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Paula Ellis
March 13, 2024
Miss you every single day
Mandy Ruggiero
March 13, 2019
13 years? I don't know how it could be. I remember like it was yesterday. Such a good person... thank you for our talk just a week before you left us. Every word still echos in my mind! You've been missed by everyone that was ever fortunate to have spent time with you... and mostly your loving family. Rest In Peace Darryl
Mandy Ruggiero
March 1, 2010
Hi Darryl, I was just thinking about you. The wind always blows you through my mind. Time goes by so fast... I am sure you are looking at your beautiful niece Lena from above. Every time I put my ipod on shuffle... I know you are putting on the perfect mixture of Method Man, Pearl Jam, and oh so many others for me. You are so very missed down here... but you created the soundtrack to so many lives. Well... I just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you...xoxox Love Always, Mandy
Darla Lussier
February 6, 2010
Have you seen Foxy yet? I bet you are playing with her! Miss you. Telling Lena all about you! XOXO
theresa binck
March 13, 2009
hey bro me and mikayla were just saying how much we miss you and how we would give anything to have you back i love you and wish that you knew me and the kids now xoxo i miss you friend
Darla Lussier
September 29, 2008
I miss you--- 30 years old today. Happy Birthday I wish we could go to the movies together. XOXOXOXO
paula ellis
September 29, 2008
happy 30th birthday my baby...I love you Mom
Day Seriani
August 29, 2008
i was a long time family friend of the Ellis family when we lived on Valley Rd. i am in CT for my aunts funeral and noticed the Ellis name on here. I am very sorry for your loss and i hope all are doing well.
Marilyn Pearson
June 27, 2007
Hey Big D ... Guess you have a partner in crime up there now, dontcha ... Did you greet him already? Show him around? My pain is so surreal ...Who ever has to go through this .. TWICE ... before age 30? Guess I'm earning MY wings ...it better be worth it! But at least my two Loves, my strong, sensitive, intelligent, crazy blue-eyed Loves, have eachother up there ... I miss you, I miss Luckie so much ... SO -I have 2 angels now ... See You On The Other Side ...
~M~
Marilyn Pearson
December 18, 2006
My thoughts have turned to you so much lately, Darryl ... last night my roommate called me out of my room to hear a song that she thought I would enjoy .. It was "Hallelujah" by Jeff Buckley, and I just leaned against the wall and listened and felt your loss and your presence so intensely, so overwhelmingly. Last week a student smelled so strongly, so beautifuly of coolwater, I almost cried as I spoke with him... And christmas is coming, and I am trying to make New Year's plans, to get excited, but its so bittersweet ... I keep recalling how we spent last new year's together, the weather all nasty, we didn't want to drive... so we hung out on my couch, watching the ball drop, listening to kanye west, doing shots of vodka like we did ten, eleven years ago, in high school ... and how wonderfully honest our relationship had become, that well before midnight, you blurted out, "Just so this isn't weird, at midnight, I'm kissing you on the cheek" .. and I fell asleep - what were we watching? was it wedding crashers? I can't recall ... but you woke me, put a blanket on me, let me know you were going home ... I am so glad, and so sad, that I got to ring in your last year with you, my Angel.
Christina (Figol) Severson
May 2, 2006
My deepest sympathies to the entire Ellis family. You and Darryl have all been in my thoughts and prayers since his passing.
Darryl always knew how to put a smile on my face since meeting him in 6th grade. Friday night pool hopping between the Ellis/Schmecker neighborhood would not have been the same in 7th grade without Darryl :)
May happy memories forever live on.
Annamarie Alonza
April 24, 2006
Paula,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you deal with your grief. God Bless all of you.
DEBRA DAWSON
April 23, 2006
PAULA, I NEED TO SIGN THIS GUEST BOOK BECAUSE I WANT YOU TO KNOW HOW MUCH YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND HOW MUCH I PRAY FOR ALL OF YOU. WORDS ARE SO EMPTY SOMETIMES I WANT TO WRITE SOMETHING THAT WILL FILL IN THAT HOLE IN YOUR HEART AND I KNOW THAT IS IMPOSSIBLE....LOOKING AT THE PICTURES OF DARRYL WHAT A HANDSOME MAN HE WAS...THIS IS HARDER THAN I THOUGHT IT WAS GOING TO BE IGUESS BECAUSE THERE AREN'T WORDS THAT WILL EXPRESS WHAT I WANT TO SAY TO YOU JUST KNOW THAT I LOVE YOU AND I'M STANDING IN THE GAP FOR YOU...DEBRA DAWSON
Cathy & Bob Araujo
April 10, 2006
Paula, Ned and Family,
How moving is is to read these entries and see the photos. Teri's eulogy was so loving. What a wonderful tribute to your Darryl. Our thoughts and prayers are with you for the sad loss of your precious son.
