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Timothy Crutchfield Obituary

Timothy Joseph Crutchfield

Concord, NH - Timothy Joseph Crutchfield, devoted husband, beloved father, loyal friend, dedicated attorney, competitive athlete, coach, and sports fan, passed away on Sunday, April 13, 2025, at Brigham and Women's Hospital in Boston, Massachusetts with his wife and children by his side, after living with leukemia for three years.

A New Hampshire native for his entire life, Tim was born in Concord on March 9, 1960, to the late Robert and Anne (Coffey) Crutchfield. Known for his grit, work ethic, and smile, Tim made a positive impact at each school he attended, all in the Granite State. Tim graduated from Bishop Brady High School in 1978, where he served on the student council and played football and basketball. Admired and respected by his peers, Tim was voted "Best Dressed," "Most Popular," and "Class Clown." He completed a post-graduate year at Kimball Union Academy in Meriden, where he excelled in cross-country, basketball, and baseball and earned two high honors: the Henry Mann Silver Award (chosen by the faculty for his ability to balance academics, athletics, and the arts with integrity and purpose) and the Class of 1920 Award (selected by his peers for the student who best embodies the school's values and the spirit in which the class wished to be remembered). At the University of New Hampshire, Tim played on the men's varsity lacrosse team and earned a degree in economics in 1984 from the Whittemore School of Business. As a senior, he won the prestigious Whoop Snively Award, given to the player who best exemplifies leadership, sportsmanship, and a deep commitment to community.

In 1987, Tim married his college sweetheart, best friend, and love of his life, Heather Mae Reynolds, at St. Paul's School (SPS), where they made their home together for the next 38 years. During this time, they welcomed four children: Ashley, TJ, Connor, and Madison, the absolute joys of Tim's life. In the SPS community, Tim was known as the ultimate family man and an avid supporter of the athletic teams, especially those coached by his wife.

Tim's early career included stints at Blue Cross Blue Shield, Southern New Hampshire University as the head men's lacrosse coach, the United Way, and Citizens Bank, after which he became a busy stay-at-home parent, helping to establish the Children's Learning Center at St. Paul's School. Motivated by a passion for justice and a dream of practicing law, Tim matriculated at Franklin Pierce School of Law, earning his J.D. in 1996, with his four children and wife proud and present at his graduation.

Tim had a long and distinguished career in public service. He began as an attorney with the New Hampshire Department of Health and Human Services in 1997. Four years later, Tim became a Hearings Examiner at the New Hampshire Retirement System (NHRS). It was at NHRS where he found his professional niche, ultimately serving as Deputy Director and Chief Legal Counsel. Tim understood the tremendous responsibility of his role as a fiduciary, guiding decisions on behalf of members, retirees, and beneficiaries with integrity, insight, and unwavering dedication. His counsel was deeply valued by the NHRS Board of Trustees, the Independent Investment Committee, and staff. A trusted leader and colleague, Tim was known for his collaborative spirit, thoughtful mentorship, and clarity of communication. Even throughout his illness, he remained fully committed to his work.

Passionate about sports and the lessons learned from being on a team, Tim played, coached, and supported many athletic teams with hustle and humility. He served on the Board of the Concord Boys & Girls Club. He coached numerous youth soccer, basketball, and lacrosse teams, including assisting with both the SPS boys lacrosse team in his early years and the SPS girls lacrosse team, supporting the head coach, his wife, Heather. Until two serious knee injuries sidelined Tim, he played city basketball, as well as lacrosse for the Concord Budmen Lacrosse Club and later for the Cloud Splitter Lacrosse Club out of Lake Placid, making the over-40 U.S.A. Lacrosse Team that competed in the World Lacrosse Championship in London, Ontario, Canada. Tim was also a huge Duke basketball fan. He loved March Madness, Boston-based teams, college sports, the NBA, and the WNBA. He rarely missed one of his children's athletic games or performances at St. Paul's School, Connecticut College, Bates College, Boston College, Hamilton College, and Duke University. Tim's competitive spirit and athleticism never waned, as he tracked his walking pace and steps throughout his cancer treatments, always looking to improve his stats.

Tim had a joy for life that radiated in his smile. He believed in showing up, showing love, embracing the moment, and always being kind. He found peace and happiness in taking walks, fishing at Turkey Pond and Portsmouth Harbor, hiking, trips out west, riding his Peloton, biking alongside his kids on a run, washing the cars, cooking, and spending time with his loved ones. A man of deep Catholic faith, Tim began each day with prayers.

His family was the center of his world. In his final week, he celebrated his son, Connor's, acceptance into the Orthopaedic Surgery residency at Dartmouth-Hitchcock Medical Center and his graduation from Sidney Kimmel Medical College.

