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1991
DIED
2016
Stephanie Harbour Obituary
She was born on April 27th in 1991 to Carol and Bob Harbour in New London. Stephanie attended both Merrimack Valley and Concord High Schools. Stephanie struggled with addiction most of her adult life, but she also touched hundreds of lives with her laughter and love. Her greatest gift to the world was also her downfall, she loved people with all of her heart, not just a piece of it. Loving that fully earned her the closest and most loyal of friends and family, but it also leaves you open for much heartache. Unfortunately Stephanie never learned a way to cope with that heartache outside of her addictions.
Left behind to remember her light are her mother, Carol Harbour, her father, Bob Harbour, her sister, Kristina Harbour, brother-in-law, Charles Fairfield, brother, Forrest Harbour, her sister-in-law, Evelyn McEwan her nephew, Derek Harbour and her grandmother, Doris Kipe. Missing her are also a motley crew of aunts and uncles and at last count 51 first cousins and innumerable other relations. Not to be discounted are her fiercely loyal friends who she collected everywhere she went.
Her life will be celebrated at a private party hosted by the family on Sunday, Sept. 4, at noon. Please contact Forrest Harbour on Facebook if you want details to attend.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Stephanie Harbour
Thomas Calicchio
September 14, 2016
Rest In Peace Angel. Look after those who need you honey
Mallorie B
September 6, 2016
Carol, I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. Please let me know if you need anything.
September 6, 2016
Dear Bub, We are so very sorry for your loss. We know there are no words right now anyone could say to ease your pain. But please know you are in our hearts and meditations. We wish you and your family our deepest heart felt condolences. much love, Dave & Liz Schock
Chelzea Anne Carpentier
September 5, 2016
You've been one of my best friends for the better part of 15 years & the lightest beacon in my darkest of times.. i don't have a clue how I'll make it without you. You will forever be in my heart & I know you'll be watching over me & the rest of our clan of misfits for the rest of eternity, after all you did promise you would haunt us. Baby girl, I wish I had the words to say "farewell" but frankly, I dont. I refuse to accept this as goodbye. I know you'll save a place for me, at the throne with the angels. Rest easy until we meet again my love. I'll hold onto the sound of your laugh for always, forever & then some.
STEPHANIE YVONNE; you'll always be my boo.
I love you, & I'm sorry. I promised your mom I would do my best to over come the insanity, I know youll be with me, every step if this journey. I can only hope someday you'll smile down on me proud in knowing that, because of you.. i won. xxo
September 4, 2016
Fly with the Angels that have gone before you <3 I will miss that most beautiful smile of yours. Love Mary B
Rebecca Holske
September 4, 2016
We are so sad for your loss. She was so sweet caring and special. I met her at Dana's with Bub when she was still a kid 12 years ago. We had a heartfelt talk the last time I saw her was full of positivity. She was loving and helpful to people and children. Thank you for sharing her story in her obit, we will carry her memory with others as we continue to fight this horrible disease.
Judy and Skip Riel
September 3, 2016
Carol, Forrest, and Family, I am so sorry to hear about your beautiful girl and sister. Our deepest condolence to your family. May she find peace amongst the angels in Heaven. She will always shine brightly on her loved ones.
Dayle, Drina, Duane, Donna & Diane
September 3, 2016
Bob, Carol and Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time. May your beautiful angel finally be at peace.
Catrina Cornetta
September 3, 2016
I'm deeply sorry for all who knew and loved you. You really were and still are a beautiful person Steph.
MARIE URYNOWICZ
September 3, 2016
So sorry for your loss. It is always sad to hear this news. I pray you find peace.
Sarah-Beth Mancini
September 2, 2016
Krissy, Forrest, and family. It's been many years since we were neighbors. Stephanie was just a baby then, but even then her smile was oh so memorable. Please know we are sending all the love and healing light we have to you all.
Diane Laramie
September 2, 2016
I do not know you and your family, however my son too struggles with addiction, heroin being his current drug of choice. My heart aches for all of you because of this monster. My most heartfelt condolences to all of you.
