a smile to everyones face! I will never forget your laugh and ALL your king gestures!!...Love you my friend!!
Nicky French Graham
July 19, 2011
Batesie, rest in peace..never will forget the great times with you and KDP.
Of the three K,D,P, all were of equal importance to you..Keith "Lefty" Enman Berlin NH
Rachel Allen Parsons
July 19, 2011
On behalf of MainStreet Warner, Inc., and the Jim Mitchell Community Park Project, of which Mark was a tremendous supporter, please accept our deepest sympathy.
Laura Buono
July 19, 2011
My thoughts and sympathy are with Mark's family during this difficult and emotional time.
SND
July 19, 2011
There is and always will be only one 'Killer'... May Your Spirit Never Die
SND
Donnie Robbins
July 19, 2011
From our first days at PSC to the present - Killer was a true friend and every thought of him will continue to bring a smile and laughter to me. He was always there for me in good times and bad. What more can you ask for from a friend? My deepest sympathies to his mom; Peter; Jeff and the rest of the Bates family.
July 19, 2011
Mark "Killer" Bates, was one funny individual. It came natural to him. AS a KDP brother we wall shared Killer's unique sense of humor. A true gentleman, he will be miised.
Harry And Anita Blood
July 19, 2011
There is and always will be only one 'Killer'...May his Spirit Never Die
SND
Nicole Matott
July 19, 2011
To a good man we've all been blessed to know. Though we didn't see eachother often, you were always in our thoughts. I remember the day you had me for a nurse and you couldn't believe I was sticking YOU with a needle. The last day I saw you was when I discharged you from the hospital. It was a good day and I will always remember you in that light. Our prayers are with you and your family forever.
Carol Neville
July 19, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sorrow. A lot of good memories, good times and great stories. Memories are forever. He will be greatly missed. Carol Neville,, Webster, NH
Killer and Dave Long with the winning lobster raffle after a long day at the Country Club of NH (I can'y believe they ate the whole thing)!!!!!
gary parsons
July 19, 2011
As a KDP brother, Goodwin Railroad Crew member and golf foursome guy for 35+years, I have lost a very dear and wonderful friend. The vodka lemonades will never taste the same. Gary Parsons,Auburn Hills, MI
July 19, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.We are sorry for your loss
Randy Packard and the staff at Superior Interiors Hooksett,NH
Deb Young
July 19, 2011
Our family's thoughts and prayers to Killer's relatives and friends. So many years of knowing him and so many laughs. A truly memorable friend who was loved by far more people than he could ever have imagined. He'll truly be missed.
Noelle Pelillo
July 19, 2011
?"If you should die before me, ask if you can bring a friend." Rest in peace, Killer. You are one of the most exceptional people I've ever met. You gave me lots of smiles, tons of laughter and great "smooches" and you gave my son self-esteem when he needed it. I feel like I will never smile or laugh like that again but I know I will. Every time I think of you. Rest easy my friend. All my sympathies to his family. He was well loved.
Spunk/Linda Ford
July 19, 2011
We never met Killer but we knew his family. We can only imagine what he went through in the past months. The Bates family are in our prayers. May he fly with the angels.
Bob Hill
July 19, 2011
Killer,
You lit up so many lives and always made the best of even a bad situation. I just smile when I think of the goods times we shared. May you rest in Peace my friend!
Mark Moran
July 19, 2011
Mark was a man among men in every sense of the term. His memory is a tribute and a testament to a very great family. He will be sorely missed by all. You were taken too early my friend. Every time I light up a Macanudo cigar - I will think of you.
July 18, 2011
What a beautiful obituary. My deepest sympathy to the Bates Family and to Diane who took such good care of our friend Killer in what was to be his final days. I love you Killer and will miss you. But thankful for all the memories. Judy George
July 18, 2011
Although we never met,we have heard many fine reports of your generosity from my soninlaw Joey Torrisi.
Our condolances go out to the family
Don Boyer
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