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Scott McGilvray Obituary
Born in Concord on January 20, 1966, he was the son of John "Bud" and Mary (Duprey) McGilvray. He attended Concord High School, Fitchburg State College and Franklin Pierce College.
Scott was a dedicated husband, father, son, brother and friend. He was a NH State Senator for District 16, NEA-NH President, and former MEA President. He had taught social studies at Manchester Memorial High School for over twenty years where he was also the head football coach, bringing the Crusaders to their first playoff berth in over three decades under his leadership. He loved his family and friends more than words can say and helped countless others throughout his life.
Scott is survived by his wife of 23 years, Patti (Downton) McGilvray; two daughters, Meaghan and Molly McGilvray; his mother of Concord; a brother Keith McGilvray and his wife Ami; in-laws, uncles, aunts, nieces and nephews and cousins.
A memorial gathering will take place at Phaneuf Funeral Homes and Crematorium, 243 Hanover St, Manchester on Sunday, March 26, 2017 from 2 to 5 pm. In lieu of flowers, please send donations to The New Hampshire Foundation for Teaching and Learning Children's Fund, 9 South Spring Street, Concord, NH 03301. To view Scott's Online Tribute, send condolences to the family, or for more information, visitwww.phaneuf.net
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Memories and Condolences
for Scott McGilvray
JoAnn Robinson
April 14, 2017
We just could not believe that Scott had passed away. He always treated me with respect in high school and at St. Paul's Church we had so much fun. My family thought the world of Scott. So, sorry of your loss he was a good kid. JoAnn Sweeney Robinson and the Sweeney Family
Lynn Pierson
April 5, 2017
Patti, I just heard the sad news of Scotts passing, my sincerest condolences to you and the girls.
Peggie Tom Perrottp
March 31, 2017
Dear Patty and Girls,
We just heard of your terrible loss. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. Scott will truly be remembered for his smile, his kind heart, and his willingness to always help others ! Bless you all!
Love and peace,
Tom and Peggie Perrotto
Bristol, RI
Bow Board of Selectmen & Town Manager, David Stack
March 30, 2017
We are sorry for your loss. We were looking forward to working with Scott. Our deepest sympathy to the family.
Doug Marton
March 29, 2017
I didn't know Scott well. We did some business together. My heart goes out to his family. God has another angel in heaven. God bless.
Erin Chubb
March 28, 2017
To Scott's Family:
I am so sorry for your loss. Scott was an incredible person and I am so grateful for his leadership of the MEA. He personally helped me on a couple of different occasions. Despite being a very busy person with all of the roles he balanced in his life, he was never too busy to help someone out. Your family is in my thoughts.
Deirdre Conway
March 27, 2017
My thoughts, prayers and sympathy are with the entire McGilvray family.
Susan Lanteigne
March 27, 2017
Our thoughts and prayers are with Scott's family.
Penny Wernig Love
March 26, 2017
Patti and family,
Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss. Scott was He was devoted to you and family and was a wonderful role model for the children and teachers of the city. My thoughts are with you at this time.
Dave & Betty Aylward
March 26, 2017
Our deepest sympathy to all of Scotts family.
Calista Hooper. Mooney
March 26, 2017
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I first knew Scott when he was a kid who offered to mow my mothers yard. She was delighted to give him the job. He was kind,thoughtful and grew into a dynamic man. He will be remembered as one who left us way too soon. With sympathy.
Deborah Major
March 26, 2017
With thoughts of support and sympathy to your family.. Scott made the world better by being here.
Donna & Tom Quail
March 26, 2017
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Lisa Dillingham
March 26, 2017
Sending my thoughts and prayers to all whose lives were touched by Scott. I may have only been able to see him a few times a year at NEA-NH events, but he was always so kind, thoughtful, and giving. He was an amazing leader and education advocate, and he will be greatly missed. Much love!
Alan Reische
March 26, 2017
We'll all feel the loss of a leader in public education and a good and caring man.
David Malay
March 26, 2017
My thoughts and prayers are with Scott's family. May peace be with you now and always.