September 2, 2016
My deepest sympathy to the family and friends of this young lady. My heart aches for you. Having a family member currently fighting this deamon , one year sober , I know the pain. May your our loved one rest in peace and fly free.
A loving grandmother.
Heather Hassett
September 2, 2016
I do not know your family, but my brother also lost his 28 year old son six years ago to drugs. I send you strength and comfort as you navigate life without your beloved daughter. I also commend you for sharing her story in her obituary. Only by shedding light on it can we even begin to hope to chase away the darkness for some of the people struggling with addiction. Our deepest sympathy on your unimaginable loss.
Sally Peterson
September 2, 2016
Stephanie will live in our hearts forever.
Love coming your way!
September 2, 2016
Rest eternal at Heavens Gates.
Brittany Saucier
September 2, 2016
Stephanie,
I haven't talked to you in years but I will always remember you from MV. You were one of the funniest and caring people I knew there. You were always so full of energy and smiles, it was infectious to everyone around you. Rest in peace beautiful lady.
Derek Doughty
September 2, 2016
Wow! We just checked in on fb 2 months ago! Youll be missed. Was hoping to see u at the camp out, now i know why i didn't. The struggle is real! Love you Steph, camp with the Angels
Tessa Dyer
September 2, 2016
Carol and family, I am so, so saddened to hear about Stephanie's passing. I have fond memories of her joining us at the Club when you worked there. It is so tragic that this crisis has hit yet another family and taken another young life way too early. My sincerest condolences.
Tammy Faust
September 2, 2016
Ill miss you my angel ...
Bright smile Will be missed....
Blessed be!!!
Faust house!!
Donald & Sandra Sweet
September 2, 2016
Stephanie, you were a kind soul and very much loved, my fondest memory was spending your birthday with your dad and I at adventure cove because of your love for Dolphins. you touched my heart, To all the Harbour Clan The deepest condolences from my family to yours. Rest Easy my friend
Patty, Jeff, Brenden, Trevor and Joslynn Roy
September 1, 2016
I remember meeting Stephanie when she was 16. She immediately became part of our family. she helped us in any way she could and went above and beyond for us numerous times. I will miss our talks and her coming over and just randomly snuggling up to me on the couch. The kids will miss the warden.. That's what we called her when she baby sat. Most of all it will be her presence that we will miss. We will never forget you Stephanie. We love you. Fly high Stephie poo poo.
Dolores Britto
September 1, 2016
God bless you angel iwas honor to know you such beautiful person at heart you our going to be missed now your with father god god bless you family hugs love
Bruce Currier
September 1, 2016
My sincerest condolences to the entire family. I remember when Steph was born and I share in your heartbreak at this time. I will love you guys always.
Meghan Foote
September 1, 2016
Stephanie I remember the first time we met when I lived in Loudon NH so did u and we took the bus together to school. I'll never forget you. I was so nervous to talk to you. But u were worth being friends with. I miss u everyday, and have tears running down my face, I wish this was just a dream and that it would go away. I don't want u gone for good I want u back in my life I can't do this without u. RIP Beautiful fly with the other beautiful angels.
Kayla Ray
September 1, 2016
I didn't know you very well but you always put a smile on my face when we would talk in the hallway of our apartments. You were such a sweet kind hearted girl I wish I could of got to know you more. You will be missed beautiful. Gone but never forgotten
Lisa Hamel
September 1, 2016
Stephanie! Always loved your bright, beautiful spirit & soul! Cheerleader, protective friend, drop anything to help a loved one out even if you were experiencing your own inner pain. Lender of may warm smiles when you walked into a room & many laughs! Adopter of your friends as sisters & bro's & their parents as Ma & Dad & you delighted in little children. You just being a delight Yourself! & endearing yourself in the many lives you touched. You are dearly Loved, will be sorely missed, many tears & never will be forgotten. My heart goes out to you & yours. Also bet? You'll look out after your loved ones more fiercely in Heaven than you could in Life. May Peace be with you, baby girl. Rest easy. Godspeed...
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