HOPKINTON – Philip John Callanan, 52, of Hopkinton, died suddenly May 30, 2018.

Born in Methuen, Mass., on March 7, 1966, he was the son of Joseph A. and Margaret (Morris) Callanan and he was married to his very own Pam Beasley, Kelly Callanan. He had earned his bachelor's degree from the former Notre Dame College in Manchester and received his master's degree from Antioch College.

Phil spent over two decades in the education profession. His compassion for all students was evident every day in the halls and classrooms of Mill Brook, Parker-Varney, Towle School, Richards Elementary, Webster School and McLaughlin Middle School. His leadership skills and ability to make sure everyone felt heard, respected and valued was superior.

He will be remembered as an avid sports fan who enjoyed watching all New England sports teams, NASCAR racing and especially watching a family favorite, The Office. He loved the beach and going surfing with his boys. His love for fixing things up around the house with his father-in-law was something he enjoyed very much. Above all else, he will be remembered as a loving husband, father, son, brother and uncle who cherished spending time with his children and watching his girl Lucy shine on stage. Lucy says she, "loves him to the moon and back and he is the greatest member of our family!" Paisley wants everyone to know, "I love you very much, Daddy!"

The last few years have been a struggle for Phil and this took its toll on him. Mental illness is not something to hide. It's something that needs to be out there where we can all be open to helping the people who need us most. As a family, we want nothing more than people to realize that Phil was an incredible man who was also haunted by this battle with depression. Please know that it's okay to talk to someone if you feel alone. Reach out if you notice someone who is crying for help. Don't let this disease take someone else's loved one away. We all have power to make a change, so let's do this in his memory.

Family members include his wife, Kelly (Rogers) Callanan of Hopkinton; his children, Nathan and Ethan Callanan of Bedford, Lucy and Paisley Callanan of Hopkinton; his mother, Margaret Callanan of Concord; his siblings, Joseph A. Callanan and wife Meredith of Arnold, Md., Robert M. Callanan and wife Cara of Marblehead, Mass., Ruth M. McKee and husband John of Massapequa, N.Y., James Callanan and wife Sarah of St. Johnsbury, Vt.; In laws William and Karen Rogers of Manchester; many nephews, nieces and cousins.

There are no calling hours. A private Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated at a time convenient for the family.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his memory to "The Lucy and Paisley Scholarship Fund," 373 South Willow St., PMB 182, Manchester, NH 03103.

Lambert Funeral Home & Crematory in Manchester is assisting the family with arrangements. To leave a message of condolence, visit www.lambertfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Concord Monitor on Jun. 3, 2018.

Memories and Condolences
for Philip Callanan

60 Entries

Pat Snow

July 6, 2018

There are no words to describe your loss. I will always remember Phil's smile and love for his beautiful wife, Kelly,and family. My deepest condolences.

Carolyn Rayno

June 19, 2018

Kelly and Family, I am so sorry about your loss of Phil. I worked with Phil at the Richards School. You all meant so much to him. He had photos throughout his office and he beamed whenever he spoke of his children, which was frequently since he could not contain his pride! I had no idea about the emotional burden he was carrying. I am so sorry.

Elizabeth Halford

June 11, 2018

With tears in my eyes and a huge amount of sadness weighing down my heart, I am in shock at seeing Phil's name in the obituaries. He was a one-off, an incredible soul.

One of the nicest guys I have ever known. A rare breed comprised of character, personality, compassion, intelligence. A true gentleman with a heart of gold, someone who became a fast close friend when we worked together at the local Y. I can see now, reading some of the other entries in his guest book, that his ease at working with children then started to forge his future in education.

Being the rare breed he was, he stood by my side as, 31 years ago today on June 11, 1987, he was my man of honor' at my wedding and carried my flowers, helped me with my awkward crutches I was on at the time. He was always there. I have so many memories flooding to the surface, how he was as a friend and the friendship we shared; his character in who he was and how much he loved his parents and his brothers. And although he and I lost touch, it pleases me that he found a wonderful woman, got married, had a family of his own and became the man he did, touching so many lives in the process. I don't doubt for a second that he was an amazing husband and father. I pray that he has found peace in death and that his soul will find solace at last. And I pray that his wife and family can find their footing to carry on his legacy and their lives. No words can replace his void. I hope in due time that from tears come laughter and small memories will eventually bring a smile rather than a frown. I had no idea that he had depression that would in the end contribute to his death. I wish years ago when I was back in Hopkinton that I had looked him up just to say hi and to thank him for being the kind of friend every girl should have. He had no idea how much I appreciated him for him. I will never forget his laughter, his smile. To look at his picture in the guest book, he hadn't changed at all. Still that smile. God bless his family. My condolences to them all. And I thank them for such a beautiful obituary and bringing the topic of depression to the surface and sharing his story.