Sujeita Goel [email protected]
March 26, 2017
Dear Patti, I am very sorry for your loss. Scott was an amazing US History teacher. I graduated from Memorial High School in 1996. He always smiled and was very positive. He taught me my love for US History. My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your daughters. Sujeita Goel (Sujeita Sharma)
Linda Royer
March 26, 2017
"For some moments in life there are no words." Scott's untimely passing is one of those moments. My deepest sympathies are with the McGilvary family, NEA family, and State of New Hampshire. Scott has taken a little piece of all of our hearts. Linda Royer, NEA-NH Eastern Region Executive Board Member, Northwood, NH
Anna Vlacich
March 26, 2017
Our prayers and love are with you. God bless you. The Vlacich family.
Kim Shonbeck
March 25, 2017
On behalf of the Chesterfield Support Staff Association, our deepest condolences to the McGilvray family. I did not know Scott personally, but had the chance to meet him when he attended Monadnock Regional Council meetings for NEA-NH. He always impressed me with his "can do" attitude, and his tireless advocacy for the students and educators in our state and beyond. He was such a kind and caring man. How fortunate we were to have had him as president of NEA-NH. May he rest in peace, and his legacy of caring live on in all of our lives. May God bless you all.
Tony Trisciani
March 25, 2017
Patti, it just doesn't seem fair, but God has a plan. We lost Coach McGilvray too soon. He was such an amazing person. A great role model and mentor for so many young men. He literally changed lives and saved many of us from our own self destructive behavior. He really knew how to treat people and motivate young men like myself. Re-directing and changing the path of our life. Coach McGilvray and Coach Psaledas took a group of immature kids and made us winners back in 1991/92 and he did it again as the Head Coach. Thank you for teaching us how to be winners on the field and in life.
Sen Sylvia Larsen
March 25, 2017
Dear Patti and family,
Scott's untimely passing was a sad and shocking loss for us all. His energy, dedication and kindness live on in all of us who knew and respected him. His contribution to quality education , our students and teachers will be remembered. My heartfelt condolences to you and your girls. Sincerely, former Sen. Sylvia Larsen
Jon Dugan-Henriksen
March 25, 2017
Dear Patti, Meaghan, and Molly,
I served on the NEA-NH Executive Board, coming on as Scott began his first term as our president. Though he clearly liked short meetings, he was always patient with questions, correct with procedure, and supportive of everyone's efforts to serve educators and children. Scott inspired me with his "put others first - but never ahead of family" example. I shall miss his smile, his laugh, his wisdom, and his kindness. A gentle-man and a first rate-leader. Heaven is richer today. God Bless you all.
Jackie Ruggles
March 25, 2017
Dear Mary, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time. I didn't know Scott but the connection is Chris playing hockey with Keith and my Daughter ( Toni) being a classmate of Scott's and of course knowing you is to love you. Sending you love and comforting thoughts. My heart aches for you as a Mother, Keith as a Brother and Patti as a loving wife along with the precious Daughters. "PEACE" to you. With love and friendship, Jackie & Jon Ruggles
March 25, 2017
To the loving family of Scott, please know Scott will always be with you watching over each of you. Feel his warm embrace for love has no boundaries. Scott played a significant role in my daughters Chrissy's life as well as her friends who were football players, she a cheerleader in 1992. They preparing to move.on to their perspective colleges of choice. He was their mentor in every aspect of their lives. He gave each of them continued support as they prepared for their future. He made a difference for each of them. Thank you Scott, may you Rest In Peace.
Linda G
Elaine Robidas
March 25, 2017
Dear Patti, Red and I are saddened to hear of Scott's passing. You and your daughters are in our thoughts and prayers.
Kim O'Neil
March 25, 2017
My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. You were lucky to have such a wonderful man in your lives. Scott was an amazing leader at NEA-NH and we will miss him greatly. His honesty, integrity, passion and dedication were qualities of a great man and public educator. He will remain in the hearts of all those who knew him. Peace be with you!
