Search by Name

Search by Name

Mildred Bostelman

Mildred Bostelman obituary, Defiance, OH

FUNERAL HOME

Rodenberger-Gray Funeral Home - Napoleon

1010 Westmoreland Avenue

Napoleon, Ohio

UPCOMING SERVICE

Visitation

Oct. 20, 2025

10:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

Bethlehem Lutheran Okolona Church

Send Flowers

Mildred Bostelman Obituary

Defiance - Mildred Helen (Gobrogge) Bostelman, 91, of Defiance, Ohio, went home to the Lord on Monday, October 13, 2025. She was born on October 16, 1933, to the late Martin and Martha (Benien) Gobrogge in Hamler, Ohio. On January 31, 1955, she married Marvin Bostelman, and he preceded her in death on September 5, 1987.

She was a faithful member of Bethlehem Lutheran Church, Okolona, where she would often devote her time helping with funeral dinners. Mildred was a loving farm wife for most of her life and would always keep busy with various tasks on the farm, walking, gardening, and reading her daily devotions. She was a member of Ridgeville American Legion Post 454, where she catered for many events with various friends. She also enjoyed working and caring for people through Lutheran Services for 19 years. Mildred would often bake pies and coffee cakes for family.

Mildred is survived by her children, Jean (Vince) Herman, Janice (Chuck) Leopold, Judy (Bill) Haase, John (Karen) Bostelman, Julie (William) Schudel, and Joann (Darren) Yackee; 14 grandchildren; 15 great-grandchildren (With two on the way); sister, Margaret Phlipot; sister-in-law, Marilyn Behrman; as well as many nieces and nephews. In addition to her parents, Mildred is preceded in death by her husband, Marvin Bostelman; son, James Bostelman; and siblings, Janette Edmonds, Richard Gobrogge, as well as stillborn infant twins, Mary Ann and Mary Lou Gobrogge.

Services for Mildred will be held at Bethlehem Lutheran Church, Okolona on Monday, October 20, 2025, at 12 p.m., noon. Visitation will be held on the same day from 10 a.m. until time of services. Interment will follow at the church cemetery. Memorial contributions can be made to Elara Home Care and Hospice, Bethlehem Lutheran Church, or Glenn Park of Defiance. Online condolences may also be left for the family at www.rodenbergergray.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Crescent-News on Oct. 14, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Mildred Bostelman

Oct

20

Visitation

10:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

Bethlehem Lutheran Okolona Church

30997 Gerken Road, Defiance, OH 43512

Oct

20

Funeral service

12:00 p.m. - 12:30 p.m.

Bethlehem Lutheran Okolona Church

30997 Gerken Road, Defiance, OH 43512

Funeral services provided by:

Rodenberger-Gray Funeral Home - Napoleon

1010 Westmoreland Avenue, Napoleon, OH 43545

Memories and Condolences
for Mildred Bostelman

Sponsored by Rodenberger-Gray Funeral Home - Napoleon.

Not sure what to say?





0 Entries

Be the first to post a memory or condolences.

Make a Donation
in Mildred Bostelman's name

How to support Mildred's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Mildred Bostelman's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more