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Grace Feliu Obituary

FELIU Grace Cavero Feliu, age 41, of Cheshire, left this world on Tuesday, August 8, 2006 to be with the Lord. Her family and friends were with her at Waterbury Hospital to see her begin her journey. Her devoted husband, David, was by her side as he has been from the day they were married eight years ago. Grace was born on October, 26, 1964 in Hartford, to her mother, Adela Mayo (deceased) and her father, Manuel Cavero. She attended Saint Joseph Elementary School and South Catholic High School, where she was a cheerleader. She went on to attend Trinity College on a scholarship and later the University of Connecticut Law School from which she graduated with a degree of Juris Doctor in 1989. After law school, Grace became employed by the Office of the Public Defender for the State of Connecticut. She rose to the position of Supervisory Assistant Public Defender for Juvenile Matters in New Britain Superior Court, where she worked until very recently. She was a fearless advocate for the rights of children in the juvenile justice system. She attended Christ Community Church and later Fellowship of Life Church, both in Cheshire. Grace was a member of the Connecticut Hispanic Bar Association, where she met her future husband in 1996 at a board meeting. She saw him again at the Inaugural Ball in 1997 in Washington D.C. They later began dating and she was married to him on June 26, 1998. She gave birth to two beautiful children, Gabriel in 2001 and Erica in 2004. On December 31, 2004 Grace was diagnosed with breast cancer. She fought the disease with courage, strength and dignity. She was supported in her battle by her husband, her family, her friends, her doctors, nurses and the staff at the Leever Center in Waterbury and by her support group, Brave at Heart. "Gracie" as many people called her, was loved and admired for her dedication to her career and to her family. She was as forceful with her arguments in court on behalf of her clients as she was kind and loving to her children at home. She loved to shop, usually for someone else and she always tried to remember birthdays and send greetings to people. Anyone who knew Gracie, whether it was for a minute or a lifetime, had the same feeling about her. Gracie was very special and had a way of connecting with people that she came into contact with. One could not help but be affected by her presence and love. Gracie is survived by her husband, David; her two children, Gabriel and Erica; her father, Manuel; her step-mother, Celina; her sister, Sylvia; her step-brother and step-sister, Adam and Eva and their families. She is also survived by her Tias, Julia, Sara and Mirta; her uncle Willie; her grandmother, Aurelia; and her cousins, Rosie and Kitty, Angela, Maria, Danny, Dale, Armandito, Patty, Leyla; and many other aunts and uncles and cousins. The family will receive friends and visitors in the Fellowship of Life Church, 150 Sandbank Road in Cheshire, telephone 203-272--7976 on Friday from 4 to 8 p.m. Service will be held on Saturday at 10 a.m. in the Church, followed by internment in Cheshire Hillside Cemetery. The Slater Funeral Home, 242 So. Main Street, is in charge of arrangements. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Gabriel and Erica Feliu Scholarship Fund, C/O People's Bank, 275 Highland Avenue, Cheshire, 06410, where an account has been set up.

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Published by Connecticut Post on Aug. 11, 2006.

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David Feliu

August 8, 2022

My Beloved Grace,
I have never stopped thinking of you. The hole in my heart is still there. Gabby recently joined the US Navy! He will graduate this year from basic training and go back to UConn to finish college before resuming his Navy career. He wants to be an officer. Erica will start college in September at University of Rhode Island. She wants to study Communications. I will continue to work until both of them graduate college. Then maybe I'll take a break.
I see you in them every day. Thank you for bringing them into this world. I will see you in the next one.

Mary Zavisza

August 8, 2018

Grace,

For two years after your passing you would appear to me in my dreams, softly entering my thoughts in slumber. Today I was thinking of you again, as I so often do, and I don't think it is coincidence, as today is August 8th, the 12th anniversary of saying goodbye to you.

I hope you continue to visit me in my dreams, and you will remain in my heart as one of my dearest and most beautiful friends, inside and out.

