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Alexander Burdo Obituary

Alexander Burdo
1996-2023
Alexander Gregory Burdo, 27, passed away on Sunday, October 29, 2023 surrounded by family and close friends. He was the beloved son of Gabrielle (Orrico) and Gerry Burdo, and brother to Isabelle and Olivia, all of Southport, CT. He was a remarkable human being both intellectually and in his purity of soul and intention. He was a true friend to many and left an indelible impression on everyone he met.
"Alex" was born on October 10, 1996 in Norwalk, and shared time between homes in Fairfield, CT and Yarmouth Port, MA. Though he enjoyed a wonderful upbringing in both locations, he found his greatest joy on Cape Cod where he had made his permanent home.
Alex had a deep love and respect for all birds, which he often credited with saving his life and his six years in remission; his favorite was the Florida scrub jay. From the age of ten he wanted to be an ornithologist and could often be seen with binoculars draped around his neck and a bird guide in hand. He traveled the globe to study his favorite creatures.
A 2015 graduate of Hopkins School in New Haven, Alex attended Brown University where he graduated in 2020 with an A.B. in Biology with honors and focus in Evolutionary Biology. Alex wrote for the Brown Political Review; was a member of the Kellner Lab and a teaching assistant. Additionally, Alex served as research assistant for two of his advisors studying a particular bird in Costa Rica, the white-collared manakin, the resulting work being prepared for publication. Alex also had the transformative experience of attending a study abroad program in South Africa through the Organization for Tropical Studies.
At thirteen, he became the youngest recipient of the 2010 L.L. Bean Outdoor Heroes award for his dedication to the Connecticut Audubon Society. He was a founding member and the first President of the Connecticut Young Birders Association and took part in banding at the Birdcraft Sanctuary in Fairfield; he was also a volunteer at the Wing Island Bird Banding Station in Brewster, MA. One of his favorite summer memories was working at the Bird Watcher's General Store in Orleans, MA. For many years he maintained his blog: alphelocoma.com, where he'd write about birds and travels.
Alex was involved with the Connecticut and Massachusetts Audubon Societies and participated regularly in the Christmas Bird Counts in both states. He managed several "big days" in Fairfield and on the Cape over the years and routinely conducted bird surveys, including the Waterfowl Survey in Yarmouth for the Cape Cod Bird Club. In May 2020, he broke the record for the most species seen in a town in Connecticut in one day. More recently, Alex served as an Avian Point-Count Technician at the Intermountain Bird Observatory in Montana, where he fell in love with that state and the people there, who helped broaden his political perspective.
Alex also had a strong passion for photography, politics, geography, history, astronomy, linguistics, music, the Boston Red Sox, the Miami Dolphins and University of Michigan football. Possessing a remarkable and diverse memory. Alex could relay the statistics for any major league player, name the songs and scientific names of thousands of birds, discuss the current sociopolitical conditions of the world and recite the lyrics of songs from the 1970's.
Despite his early diagnosis with osteosarcoma at age twelve, Alex didn't sit back and let life come to him; he sought it out. He filled every conversation with enthusiasm and positivity, never speaking down to another. He freely shared his infectious sense of humor and insights from his infinitely expansive mind, and thoroughly enjoyed his interactions with those close to him and acquaintances. No matter the state of his health, he didn't let the disease limit him, rather he used it to live life fully, casting away any thoughts of mortality. There were too many birds to see, baseball parks to visit, countries to explore, and people to laugh with and hug.
In addition to his parents and sisters, Alex is survived by two grandfathers, James Orrico, of Southport, and Guglielmo Burdo of Fairfield; his girlfriend, Anna Walters, of Cincinnati, OH; his best friend, Luc Langlois of Chicago, IL; the Ghiorzi family of West Palm Beach, FL; the Venezia family of Phoenixville, PA; and extended family and many friends. He was predeceased by his grandmothers, Marion (Brooks) Orrico and Carmela (Venezia) Burdo; as well as uncles, Christopher Orrico and Brian Orrico.
Please join us in celebrating Alex's life Thursday, November 9, 2023 at 11 a.m. at St. Paul's Episcopal Church, 661 Old Post Road, Fairfield, CT. The celebration will continue at 2:00 p.m at the Connecticut Audubon Society, 2325 Burr Street in Fairfield.
The family wishes to thank everyone who supported them through the years. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made in Alex's name to either the Connecticut Audubon Society, https://www.ctaudubon.org or the Massachusetts Audubon Society, https://www.massaudubon.org.
Whenever you see a bird, please think of Alex. To sign his online guestbook, please visit www.shaughnesseybanks.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Connecticut Post on Nov. 4, 2023.

