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James Blaine Aiken Sr.

1938 - 2021

James Blaine Aiken Sr. obituary, 1938-2021, Matthews, NC

James Aiken Obituary

James Blaine Aiken, Sr.
November 25, 2021
JAMES BLAINE AIKEN, SR. passed away peacefully at Novant Matthews Medical Center Hospice in Matthews, NC on November 25, 2021 after a long and difficult battle with Alzheimer's Disease. He was 83.
Jim was born in Bridgeport Hospital in Bridgeport, CT on February 13, 1938 to James Barnett Aiken and Peryll Harriet Preuss Aiken of Stratford, CT. He was predeceased by his parents and two siblings, David and Nancy.
Jim graduated from Stratford High School and the University of Wisconsin at River Falls with a degree in Industrial Arts. He served in the US Navy as a reservist and was honorably discharged. He taught Industrial Arts in the Shelton School System at Shelton High School as well as at Roger Ludlowe High School in Fairfield. He took a position with General Motors' Pontiac Motor Division and remained with General Motors for 30 years, retiring as Manager of the General Motors Training Center in Tarrytown, NY. While with General Motors, in the 1980's, he spearheaded one of the first public/private partnerships between an auto manufacturer and an institution of higher education by creating a corporate sponsored program for automotive technical education at Hudson Valley Community College and then expanded the program to various community colleges in the northeast and mid-Atlantic. This program became a model for automotive technical education in community college systems across the country to this day.
After retiring from GM, he continued working passionately to promote automotive technical education programs at the high school and community college level working with the Greater New York Auto Dealers Association, Platt Technical High School in Milford, CT and finally at Gateway Community Technical College in New Haven and North Haven, CT.
Jim was an avid woodworking, camping, boating and automotive enthusiast and a serious Green Bay Packers fan. He enjoyed community activities and was active in his earlier years in the White Hills Volunteer Fire Department in Shelton, CT as well as in Freemasonry. He was a 32nd degree Freemason and a Past Master of King Hiram Lodge #12 in Shelton, CT as well as a Past Associate Grand Marshal for the Grand Lodge of Connecticut. He was also very active in the Anglican Church.
Jim is survived by his devoted wife of 58 years, Judith Clark Aiken of Matthews, NC, previously of Shelton and Stratford, CT, who took incredible care of him his entire life and especially during the past 6 years while he suffered from this terrible illness. He is also survived by his sons John Matthew Aiken, of Matthews, NC and James Blaine Aiken, Jr. and his cherished granddaughter Emma Julia Aiken both of North Haven, CT, his sister Barbara "Bunny" Aiken-Johnson of Ogden, UT and many nieces, nephews, extended family and friends.
A private service will be held at Heritage Funeral Home in Indian Trail, NC. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made in his name to Masonicare Health Center, 22 Masonic Avenue, Wallingford, CT 06492 or at this website https://www.masonicare.org/support-masonicare/donate-now.

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Published by Connecticut Post on Nov. 27, 2021.

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Greg and Judi Balisciano

December 15, 2021

Dear Judy - I came upon Jim's passing away while looking for your phone number. Greg and I want to send you our love.

Sandy Kaeser McFarland

December 1, 2021

Dear Judy,
I just recently came across a photo of Jim with my late husband, taken when he followed Rod as Stratford DeMolay's Master Councilor back in the 1950's. I have fond memories of both you and Jim, and I'm sorry that his last years were so difficult for both of you. My sympathy to you and your family.

Nancy C

December 1, 2021

Judy I'm so sorry for your loss.
"Angels around us, angels beside us, angels within us. Angels are watching over you when times are good or stressed. Their wings wrap gently around you, whispering you are loved."

A Fellow US Navy Sailor

November 29, 2021

Fair Winds and Following Seas, Shipmate. Rest in peace, we have the watch.

Charlotte Tillman Matthews

November 27, 2021

My sincere sympathy to you Judy and to your family. I remember many good times in SHS with you both. May beautiful memories be with you always. Blessings and God Bless!

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