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Deborah Rubenstein Obituary

Deborah S. Rubenstein
Deborah S. Rubenstein, of Bayview Beach, Milford and Siesta Key, Florida, passed away peacefully on Sunday, November 1, 2020. Born in Bridgeport, she was the daughter of the late Joseph and Aurelia (Kaltenbach) Strba, Deb was a retired employee of Peoples Bank. An avid reader, she enjoyed music, Broadway shows, opening weekend at Saratoga and Seattle Seahawks football.
She is survived by her husband, Chip Rubenstein, and her beloved nephew, John Black, his wife Lee Morgan and their children Dan and Eva. Deb was also the loving A.D. (Aunt Deb) to Sheridan, Joe and Justin Black. She is also survived by a brother and sister. Her devoted German Shepherds will also miss her presence.
All Services were private and at the convenience of the family. In the spirit of Deb's generosity, please consider donating to; The Fidelco Guide Dog Foundation, 103 Vision Way, Bloomfield, CT 06002 or to WHY Hunger att. Jen Chapin, 505 Eight Ave. #2100, New York, New York 10018. Arrangements entrusted to the Parente-Lauro Funeral Home, 559 Washington Ave., Bridgeport. To sign an online guest book or to send private condolences, please visit www.parentelauro.com

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Published by Connecticut Post on Nov. 5, 2020.

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Linda

October 30, 2024

I still think of Deb often and fondly. The jokes of her many pairs of readers and she couldn't find one. She was a great friend that I will never forget.

Janet & Greg Torreso

December 7, 2020

We just heard of your sad news. We are so sorry for your loss. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers, With deepest sympathy,

John & Lisa Lombard

November 9, 2020

Chip, so sorry to hear of Deb’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with
You.

Barbara Williams

November 9, 2020

My sympathy to Chip, Charles, Pam, and all of Deb's loved and loving family. She enjoyed life with all of you so much, and bragged without shame about everyone. John and Lee gave her so much pleasure by sharing Dan and Eva with her, and I received many photos of the two little ones. John, Joseph, and Justin were all her favorite nephews, as was Sheridan her favorite niece. I am so grateful for having been her friend as well as her cousin.

Bob and Ann (Kaltenbach) Martinelli

November 8, 2020

I’m so sorry to hear of Deb’s passing. Our condolences to Chip, Charlie, and Pam.

Linda McNeill

November 8, 2020

My heart breaks for your loss Chip and the loss of a good friend. I had so many good times and with Debbie, here at home and while vacationing in Florida. Hopefully you are now at peace. You will be missed always. Love your friend Linda

Stephanie M Owsiany

November 7, 2020

Chip & Family, So sorry for your loss, Deb will always be a memory in my heart as a true friend. We had our fun times and conversations of moral support for one another over the years. Her memory will remain.
Stephanie and Robert Owsiany

Marshall Gordon

November 7, 2020

Chip In Memory of Deborah

Donald J Lako

November 6, 2020

Rest in peace Debbie. I fondly remember our days at Assumption School.

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