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Chris Rehmann & Rachel Duncan

November 21, 2023

We met Alex through two of his experiences mentioned in the obituary. Our daughters, Emily and Jessica, met Alex during the study abroad in South Africa, an outstanding memory of their college years. While all of the OTS students went on some of the early-morning game drives, Emily, Jessica, and Alex signed up for all of them. Alex would be armed with his massive zoom lens, scanning the sky and landscape with fellow bird enthusiast Michelle. In photos of the OTS group, Alex is out front, just behind the guide, eager for the next sighting and adventure.

When Alex traveled from the East Coast to Montana for his work counting birds, he stopped at our house for a visit. Alex sat in our backyard with Emily and Jessica for hours, reminiscing and laughing about their fun in South Africa. Emily and Jessica had to go to work early the next morning, and Alex planned to continue his drive as soon as he woke up. However, Rachel and I convinced him to have pancakes with us, and we talked for a few hours about academia, grad school, and other subjects. We are grateful for the chance to meet Alex and experience his sense of humor, expansive mind, and passion for various topics.

We send our condolences to Alex´s family and friends for this devastating loss.

Jim Ercolani

November 13, 2023

Gerry, Gabrielle and family...

Alex seemed to have been such an exceptional person. He was so involved in life given his illness. The world is now a smaller place without him.
My deepest condolences to you and your family.

Jim Ercolani

Chris

November 10, 2023

I don't know this young man but for some reason his obituary caught my eye.After reading it I thought to myself what a shame it is that not only his family but the world has lost such a remarkable person.I hope he has inspired a few more people to step up to complete his work and dreams.May he rest in peace.

Christine Williamson

November 9, 2023

My deepest condolences to the Burdo family. I am forever grateful to have met and gotten to know Alex during his time at Brio. We had wonderful conversations and laughs about birds, photography, and baseball. I know I will always think of him fondly every time I watch the A´s play.. I will miss you dearly Alex.. Sending all my love and thoughts to the Burdo family.

Love,
Christine Williamson

Henry Tanyu

November 9, 2023

Our sincere condolences and prayers to Gerry and the Burdo Family.

Terri Finnegan

November 9, 2023

I didn´t know Alex long but he made a deep impression in my heart. The short time I spent with Alex was incredibly fun at times and also sad. I know he is in his heavenly surroundings with friends and relatives having the best of times! Every time I listen to a David Bowie song I will think of you . Follow your birds ! Love to your whole family, Terri Finnegan

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Terri Finnegan

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Michal Fox Smart

November 7, 2023

Alex and my son Zach were friends and members of the young birders club together as teenagers. I remember Alex and how much it meant to Zach to meet him, another teenager who shared his love and passion for birds. I am so very sorry for your loss. Maybhisbmemory be for blessing. Michal Fox Smart (Stamford CT)

John (Jack) Gelmetti and Family

November 7, 2023

Condolences to Gerry and the all Burdo family.

On behalf of the Gelmetti family, we offer our condolences on the passing of Alex. I´m just sadden to read of his passing as being the same age of our daughter.

You will be missed by so many fellow Fairfielder´s.
Rest in peace.

John (Jack) Gelmetti and Family

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Katherine Luttmann

November 6, 2023

I´m so sorry for your loss, Burdo family. He was such an amazing person - I´ll never forget carpooling to tennis practice and giggling the whole way. Sending tons of love

Mustafa Mert

November 6, 2023

I am really sorry for your loss Gerry and all Burdo family. I never met Alex but I worked with his father Gerry for years who is a great man. I cannot imagine his pain, and what is family is going through right now. My condolences to the entire family.

Lidia Pereira

November 5, 2023

I´m truly so sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences to all Burdo family. Lidia

Arthur Martin, Port St Lucie, Florida

November 4, 2023

I never met Alex, but reading his obituary I feel as I did know him. I too am a bird watcher and lover of birds. I now live about 45 miles north of West Palm Beach. My favorite place to go was Juno Beach. I raised birds for over 7 years but had to stop after having 2 strokes in 2014. Alex may you soar high and my deepest symphony to your friends and family.

Arthur Martin

November 4, 2023

We have never met but reading his obituary I feel as I do. I too love birds. I raised them for over 7 years until I had 2 strokes in 2014.Living about 45 miles north of West Palm Beach I looked for scrub jays myself. Juno Beach was my favorite bird watching area. My symphanoty to the entire family on your loss of such a wonderful soul. Rest in peace and fly high!

Luciana B Silverio Pires

November 4, 2023

I babysat Alexander when he was 7 years old. He always said he would study birds or be president of the United States. He always welcomed me warmly when I arrived to work. Since then we have always kept in touch. I will love you forever Alex! My condolences to the entire family.

Luciana B Silverio Pires

November 4, 2023

I babysat Alexander when he was 7 years old. He always said he would study birds or be president of the United States. He always welcomed me warmly when I arrived to work. Since then we have always kept in touch. I will love you forever Alex! My condolences to the entire family.

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