lauryn Ellis
April 9, 2006
Darryl was my cousin. I never met him, but i have seen him at family parties. And even though we never talked, i still miss him dearly, and try to remind myself that he died for the better, because he no longer has pain, and most importantly he is back with his daddy. Darryl is a great man, and wanted what was best for everybody. he loved his dog, mom, sisters, nices and nephew, and im sure he misses them. I miss Darryl so much!!!!!!
Nicole Swercewski
April 6, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with all who knew, loved, and cared for Darryl
Theresa Binck
April 4, 2006
Darryl I miss ypu more and more each day .I would of seen you at least 3 times by now and talked with mom through you even more. You room is beautiful and we are all missing you .YOU WOULDN'T BELIEVE all the people who have been upset with your passing. Mom got a huge bouquet from Planet Fitness and a woman from GNC called about a job. I know you are happy now but I'm not.You will be missed every minute. Love,Terri
Wayne Herdman
March 29, 2006
To Paula and family,
We are so very sorry to hear about the loss of your son Darryl. Our hearts ache for all the tradgedies that your family has gone through in the past year. Please know that you are in our prayers and our whole family send our condolences. We think of you and Uncle Paul all the time!
Rebecca Slosar
March 29, 2006
I was saddened to hear the tragic news.
My condolences.
Stephanie Misiewicz
March 28, 2006
Paula, Darla, Terri,and family;
I can't begin to express how sorry I am. I didn't have the priviledge of knowing Darryl as an adult but I'll never forget him as a young man. He was beautiful, funny, intelligent, and talented. I'll never forget driving down to Myrtle Beach. We had some really fun and memorable times together. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Darryl and Darryl Sr. will be watching over you always. -Love Stephanie
k denton
March 28, 2006
Paula, My heart bleeds, my tears fall. I pray to God to give you and your family the strength to get through this. When asked "how you are", don't say whats really on your mind, "muddling through" or "getting by" will suffice. When your task here on earth is complete, then you will see your loved ones again.
My condolences and my prayers are with you.
Bianca Bacsick
March 27, 2006
To the Ellis family -
I was saddened by the news. My thoughts are with you.
~.~
Mikay Binck
March 26, 2006
Hey Uncle Darryl, I still miss you...lol! Idk what I am gonna do w/o you. I try to remember all of the good advice yo gave me about...well....everything. I have to bring a "SB" coffee and a movie to your gravestone, lol. I need your advice on the new movies coming out, I wish you were here to see them. I love you!
Darryl and Marilyn
March 25, 2006
Darryl with Marilyn Pearson
March 25, 2006
Darla and Darryl - Nursery School
March 24, 2006
Michael Da Silva
March 24, 2006
To the Ellis Family,
Please accept our sincere condolences for the untimely death of Darryl. We were shocked and deeply saddened to learn the news. We know what Darryl meant to all of you.
Love,
Mike and Danielle Da Silva
theresa binck
March 23, 2006
I heard you today in the church bells across the street.
Mom and Ned painted your room sky blue. Mom's birthday party went well but it was noisy and chaotic you would of headed upstairs or maybe not i never could tell with you. I miss you. I'm waiting to see you again. Send me a sign again it got me through the day. I love you brubby. Also Mar came to mom's birthday, it was nice. It added something of you.xoxoxo
Sharon Fenton, Orcutt
March 23, 2006
Paula and Family-- I was sorry to hear about Darryl, I hope you find comfort in knowing how many people are thinking of you at this difficult time, my thoughts and prayers are with you all. Sharon, Class of "71"
theresa binck
March 22, 2006
I miss you. I went to the mall tonight but I couldn't stay. I saw you everywhere. Why did you leave me? You said you wouldn't. Maddie said she misses her Uncle Darryl and that he'd always say he loves me. Mom's birthday is tomorrow. It will be ten days since you left. Please come back!I miss you. We can start all over and you can relive your life again and I will be closer and I will take care of you. You are my baby brother and I want you on this earth. Please visit me in my dreams. I love you and I do remember when we were little. I do remember Aussie hairsray. I remember it all and I love you too. I'm so sorry that I didn't let you know that more often. Sissy
Melanie Kaye
March 22, 2006
Dear Darla and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss and you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love
Melanie Kaye
Scott Lieberman
March 22, 2006
To the Ellis Family,
My thoughts are with each and every one of you. I am so sorry for what happened and want you to know I am here if you need anything.
