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David Ramsay Obituary

RAMSAY David Todd Ramsay, age 48 of Stratford, beloved husband of Mary Jean (Griffin) Ramsay, entered into rest Tuesday, April 7, 2009 after a courageous battle with cancer. Born in Southington, December 9, 1960, he was the son of Stewart Ramsay and the late Sylvia Ramsay. He was a police officer in the towns of Southington and Wolcott before becoming a plumbing and heating supply salesman in the Fairfield County area. "Captain Dave," as he was affectionately known, was an avid boater and fisherman. He was a "Reel Parrot Head" being one of Jimmy Buffett's biggest followers as well as an enthusiastic Mets and Patriots fan. Never being one to pass up an opportunity for a laugh or good time, he was always willing to share a fishing tale with his extended family on B dock at Brewer's Marina. In addition to his wife and father, he is survived by his stepson, Michael D'Onofrio Jr.; his brothers, Mark Ramsay and his wife, Maria and Peter Ramsay and his wife, Rachel; brother-in-law, James Griffin and his wife, Eileen Gorman; sisters-in-law, Laurel Adams and her husband, Mark, Lisa Griffin and her husband, Ernie Cruz and Elizabeth Christiansen and her husband, David; nieces and nephews, Morgan, Megan, Justin, Kaylan, Emma, Maeve, Laura, Stephen and Daniel; several aunts, uncles and cousins. He will be missed by his beloved dog, Maya. The family would like to thank the employees of St. Vincent's Medical Center, especially the staff of 7 East, CVU and ICU for their compassionate care. Friends may greet the family Thursday, April 9, 2009 from 4 to 8 p.m. in the Abriola Parkview Funeral Home, 419 White Plains Road, Trumbull. Interment will be private at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Swim Across the Sound, c/o St. Vincent Medical Center, 2800 Main St., Bridgeport, CT 06606. To light a virtual candle, visit us at www.abriola.com.

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Published by Connecticut Post from Apr. 8 to Apr. 9, 2009.

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Matt & Mo DuBoys

May 4, 2009

Mary Jean , My husband Matt and I express our condolances to you and your family. Matt worked with Dave for a short time at Bender Plumbing in Bridgeport. I met Dave through Matt.. He was so kind and very funny.. We all hit it off well... we will remember him always with a smile...

Tom & Flo Dowler

April 16, 2009

Dear Stewart, Peter and Mark,
We are so saddened to learn of Todd's passing. Our memories of the Ramsey boy's goes back to the Little League games in Southington.We believe you were all on the Blue Sox team.Know that we keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
May good menories sustain you.

April 15, 2009

Mary Jean, Pete and I just heard of the loss of your wonderful husband Dave. Words cannot express our heartfelt sympathy. He was a great guy.
Pete and Mary Ann "A" Dock at Brewers

Elizabeth Morand Towne

April 14, 2009

The Ramsay Family,
I am so sorry to hear about Todd. He was much to young to leave this earth. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I worked at Lewis Farms for a very long time and got to know Todd packing apples. Very sorry about your loss.

Cathy Truscott

April 12, 2009

Stew,Mark & Peter and Todd's family,
I am so sorry to hear about Todd's passing. Our prayers are with you and Todd's family during this difficult time. May the Lord's comfort be with you all. Cathy (Mckay) Truscott

Larry & Gloria McKay

April 12, 2009

Dear Peter & Mark,
We would like to send our sympathy to you both. Pray's & thoughts are with you and Todd's family from the McKay family.

April 9, 2009

Matthew,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Our most sincere condolences for the lost of your father.

April 9, 2009

Hi Mary Jean,
We are so very sorry about your loss, please know that you are all in our prayers.
Our sincere condolences to you all and may the memories that you and Dave create keep you through this trying time.

Your old neighbors from Taft St.
Trevor and Christine Chin

Joe & Jen Chenoweth

April 9, 2009

Mary Jean, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May you be comforted with many wonderful memories and God's peace.

Kristine, Joe & Joseph Jankowski

April 9, 2009

Mary Jean & Michael Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Our most sincere condolences. I still have the picture from RI xmas party in the living room and think of you everyday. I'm so sorry. Love, The Jankowski's Especially Kristine

April 9, 2009

We knew Todd from SHS and what a fun person he was. He always teased me for some reason or another! Ed and I are always sad when we see someone from our class pass away, it's just way too young. To Mark and family, Joanne and Ed Nyerick hold you in our thoughts and prayers.

Rosemary Fritz

April 9, 2009

Mary Jean, I am so sorry to hear about your husband, my deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Kevin Grosky

April 9, 2009

My name is Kevin and I have known "Todd Ramsay" most of my life and while in the police acadamy we took tuns driving for our night classes. I am sorry to say I didn't no he was ill. To his family I would like to say that my thoughts and prayers are with you all. Life is to short and this is a reminder to take the time to tell friends and loved ones that you are allways thought of. I am sad that I lost contact.

April 9, 2009

Mary Jean-My deeepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Gary Hultgren

george roberge

April 9, 2009

Dear Peter,
My sincere condolences on the passing of your brother. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

pj weitzler

April 9, 2009

very sorry for your loss. real good guy.

sandra bike

April 9, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Bruce & Cathy Ross

April 8, 2009

Dear MJ and the Ramsay family -
We are so sorry to hear of Dave's passing.
We got to know him as Mayor of B-Dock during the past two summers.
What a great guy -- the place won't be the same without him.
Our sincerest condolences.

Myra and Buzz Zrike

April 8, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

April 8, 2009

Mary Jean, Our deepest sympathy on your loss. We are so sorry to hear about Dave. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time.

Liz and John Daher

April 8, 2009

Dear MJ,
Our hearts are broken with you. We can't even begin to try to find the right words now. Our Superman put up a valient fight! What a brave and courageous soul! Please know that our thoughts,tears, and prayers are with you now as Dave is in a better place. He will be deeply missed at every boating venture, B-dock plan, Jimmy Buffett song, frozen concoction...he brought out the best in all of us and was the glue to friendships that will never be forgotton and will always be honored.
Much love,
Chris, Sherri, and The Mokes

George and Leo Suplee (s/v Shenandoah)

April 8, 2009

Dear MJ and Michael:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. We all have such fond memories of Dave. His smile and sense of humour certainly lit up our lives. We are better people having met him and will always cary memories of him him with us forever. May Got Bless You

Pat & Lynn munson

April 8, 2009

PLEASE ACCEPT OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHIES

Penny & Chico Diaz

April 8, 2009

Dear MJ & Michael;
We are so thankful for the great times we were able to share with you and Dave. His winning SMILE will be in our hearts forever! Our heart felt sympathy goes out to both you and Michael as well as Daves family. Lots of love.

Kathy Griffin

April 8, 2009

Dear Mary Jean,

Please know I'm thinking of you and I'm so sorry I won't be able to be there for you. This time won't be easy for you--just remember all the happy and good times you've shared with Dave. You will have those memories forever.

Know you are in my thoughts and prayers at this trying time and if there is anything at all I can do for you, please let me know.

All my love,
Auntie Kathy

April 8, 2009

Dear MJ,
Our deepest sympathies go out to you and Michael during this very difficult time. Our love for Dave and our fond memories of him will remain in our hearts forever.
Love,
Ernie, Lisa, Stephen & Daniel

Marie & Red Jones

April 8, 2009

Please accept our deepest sympathies. We we life-long friends of the Ramsay Family.

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