Allison Dorsi

June 9, 2018

My sincere condolences to Phil's family and friends. I worked with Phil at Midway Shelter in Manchester several years ago and remember him as such a great guy. My heart aches for his wife and children.

Jane Plamondon

June 6, 2018

I am so dreadfully sorry to hear about Phil's passing and his pain. He was one of the most sincere and compassionate administrators that I'd had the pleasure to work with.

Colleague of Philip's brother James

June 5, 2018

To Philip's Family,
I am so sorry that you are suffering this tremendous loss. I regret not having known Philip personally. Having read his obituary, it is so clear how many people he touched with his goodness. Thank you for being so open about depression and urging those who suffer from it to seek help. The tragedy of losing loved ones this way is too terrible. Thank you for your courage. Sending you sympathy and wishing that you find a way to reach peace as you journey through grief.

Rita Laflamme

June 5, 2018

I am sorry for your loss. Phil was a good man, in the 90' I found myself a single mother and my 2 boys were in the after school program Latchkey and Phil was there counselor. He was wonderful with them. He was there in the time of need for the leadership that he gave to them. He played sports, taught them so much. I am sure he has left an impact on many children. May he Rest in Peace.

Fred Matuszewski, Architect

June 5, 2018

To Phil's family...I had the pleasure of working with Phil when Parker Varney was renovated, converting the original open-concept plan into separate classrooms. Phil was so easy to work with, always accommodating. For some time after the project was completed, I would run into him. He would invariably be with his daughters, with smiles on all the faces. I am so sorry to hear of his suffering. Peace to you as you go through this time and move on to your next chapter.

Kathie Sylvain

June 4, 2018

To Phil Callanan's family and everyone who loved him,
I am so sorry for your loss.
I only know Phil because he is the principal of Mill Brook School. I met him one day while visiting my son and daughter in law who are teachers there. He offered to walk me to their classrooms and was so kind and gentle a man-I always remembered him.
Depression is something we all need to notice and pay more attention to. It is nothing to ever be ashamed about-speak up to your Dr.'s-your ministers- your families or friends if you are feeling like you are depressed. There is help for you. You are not alone.
Phil is in Good Hands now. Keep your memories close to your heart.
Blessings,
Kathie Sylvain

Concord Lion's

June 4, 2018

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Heather Worthen

June 4, 2018

Phil was the one of the best administrators that I have had the pleasure to work with. I worked with Phil in Newport,always knowing that he was caring and dedicated. Phil was very student centered, and always engaged with kids and families. He will be missed. Rest in peace Phil.

Karen Johnson

June 4, 2018

Thank you for your courage and bravery during this painful time to bring a light to the disease of Mental Illness. It is a very touching obituary and one that will reach out and help others. How thoughtful and you in your husband's name and memory. May he rest comfortably now and may your memories help you and the children through.....

Richard Gilman

June 4, 2018

I taught the Dare Program in Mr. Callahan's class while he was at McLaughlin School in Manchester. Mr. Callahan and I spoke everyday and I enjoyed our talks about the Boston sports teams. We both loved our sports. The children who were taught by him absolutely loved him and I witnessed this first hand. You will be missed by all. Rest in Peace my dear friend Phil. The children of Manchester were very lucky to be taught by a GREAT TEACHER that you are. Amazing Grace to you Phil. My deepest condolences to the Callahan family, you are in my prayers.

Officer Gilman (Retired)

Steven and Karen Kimel

June 4, 2018

This was our daughter's first school year and Phil was my daughter's first principal. He set a high bar. We thank him for his dedication and kindness. We thank you for your courage to share his personal battle and we wish your family peace.

