Search by Name

Search by Name

Barbara Pacific Obituary

PACIFIC Barbara Gentile Pacific, age 59, of Bridgeport, a secretary for the City of Bridgeport Board of Education at Hall School and formerly Garfield School, died suddenly on Sunday, October 18, 2009 at her residence. Born in Bridgeport on January 3, 1950, she was a daughter of the late Alfred and Mary Careddu Gentile. She was a member of the St. Theresa Guild at Holy Rosary Church and served on the Festival Committee for the Feast of St. Anthony. She was also a former member of the Bridgeport Democratic Town Committee. Survivors include a son Gregory D. Pacific and his wife Katrina of Bridgeport, a brother Attorney Bryon Gentile and his wife Mary Ann of Stratford, a granddaughter, Nicoletta, nieces and nephews, John Pavlik, Lisa Beazoglou, Dr. Bryon A. Gentile II, Anthony Gentile and several great nieces and nephews. Funeral services will take place on Friday, October 23, 2009 at 8:30 a.m. in the Abriola Parkview Funeral Home, 419 White Plains Road, Trumbull, and at 9:30 a.m. in Our Lady of Assumption Church, Fairfield for a Mass of Christian Burial. Interment will follow in St. Michael Cemetery, Stratford. Friends may call on Thursday from 4-8 p.m. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society, 372 Danbury Rd., Wilton, CT 06897. To light a virtual candle, visit us at www.abriola.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Connecticut Post from Oct. 21 to Oct. 22, 2009.

Memories and Condolences
for Barbara Pacific

Not sure what to say?





Madeline, Jayson & Kayla Velez

October 26, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss Ms. Barbara will truly be missed by everyone at Garfield School.My children attended Garfield from kindergarden until it closed and she always had kind words. She was a comfort to see when you walked in the school.My prayers are with you and your entire Family

Jeffrey Velez

October 24, 2009

Dear Greg, I am not sure if you remember me, but I am the guy who was at your wedding at your mom's request. With all that said your mom was a wonderful person, she was a person who I could go to for anything and she had the answer. I just got this information today and I am so sorry to hear the passing of your mom. I am in shock at this time from the news. If there is anything that I can do for you and the family give me a call. (203-908-5140)

October 24, 2009

Dear Gregg, Cat, and Bryon:

I was very sorry to hear of Barbara's passing. I was very fond of her and we had a lot of laughs together at The Roma Club. My thoughts and prayers are with you at the time. God Bless!

Donna Anderson, Connecticut

Wilton & Tracy Jimenez

October 23, 2009

Dear Greggory,
I am still in shock of the news, I remember the last Christmas we spent together sitting on her lap and hugging her. I just can't believe it, I am here for you Greg, always, no matter what, I am here.

Elvia Walytok

October 22, 2009

Your mother was a wonderful, strong woman. She always spoke so lovingly of you, your wife and most recently the baby. My heart goes out to you for all the grief and sadness you have to go through, but know this, she will always be with you and yours as long as you keep her in your hearts. I will miss our work conversations and the e-mails very much, she was an original "MONA" and I will always remember her affectionately.

Ken & Pat Ziman

October 22, 2009

Our deepest sympathy on your loss. She really took care of everyone at Garfield School.

Tom Kelly

October 22, 2009

Dear Greg,

I'm so sorry to read the news of your Mom's passing. She was one of the great one's, and will be sorely missed in Bridgeport. I'm an old St. T's kid and was proud to read of her good works at the school.

A Johnson

October 22, 2009

I met Ms. Barbara almost two years ago when my children started attending Hall Elementary. From the day I met her she proved to be one of the most nice, caring and compassionate person that one could ever meet. She knew every child by name and showed love to everyone who crossed her path. My heart broke when I heard of her passing. To her Family we send our deepest condolences. Ms. Barbara touched alot of people with her work at the school and hopefully those memories will help you cope with your loss. She was the BEST. God Bless Her and You.