Filled with quiet strength and optimism, Tim faced blood cancer heroically. He did not complain or indulge in self-pity. His village of support, led by his family, fueled his will to live. For their tireless compassion and care, Tim and his family genuinely loved and appreciated all the nurses of Unit 7B, DFCI infusion, MICU, and SICU, and the many doctors at Brigham and Women's and Dana-Farber, especially Dr. Marlise Luskin and Dr. Vincent Ho.

Tim is survived by his wife of 38 years, Heather Reynolds Crutchfield; his four children, Ashley, TJ, Connor, and Madison Crutchfield; his three brothers, Robert, Kevin, and Matthew Crutchfield; his sister, Cara Goodnough; and several nieces and nephews.

A Celebration of Life will be held on Sunday, May 4, 2025, at 1:30 p.m. at the Chapel of St. Peter and St. Paul, St. Paul's School, 325 Pleasant Street, Concord, NH. A reception at the School will follow the service.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks for those whose health allows to consider these options to support cancer patients and a cure: donate blood, platelets, or stem cells, as these donations continuously extended Tim's life; join a walk, run, or bike ride for a cure for cancer. Gifts directed to St. Paul's School Athletics or Dana-Farber would be meaningful ways to honor Tim.

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Published by Concord Monitor on Apr. 26, 2025.

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Howie Roever

May 14, 2025

Tim is one of the finest people I have known in my 65+ years on earth. If someone who didn’t know Tim went to his life celebration service and heard all of the words spoken about him, that person would’ve said, ‘no way this can all be true.’ Yet, it was/is true. He was all that, and more. Tim is greatly missed by everyone who knew him, and I believe that he will live on in us, becoming a part of our better angels.

Gunnar

May 9, 2025

Many sympathies to Tim´s family. I remember him as a truly warm, spirited and compassionate person. Rest in peace.

Susan Gosselin

May 9, 2025

Lovely Family! So sorry for your loss

Sarah Sweet

May 6, 2025

Tim has left an incredible legacy for his beautiful family. A legacy of kindness, empathy, generosity, loyalty, integrity, grace, humility, grit, and enormous strength.

Sending much love and strength to his beloved Heather, Ashley, TJ, Connor, Madison, and Tim's siblings Rob, Cara, Kevin and Matt.

Diana Clark Stroble

May 5, 2025

Sending love to Heather and family. Tim was a ray of sunshine for all of the girls that Heather coached.

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Jenna Rheault

May 4, 2025

I am sending love, thoughts, and condolences to the Crutchfield Family. I am so sorry for your loss. Mr. Crutchfield was so kind, friendly, and welcoming when I attended SPS. He was the biggest supporter of his family and SPS athletics. He will be missed greatly.

Martin Mahon

May 4, 2025

May His Memory be Eternal

Paul Calkins jr

May 3, 2025

I am so sorry for this loss. I´ve known Tim for more than 30 years. We have a common bond of lacrosse.

George Lagos

May 3, 2025

Heather and family, my sincerest condolences for your loss. Tim was a genuinely good person, a positive force impacting everyone around him, liked and respected personally and professionally by anyone who was fortunate enough to know or work with him, as evidenced by the many entries on this page. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this most difficult time. May he rest in peace.

Dave and Steff McCusker

May 3, 2025

Oh my gosh... our hearts are absolutely broken for you, Heather, Ashley, TJ, Connor, and Maddie. We hope you can take some comfort in the fact that this world is a better place for Tim's having been a part of it... What a guy...and what a legacy leaves behind. Dave fondly remembers early-morning (pre-workday) workouts in the SPS gym as Tim dutifully pedaled the bike and simultaneously read the paper... a multitasking rehab scenario! He looked forward to their daily connection. And I (Steff) feel I got to know Tim on the lax sidelines (SPS Boys)--what sticks with me is the humility and warmth he exuded, and that winning grin, which he shared so freely. We are both hugging you all with our full hearts and would be there tomorrow if only we could. Love, love, love...

Robert & Carol Vallieres

May 1, 2025

We are thinking and praying for the Crutchfield Family. Our deepest condolences to all of you. We will remember the kindness he shared and the wonderful smile. Peace to all of you.

Marc E. Beauchesne

May 1, 2025

I haven´t seen Tim since 1976, but it seems like yesterday because of that booming smile! I wish you peace! - Beauch

Kevin Colley

April 30, 2025

What a great guy. A real loss to the world.

Janet Poch

April 29, 2025

Heather and family,

Heaven gained a most loved angel. Thoughts and prayers are with you. Stay strong and remember the love he had for life and his family,

Karen Gamble

April 29, 2025

Simply the best. Love, Kazz

Jim Cassidy

April 29, 2025

His accomplishments were many and varied, but what I will always remember is Timmy Crutchfield's million dollar smile and the mirthful laugh that always followed. There are in one's life a special few you always are glad to meet; you are lifted up and left better than you were before . A unique gift that will be sorely missed by family and friends alike. The price of knowing a good man.