June 3, 2018

Rest In Peace Mr Callahan

Elizabeth

June 3, 2018

You do not know me, but I am sitting here in tears to hear of another person who suffered with depression, is now gone. I am originally from Manchester, and my children had gone to Parker-Varney years ago, before Mr. Callahan had even been there, but anyone who has devoted their lives to uplifting children and adults, has to have been a very wonderful person. I have been there and back, having lost my 29 yr old son eight years ago, and it is a tricky road to travel. My sincerest condolences to you and yours.

E. George

June 3, 2018

Phil was amazing to his students. my daughter still speaks of how wonderful he is years later. He made a huge impact on many lives. I'm so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to his family.

Earl Sussman

June 3, 2018

Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers to the entire family. Phil will be forever a special friend and colleague who made all those around him feel special. He was passionate about his family and cherished each moment with them. A humanistic Principal, he was dedicated to every student and staff member.

Sherry

June 3, 2018

You are in my thoughts and prayers, my sincerest and deepest sympathy and condolences to all of you during this very difficult time. I have to fight depression every day too and try my hardest to beat it down.

Mickey Russo

June 3, 2018

I Didn't know you but your mom talked about you and Lucy and Paisley often. So through her I felt like I knew you.

Sue Lamb

June 2, 2018

Phil had a lot to do with my growth as an individual. He saw talent and individual skills among his staff members, and challenged them to stretch beyond their comfort zones to take on leadership roles. He encouraged both personal and professional investment in our school community, and led us toward the kind of educational improvement our students deserve. But the thing about Phil that was of greatest service to me was his willingness to struggle along with, or against me as necessary. We had our rough moments, but my hug at the last end-of-year dinner he shared with us was one of gratitude and genuine affection. Thank-you to his family and friends who supported him while he did his best to make a difference for others. By sharing your pain and his struggle so honestly, you are still helping him make a difference, and letting a little more light into the shadowed corners where others suffer alone.

Nyah Sheppard

June 2, 2018

Phil was one of my professors at New England College and quickly became one that I confided in. My junior year he oversaw my placement at Beech Street Elementary and was always sure to tell me I was doing a great job. You could tell that he loved teaching, but spoke fondly on his family too. He always had a smile on his face. My thoughts are with you Mrs. Callanan and your family. Phil will be missed.

Marc Miller

June 2, 2018

He was a good friend he was the principal Of my children at Parker Varney

JJ Luche

June 2, 2018

I'm sorry. I love you, Phil.

Paul Quitadamo

June 2, 2018

Phil was so helpful dealing with an issue my grandson was having with another child. When I met him I instantly felt a kinship but figured it was a sports thing. I had no clue he was fighting the same monsters I also battle. There but for the Grace of God go I. God bless you for hanging the courage to share your pain with the hopes others won't have to. My heart breaks for you but if it's any comfort please know that Phil no longer has to face those demons. He is now out of the darkness and can see the warm glow of love everyone felt for him.

Amy Beckman

June 2, 2018

Kelly,
There are no words to express how sorry and shocked I am to hear of Phil's passing. I saw him pretty much every three weeks for 25 years to cut his hair. His love for you and his girls was evident every time he came in, telling me about ugly Christmas sweater parties you had, and showing me videos on his phone of Lucy dancing. I saw his boys grow into fine young men, and remember running into Phil at the Rover "back in the day" when we were both kids ourselves. I will mourn the loss of a friend. You and your girls will be in my thoughts for a long time to come. I hope you can somehow find strength and eventually peace.

Deb Beaupre

June 1, 2018

I worked with Phil in Newport. He was a great principal; he knew people and how they behaved. He became my mentor and I argued with him all the time, but later, discovered that he was right after all. I would send him texts to tell him so and those were the ones he would respond to! LOL!
I held that man in high regard; I will miss him.
May God Bless All who Mourn

Rich Hebert Hebert

June 1, 2018

Sorry for your loss Kelly

Kaitlin Filardo

June 1, 2018

To Mrs. Callanan ,

You probably don't remember me but I was a student student at Parker-Varney when Mr. Callanan was there. He would always be so kind to me when I would get picked on and he would always make sure I had a smile on my face on my bad days. You two were one of the best influences I had growing up about how I should go on with education. My best wishes go out to you and your daughters and family.

