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Carmella Santos Obituary

Santos, Carmella T.
Carmella T. "Babe" Santos went to be with the Lord on October 27, 2012. She was born January 19, 1929 in a second floor apartment on the corner of Madison and Amsterdam Avenue in Bridgeport CT. She was the second child and only daughter of Fred and Della Pirozzoli Perillie. Her brother, Fred, then 2 year older gave her the name "Babe" which she is known as. She married the love of her life, Joseph F. Santos on June 18, 1949 and had remained so until her death. She was the mother of Joseph who is married to Kimberly Prindle Santos. Joseph's children include Lynn, Laureen, Joseph, Grace, and Emily. Carmella was also mother to John. She was also mother to Steven who married Donna Barnum. Steven's children include Monica, Danielle, and Steven "Gus". She was also the mother of Laura who married Paul Janisch. Her nieces are Kathleen Perillie and Janet Distassio. She was a good mother, a great Italian cook and baker, a peacemaker with gentle qualities, and she honored and loved her Savior Jesus and had a heart for everyone. She was a resident of Trumbull for 46 years. She was predeceased by her brother, Fred "Fritz" Perillie and his son Fred Perillie. Friends are invited to attend a grave side service on Thursday, November 1, 2012, at 11:00 AM in Long Hill Burial Grounds, 53 Middlebrooks Ave., Trumbull CT 06611. There will be no calling hours. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Bridgeport Rescue Mission Inc., 1088 Fairfield Ave., Bridgeport CT 06605, in memory of Carmella. Arrangements entrusted to the Parente-Lauro Funeral Home, 559 Washington Ave., Bridgeport. www.parentelauro.com

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Published by Connecticut Post from Oct. 31 to Nov. 1, 2012.

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Jim & Mary Pearson

November 10, 2012

Mr. Santos, Jim and I are so sorry for your loss. She will be greatly missed by all! Our hearts and prayers go out to the entire Santos Family.

Joyce Soltesz

November 4, 2012

Joe, My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Babe will be sorely missed. She was a wonderful cousin and a caring person.

November 2, 2012

So Sorry to hear about your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you, love Colleen Kelly, Sam & Jennie Pelletier xo

Robert & Adele

November 2, 2012

We will miss Carmella. Some of our fondest memories were the parties and dinners at her house in Trumbull.

Geraldine Dolyak DeGenova

November 1, 2012

Mr. Santos, Joe , Steve, John and Laura, our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Please accept our condolences on the loss of your wife and Mom. She will always be remembered with that beautiful smile and loving personality.God Bless you all.

October 31, 2012

There are no words to describe the loss of a most gracious woman, wife and mother as was Carmella. It has been a privilege to have known her warmth and grace she so willingly shared with others. This quote by an unknown author so accurately describes my feelings " Some people come into our lives and quickly go away... Some stay for a while and leave foot prints in our hearts....And we are never ever the same.... I am so pleased Carmella was part of my life. Love Veronica

Ana & Judite Carloto

October 31, 2012

To all the Santos Family. We are so sorry for your loss. She was a wonderful woman and friend.

Keith and Agnes Perellie

October 31, 2012

We are so sorry or your loss. Babe was always so sweet to us and very dear, and even though we haven't seen her in far to many years, she was always there in our hearts. There is no doubt she is with our Lord and will be guiding us all from above.

October 31, 2012

To all the Santos Family: Carmella was a
wonderful and spirtual person, she will be missed by all who knew her and especially her family whom she loved dearly. Rest in peace Carmella. Elaine & Bob

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