Kathy Cramer

April 29, 2025

Memories can fade in and out like dusk to dawn. However, the memories of Tim are like the rays of a sunny day. The brightness of the sun sends down a smile to you that reaches into your heart. Tim's memories will always be a part of us and will never fade.

Tim exemplified so many wonderful attributes: devotion, courage, dedication, commitment, selflessness, virtuousness, and the list could go on. We will always remember his love of family, friends, and even casual acquaintances. He had an innate ability to touch the lives of everyone who he came in contact with.

Although our time with Tim was shorten, we will always remember his infectious smile, welcoming eyes. and open arms that expressed his acceptance of you with no reservations. You will be in our hearts forever.

We will always love you.

Terry and Kathy Cramer

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Tim Bowen

April 28, 2025

My memory of Tim that he was a polite guy at BBHS and I remember Sr. Catherine scolding him whenever he fell asleep in Latin Class.

Rich Burnham

April 28, 2025

Dear Heather and Family,
I am sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my deepest condolences during this incredibly difficult time. I hope you find comfort in the love that surrounds you and in the memories that will always remain.
May you be granted peace, strength, and moments of solace as you navigate the days ahead. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Nina Dooney (Calkins)

April 28, 2025

Tim was one of the kindest people I will ever know. He was never without a smile and his laugh was infectious. I knew him first as a friend in the lacrosse world where our children first played together. I was fortunate enough to spend the last 12 years as a work colleague with him at NHRS. His family was very lucky to have him as a brother, husband and father. Rest in peace my friend. You are incredibly missed.

Rick Bartlett

April 27, 2025

Godspeed on your next journey Tim and my condolences to the entire family

Martha D'Amato (Sweet)

April 27, 2025

Owner of the world´s most beautiful smile, Tim was an extraordinary soul whose kindness, wisdom and warmth left an indelible mark on those of us fortunate enough to be in his orbit.
His spirituality wasn´t loud or showy-it was woven into the way he loved and lived with purpose. He saw the divine in the everyday, in people, in moments, in nature. And in his quiet strength, he reminded us that there is more to this life than what we see.
Sending my heartfelt condolences to Heather, Ashley, TJ, Connor and Madison.

Betsy Clemons Boomhower

April 27, 2025

Dear Heather and Family, I'm so saddened to hear of Tim's passing. Tim was such a kind, and compassionate soul, so sweet and joyful, taken far too soon. Sending my love, and keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers, during this most difficult time.

Lori Hoffman

April 27, 2025

My condolences to the family and friends of Tim. I went to BBHS with Tim and remember him to be kind and so outgoing. In reading his obituary, I see what a fulfilling life he led and a life of honor and grace. What a legacy to carry in his family. God bless Tim and may his beautiful life provide strength, laughter and wonderful examples of how to live a life of service, faith and integrity to his children.
Lori Hoffman, formerly known as Lori Noyes.

Bill Hart

April 27, 2025

Please accept my deepest condolences. While I only knew Tim from my service on the NHRS Board of Trustees, I came to regard him as a friend. His easy smile, his personal warmth, and uncommon decency made it easy to gravitate towards him, to feel as if he were a true friend. I can only imagine how much those qualities were magnified with those who shared every day of life with him. Rest easy, my friend, your race is won. May your memory be a blessing.

Margie Astles

April 26, 2025

I had the very special pleasure of working beside Tim for five years at NHRS. The respect and admiration that I have for Tim is enormous. He adored his wife and children and his office was adorned with so very many photos and memories that he held dear. I will always remember his kindness to all and his ability to listen.
I think that God must need Tim to watch over us all and to set an example on how to be an exemplary human being.

Phoebe Day

April 26, 2025

Words can´t describe the impact that Mr. C had on each and every person he met. I was lucky enough to be one of those people. My heart is with Mrs. C and their beautiful children!

Mike McCormack

April 26, 2025

Mr. Crutchfield (I never called him Tim, even as an adult) was not a coach or a teacher of mine, but was one of my favorite people ever at St. Paul's School. I don't think I ever saw him without a smile on his face. After I graduated and ultimately returned to Concord, I was lucky enough to bump into him frequently on campus, or at the grocery store. Again, always a smile, and always asking about my family. I was eventually lucky enough to call him a colleague as well, as we were both members of the NH Bar. Every time I returned to St. Paul's to watch sporting events or attend graduation, I hoped I would run into him, and usually I did. To Heather and the kids, you already know this, but Tim was an amazing man. I am hopeful that your many years of great memories will help you through this difficult time.