Eva Schleigh
March 25, 2017
Dear McGilvray family. I am so saddened to hear about the passing of Scott. I enjoyed working with him on the Conference and Awards committee. I loved hearing him talk about Patti and the girls during our work together. He was such a caring and gentle person. He played a very important part in the education of children in NH as a teacher, coach, president of the MEA and president of the NEA-NH. He will be missed greatly. He was taken from this earth much too soon. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God Bless
March 25, 2017
Dear Mary, Patti, Keith and all the family. I am so sorry for your lost. I will hold you all in my prayers. God love you all. As a neighbor of East Concord. Marie Nowell
Chris Herbert
March 25, 2017
My condolences to Scott's family. I was so happy when he became a State Senator. Now he is gone, too soon. A loss for everyone.
Wendy MacArthur-Keith
March 24, 2017
Dear Patti and family, I was shocked to hear of the passing of Scott. He was a wonderful man who helped many people. I knew him and worked with him on the state level for teacher of the Coop School in Exeter.
He also worked very hard with me to keep Family & Consumer Science for students in N.H. Thank you for sharing him with us so he could help so many students and teachers. He did so much but had so much more to do. May God Bless You ! May you be given the support to get you through this sad time.
joan flurey
March 24, 2017
Dear Patti and family,
Please accept our condolences for your loss. Scott was such a vibrant person that the many loves he touched is a true legacy of his kindness and compassion. May your happy memories help you through this extremely difficult time.
With sympathy, Rene and Joanie (Sullivan) Flurey
Joe & Priscilla Dutile
March 24, 2017
Dear Patti,
We were shocked to hear this sad news. Our thought and prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time.
Thomas Gaumont
March 24, 2017
My deep and sincere condolences to Scott's family and friends. I knew Scott when he was coaching at Memorial, while I student taught there when he was one of my supervising teachers. We lost touch when I moved out to Montana. We ran into each other at the store but never got together for lunch as we had planned. At this time, I regret this very much. Scott was a strong yet gentle man. His passion for people, especially for his students and players showed in his actions; especially his generosity. Anyone who knew him was fortunate. I will hold on to his memory fondly. Blessings to Patti, Molly and Meaghan.
jim dussault
March 24, 2017
on behalf of the concord high school class of 1984, we wish your family our deepest condolences. you have done so much for others in your lifetime, and will be remembered as a friend and classmate forever. peace.
Debbie Bernier
March 24, 2017
Dear patti,
So very sorry for your loss . I hope you and your girls find comfort
In each other .
Debbie Bernier
John & Aimee Kolb
March 24, 2017
Patti,
We are so sorry to hear of Scott's passing. He was a great friend, colleague and always was there if you needed help with anything. One of our dearest videos features Scott as Santa Clause coming to my 4 year old granddaughter's home just before Christmas.. She was over joyed to see Santa paying her a special visit. We loved that man for who he was, our friend.
We know with all our hearts that the Lord has a special place for Santa Scott.
John and Aimee Kolb,
Summerfield, FL
Paul Houle
March 24, 2017
Patti, I'm sorry to hear of the passing of your husband. I shall keep him in my prayers, along with Molly, Meaghan and you. May he rest in peace! And may the Lord console you during this great loss in your life.
Jessica Cote (lore)
March 24, 2017
What an amazing teacher. He had such a beautiful soul. My favorite. I graduated 16 years ago and never forgot him. R.i.p Mr. Mcgilvray. So saddenrd to hear this.
Prayers to ur family
Jim and Lynn Normand
March 24, 2017
So sorry to lose our State Senator so soon. Scott's family should take heart in the fact that Scott put himself forward for public service to do good things for NH despite the unpleasant aspects of politics. Thank you Scott.
Louis & Doris Lavigne
March 24, 2017
Patti, So sorry to hear such sad news. Our condolences to you and your daughters. Will not be able to attend services as we are still I Florida but we will be thinking and praying for you.