Dorine Manlapit

October 22, 2009

Dear Greg,
It was a pleasure and an honor to have been a part of Barbara's life. I am deeply saddened by the news, and graciously offer my prayers to you and your family.
Always,

Dorine and Leilani

william schlenk

October 22, 2009

Bryon&Gregory,
My prayers and sympathy for the loss
of your sister and Mom

Mary (Beaudry) Jackson

October 22, 2009

Hi Greg...so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing, she was always so great to me the whole 9 years we went to St Theresa's!!! She'll be in my prayers and thoughts always.

October 22, 2009

Greg and Family,

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers...

God Bless You,
Chandra Maxwell
Barnum School

Jim & Mary Ann Ferris

October 22, 2009

Gregory, katrina and family-
Our deepest sympathy. Your mom was a great friend and will be missed by so many.

Marilin Feliciano

October 22, 2009

Barbara, my lovely Barbie......words can't really explain how I feel since I heard of your passing. I love you, always had and always will. I will miss you so much. My prayers are with Gregory and his family......Know that she was the most beautiful person in my life. Her heart was so full of love and she always loved to help everyone.
Marilin Feliciano

Kate Berarducci

October 21, 2009

Oh my Barbie....I missed you the moment I heard...I am so sad, my heart is aching and you will be truly missed by all. Remember all of our talks, laughs, tears, but most of all our friendship that we shared over the past several years. Barb, you will be remembered as a joyful, strong woman but most of all the bestest mother one could ask for...you loved your family so much....I feel your families pain..they need to look to the dear Lord for Peace and Calmness in their lives.

Barb, I love you and pray that you are now with the Lord and looking down at me and everyone else spreading good cheer!

Love you now and forever my friend,

Kate Berarducci
Trumbull

October 21, 2009

Greg and family, I am very saddened by the loss of your Mother. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Lou DiMatteo Garner N.C.

Anthony Longo

October 21, 2009

Hi Greg, I'm sorry for your loss. We'll miss her. I'm sorry that I did not get to see her again. If you need anything, let me know.

Ornella Buffone

October 21, 2009

Dear Greg,

I was so sorry to hear of your monther's death. Your Mother was always a big helper here at St. Theresa School. She was a very social person,and we always had good conversations. I pray to God the he gives you comfort during these paiful times.
My condolences to you and your family.

Mrs. Ornella Buffone

Natalie & Anthony Saviano

October 21, 2009

Gregory and Family,

We are very sadden to hear of your mother's passing. She was a very vibrant and kind person. Please accept our heartfelt condolences. May God Bless you all.

Nanci Ferris-Zibell

October 21, 2009

Greg & Family,
Your mother was such a fabulous lady!!! I have very fond memories of her when I was growing up working the St. Anthony's Feasts with her!! More recently, I enjoyed our "through the fence" conversations while she was at Garfield School. She was and will always be a shining star! She will be missed!

October 21, 2009

Dear Gregory and family;
My sympathy and prayers are with you. I will always remember her spirit, finding Daisy at the front door of Garfield and all the kindness she showed to me when I was going through some difficult times.
Barbara Buffery

Johnny Ortiz

October 21, 2009

Gregory , I am really sorry to hear of the loss of your mother Barbra, I can not belive it . She will be truly miss by many .Your mom was such a classy lady and a great person. I got along with your mom from the first day I met her, through my cousin Yvette or as your mother would call her (Bella) and then I had the oppurtunity to work with her at Garfield School. May the God bless you and your family at this time. May God take her in to his arms and may she always see the pepetual light . Amen

Yvette Caballero

October 21, 2009

I had the pleasure in knowing Barbara for many years. We would keep in touch through emails, phone calls and when we had those famous clerical meetings. My prayers and thoughts are with the family in this time of grief. May the happy memories of how wonderful and special Barbara was to many people bring the family comfort.

October 21, 2009

Words cannot express my shock and sadness over the passing of Barbara. She was a sweet, kind, and lovely lady who will be missed by everyone who knew her. My thoughts and prayers are with you and you family during this sad time.

Holly DelGais
Secretary
Classical Studies Academy

Showing 1 - 24 of 24 results

Make a Donation
in Barbara Pacific's name

Please consider a donation as requested by the family.

Memorial Events
for Barbara Pacific

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Barbara's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services, and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Barbara Pacific's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more