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Mary Fleeger Obituary

Mary (Durbin) Fleeger, 76, of Newburgh, IN, went to be with her Lord on April 16, 2009.

Mary was born March 21, 1933, in Waverly, Ky, as Mary Monica Mills but was adopted by her aunt & uncle and became Mary Durbin until the day she wed her beloved husband, Robert W. Fleeger.

Mary was a 1951 graduate of Chandler High School. She loved to be outdoors, she loved flowers, feeding the birds, and fishing with her husband. Most of all she enjoyed spending time with her family and friends.

Mary was preceded in death by her brother, James Mills; loving parents, Herman and Lucy Durbin; and biological parents, Joseph and Margaret Mills.

Mary is survived by her beloved husband of 57 years, Robert W Fleeger; children, Robert E. & Janet Fleeger of Newburgh, Kenneth W. & Faye Fleeger of Annandale, Minn., Michael & Cindy Fleeger of Newburgh and Carol & Jeff Webber of Boonville. She is also survived by grandchildren, Jill (Bryan) Lemond, Timothy Pike, Christopher Fleeger and fiance Rachel Doss, James (Kerry) Fleeger, Monica Fleeger, Donovan Fleeger, Andrew Fleeger, Farrah (Steve) Friedrich, and Tiffany (Mark) Hurd; nine great-grandchildren, Steven Kiper, Brevin and Blake Friedrich, Kylene Fleeger, Jeffrey Fleeger, Nevaeh Fleeger, Olivia, Alissa and Devon Lemond. Also surviving are sister, Elizabeth McLaughlin of Louisville, Ky; sister-in-law, Karen (Gayte) Nance and brother-in-law Stanley (Betty) Fleeger of Brazil, Ind.; and beloved dog, Cody II.

The family would like to extend their sincere appreciation for the Deaconess Hospice Staff, Dr. Anthony Stephens, Dr. David Kim, Dr. Jeffrey Selby, and Dr. Clovis Manley for their kindness and support.

A memorial service will be held at 2 p.m. Saturday, April 18, 2009, at Alexander Newburgh Chapel. Friends may visit Friday from 2 to 8 p.m. and Saturday from 10 a.m. until service time at the funeral home.

Condolences may be made online at www.mem.com. Arrangements by Alexander Newburgh Chapel, 5333 State Road 261.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Courier Press on Apr. 17, 2009.

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Monica Fleeger

April 20, 2009

My sweetest Grandma,

I looked up to you so much and loved you beyond words. There will never be a day that goes by that I won't think of you. You were the glue that held us together. I hated to see you sick and know you are at peace now with the Lord. I will see you again one day. Love you with all my heart,

Your grand daugther Monica Fleeger

Beth Williams

April 19, 2009

Bob, Carol, Jill and Tim,

I was am very sorry to hear about Mary's passing. I know whe was the rock that held you all together. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Always a beautiful smile

Carol Jo Anne Webber

April 17, 2009

My dearest mama,
You have been the light of my life, my sounding board, my comfort, my first best friend. I loved you with my whole being. I'll forever be grateful to have been your daughter
See you again, me mama

TOM & VICKI BRAUNS

April 17, 2009

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Lukas/Charity Reed

April 17, 2009

To Andy,and his Mom & Dad
Our thoughts and prayers go to you, to comfort you. We are truely sorry for your loss.

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