Love, Mr & Mrs Lavigne
John Reed
March 24, 2017
You're literally my first childhood friend, I believe at the age of 3 or 4. From White St in Concord to playing around the water tower in E. Concord. So many memories my friend. We lost touch over the years but don't think for a minute I have not been watching your greatness from afar. For a long time I've been saying to myself, need to make a call & catch up..... Hard lesson for me, never procrastinate. You were taken from us way too soon, but the impact you have made on the community & the state of NH will carry on forever. Love you like a Brother........
March 24, 2017
Patti and girls and Mary too. we are so sorry for your loss. He was the best and our thoughts and prayers are with you
Love Joyce and Bill Courser
Shannon Beaulac
March 24, 2017
You will always be missed! And we know you will always coach from above! Thank you for all you have done as all the kids you have impacted in such a beautiful way. Rest in peace Coach!
Linda Kleinschmidt
March 24, 2017
Patti, Meaghan and Molly, words cannot express my sadness and shock from this news. I was thrilled to place a McGilvary campaign sign on my lawn last October. I pray you find comfort in your memories and in all the good that Scott accomplished and all the lives he touched and inspired during his all too short time with us. It was an honor to know him.
Diana Griffin
March 24, 2017
Patti, Molly and Meaghan: I am devastated for your loss. Scott was truly one of the most wonderful people I had the privilege to have known in my life. I feel so blessed to be able to call an individual of his caliber - friend. My heart breaks for you all, and I pray that with time the pain and grief you now feel will gradually diminish. What a great man, and what tragic loss for us all. May he rest in peace.
Dave Fisher
March 24, 2017
"My condolences to Scott's family, their will be an empty spot at Saratoga "
Rhea Boisvert
March 24, 2017
Dear Patti and girls,
I am so sorry to hear of Scott's passing. May memories be comforting at this very sad time. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Know the love of family and friends is there to support you.
Rhea Boisvert, Manchester, NH, Mar 24, 2017
Terry and Ron Coll
March 24, 2017
Scott, Friend, colleague and long, long time ski buddy. We will miss seeing you and Patti at Loon.
Brittany Saucier
March 24, 2017
I am so sorry for the loss of this wonderful man. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends ❤
March 24, 2017
Patti and family, Scott was one of the nicest, caring persons that I have had the pleasure of meeting. He always met everyone with a smile. Very genuine and always looking out for the little guy. He touched so many lives and made each and everyone of them a better person. He will be sorely missed. Thoughts and Prayers to the McGilvray family. Rest in peace Senator McGilvray. (We will have a special toast in your honor at Saratoga.)
Marcia Barrett
March 24, 2017
Deepest sympaties to your family. Scott was such a dedicated leader and public servant whose loss will be felt for many years to come. - Marcia Barrett, President, Keene State College Administrative Staff Association
Leslie Derbyshire
March 24, 2017
I did not know Scott. Was a member of NEA. Retired now! I have many great friends because of NEA (young,old & passed away)
My heart & prayers go out to family, friends,MSD and our governor and representatives of our state.Peace and prayers to ALL !
Shelby Goupil Glander
March 24, 2017
Patti, Meaghan, Molly, my heart hurts for all of you as you come to terms with such a terrible loss. Scott was such a wonderful man who clearly put so many people before himself. The respect he earned through his actions and giving personality surpasses so many and that will be a comfort to all of you as you move forward to find a new normal. A wonderful man, a wonderful family, may god wrap his arms around Scott and bring him eternal peace.
Shelly & Keith Philbrick
March 24, 2017
Our hearts are broken for Patti and her girls. The sudden loss of Scott has given us all pause to reflect on all the wonderful things he has done for his family, his students, and teachers. His mother, Mary, brother, Keith, and the entire McGilvray family are in our thoughts and prayers as they go through this difficult time. Anyone whomever met Scott was at ease with his kind and gentle manner, and we were all lucky to have known and worked with him no matter what the venue. He was a wonderful guy.
Maureen O'Connor (Class of 1993)
March 24, 2017
Coach McGilvray was a wonderful person who touched the lives of so many. I will always remember his smile and his kind words. May he rest in peace.
Jodi (DeSantis) Goudreau
March 24, 2017
Patti and family, I was so sorry to hear of your lost. My best and prayers are with you all!
