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William "Billy" Ray obituary, Concord, NH

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William Ray Obituary

William "Billy" Ray age 71, loving husband passed away peace fully at his home on Jan. 5th. He was born in Lynn MA. Billy started his career as a police officer in Swampscot MA and continued this path for 7 years. In 1972 he met his love Sue and they got married in 1977. They moved to New Hampshire in 1978 and opened the popular family restaurant in Concord known as Beefside. Sue and Billy worked side by side for 42 years, without killing each other! They sold the restaurant in 2020. Love, sweat and his faith carried Billy and Sue through an amazing life of laughter, travel and Billy's Mai Tai's. He always said that god promises tomorrow to no one and live for today.

He is survived by his wife Sue Ray, brother; Joseph Ray and his wife Nadeen, sister; Barbara Hopper and her husband Fred, brother; Michael Ray, several nieces and nephews and their golden retriever Riley.

There are no services scheduled at this time.

Donations may be made in Billy's memory to the Pope Memorial SPCA, 94 Silk Farm Rd. Concord NH 03301.

The Waters Funeral Home is assisting with arrangements.

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Published by Concord Montior on Jan. 10, 2021.

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Kathie Carruthers

January 5, 2025

Still miss you Billy........

Peter Boucher

June 13, 2024

Billy was my baseball coach in the early 1970s. Great guy!

Tom Donovan

July 29, 2022

Still in shock over this. Bless you Sue.

Tom Donovan

July 29, 2022

Sue, I just now heard of Billy´s passing and I am so very sorry to hear this devastating news. You and Billy´s family are in my prayers. . Tried to reach out to you guys a couple of years ago. I am on Facebook now under Tom Donovan or can be reached at 978-335-2660.

Lisa

February 5, 2022

He was my second Dad and you were my second mom. You both molded me in to the person I have become, I will miss him more then I can even handle. Billy taught me so much and showed his love and compassion for everyone and everything he believed in. I know he´s with me every day and I will continue his legacy. Rest In Peace my friend and love you. So sorry your gone.

Bill Lambrukos

January 4, 2022

Still think of you, and Sue, every time I go to Beefside. The place is still wonderful but do miss hearing your welcoming voice and the feeling I was home at the best place to eat in Concord.

Richard Viger

June 5, 2021

Billy was a great guy, funny, and good friend.

RAYMOND BLONDEAU, JR.

January 26, 2021

Bill was a very kind and wonderful person. Always took time to say hello and show kindness.

Elaina DeAngelo

January 20, 2021

What a loss. I am sorry for your loss and wish pleasant memories for you. He will be missed. So many laughs, hours of conversation with you both. Memories I will hold onto forever. Know I am thinking of you.

Stan Pastuszczak

January 16, 2021

Sue, I am so sorry to hear of Bill's passing. You and Billy were always so welcoming with a smile and hello to all the regulars that patronized Beefside; I've missed your smiling faces since you sold the restaurant last year. Ever since when I visit Beefside, I find myself wondering how you were both doing in retirement and it's very sad to hear Billy has gone so soon.

My thoughts are with you in your time of grief.

Dan and Patty Pike

January 16, 2021

Billy and Sue, thank you for all of the wonderful memories. You will be surely missed by all of your Beefside family. RIP our old friend.
Dan and Patty Pike

Sandra Martin

January 13, 2021

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Norm

January 12, 2021

Sue. I was so sad to hear the news about Billy! I was your coffee man for years and I can honestly say that he was one of my favorite customers. He had a real knack for making a person feel better after a conversation with him. I know you have lots of good memories and I hope that and time will be some comfort for you. What a wonderful person!