Stay Strong,
Scott
Mandy Ruggiero
March 22, 2006
I am so glad for the time I was able to spend with Darryl one week before he was taken. Darryl always had so much to say and had a passionate opinion on all topics. I will always picture you Darryl, painting Shane's room with me getting all the spots i couldn't reach while giving me professional painting tips. I appreciate our discussions on religion and Pearl Jam... we always had that love for Pearl Jam and lyrics in common. You smelled like coconut and Cool Water, and by the way, your iPod is a work of art. I will miss you Darryl.
To my Darla... I love you, I am here always for anything any time you need me...
Paula, If you ever need anything... even a babysitter for Foxy call me anytime.
Terry, the same applies to you...Your eulogy was perfect! I love you all, and you are in my prayers.
Darryl's spirit was in his smile...that will never die. -- Love Always, Mandy
Jessica (Grant) Stanciu
March 22, 2006
To the Ellis family,
I wanted to let you know how truly sorry I am to hear about Darryl. You are all in my prayers.
Marilyn Pearson
March 22, 2006
God, I don't even know where to begin ... I am just overwhelmed with sadness to lose one of my oldest closest friends in you, Darryl. Nobody on this earth knew me so well, so fully, sometimes better than I know myself. I am so greatful that we were able to stay close after all we've been through ... You'll never know how much you were needed and appreciated in my life. My solace is that your beautiful spirit lives on, surrounds me, watches over me, my Angel Boy... I'm just going to keep on talking to you, asking for your advice, sharing my thoughts and experiences with you, until we meet again someday. I love you, miss you so much!
Darryl Jr. in his early baseball days
March 22, 2006
Mary Ann & Chris Far
March 22, 2006
We love you all - we're in this together - that's what family is for and we are family - know you can call us anytime - know we are there for you - know he was taken way to quickly from us but he is with Dad - Love Chris & Mary Ann
Darryl with his family on Poppy's 80th birthday party. His cousin Danielle Hoddinott, son Charlie, and Corrine Tighe (LaCroix) Me and Terri . Mikayla , Michael and Madison his nieces and nephew.
March 22, 2006
Kate Kutash
March 22, 2006
Paula, my thoughts and prayers go out to you in this difficult time.
Abby Brennan
March 22, 2006
Dear Darla and Family,
We were so sorry to hear of Darryl's untimely passing. You are in our deepest thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Abby (Grant) and Michael Brennan
theresa binck
March 21, 2006
I miss you Darryl and I wish you were here to have seen Chris Daughtry sing his version of "Walk the Line." I am so sad. I know you loved American Idol. I also know that you loved the Johnny Cash movie because we watched it together the week before you left for heaven. I hope your watching from up there. I'm missing you!
Ken & Jessica Hoddinott
March 21, 2006
Paula and Family-
So very sorry to hear of Darryl's passing. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Jessica Mills
March 21, 2006
There are no words to express what to feel at this time. God has big plans for you I know it. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Easter 1988
March 21, 2006
Darryl with his cousin Becky
March 21, 2006
XOXO- Darla
March 20, 2006
Jesse Lussier
March 20, 2006
I miss you Darryl. You were like a brother to me and a dear friend. I will always be good to your big sis Darla. I was looking forward to you being in our wedding. I remember how excited you were for us on our engagement on Christmas. I will miss playing basketball, going to the gym, going to the movies, and just hanging out. I love you.
Jesse
Patti Wirsing-Gutierrez
March 20, 2006
Paula and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss,all of you have been through so much,my thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Darryl with his doggies- Foxy and Lola
March 20, 2006
Darryl and his cousins, Sarah and Chrissy
March 20, 2006
Abby, Mike and Zachariah Evanko-Weber
March 20, 2006
Paula and family,
I know there are no words that can comfort you at this time but please know that Darryl has a special place in my heart. I can remember many times at your kitchen table listening to his plans and ideas. He was a special man and I will think of him often with love. I have no doubt that he has been reunited with his beloved daddy. I've also asked our Molly to give a kiss to the new tall guy in town for us.
With much love and prayers,
Annette Kryger
March 20, 2006
Dear Darla and Family,
We are so sorry to learn of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones at this time. Cassie misses you and sends you extra hugs.