Steven Walsh
March 24, 2017
Thoughts and prayers go out to Scott's family during this difficult time. I had the pleasure of being a teammate of Scott's with the football team at Concord High school. Caught up to him several times over the years. Scott gave everything of himself and would give you the shirt off his back. The world lost a great man who's shoes can never be filled. God bless.
Joe Raycraft
March 24, 2017
My thoughts and prayers are with the family for the loss of Scott. Scott was a tough player and tough coach. He was always prepared
Jen (Dupuis) Obstein
March 23, 2017
I was lucky to have Coach McGilvray as a teacher at Memorial in 2000. He was always kind to his students and it was obvious that he cared about their welfare beyond the classroom doors. His impact is felt far and wide and he will be missed.
Marcia Garber
March 23, 2017
I am so sorry for your loss.
Martha Hennessey
March 23, 2017
We did not have enough time with Scott, in the NH Senate. In the time we did have together I learned quickly what a thoughtful, kind, and hard-working man he was. He will be missed. - Martha Hennessey
Todd Egdorf
March 23, 2017
Coach McGilvray was more than a mentor and a leader; to me, he was a father figure. His compassion as a person displayed far greater than the classroom and the field. He was a genuine man who looked out for his students in their most troublesome times. Coach had heard that my brother I were having a tough offseason in high school. Our parents had recently divorced and our first Christmas as a separated family was only days away. Without notice or expectation, Coach McGilvray dropped off two heavy plastic bags on our front porch. The only evidence he left was that of his black dodge truck pulling out of the snowy driveway and a Christmas card tucked in one of the bags that read Merry Christmas Eric & Todd, From Santa ClauseThe two bags were stuffed full of brand new Abercrombie and Fitch' shirts, pants, sweaters and winter jackets, a young high schooler's dreamThe next week, I walked up to him in the weight room and said thank you Santa and he acted like he didn't know what I was talking about with a slight smirkEven as an ungrateful youth it absolutely floored my brother and I at the compassion that this man showed us. To this day I tell the story of how my toughest Christmas was ultimately my best yet. Coach McGilvray never wanted a bit of gratitude, he only spoke with his actions. A coach, a teacher, a friend and a father figure, I learned a lot from this man and I will never forget him.
Cheryl Sager
March 23, 2017
My deepest thoughts to Scott's family and friends. Scott was a strong supporter and advocate speaking on the behalf of the teachers he represented.
Sara Smith
March 23, 2017
Scott will be missed in the State House and at the NEA. We have lost a dear leader and friend of educators. Sara Smith, teacher, Goffstown, NH
Judy Pilotte
March 23, 2017
Patti, Meaghan and Molly, so sorry for your loss. I was so glad that I was able to give him a hug a couple weeks ago. Scott is highly respected and accomplished so much to better all. He will be greatly missed. Judy and Norm Pilotte
Louise Hancock
March 23, 2017
My name is Louise Hancock. I used to work from time to time with a Mary Mcgilvray who worked at Orr & Reno. If this is in fact Scott's mother, I send my deepest sympathy and love to you, Mary.
Tom and Bev Conway
March 23, 2017
We so enjoyed getting to know Scott many years ago when Tom worked on Conference and Awards and I was on the Executive Board. We kept abreast of his exploits as NEA-NH President and then State Senator. We extend our most sincere sympathy to his wife and daughters as well as his Manchester and NEA-NH educational 'families.' RIP, Scott. Tom and Bev Conway (Dover and now Alexandria NH)
Meg Morse-Barry
March 23, 2017
Scott was an amazing man. He gave 100% of himself to everyone and everything he touched. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you Patti and girls. Scott was one of a kind.
Maxine Mosley
March 23, 2017
Scott was the most honorable man that I have ever known. He held his family and loved ones close and was generous to those who needed a hand up, a gentle word or encouragement. If he cared about you, you knew it by his humorous teasing and affection. There was never a moment that Scott was, with a twinkle and smile in his eyes, shy about expressing his love and devotion for Patti, Molly, Meaghan, and his mother.
