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Jack F. Messina Sr., age 54, of Trumbull, a retired police officer for the City of Bridgeport, passed away on Thursday, December 18, 2014 at Yale New Haven Medical Center. Born on August 3, 1960 in Bridgeport, he was the son of Clara Smerglinolo Messina of Bridgeport and the late Jack Messina. In addition to his mother, he is survived by his loving wife of 32 years and best friend, Cheryl Piazza Messina, who has taken the greatest care of him throughout his illness, his son Jack F. Messina Jr., his daughter Lindsay Pereguda and her husband Tomasz, three sisters, Susan Koval and her husband Peter of Bridgeport, Lori DeFrancesco and her husband Vincent of Stratford, and Gail Rodriguez and her husband Wayne of Bridgeport, his mother-in-law Carolyn Piazza of Trumbull, as well his brother-in-laws, Craig Piazza and his wife Fredi of Ft. Lauderdale, Robert Piazza and his wife Stephanie of Trumbull and Randy Piazza of Trumbull. He is also survived by many nieces, nephews, great nephews and nieces, godchildren, cousins, aunts and an uncle. In addition to his father, Jack was predeceased by his father-in-law Robert S. Piazza, uncles Ralph DeNitto, Joseph Gallant, Frederick Smerglinolo and Nicholas Messina his aunt, Maryanne Piazza as well as his best friends Charles Mauro and Ricky Piccirillo. Jack was a member of the Central High School Class of 1978, where he played both baseball and football. He was a member of the '78 state championship baseball team and lettered in both sports. One of his biggest passions was coaching. Over the years, Jack coached football, baseball and basketball, coaching and mentoring hundreds of kids. His favorite coaching years and memories are when he coached his son for 7 years for Trumbull Pop Warner Football. Jack's greatest joy in life was his family, especially his children. He was an amazing father, coach, mentor, friend, confidant and their number one supporter always. A Memorial Mass celebrating his life will take place on Wednesday, December 24, 2014 meeting directly at 10:00 a.m. in Christ the King Church, 4700 Madison Ave., Trumbull. Interment will be at the convenience of the family. Friends may call on Tuesday, December 23, 2014 from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. in the Abriola Parkview Funeral Home, 419 White Plains Rd. Trumbull. In lieu of flowers, those desiring can make memorial contributions to the family through the funeral home. To light a virtual candle, visit us at www.abriola.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Jack Messina
Jerry melilli
December 15, 2022
RIP
Joe "Pee-Wee" Hernandez
December 27, 2014
My condolences to the entire family. May Jack rest in peace. Jack was a great man. He easily lit up every room he walked in. God Bless.
Frank Gill
December 25, 2014
Condolences from the Gill family from Jacksonville Fl ! Sorry for your loss
Cindy Maurer
December 24, 2014
Susie and Messina Family - I am so sorry to hear of Jackie's passing. even as children growing up with the Messina family I will always remember his heart felt smile and generous nature. My prayers are with you and God Bless - love always, Cindy
Mark Piccirillo
December 24, 2014
Rest in peace, you are with Jesus now.
My condolences to the family.
Jon Redmond
December 23, 2014
Jack will be missed by all a good person and good friend. Deepest regrets to his familly
December 23, 2014
The Messina and Koval Family; Ther are no right words to say that will comfort you at this time. It takes some time to recover from the loss of someone we love so much. Each passing day traces of joys, memories, stories and especially his love to each of you will be noticed. Our Sympath Vito Savo and Family.
George Grom
December 23, 2014
Jackie "The Coach"
I am going to miss you! Put together a football team in heaven and I'll come help you.
joanne criscione
December 23, 2014
My sincere condolences and prayers go out to the Messina family. May Jackie rest in peace and in time the family find peace. Love to you all
December 23, 2014
Dear Sue and the entire Messina family,
I am so sorry for the loss of your brother, Jack. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
The Bell Family
Sheila Williams (Austin)
December 22, 2014
Cheryl and the Koval family sorry for your loss I had the pleasure of meeting Jack may God give you comfort in this time of bereavement. I send my prayers out to your family.
Sheila Williams
December 22, 2014
Clara and family I am sorry for your loss , may God give you peace and comfort in your time of sorrow. God Bless you and your family.
Paul/ Laurie Carlson
December 22, 2014
Our prayers and thoughts go out to Cheryl and the kids. Jackie was such a great guy and will be missed. His smile could light up a room.
Paul/ Laurie Carlson
December 22, 2014
Our prayers and thoughts go out to Cheryl and the kids. Jackie was such a great guy and will be missed. His smile could light up a room.