Melanie and Ed

June 1, 2018

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. The entire family offers their deepest sympathy.

Donna Forseze

June 1, 2018

Kelly and Family,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I know this is a very difficult time for you. A life cut short. As you begin processing and coming to terms with it all, know that the Lord Jesus loves you and knows your pain. He will provide the comfort, just let Him and He will see you through this process. He has provided you with a loving
family that will be there for you unconditionally, rely on them. With My Deepest Sympathy, and God's Comfort.

Cristina Torres

June 1, 2018

To Mrs. Callanan, children and the Callanan Family, We send our deepest condolences to you. My daughter Angelina F. was a student of yours Mrs. Callanan, what a positive role model you were to her. May the lovely memories of your husband shine a light on your heart and your home always.

Kyra Butts

June 1, 2018

Dear Kelly,
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. I have one daughter who attends Mill Brook and another who attends East Side. Both of them want your girls to know that they are thinking of them and sad that their Dad has passed. Thank you so much for your openness in sharing the struggles that took place and for sharing your family with ours.

Gail Emerson

June 1, 2018

Remembering Phil when he worked with me at Jewett St School here in Manchester as a 6th grade teacher! He was young and full of energy engaging his students easily! Fond memories of a wonderful man! God speed Phil! Prayers to the Callahan family!

Debra K

June 1, 2018

My daughter was a student of Mill Brook School, and even though she is no longer there, she cried many times since after hearing of the passing of Mr. Callanan. She paused from crying yesterday and informed and then asked me: "Mommy, you do know that he had children, I know he had a daughter, she is 3 or maybe 4...?" It brought tears to my eyes. Children sure have a way in this life of helping us in so so many ways to understanding certain things and they even help in healing in many ways...it will be easier some days. We never do know what someone is thinking, how they may be thinking...hold no regrets, hold no hate or anger, hold no resentment....but for healing and for sanity...hold fast to hope, hold on to wonderful memories of your loved one...and know that you are surrounded by so many others that are dealing with this type of hurt, and so..my prayer to you and your family and all that need it, is to be surrounded by positivity and warmth so healing may begin, that any hurts may gradually cease to exist and joy may continue in your lives.

kevin johnson

June 1, 2018

I always looked forward to seeing Phil. He was a bright light every day for many children and staff. I am so glad to have worked with him.

Jim Pottle

June 1, 2018

May all your happy memories give you strength and support now and the days to come. I will always remember his smile and warmth. Phil was a gift to all who were touched by his presence.

Janice Karlsen

June 1, 2018

Dear Ms Callanan and family,

I'm so sorry for your lose. My kids go to Mill Brook School and everytime I see Mr. Callanan, he was always smiling and talking to everybody (e.g. students, staffs, parents/guardians). One heartwarming memory was when the students had their hike on the trail just outside their buildings last Fall. He was planting and had students line up to take turns to plant tulip bulbs. I was there and thought that was very wonderful of him to give the kids the experience of planting - I saw the kids' excitement. That was awesome. He had a very compassionate and generous heart which was clear to how he was with the students, staff and the parents/guardians. His concern for the welfare of the students was genuine. His dedication to the school was inspiring. He will be missed. I pray that you and your family find strength in the wonderful memories you have of him.

Mike, Sue & Noah Orr

June 1, 2018

Kelly (and family), we are so heartbroken to hear of Mr. Callanan's passing. You were Noah's favorite teacher and Mr. Callanan was a principal that truly made a difference at Parker Varney School. We remember he always had a smile on his face! We hope you find strength through this very difficult time. -

Linda, Mariah Carmody, Jackie Bogan and Tai Bogan Shaw

June 1, 2018

Mr. Callanan was one of the finest principals our family has encountered. His concern for his students was remarkable, he helped my great grandchildren so often. My deepest sympathy to his wife and children.

Paula Perreault

June 1, 2018

Kelly and Family,

My thoughts and prayers go out to your family. Death of a loved one is never easy. You have support of family and friends, remember to lean on them! My heart is with you Kelly.

Paula Perreault, Manchester NH

Keith Hudson

June 1, 2018

Thoughts and Prayers to the Callahan family. You really gave me that last push to get into my career in Schools. Thank you very much for who you were man, Your football lunch break PV buddy, Keith

Shannon Howe

June 1, 2018

Thoughts and prayers to the family. Phil was a great principal who always had a smile on his face, a love for our students, staff and community. He touched a lot of lives and will be dearly missed.