For all of us, it is a great honor to have known Scott and to have had him in our lives. Rest in peace my friend.
Judy Burns
March 23, 2017
So sorry for the loss of Scott. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with the whole family, as well as his friends. You all will continue to be in our prayers. May God give you strength. Grover and Judy Burns White Sulphur Springs, WV U.S. Fish and Wildlife long time friend of Keith
Janice Murray
March 23, 2017
Scott was such a voice for teachers and children in our state. We will miss him dearly
Ruben Murillo
March 23, 2017
"I am saddened by Scott's passing. He was a wonderful leader who worked hard for his students, members and family. His determination will be missed and I hope that his memories will comfort you in this difficult time. I had the opportunity to sit next to him at the NEA PAC meetings and I could immediately tell he was someone who I could call friend. He will be missed tremendously."
Alice Broderick, Jessica Birk, Brian Birk
March 23, 2017
Patti, Meaghan, and Molly our hearts go out to you and your family. Jessica spent a lot of time at your house growing up and has many fond memories of Scott. Please let us know if there is anything we can do during these difficult times.
Lisa Angelini
March 23, 2017
Shocked and saddened by the news of Coach McGivray's passing. He was a wonderful man who helped so many of the students and players at Memorial, my son being one of them. His kindness and example will be long remembered. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family during this difficult time.
Don and Christine LeBrun
March 23, 2017
Chris and I were shocked and extremely saddened with the call we received telling us of Scott's passing. We send our condolences to Patty, Mary, Keith and Scott and Patty's daughters. As his high school football coach for four years, I always considered him to be an ultimate football player. He was coachable, enthusiastic, intelligent and committed to being the best he could be. I was proud of his time as a Crimson Tide football player, and proud of the success he had as a husband, father, teacher, coach, and leader in both the NEA-NH and the State House. He will sorely be missed here on Earth.
I know God has welcomed him with open arms and he will be greeted in Heaven by his Dad John (Bud).
Don and Christine LeBrun
Alison & Randy Brisson
March 23, 2017
Our thoughts and prayers are with the McGilvray family and all of those grieving the loss of this stellar guy. He will be missed by many.
Rhonda Wesolowski
March 23, 2017
Scott was one of the kindest people I know. His counsel during our time together at NEA-NH proved invaluable. This is certainly a devastating loss for his family and all who knew him.
Leslie Barry
March 23, 2017
So sorry Molly and family. Concord high school is thinking of you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Judy LeBlanc
March 23, 2017
You have been an inspiration to many, and an advocate for our children & educators. Your smile will be remembered, and your friendship missed. My thoughts and prayers are with your family, and I thank you for all of your support.
Judy LeBlanc SAU 57 Para
Zandra Rice Hawkins
March 23, 2017
Scott was a great colleague and friend. I had the opportunity to work with him on many worthwhile endeavors over the years, starting when he was a local leader at MEA, then later after his election to President of NEA-New Hampshire and as a State Senator. Scott was always thoughtful and direct in meetings, and came to every issue table in the spirit of collaboration. I know he brought that same energy to many other important efforts as well.
A couple summers ago I returned to work after maternity leave. Scott was in one of the first professional meetings I had back, and my young daughter attended as well. I ended up sending him a personal thank you note not long after. I was still very new at balancing work and family, let alone having a baby with me when talking to colleagues. Scott took it all in stride, taking a minute to smile at the baby now and again but otherwise treating me and the meeting with the same professional courtesy he always had in the past. He probably hadn't thought twice about it, as I wrote in my note, but to a new mom it meant the world to me. That's the kind of class act and thoughtful person Scott was, and I will miss him. My love and prayers to his family and friends. Zandra
Scott Brownlee
March 23, 2017
So sorry to hear this news Patti.
Scott is an awesome person. He is already missed. Let us know if you need anything Patti. Your friends Scott and Kiersten.