XO

November 10, 2015

i miss you mommy - erica f.

Rita DeSoto

May 9, 2015

My dearest friend Grace. We began our legal career together as roommates the summer before we began law school. During law school we did our own things but you always came to Boston to visit me and me in Conn. To visit you. Then graduation & obstacles with the bar. Then your trip to DC were you happen to met the love of your life!! Then 2 babies!!! Grace why did our blessed Lord choose you? You have forever been in my prayers & heart & I miss you so much. I hope & pray that David & your blessed children are all well & feel the power of our prayers & I pray that you my dear friend is smiling down on us. I miss out Ann Taylor shopping sprees. I miss the innocence of us wanting to be lawyers and conquer the world. I miss us watching each other from different states as we grow & develop in our respective legal careers. But Grace I hope you are proud of me. That NY city girl trying to get out. I've done it Grace and you will always be a part of me my legal career my life my first law school roommate. Rest in peace my dear dear friend

Janet Williams

May 3, 2011

I met Grace through a family member when she had just finished law school. I found her to be kind with a promising career and life ahead. I was sadden twice when she was no longer in the family and when I found out that she had passed away. My prayers are with her family, she will truely be missed.

Franckline Casimir-Benoit

August 12, 2009

I think about Grace all the time. I miss our conversation and most of all our friendship. David, you were truly blessed and my prayers go to you and the kids.

David Feliu

August 9, 2007

Grace, my beloved, you have been gone from this earth for one year, yet I feel your presence as though you never left. Your smile, your voice, your radiant beauty have not faded. You gave me your love and made me a happy man. We have two beautiful children who, I promise, will always remember their wonderful mother, as will I.
Rest, my dearest, until we meet again. I love you.

My thanks to all who posted messages in this guestbook. It will be permanently online for those who wish to view or post in the future. May God bless you all.

August 15, 2006

My deepeset sympathy goes out to the family especially the little ones. I knew her as Gracie and I am proud that she has touched so many lives and did what she loved to do. She will be missed and she still lives on through her kids.

Marilyn Diaz

August 14, 2006

David and Family - We are all so very blessed to have Grace in our lives. You and the children made her so very happy. May the tears you shed be ones of joy for all the beautiful memories of her. You have my love, thoughts and prayers.

Douglas F. Mosby Jr.

August 14, 2006

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Michael Sheldon

August 13, 2006

Dear David,



I am deeply saddened by Grace's death. Rarely has a name better fit the one who bears it than hers. She was a favorite student of mine, and later a favorite colleague as well, because of who she was, and how fully she committed herself to putting her considerable personal and legal skills to uses that truly mattered to her. I will miss her greatly, and grieve with you for your loss.

Louisa McLeish

August 13, 2006

dearest David, Gaby and Erica, hope you remember me, it's Louisa, we used to live in Cheshire, now we're back in the UK. Grace was such a beautiful woman and I was so sad to hear that Grace had died, she was a fighter and I know that she fought the whole way! She always spoke so passionately about you and the kids. I know that her memory will burn forever in our hearts, Take care David and please kiss Gaby and Erica for me. All our love,

Paul and Louisa McLeish xxxxx

Sue Smith

August 13, 2006

David and Family -



My deepest sympathies during this time. Grace was a wonderful person and the world is better place because of her.



Sue Smith

Leo Budnick

August 12, 2006

David, With deepest sympathy at your loss. My thoughts are with you.

Norma Castro

August 11, 2006

Dear Cavero-Feliu Family

My deepest sympathy to the family,I had the pleasure of working with her, Grace was a humble, kind and a very strong person, I will never forget that smile.

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Carmen Casarella Del Monaco

August 11, 2006

When hearing of Grace's passing I remember so many fond memories of our days together at South Catholic High School. She was a wonderfull

person and had a beautiful smile. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to her family at this very difficult time.