The Kryger Family
Robin Notaro
March 20, 2006
In the deepest part of my being I try to come up with words to let you know how sorry I am, but I can't. Know that our thoughts are with you , our prayers are for you, and I will always remember Darryl's twinkling blue eyes and his handsome smile. His memory lives on in Mikayla's, Mikey, and Madison's beautiful faces. We love you Darryl.
Darryl Ellis, my little brother- on top of web mountain. We had to go to the top because that is where you can see the best view.
March 20, 2006
Victor Lembo
March 20, 2006
Paula,
Kathleen, Alysse, Kaiti and I are deepy saddened to hear of your sudden loss. Please know that we'll pray for you and your family. If there's anything we can do, please call on us at anytime.
Victor Lembo and family
terri binck
March 20, 2006
I am waiting for the conn. post to approve my eulogy it was lenghty so it may take some time check back every so often and hopefully it will be up soon
christopher paoli
March 19, 2006
My thoughts and prayers from my entire family. My brother joey who was friends' with Darryl in high school also sends his best from Afghanistan.
Martha & Nick Ismailoff
March 19, 2006
Paula,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family today.
Sincerely,
Elaine Baklik
March 19, 2006
May God give you strength in this most difficult time.Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
The Cacchillo and Baklik Family
Sandra and Joe Dziedzic
March 19, 2006
May you find comfort in knowing that Darryl was loved by so many and his caring spirit will have a lasting mark on so many people's lives. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. With our love and deepest sympathy,
george & jeanette shorrock
March 19, 2006
Paula and family,
we are so sorry to hear of this tragedy.Our hearts go out to you and your family. Our deepest condolences.George,Jeanette and family
Walter & Marilyn Binck
March 19, 2006
Paula and everyone!
We cannot put into words our feelings over this tragic loss. Daryl was a good person who was loved by all and will be surely missed by all. We are sure that he and Daryl Sr. are looking down on all of us at this time.
Love
Marilyn and Walter.
Frank Talcik & family
March 19, 2006
To Paula and Ned and family, I am so sorry to hear about Daryl. My prayers and thoughts are with you
Angela (Talcik) Staron
March 19, 2006
Words cannot express just how sorry we were to hear of Darryl's untimely parting. He was a such a joy to be around. In the past few days, I can only recall the wonderful memories at my Uconn aparment where Darryl and my cousin Marilyn spent so much time together. Whether he was telling us how we needed to clean up our apartment and subsequently vacuuming it for us, or word processing a paper on the latest vitamin for working out, or making cooking up some snack in order to watch a movie comfortably. What a devastating loss. Your family is in all of our thoughts. All of our love. Darryl, we'll miss you.
Mikayla Binck
March 19, 2006
I love you Uncle Darryl and always will. You were a great guy and uncle. You ALWAYS made me laugh. I will never ever forget you and your big, shiny smile! I love you so much! -Mikay
Theresa Binck
March 19, 2006
This is the eulogy that I read at my brother's service. Many people have requested copies. I would like to share with all of you the person my brother Darryl was to me.
He called me "sissy", he called me "boss", he considered me his friend. He'd show up at my house when he wanted and leave when he felt like it. My brother Darryl was like no other, well maybe like one other man I could think of, Can you guess who?
My brother was always looking for connections. He was seeking intimate relationships with people. He wanted people to really know who he was and to understand him.
Darryl loved his family and friends. He was an intense and passionate person. He enjoyed sharing his ideas and feelings with other people. He recently told his niece Mikayla that what he loved about her most is that she has her own opinions and is willing to speak up for them.
Darryl loved to analyze and discuss politics, religion, movies, songs, books, and life. He always wanted to REALLY EXPERIENCE EVERYTHING he did to the fullest. This is one of the reasons he would only go to see movies at the Regal Cinemas in Stratford with its stadium seating and 6.1 Dolby Digital surround sound. If I was going to Seymour Entertainment Cinemas he's say "I'm all set with that." You couldn't talk or leave the room when watching a movie or T.V. show with Darryl because he wanted you to be immersed in it with him.
He loved comedy specials, Seinfeld, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Lost and his favorite, House. He often told my husband Mike and I that since we didn't have HBO we might as well not even watch television.
Pearl Jam was one of his favorite bands, "Indifference" a favorite song. Darryl new all the words to so many songs and he felt them all. "Hallelujah" by Jeff Buckley is a song that greatly moved Darryl. He would have loved for everyone to have listened to it in memory of him.
Darryl is physically beautiful and was mentally infectious. He loved working out and he wanted others to experience the same joy that he got from it. Planet Fitness was his gym and he was always telling me about their "Judgement Free Zone." He would always talk about the importance of taking care of your body. His advice was to stay hydrated, relax, take vitamins, and to me, not to fight with my husband.