L Rivard
March 23, 2017
Dear Patti and daughters,
So very sorry for you loss. Please know that you are in our prayers. May you find comfort knowing how very special Scott was! Lee (Jordan) Rivard and family
Jim and Patti Nealon
March 23, 2017
We are so deeply saddened by Scott's passing. He has left so much of himself behind as noted by the countless lives he touched. Such a tragic loss for all of you as well as the people of NH. He truly changed the lives of so many. Find comfort in all the good he did. Our love and prayers for today and the days to come.
Heather Mazzaglia
March 23, 2017
Gone too soon- much too soon. May you find comfort in the love of family and friends and strength in your faith at this very sad time.
Peter Miller
March 23, 2017
The news of Scott's passing hits very hard. Scott did a fantastic job leading NEA-New Hampshire during difficult times. He was a model advocate for kids, public schools, and educators. He took leadership because people needed him to do it. His choices will inspire others to take leadership in pursuit of the principles that Scott found so important.
Carol Sanders-Reed
March 23, 2017
Just wanted you all to know that all of the McGilvray family, Scott, Mary, Keith, and Patti and girls are in all of the Reed family's thoughts at this incredibly sad time.
Theresa (Cronis) Grosjean (Class of 1993)
March 23, 2017
My heartfelt condolences to Mr. McGilvray's family. Coach was a really wonderful man who made a lasting impact on so many lives and my wonderful high school years are full of memories that include him, his generosity, his compassion, his humor, and his wisdom. May he rest in peace and may the many memories and tributes pouring from everyone he touched give you comfort in the times ahead.
Jason
March 23, 2017
Coach was a great man, I was just a young kid in elementary school when Patti got married to him. I remember I didn't understand why her last name had changed. When I met him in high-school and he was my football coach it was clear why her name had changed all those years ago. He was a great man and had a lasting impact on my life. So many great lessons with the occasional chewing out. I will think fondly of him and miss him.
Karen Klos
March 23, 2017
On behalf of the Support Staff, SAU 84, we extend our most heartfelt sympathy to the family and friends of Scott McGilvray. We knew him as a wonderful humanitarian and thoughtful leader. May your memories bring you peace.
Kristine Kenison
March 23, 2017
Your dedication to all that you have endeavored is so very admirable. Scott, you have given so much to countless people and we are all the better for it. It so saddens me to hear of your passing. I am consoled by the reality that I have your example to carry with me for my lifetime. Be well and know that you are so painfully missed!
Allie Gonyea
March 23, 2017
Sending my love and thoughts to the McGilvray family. He had such a huge and incredible impact on so many lives and that will live on forever. His compassion will be spread through the actions of those whose lives he touched.
Jane Bright
March 23, 2017
Patti and family, I am so shocked and saddened to hear of Scott's passing. I didn't realize, Patti, that you were married to Scott. If there is anything I can do, please call me.
David Bresnahan
March 23, 2017
I had the honor of working with Scott at MMHS for nine years. The love and care he had for his students and friends will be carried on through them for eternity.
Elaine Stockwell
March 23, 2017
Keith and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. God bless.
Love, Elaine Stockwell
Dawn Schunemann Wunderli
March 23, 2017
The entire McGilvray family are in my thoughts and prayers during this sad time. I hope that you will soon find much comfort in your wonderful memories of times with Scott.
Joanne Lazarus
March 23, 2017
My thoughts are with Scott's family and hope that you all find comfort in knowing how many lives he touched during his life. I am thankful for knowing Scott and am grateful at how his hard work benefited so many teachers and students throughout the years.
Angela from MMHS
March 23, 2017
Scott was a wonderful man. He touched so many lives and will be forever remembered. My deepest and sincerest sympathies to the family.
March 23, 2017
May the God of all comfort please continue to bless and comfort your heavy heart during this time of sadness and grief Matthew 5:4.
Nancy Crepeau
March 23, 2017
Dear Mary, Patti and Scott's family, we're so sorry to learn of your loss. It's a difficult time for all of you. Our prayers are with you during this sad time.
Love,
Nancy & Dick Crepeau
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Phaneuf Funeral Homes & Crematorium - Hanover Street243 Hanover Street, Manchester, NH 03104
How to support Scott's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
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Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
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What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
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Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
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Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
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The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
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Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
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Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
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How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
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