With sympathy,

Doreen Adams

August 11, 2006

Dear David,

My name is Doreen (Ramos) Adams. I was a friend of Grace's from South Catholic High School. I would like to express to you, your children, and the Feliu and Cavero Families my heartfelt sympathy for your loss. I last saw Grace at our 20th High School Reunion. She was beaming with tales of her new baby boy, and you, David, were right by her side with your new digital camera snapping shots as she flashed her classic "Grace" smile that lit up the room. I can honestly say that I had never seen her happier and I know that her happiness could only have grown as the size of your family did a few years later. I did not know about Grace's breast cancer diagnosis, so that will be my last memory of her, but I will hold dear in my heart how happy you had made her. I hope that God will give you and your children the strength to continue on and that you will always find peace in her silent presence in your life. You and your family, and Grace, will be forever in my thoughts and prayers.

Brendan Flynn

August 11, 2006

As high school, and then law school classmate of Gracie, I was blessed to experience first hand her warmth, intelligence, love and commitment. She was an extraordinary person, and the world is a better place because of her.

Nathalie Trevitazzo

August 11, 2006

David & Family,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.

Joseph Shortall

August 11, 2006

Grace was a wonderful attorney and an even better person. The inspiration she gave to so many, both personal and professional, will make her sorely missed. My condolences to her family for their great loss.

Grace & David, we love you..

August 11, 2006

Carmen Baez

August 11, 2006

Dear David and family:

I had the pleasure to work with Grace in Hartford and New Britain Public Defenders Office. I admired her for her dedication to her profession, family and friends. I will miss seeing her and talking to her in our small lunch room.(We loved to talk about Marc Anthony) I hope that all the good memories comfort all of you somewhat. My prayers go out to you, Gabriel, Erica and the rest of the family.

August 11, 2006

Dear David:



I just learned about your dear spouse "Gracie" passing. Although, I never met her, I wanted to express my sincere condolences to you and your loved ones. My prayers are with you and your beautiful children. I so sorry for your lost.



Take care and God bless. A friend always,



Martita Rodriguez

Jose"chico" Rivera

August 11, 2006

Our Prayers are with David and Family. May beautiful memories bring comfort to all the family. Sorry we can not be with you at this time for we are out of the State.

Jose"chico", Grace, Jose,III, and Hector Rivera, Bridgeport, CT

Abraham Hoffmann

August 11, 2006

Dear Dave and Family,



My sincerest and deepest condolences on your loss. I hope that the support of family and friends will ease the pain of your loss.

Lorretta Outlaw-Satchell

August 11, 2006

To the Feliu Family,

May God grant you peace and understanding in such a time as this. Grace will always be remembered for her smile and kind spirit. My prayers and thoughts are with you. God Bless.

Marcela Bravo

August 11, 2006

Querido Manuel y familia. Les extendemos nuestro mas sincero pesame por el penoso fallecimiento de "Gracie". Nosotros la imaginamos a la edad de dos o tres, corriendo con las otras criaturas en Colt's Park con su linda sonrisa en sus labios. Ella no va ha estar sola, ahora esta con la Sra. Adela y juntas vigilaran por sus hijos, Ud., su esposo y demas familiares. Que Dios los bendiga y vele por Uds. en este momento tan doloroso.



La Familia Bravo.

Alba Colon

August 11, 2006

To the Feliu Family,

May God Bless you all. The Heavens just got another Angel. She will always be with you. My deepest Sympathies.

Neida Robles

August 11, 2006

Dear David and Family,

I am so sorry for the loss of your wife, Grace. Your love for her was very evident and wonderful to see. May God be with you, your children and all of the family.

Siempre,

Neida Robles

CeCe Aleman

August 11, 2006

My deepest sympathies to the family on the loss of one so lovely in so many ways.