Darryl had alot of wisdom. He always told me that I didn't know how lucky I was. He would say, "You have Mike & the kids, a beautiful home, a car, just be happy. Love each other."
He would pop over looking to help. He would say, "Whatdaya want Ter?, Whatdaya need?, What do you want me to do? Carry up your laundry?, make your bed?, that's what I'm here for." He'd always say "Sit, relax, put your feet up, it's okay. I just want to be with you." His intention was always to bring peace and ease to me and my home.
Darryl had just picked a color to paint his room, Sky Blue, it was his favorite color. Blues looked good on him, as everything did. Blue was the color of his twinkling eyes . Darryl's smile could make your day and melt your heart. He always smelled great. He loved creams and colognes. He was well groomed and his body was a solid work of art.
He took Mikayla to the mall last week and while there he stopped at a store called "The Body Shop" and custom mixed a sample lotion for he and I. It smelled beachy like coconuts. He also let Mikayla have her first "Red Bull", then he laughed at how hyper she was.He told her not to tell Mom and Dad, but she did and we all laughed.
He enjoyed buying new clothes although he rarely did. Going to Starbucks and Dunkin' Donuts for coffee, listening to his iPod, and spending time with his dog Foxy Brown were some of his favorite things to do. He was the most complex man I ever met, but at the same time his needs were simple.
I have never come across such a well trained dog as his. He spent so much time with her. He would kiss her and love her and she loved him. Darryl taught her to go to her mat with her toy and he would say "Shake your baby, Shake your baby" and Foxy would shake her head back and forth rapidly with her baby in her mouth. You had to see it ,it was so cute. Darryl also had a cat named Jamie who went to live with a friend of the family. Darryl called her "The Jaimster". Mommy had just recently found out that Jamie had passed away and when she told Darryl he shed a tear, THAT was my brother's heart, THAT was the Darryl that GOD created.
Roseland's pizza was a favorite food, Marilyn Pearson and Daniel Ellis were his friends. Mike and I , Mom and Ned, Darla and Jesse, and Mikayla, Mikey, and his Maddie his close family. He loved and missed his Auntie Helena and his Mimi, but most of all he missed his Daddy.Now they are together again. You are finally free from ALL pain. I love you Darryl! As a side note "I Can Only Imagine" by Mercy Me , "How Far is Heaven" by Los Lonely Boys, and "Amazing Grace" were songs that were important to our family and enjoyed by Darryl. These were played at his Friday, March 17th services.
kristin baranowsky/burtaczuk
March 19, 2006
my family is so sorry to hear about your loss. darryl was always such a good guy with a good heart. our prayers and hearts our with you all,and we are so sorry for your loss..
jason stasalovich
March 19, 2006
To the Ellis Family,
I am so deeply sorry for hearing of this tragedy. I was darryl's friend throughout high school and played sports with him as we grew up. He was always fun to be around and gave me much laughter though the years. My heart and prayers go out to his family. I will miss you Darryl. Rest in Peace.
Mike Pacowta
March 19, 2006
Paula & Family,
I am sure there is no way for me to realistically know just how you all are feeling. I can only let you know how sorry I am for yet another tragedy in all of your lives. I hope you take comfort in knowing the sorrow so many share with you and knowing that Darryl's spirit lives on and we will all see him, his Dad and everyone else who has gone before us some day. Take care and God Bless All of You!
Cathie Zoeller
March 19, 2006
Dear Paula and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about Darryl, my heart goes out to you. My thoughts and prayers are with you, during this sad difficult time.
Sincerely
Cathie Zoeller
Donna Hosking
March 19, 2006
Dear Terry,
I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your brother. Its never easy to loose a loved one but losing a sibling is very hard.
Know that your brother is at peace looking down on you, being your ever vigilant guardian angel watching over you and your family.
In time, you will be able to reminise about your brother with laughter and smiles instead of tears and sadness.
Again, deepest condoloences on your loss.
Donna Hosking
(Mikayla's Cheer Coach)
Charlie and Peggy Evanko
March 19, 2006
Our hearts break for you in the loss of Darryl. He always made me smile. I remember the homework sessions at the kitchen table and him telling his teachers I helped with the answers. Please know that you are in our prayers.
joy pearson
March 19, 2006
Darryl , We will miss you forever. Your smile is unforgetable . I love you . Thank you for everything you taught me about music and the gym . Im still gonna go to the gym , So you better come help me out.
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