Donna, Blaine and Veronica at H R Clough, Inc. Contoocook

June 1, 2018

We hope that fond memories of joyful times helps to ease your aching hearts. Our sympathies to you, Kelly and your family at this most difficult time

Kathryn Frost

June 1, 2018

So incredibly sorry for the loss of Mr. Callanan. He will be greatly missed by everyone in the Parker Varney community.

Frances Giroux

June 1, 2018

Condolence to the family

Jacqueline Lord

June 1, 2018

Sorry for the families loss. Phil was a great guy. Depression stinks and wish the best

Beth Key

June 1, 2018

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and the girls Kelly , as well as your entire family . Thinking of you and sending you much love . Beth , Scott , Chloe , Sophie and Molly Key

Avery Portinari

June 1, 2018

My condolences to the family and friends of Mr Callanan. I grew up going to Parker varney , we had a different principle at the time but when he arrived he changed the whole school , made things more fun for all of us kids at the time, he was very involved and was very big hearted. Good memory of our school taking a field trip to legends golf ! Phil showed up with his driver and his golf gloves and bang hit a ball so far and all of us were amazed, after the ball had landed everyone asked how he did that! Well he turned to all of us and said well when you hit a ball with the force and determination it will go far , he told us it related to life. The harder you try and the more you practice something you get better! Thank you for all of the memories and all of the things you did to better my schooling as a child and most importantly thank you for being a great person. Rest In Peace Mr callanan -Avery Portinari

Nicole Aubin

June 1, 2018

I am in such shock. I worked the past few years at the salon Phil frequented with his girls for hair cuts. I always admired his obvious love and pride in his beautiful little girls. It showed so much what a great dad he was. I wish I would have know his inner struggles so I could have shared my experiences with him and lend a positive word or hug. Thank you for being so honest and open about his struggles in his obituary. You have along with Phil opened up a conversation that should never be hidden but encouraged. He will be remembered with great fondness.

Shelia Cardamone

June 1, 2018

Dear Kelly and family,
My sincerest thoughts are with you at this difficult time. The grieving is painful- may you find comfort in happy memories and in knowing that Phil was loved by many and he made a difference while with us.
shelia cardamone, PT
SAU#43

Douglas Nye

June 1, 2018

Nathan and Ethan,
So sorry to hear of your Dads passing. Both Cindy and I will pray for him and his family, and for the both of you! Be Strong.Douglas Nye.

Niki Neal

June 1, 2018

Thinking of you with sympathy and love.

Nick and Lisa Therrien

June 1, 2018

Our sincere condolences. May he RIP and bless his family from above.

Deena Cota

June 1, 2018

Such a loving tribute to an incredible man. Thank you for sharing his - and your - story. May he find the peace he seeked and may you all know that you are not alone. Love and prayers to you.

Barbara Kvetcovsky

June 1, 2018

I will always remember Phil as being an incredible individual with his love and concern for our students here at Newport. He always had a smile and a joke and could always make me laugh when we met. He touched so many lives and made a difference to so many. Deepest sympathy to all of you.

Hannah Boulanger

June 1, 2018

Kelly, Lucy, Paisley, Karen, Billy and Matt,
I am so sorry that you are grieving Phil. I will continue to think of you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Jen Lavigne

May 31, 2018

Kelly,
Im so incredibly for you and the girls' loss. Thinking of you all and sendinlove and strengthen during this difficult time. God bless you all,
Jen Petrin Lavigne

C Dorsey

May 31, 2018

To Family and Friends of Phillip....
Very sad to hear of the loss of your love one. Please accept our heartfelt sympathy.
May the prayers of family and friends be of encouragement to strengthen each one personally during this difficult time.
Also may knowing that our Heavenly Father can give you the peace that surpasses all understanding to guard your hearts and mental powers by means of Jesus Christ.

Warmly
Dorsey Family

Mary Luckers

May 31, 2018

We never know how long or short our lives will be, that is why we should value and appreciate the people that the Lord sends to us!!! Rest in peace!!! The students appreciated you so very much!!!

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