Mark Cavanaugh

April 26, 2025

I worked with Tim for the last 12 years at NHRS and he was the best boss I ever had. From the first day I met Tim, he was positive and gracious and encouraging. He always treated me as an equal: "Crutchfield & Cavanaugh, Attorneys at Law", he would say. That meant a lot and that was Tim in a nutshell. Always thining of others. On my birthday, a six pack of Mountain Dew on my desk. At the end of each year as we broke for Christmas, a big hug of appreciation. Working with him will be the most rewarding part of my 40 year career. I will sorely miss his wise guidance and counsel.

Christine Rice McKenney

April 26, 2025

It was a privilege to know and work with Tim at NHRS. He truly was a bright light and always made time for any of his colleagues, providing a listening ear and helpful feedback or insight. Tim took great pride in his work and showed gratitude for those who worked directly with him or for him. Tim had an exceptional Eagle eye, and appreciated anyone who ensured accuracy of the written word. If you could smell hazelnut coffee brewing, that was Tim´s and he was always willing to share. He would show his fun side at work too when he´d wear his patchwork, preppy golf pants annytime our conservatively clad Executive Director went on vacation. Tim brought joy and genuine care to people and was always ready to lend a helping hand. He also lighted up whenever he talked about his family - he loved to share updates about his children and their successes. He beamed with pride. He would check in with colleagues who either got promoted, retired from NHRS, or moved on elsewhere for other opportunities - You could tell how much he valued the people he worked with and the friendships he made. My deepest sympathy goes out to his family, his siblings, and to all folks whose lives he touched. Rest in peace, Tim. Your light will shine on forever!

Cathy Mahon

April 26, 2025

Alway made everyone laugh. He will be missed. RIP Timmy.

Bucky Lucier

April 26, 2025

Dear Heather, Ashley, TJ ,Connor, And Madison, Robert , Kevin , Matthew , Cara , family and friends. please know my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this most difficult time. Tim will always hold a special place in my heart and I will treasure the many wonderful memories and conversations we shared together over the many years of love and friendship. growing up together in the same neighborhood, attending Catholic schools, our church congregation and the many wonderful years we had together again at SPS. Tim always had a gift to spread love and friendship to anyone he met . May God's peace and blessings be with you all as we celebrate Tims life. With love and friendship to you all Bucky Lucier.

Molly (McKenna) Young

April 26, 2025

Heather and the Crutchfield Family...
When I think of Tim I will always remember his smile, quick wit and kindness. My heart goes out to you all during this very sad time of enormous loss...

Paul Murphy

April 26, 2025

Just a wonderful young man. I had Tim as a student at

























Simply the best. They did not come any better than
Simply the best.

Tim O'Shea

April 26, 2025

What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful man. He lived a life of purpose and grace. I hope his family finds solace in his memories.

Scott & Pati Bailey

April 26, 2025

Bobby and Family,
Your brother accomplished so much in his time here. The loss is a tough one indeed. He is free of earthly discomforts and is now at peace with his Lord.
Our condolences to you all.

ERIC SWENSON

April 26, 2025

I HAVE NEVER MET IN MY LIFE A NICER PERSON THAN TIMOTHY CRUTCHFIELD! IN MY EYES TIM WAS AND ALWAYS WILL BE THE ABSOLUTE PERFECT HUMAN BEING! I AS EVERYONE WILL MISS HIM DEARLY! GOD-BLESS!,

Hope Matthews

April 26, 2025

I am so sorry to hear of Tim's passing. He was such a wonderful guy. I had the pleasure of attending high school with him. Always a big grin and never a bad word. To his family, how lucky you are to have had him in your lives. Wishing you peace through your memories.
Hope Lindsey Matthews
BBHS 78

Bob Boyle

April 26, 2025

So very sorry to hear this had so much fun with Tim in high school. Always a big smile and a great sense of humor. Prayers and my sincere condolences to the Crutchfield family.

Mike Farrelly

April 25, 2025

It was a pleasure knowing you, Tim. You set the bar high and you will be deeply missed. Rest in Peace my friend!
All the best to Heather, Ashley, TJ, Connor and Madison. Thank you for sharing Tim with the rest of us. Not a better human being has ever lived!
Stay strong Crutchfield Family.
All the best.
Mike

Jim McGahan

April 25, 2025

Condolences to Tim's extended family. Have very fond memories of Tim from back in school, always a smile, always willing to lend a hand. Rest in peace my friend, I'll belt out a verse of Blackwater in your memory.

Tom Bartlett

April 25, 2025

To the family and friends - Very sorry for your loss! I remember Tim as an awesome athlete with a huge smile and love of life like his brother Kevin. The wonderful obituary tells of an incredible life lived - may you cherish his memory forever.
Tom Bartlett
BBHS ‘81

Paula Dill

April 25, 2025

Heather, I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending you our sympathies and a hug during such a hard time.
Paula Dill and family

The Entire Staff of Waters Funeral Home

April 25, 2025

Offering our deepest condolences at this difficult time.

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