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NERREAU John C. Nerreau, age 74, of Trumbull, died on Monday, January 31, 2005, after a brief but brave battle with bone cancer. He is survived by his loving wife of 48 years, Barbara Fitzgerald Nerreau. He was born in North Haven, son of Henry and Esther O4Connell Nerreau. His life centered around his family, his art and his teaching. In recent years, John and Barbara enjoyed annual trips to Europe to study art. John was a graduate of Southern Connecticut State University and received advance degrees from New York University and Fairfield University. He began his teaching career at the Whitier School in Bridgeport in 1952, taught at Central High School, and then became the supervisor of art for the Bridgeport school system. He transferred to the Stamford school system as the coordinator of art, music, dance and drama. During his long career in education, he was also an adjunct professor at Sacred Heart University and Southern Connecticut State University. He was currently working with student teachers for the University of Bridgeport, University of New Haven and Southern Connecticut State University, and was also involved in student activities with Connecticut Education Services. Among his professional accomplishments he designed and directed a mobile art gallery to exhibit student and professional art work for Bridgeport, the first of such in the nation; he initiated and directed the Creative Arts Camp located on Pleasure Beach, funded by the U.S. Government; he was a co-founder of the Connecticut Arts Education and co-initiator for the reinstatement of the Scholastic Arts award competition for Connecticut High School students. John conducted service workshops in the state for the CAEA, for the New England Arts Education Conference, and for the National Art Education Association. He was awarded the NAEA "State Art Educator of the Year" in 1982. His personal creative pursuits were in painting, calligraphy and stained glass. He and his wife exhibited their work in Connecticut, New York and Rhode Island. John was a member and co-chair of the Trumbull Beautification Committee. He designed the dogwood motif seen on many of the town street signs. John was an active member of St. Theresa Church as a Eucharistic minister, photographer for the RCIA group, and in the Cursillo Movement. He often told with pride and a smile, that he became an altar boy at age 70. He is survived by his daughter, Claudia, her husband, Attorney Christopher Owen, and sons, William and Scott of South Salem, N.Y.; his daughter, Deidre, husband, former Senator Christopher McCabe, and children, Caroline, Maura, Colin and Aidan of Ellicott City, Md.; and son, Brian, wife Shari, and children, Bradley, Jason and Meredith of Fairfield. He is also survived by a brother, Donald Nerreau of East Haven; and sister, Shirley Delillo of Hamden; and several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by brothers, Robert, William, Thomas and Henry Nerreau; and sister, Dorothy Clough. Funeral services will be held on Saturday at 11 a.m. Directly in St. Theresa Church, Trumbull, with a Mass of Christian Burial. Interment will follow in Gate of Heaven Cemetery. Friends may call on Friday from 4 to 8 p.m. in the Redgate-Hennessy Funeral Home, Main Street and Gorham Place, Trumbull.

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Published by Connecticut Post from Feb. 2 to Feb. 4, 2005.

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David Whitmore

December 27, 2005

John and family,

We still miss you and pray for your family, especially Barbara and Brian, who I got to meet and enjoy time with before you left us.



God bless and love, Dave

ken speicher

February 7, 2005

mr nerreau was my homeroom teacher at central high school.he was very instumental in guiding me through my high school years.he was quiet and unassuming and when i would see him occasionally many years later he still remembered me.my sincere condolences, ken speicher

John Quattrocchi

February 6, 2005

GOD BE WITH YOU JOHN

Barbara & Ron Oligino

February 5, 2005

We loved and respected John as a teacher, an artist, a friend and most of all as a Christian who lived his life as a model to us both. Ron and I have appreciated his prayers, his comfort during our own trials and his humor. We will miss him. He and his beautiful wife remain in our prayers and always in our hearts.Jesus will enjoy John's friendship for eternity. Love, Barbara and Ron Oligino

Karen Gallagher

February 5, 2005

To Diedre and family,



I was so sorry to read about your dad. To your entire family, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I have many happy memories of childhood times shared both at school and at your home. May God bless your family during this sad time.

KG

Tim Vivian

February 4, 2005

On the surface John and I could not have been more different. John's artistic ability, gentleness and grace were all that I am not. However, our friendship began and flourished because of a common love for Christ and through this common love John showed me how to be a better father, husband and person. During a difficult time in life while I was travelling each week for business, he made a point to seek me out while he and Barbara were visiting Dierdre and invite me to dinner. That act meant more to me than he knew, it was truly Christ-like. John you will be sorely missed and our time together was too short but I take solice in knowing that your are with our friend Jesus in paradise. God has blessed us all for knowing you. Decolores.

David Whitmore

February 4, 2005

Wonderful John Nerreau please pray for us and especially your family as we all really, really miss you. Thank God for His eternal plans for all of us in heaven as otherwise your loss would be too much to bear.