Neida D. Garcia

August 11, 2006

To the Feliu Family,

It is a sad time for all of us who knew Grace as what she was, a fighter until the end. But she now has won the biggest prize ever... A

place in heaven next to our good Lord. May God comfort you in this time of separation, but do know we will all see her again on that great day when Jesus calls us all home.

Jerry Diorio

August 11, 2006

Dear David and Family:



My deepest sympathy to you and your families.

Mary Lenz-Scully

August 11, 2006

Dear Feliu Family:



I was a friend of Grace's at South Catholic High School. Grace was a wonderful and warm person. My heartfelt condolences to your family at this difficult time.

Kelly Mozzicato

August 11, 2006

Amazing Grace describes her perfectly. In her job and in her personal life she was courageous and compassionate. I will miss seeing Grace come through the hall at work with her smile and her Good Morning. She was passionate about her clients as well as her family. I was blessed by having Grace as my Supervisor and my friend. I send my deepest sympathy to David and her family.

Marguerite Richard

August 11, 2006

Dear David and family:

Our most heartfelt condolences.

May God Bless you and comfort you and your family.

Our prayers are with you.

God Bless,

Marguerite Richard , Peggy Porcu and family

Kristine Cormier

August 11, 2006

Praying for friends to comfort you, faith to uphold you, and loving memories to help you smile again.

The guardian angels of life sometimes fly so high as to be beyond our sight, but they are always looking down upon us.

With Sincerest Sympathy~

Rita DeSoto-Ekpe

August 10, 2006

I met Grace 20 years ago when our only dream was to be a good lawyer and serve our people. Since meeting Grace in June of 1986 we have shared many happy times, sad times, accomplishments and the experience of marriage, motherhood and love. I am grateful to our Lord that Grace met David and was able to give all her love to him and to be loved by him. I am also very grateful to our Lord for allowing Grace to experience parenthood. For the last several years we have lived far apart but Grace, you, David, Gabriel, Erica and our wonderful memories have always remained in our prayers and in my heart. May you rest in peace my dear friend.

Milagros S. Cruz

August 10, 2006

Dear Cavero-Feliu family, My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve and may the lord continue to guide you. I always told Gracie that her name was befitting, because I always admired her serenity in the most difficult of situations. The lord blessed us with her friendship. I will miss seeing her smile and gleaming eyes.

Rosie Cooney

August 10, 2006

David,Gaby,Erica, Uncle Manuel, family and friends.I am very saddened by our loss. Gracie was an incredibly smart, kind and beautiful person. Just a few weeks ago she wanted to go shopping at WF Mall, she loved to shop.The last day I saw Gracie, she comforted me with her smile, hugged me goodbye, and wished me a safe trip back to California, always thinking of someone else. That was Gracie. She will always be my role model of what a woman should be. God bless you all and may you find comfort in knowing that she will be watching over us.

mindy

August 10, 2006

Dear Attorney Feliu and Family:



My most deepest sympathy to you and your family. May the LORD guide you and keep you under his wings through this difficult time. GOD BLESS YOU!!!

John Bailey

August 10, 2006

Dear David and Family,



Words cannot express the sympathy. May God bless you and comfort you in this time.

Nicole DeNote

August 10, 2006

To the Feliu Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Mary-Ann Baio

August 10, 2006

Dear David, Gabrielle, Erica & Family,



We are heartbroken at the loss of Gracie. She was like a sister to our sister and future sister-in-law, Claudia. She was one of the sweetest, kindest and loving people we knew; her smile and love of life could light enthusiasm in anyone she touched. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. She will remain in our hearts.



Our deepest sympathy,



Mary-Ann Baio & fiance' Roger

Greg Granger

August 10, 2006

Dear David & Family,



As a classmate, fellow Christian and friend I am pained by the loss. Grace's love for you and the children was glowingly evident each time I had the pleasure of talking with her. I have kept her in prayer throughout her ordeal as I know she has prayed for my son Phillip. I am a better person and a better Christian having known her. GOD BLESS YOU & YOUR CHILDREN



Your friend, Greg

Susan Chrostowski

August 10, 2006

To the Feliu & Cavero Families,



Grace will be deeply missed. Her smile and kindness will never be forgotten. Wish we could be there with you in your time of need. God Bless and our prayers are with the entire family.