Valerie Bedard

January 12, 2021

Dear Sue Sorry to hear of your great loss We always enjoyed getting together with you both Art had a GREAT time at all the golf tournaments and we hope you find peace in all the wonderful memories you made together love Val & Art

Mark Speight (sp8)

January 12, 2021

Long time, too long...I am sorry to have let so much time go by.
Sue, sorry for your loss - you will be in my thoughts.
Mark Speight (sp8)

Debbi Roy

January 12, 2021

Dear Sue,
It’s been years. Nothing but happy memories. My deepest condolences to you.
~Debbi Roy

Marilyn Plourde

January 12, 2021

Billy was such a great friend! I took his mail in when he was building next door to me. I’m so saddened by this news. Fly with the angels Billy ❤

Cheryl

January 12, 2021

So sorry to learn of Billy's passing. Bedside in the early days was the only restaurant you could get a fabulous roast beef sandwich late at night. Billy would always stop and chat at our table. Sue, so very sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Cheryl & Dan

Kelly Walter

January 12, 2021

A Concord legend! Deepest sympathies Sue from Diann Sanel and Kelly!

Lee “West” Hughes

January 12, 2021

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Bob Nerbonne

January 12, 2021

Sue - so sorry to read about Billy. So many memories at Beefside (from the younger years after hours, then later through the years with our family as the kids were growing, through the more recent years). And also years ago, the good times back on Hampshire Drive with the Trovato's. Will miss Billy's friendly and always welcoming sense of humor. Sorry to read it Sue, and for your loss.

Diana Merrill & Terry Welch

January 12, 2021

Dear Sue. We were saddened to learn of Billy’s passing. Beefside endeared you into this community, so please know how wonderful it is to have known you both as a patron. May God rest his soul. Our sympathies are with you.

Diana Merrill

January 12, 2021

Dear Sue. We were saddened to learn of Billy’s passing. Beefside endeared you into this community, so please know how wonderful it is to have known you both as a patron. May God rest his soul. Our sympathies are with you.

Arthur Russell

January 12, 2021

We met this great man right after he opened Beefside. He alway spoke to us when we went to Beefside. The same if we were out and about and met up with him and Sue. They are a fantastic couple. God bless Billy and please keep Sue safe. Rest In Peace my friend.

Michael Jacobsen

January 12, 2021

Sue, you and Billy were such good people to my parents who frequented Beefside for years. Likewise with my family. Always welcoming to those who entered; making everyone feel like family. You both have certainly made your mark in Concord.

Bill Lambrukos

January 12, 2021

I am so sadden to hear about Billy. I met him soon after he opened Beefside and ate there often. Over the years I also met Sue and thought what a wonderful couple they were. Billy never failed to greet a customer with a smile and he remembered, and often reminded me, of things we had talked about years before. Sleep well my friend, and may your memory be eternal.

Barb Payment

January 12, 2021

So sorry for your loss Sue.

The Shifrin Family

January 11, 2021

Sue. There was never a time when Billy didn't visit our table when he was in the restaurant. He definitely was the face of Beefside. Please know that we are thinking of you with prayers and hope that your wonderful memories take you through this difficult time. With love -

Brian Burris

January 11, 2021

I've known Billy and Sue since they first opened Beefside. It was a pleasure getting to know them. I had many great meals and even better conversations there. So sorry to hear this news.

Janice-Ann Sinclair

January 11, 2021

Sue & Family & Beefsteak crew sorry for your loss of a great guy.

Robert gullage

January 11, 2021

So sad to hear this today. Wonderful person who served my family for years . Will be missed

David Caswell

January 11, 2021

As a long time customer of Beefside, I was saddened by the news of Billy's passing. He was always so friendly and accommodating to those of us when he was in the dining room. I would have loved to have known him better. My condolences to Sue and the entire family.
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Michelle “Shelly” Ingram (formerly DuPont)

January 11, 2021

Billy you and I worked together back in the late 80’’s early 90’s when I was attending college. Beefside was a great job and loved the customers and those I worked with. Pleasure to have worked with you and Sue and so sorry to hear of your passing! You always had a smile and welcoming personality.

Kathy Preve

January 11, 2021

Sue, I am so sorry to hear of Bill's passing. He always stopped to say hi whenever I ran into him. He was a special person.