I met John a few years ago when I was teamed up with him as a table leader on team for a men's cursillo weekend. We taught the men at our table about the love of God, but John taught me even more about God's love by his personal caring, hard work, sense of humour, and gentle but very effective manner of leading us all to be the best we can be. He truly used all his talents: be it art, organization, counseling, praying, crying, laughing, culinary tastes etc. to help me and countless others since I met him. I was looking for my next vocation in life when I first met him and he would call and take me out to lunch once each month to see how I was progressing. He would tell me he cared but mostly he showed me that he cared by being there and even prodding me to move on by throwing out his "ideas" that I might want to consider. He ended up introducing me to his son Brian who is in the same line of work I ended up pursuing as well. I introduced John to another friend of mine and he jumped right in and helped him to go back to school and start the process of launching his new teaching career.



There is not enough space and time to recount all the wonderful things I saw him do, and I only knew him since 2001!!! The world will truly miss him but John did make it better and he made all those he touched better so I know his legacy of love and caring will continue on. Thank you John, and thank you to Barbara, Claudia, Deidre, Brian and all his family for sharing him so generously with all of us. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Dave

Marietta and John Anastas

February 4, 2005

John Nerreau, the quiet, unassuming man who was our back-door neighbor became our personal horticultural and landscape advisor, and very good friend. We created a pathway between our yards, tucked in through the trees, just so we could visit with each other and trade plants, then as the years went by, just fun visits. John became an early evening visitor for a quick chat and cocktail, and his visits were always a special event. We would exchange jokes, gardening secrets, a multitude of plants (some of which I never knew their names until meeting John), crafting ideas,and our exchange was foods and desserts and lots of more jokes. He was forever taking pictures and sending us his famous postcards always surrounding a current life event we exchanged in our visits. I will forever think of him each time I open my mailbox!! In September, we were graced with John's photographic talents as he stepped through the trees and took our wedding pictures before we left for the church!! Then he met us there a short time later to share the day. He was my e-mail buddy sending wonderfully sentimental and emotionally touching poems - one of which we used as a reading on our wedding day. We grew to love him deeply, and will miss him that much more. To Barbara, please know we are just through the trees in the back, and will be here if you need us. Our deepest condolences to the Nerreau family. You were graced with the gentleness and love of a remarkable man.

Our love, Marietta and John Anastas and Rob Stone

An Old Acquaintance

February 3, 2005

Paul Gauguin once said "Life is hardly more than a fraction of a second, such a little time to prepare oneself for eternity". Mr. Nerreau was prepared. His accomplishments, his family and his faith are testaments to this. He was a nice man who seemed to have a gentle grace. The Town of Trumbull is a better place because of him, and I am glad I met him, albeit briefly, in what seems like a lifetime ago. My sincerest sympathy's go out to his wife, and to Deidre, Brian and Claudia. And thank you for telling us about his design of the dogwood motif on the town street signs - a great way to remember him always.

Gerene Freeman

February 3, 2005

I was blessed to have John Nerreau enter my life when I was employed as Coordinator of the Amistad and SDTA Programs for Cooperative Educational Services. Having been left no information pertaining to the programs by the person who preceded me John was an answer to my prayers when he agreed to be my right arm. John not only become a valued colleague but, a dear friend. I feel blessed to have had this very special person with such a pure heart touch my life. I have no doubt that he is in heaven with his wonderful smile and sparkling eyes ... asking some angel... "have you heard the one about....?" The world is a better place because he was here...He will be greatly missed.



Dearest Mrs. Nerreau...please know you have my deepest sympathy and that my prayers are with you and your family.



God Bless You.



Gerene Freeman

lucille Jisonna

February 2, 2005

He was my art teacher at Central

High School. I really enjoyed his class. My sympathies to you.

Jane Bernstein Gottlieb

February 2, 2005

I am sending both condolensces and thanks. I was fortunate to be a student in Mr. Nerreau's class at the "old" Central High. His joie de vivre and encouragement made those hours pass quickly. My experiences were called upon many a time as I pursued a degree in Interior Design in college. I make my living as such to this day.

Thank you, his family, for sharing him with me and so many others at Central. We benefited from his love of his work and his investment in our future.

Diane Montelli Morrisey

February 2, 2005

Mr. Nerreau will be sorely missed by our family. As our 'around the corner neighbor' for the last 8 years, he always greeted my children and myself with a smile, a twinkle in his eye and a good story. Any time my kids and myself would take walks or just drive by the house on Baily all the kids would always yell, "Hello Mr. Nerreau!" Most times, he was't there, they just wanted to send their welcome to a very nice man. I called him, 'my personal gardener', as he would always give me gardening advice or tips. Quite often, I would come home to a box of some plantings on my front porch that he had dropped off either b/c they were over-grown in his garden, or he just thought they would look nice against our new rock wall. He then would call me several times on the phone to make sure I planted them that night b/c it was 'to hot' and they would die if I didn't. On several occasions, Feeling the pressure to do so, I grumbled as I obediently went out to plant these flowers after dinner, b/c I really didn't have the time (6 small kids after all...) But knowing he thought I should and told me to, I always put them in the ground when he told me to. I couldn't let him down. (And I was afraid he would walk by and see them dried up in a box against the garage!)

Oh, Mr. Nerreau will be missed terribly by my family. Mrs. Nerreau, please know that you can call on John or I if you ever need anything, we are just around the corner. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all. God Bless.

Diane Montelli Morrisey

Ed Quigley

February 2, 2005

God Bless you, John. You are already missed. I will carry your loving smile in my heart until I see you in Heaven.

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