Love, Andrew and Susan Chrostowski

Cat Campbell

August 10, 2006

The children Grace advocated for here in Connecticut have lost their angel; We have all gained another in heaven far too soon with her passing... May God Bless her family in your time of loss and sorrow and keep you in all of our prayers. She was in inspiration to all of us who work to protect children.

Eileen Williams-Esdaile

August 10, 2006

Cavero-Feliu Family,

I don't know any of you, but after reading Grace's obituary, I was overcome with many emotions, from saddness to happiness and peace. I am a 7 1/2 year breast cancer survivor, having been diagnosed at age 38 with two young children. Grace accomplished alot in her 41 years, and you should be comforted knowing that she is no longer suffering, but at rest with the Lord. God's blessings to you all.

Kelly McCuin-Kelly

August 10, 2006

With heavy hearts do we offer our sympathies and prayers for you and your young family. I know how dear Grace was to my cousin, Claudia, and the entire Baio family. God Bless all of you.

Mike Isko

August 10, 2006

To Grace's dearest family,

We are heartbroken by your loss, but know that Grace's memory will always bring sunshine to us all. Our most heartfelt condolences.

The Beaman Family

August 10, 2006

Our deepest sympathies to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Mary Baio McCuin

August 10, 2006

To the Feliu Family:

My sincere sympathy to you on your loss. I knew Gracie through my niece, Claudia. She was always so very sweet and a lovely person.

I'll keep her in my prayers.

Gaye Baio

August 10, 2006

Dear David and Family:

I'm so very sorry that we have all lost Gracie. She was like another daughter to me. I loved her and will miss her so very much. Please accept my very sincere sympathy.

Noely Sanchez

August 10, 2006

My deepest sympathy to the Cavero-Feliu Family. We will always remeber Grace, she was a great person and always maintained a remarkably positive attitude and continued to support Community Partners in Action. She will be missed.

marlene tyson

August 10, 2006

Our prayers are with your family. Grace was a "fighter for the kids that she represented in court", Grace had a smile and spirit that was magnified in her wonderful persona. Gracie was quite the "fashion horse".My professional life was enhanced by our working together in the Hartford Juvenile court many years ago; she contributed greatly to the spirit of diversity as a wonderful latina role model for all of us, she will be missed and always remembered

ramon Gonzalez

August 10, 2006

Grace may god hold you in his arms and keep you for eternity.

your friends in Milddletown Juvenile court.

Toni, Luis and Gabriela Smith-Rosario

August 10, 2006

We are so grateful to have known Grace. She was a remarkable woman who excelled in every part of her life - as a friend, wife, mother, lawyer and child advocate. Few people have touched as many lives as Grace has or lived a life as full of faith and service to others. God has called home one of his angels. May He give you strength and comfort during this difficult time.

Leslie Soler

August 10, 2006

My prayers and thoughts are with you, David, your children and family during this difficult time. I don't doubt Grace will be in a better world and will watch over you forever. Love, Leslie Soler

Lynda Baio

August 10, 2006

Feliu family:

My deepest and heartfelt sympathies go out to all of you at this most difficult time. I knew Gracie from South. We roomed together on a trip to Florida. I know of no greater, kinder or sweeter person than Gracie! She will be missed dearly. I pray that God holds her gently in his loving, protective arms and that Grace finds the peace and comfort she so deserves. I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers.

Lynda & Rick

Christopher Abreu

August 10, 2006

I will always remember Grace for her supreme kindness and pleasantness.And for the astonishing legacy that she leaves behind.God bless you Grace.

Kathy, Gordo, Nick, & Nikole Santana

August 10, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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