Suzanne Dow

January 11, 2021

Billy I've known you most of my life and always thought you were a great guy always smiling and happy,, the last time I saw you was in New Hampshire you gave my husband and I a great ride on the lake in that beautiful boat that you and Susan had I often think of that we had a lot of fun,,
I know you're in heaven now and at peace God Rest Your Soul,,love suzanne

Terry Ohlson-Martin

January 11, 2021

Billy will be greatly missed by many. He always had a smile and kind word for us when we saw him at the restaurant. While his physical presence may no longer be with us he made an indelible mark on those of us who spent many lunches and dinners at Beefside and his presence will continue to be felt. My thoughts are with you Sue.

Kathy and Randy Whitehead

January 11, 2021

Dear Sue
So sorry to here of Billie's passing. He always so friendly and greeted us with a smile that could light up a room! Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Kathie Carruthers

January 11, 2021

Billy was the best friend a person could have. I have many wonderful memories of Billy and Sue when we were all gathered at the Red Blazer throwing peanuts at each other and dancing. After we all headed over to Beefside to continue and get something to eat. Miss you already Billy!

CLAIRE HUSSEY

January 11, 2021

Sue,
You and Billy were the best. Beefside was and is one of my favorites and I always enjoyed seeing you both when I went there.
When a raffle was held for my sons unit when he was in Iraq, not only did Billy give a gift certificate for the raffle but he also put a hundred dollar bill in the envelope I picked up. I called him as I thought it was a mistake but it was not. He was so generous in his support of veterans and a down to earth nice guy.
So very sorry that he was taken away from you. He was too young.

Kathryn Marabella

January 11, 2021

Billie, you will be missed by so many. You were thoughtful and giving. Thank you for being there for me with your prayers and encouragement during my bout with cancer as you could certainly relate. Rest in Peace in the loving arms of our Heavenly Father

Thomas strong

January 11, 2021

Sue sorry for your loss of Billy he was a great man always enjoy talking to him and you when coming into restaurant god bless him.

Alison Banks

January 11, 2021

Dear Sue, I am so sorry to hear of Billy’s passing. He always had a smile and greeting for all his friends and customers, no matter how crazy busy the restaurant was. He really was a one in a million. My love and thoughts are with you.
Alison Banks

January 11, 2021

Fly High Billy and cheers

Linda

January 11, 2021

Sue, sorry for your lost, Billy was so kind to his customers.

Pamela Carruthers

January 11, 2021

Sue, I am so sorry to read of your loss of Billy. I fondly remember all the times my late husband, Bobby Carruthers, and I ate at Beefside, and how Billy would come out to our table to chat. You and Billy were always so friendly and welcoming. May he rest in peace.

Butch and Marie Ayles

January 11, 2021

Sue, we are so sorry for your loss. Billy was such a great guy. May all those wonderful memories sustain you through this difficult time. Blessings and hugs.

Neal Scott

January 11, 2021

Sue, Gail and I are sadden to learn of Billy's passing, may all the wonderful memories of him from the past be a source of healing and comfort to you now.

BUCKY LUCIER

January 11, 2021

Dear sue and family I am so sorry to hear of billy's passing he was a wonderful friend and we shared many conversations together about so many things in your restaurant and at our church the immaculate heart of Mary please know you all are in my thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time and may the peace of God be with you all

Lori Nerbonne

January 10, 2021

Sue,

I'm so sorry to read of Billy's passing, and hope all the good memories you made together help to sustain you. We have missed seeing your smiling faces at the restaurant.

Lori Etheridge Nerbonne & family

Marianne Jordan

January 10, 2021

Susie, I am so sorry for your loss. Billy will be missed!

Dottie and Dick Kruger

January 10, 2021

Sue and family, We are thinking of all of you. Billie will be missed by so many. He was a sweet guy !!!

John Sellar

January 10, 2021

Sue, My deepest sympathy

Michael and Becky Emerson

January 10, 2021

Sue Mike and Becky Emerson would like to send our condolences. Our prayers are with you and your family.

The Entire Staff of Waters Funeral Home

January 10, 2021

Offering our deepest condolences at this difficult time.

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