Mr. & Mrs. Anthony Petrizzi
December 22, 2014
Our most sincere thoughts and prayers are with your family. So sorry to hear of the loss of Jack. May God comfort you through this difficult time.
Tony & Linda Mauro
December 22, 2014
Cheryl, We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers will be with you & your family.
John Uliano
December 22, 2014
Very sorry to hear about your loss My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family
Bill & Steph Gaffney
December 22, 2014
Cherly, Lindsay and Jack Jr.
Please accept our condolences on the passing of Jack. He's a great guy who resting in peace
David Donnelly
December 22, 2014
"Cheryl, Lindsey & Jack Jr. I remember your husband/Dad from my days at Saint Joseph's. He was one of the greatest competitors I ever faced. Even more so he was a Tremendous person. We are very sorry for your loss, our Hearts and Prayers are with you during this very difficult time.
David and Patricia Donnelly
Jack & Jacklyn Campos-Rodrigues
December 22, 2014
Lindsay & Family, May your beautiful memories give you strength! God bless you all!
xo
Josh Moores
December 21, 2014
Im sorry for your loss May God Bless your Family
Harold Distefano
December 21, 2014
to the messima family.very sorry for the loss of jack.he was a great person!may he rest in peace.
Rich and Sue ONeil
December 21, 2014
Cheryl, Lindsey & young Jack, we are sharing in your loss. Jack was a great husband, dad and friend that Sue and I loved very much. I'm so proud to call Jack one of our life long friends. Always thought of Jackie as another brother of mine. We have great memories as kids together playing baseball. Our summer job at Fairchild golf was full of laughs. Lindsey and Jack it may be hard now but always remember your dad will never leave you. Although we will miss him dearly the smiles and laughs we had together will always be with us. May God bless your family to help you through this difficult time. Love Rich & Sue always.
Bob Smith
December 21, 2014
RIP coach. You made the game fun!
Jerry Melilli
December 21, 2014
Jackie you will be missed, RIP Man.
Louise Katherine Karoli Gallagher
December 21, 2014
To the Messina Family,
I worked with Jack on the Police Dept. He served Bpt. proudly. I send my sincere condolences in his passing. Jack will be remembered by all who knew him, fondly.
December 21, 2014
To the entire Messina family,
My sincerest sympathy to all of you . I remember "Jackie" from Little League, High School and growing up as one of my sister Sue Keogh's dear friend. He was special even way back then. Keep your memories close to your hearts always.
Carol Ferrara Dolny
Johns Creek, Ga.
Darlene
December 21, 2014
So Sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May God give you strength to get through this difficult time. With love and sympathy.
Kurt & Darlene Kepshire
Randy Zaleta
December 21, 2014
My sincerest condolences go out to the Messina family. Yes, the wound is deep, very deep. Now, even though my friend of 44 years is gone from my eyes, he will remain ever present in the vast treasure of memories stored in my heart and mind. Furthermore, when the sting of your absence hurts most, I will take solice in knowing that, at any given moment of inspiration, whim, or desire, I can talk to you, Jack, either verbally or mentally, knowing full well you'll hear every word!
With that being said, I'll say this;
I'll miss your wit,
I'll miss your laugh,
But mostly I'll miss,
You elude defenders grasps,
MEET YA IN THE END ZONE, BROTHER!!!
David and Brian Zahorsky
December 21, 2014
My condolences, thoughts and prayers are with the Messina family. Jack was a special person with a caring heart. He was blessed with the ability to bring a smile to your face and laughter to your heart when you needed it. His soul is in a beautiful place in favor with God in heaven. He will be sorrowful missed.
Mindi Zarrillo
December 20, 2014
Cheryl, I know there are no words to express my grief to you. You are in my thoughts and prayers and this very emotional time
Mindi zarrillo
Brian Masiello
December 20, 2014
My most heartfelt condolences to the Messina family for your loss. I have wonderful memories talking to Coach at Notre Dame about sports and my interest in law enforcement. He was one person I always looked forward to seeing and talking to. Just a great person and I know he was a great father and family man. May he Rest in Peace.
Dawn Dzurik
December 20, 2014
May Jack rest in heavenly peace and may the many happy memories he gave to all his family and friends soon turn tears of sadness to tears of joy for having had the blessing of knowing and loving him.
December 20, 2014
Cheryl, I am very sorry to hear of Jack's passing. He was truly a wonderful person who touched and inspired the lives of many. I'll always remember his sportsmanship and humility while at Central High. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. May God keep you comforted during this time of sorrow.
chris larkin
December 19, 2014
My condolences to the Messina family in this difficult time . Jack was a good guy and will be missed by all .
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