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Debra Ann Iacomacci Reilly

Debra Reilly Obituary

REILLY Debra Ann Iacomacci Reilly, age 44, of Bristol Drive, Shelton, died peacefully at home surrounded by family and friends on Saturday, September 16, 2006. She was the loving wife of Edward J. Reilly, mother of Kevin and Lauren Arszyla; daughter of Rosemary Iacomacci of Stratford; sister of Carl Iacomacci and his wife, Andrea, of Seymour; and aunt of Adam and Claudia Iacomacci of Seymour. She also leaves step-daughters, Carrie Reilly Barnum and her husband, Denny, of Bridgeport, and Benthe Reilly Fahr and her husband, Eric, of Encinitas, Calif.; as well as brother-and sister-in-law, Tom and Jackie Reilly of Fairfield; several loving aunts and uncles, several close cousins and many good friends. She was predeceased by her father, Carlo Iacomacci of Stratford; and her grandparents, the late Carlo and Rose Iacomacci of Derby, and the late Anthony and Rose Malafronte of Stratford. Born August 24 1962, Debra graduated in 1980 from Stratford High School and later from Stone School of Business in 1981. She also attended Gateway Community College in New Haven. She was a member of the Fairfield Special Police for 11 years, and also worked as a school bus driver for Laidlaw Co. in Shelton. Most recently she was employed as a dental assistant for the New Haven Dental Group. She was also a board member of the Fairfield Police Athletic League. Debra left a legacy of kindness and compassion that will never be forgotten. Calling hours will be on Tuesday from 3 to 7 p.m. at Riverview Funeral Home, 390 River Road, Shelton. There will be a funeral service at 10 a.m. Wednesday at Nichols United Methodist Church 35 Shelton Road Trumbull, followed by burial in St. Michael's Cemetery in Stratford. Contributions to an education fund for Debra's children may be made to Edward J. Reilly or through the funeral home.

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Published by Connecticut Post from Sep. 17 to Sep. 18, 2006.

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Wendy Reid-Buchanan

September 21, 2006

To the family,

Please accept my heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Debbie and I were great friends in High School. I have such fond memories of her. She will be missed by all who knew her. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Mark Nacovitch

September 19, 2006

Dear Ed, Kevin, and my pal Lauren,

I am so sorry for your loss.I have great memories of Debbie coming over to my house with her clippers and buzzing Joey's hair (ok Ed, Alice's hair). I always enjoyed Debbie at the football games-be it Pop Warner or Shelton High-with her blanket to keep her warm!!! This is a sad day for me,as well as many other people.Debbie was the sweetest !!

I will miss her

Warmest Regards,

Dee and Jim Watt

September 19, 2006

To Debbie's family. Your Debbie was very dear to us. She was a fighter for all the right things all her life -- from the time she worked to get girls admitted to Little League, through her police work, and through the long battle to remain with her family. We wish you comfort and our prayers are with you

We love you, Debbie.

sally martin

September 19, 2006

Dear Rosemary, Our prayers are that God may heal your broken heart. Fondly, Dave & Sally Martin, Venice, Florida

September 19, 2006

Lt. Reilly and Family, Our condolences to you and your family, our prayer are with you.



The O'Connell Family (Trumbull)

Dave Peck

September 19, 2006

On behalf of the men and women of the Fairfield Police Department, I would like to offer our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.



We will miss Debbie and the happiness that she brought to all of us at the Fairfield Police Department. Debbie was a friend to all and an excellent Special Officer.



We will be there for Debbie’s family now and in years to come.



Dave Peck

Chuck Devan

September 18, 2006

To the family of Debbie,



I cannot tell you how sorry I am for your loss. She was a very special person. I will always have fond memories of playing in the band with her. She taught me how to play the trumpet, even though I was a sax player. She was fun to be around, had a great sense of humor. She, as well as your family will be in my prayers.



Chuck Devan

The Maffucci Family

September 18, 2006

Your mother was a very special person. She touched each member of our family with her sparkling smile and kind manner. She will always be in your hearts and guiding you both each day with her love. Know that there are many who have you both in their thoughts and prayers.

Love,

Sandy Zaccagnini

September 18, 2006

Lt. Ed Reilly,

Please accept my heartfelt sympathies for your loss. The Lord has welcomed home Debbie but she will be missed by many.

Sandra Suffredini

September 18, 2006

Dear RoseMary: My deepest sympathy and condolences to you and all the family. This is a tragic loss to you and your daughter's family. Sergio and I pray God to grant you all the strength you need to carry you through these times. Our sincerest sympathy to all of you. Sincerely, Sandra Iacomacci Suffredini and Sergio Iacomacci

Michael Rietano

September 18, 2006

Lt. Reilly,



We are so sorry for your loss. You and your entire family are in our thought and prayers. If there is anything you need feel free to contact me.



The Rietano Family

Frederick Rak

September 18, 2006

There are no words to express our sadness.We are left with loving memories and Deb's "special smile".May God be with you today and forever.

Fred, Madeline and Carey Rak

Sue DeLeon

September 18, 2006

Ed, Kevin & Lauren - I am so so sorry for your loss - my heart goes out to you. Debbie was a wonderful woman and friend. Her faith, spirit, laugh and love will always be remembered and you were her life. We're here if you need us. Sue, Michael & Jennifer

Pam Pengue Maher

September 18, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers go to your family, for you truely were a great person I grew up with. My memories of our youth are fond and funny. May you find comfort and peace on your journey home. Your friend, Pam Pengue Maher. God Bless

Harry Testani

September 18, 2006

Dear Rose,Deepest condolences to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very sad time.

Sincerely, Harry

The Bouchers

September 17, 2006

So sorry to hear about your loss..Our thoughts are with you all.

DAWN COWELL

September 17, 2006

sweet lauren, my heart is breaking for you and your brother, after having many conversations with your mother, i know that she loved you and your brother more than life itself, remember i would always say moms have eyes in back of there heads and they know everything, so know that mom no matter on earth or in heaven will be watching over you, and always by your side!!!!!!!! you know that you are my third daughter and i will be here for you, stay strong and be the best you can be. love dawn, and the whole cowell family

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