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Joseph Beler Obituary

BELER Mr. Joseph V. Beler, Jr, age 64, beloved husband of Melissa Bonessi Beler, passed away on Sunday, June 6, 2010 at Yale New Haven Hospital. Son of Kay Simich Beler and the late Joseph V. Beler, Sr., he was born on January 8, 1946 in Manhattan, NY. Joe served with pride and honor in the U.S. Air Force during the Vietnam Era. Joe was a retired teacher and coach for the Milford Board of Education. He coached several sports for Milford Academy, Foran and Notre Dame High School but was legendary as the football coach for the Jonathan Law Lawmen. "I started my football career at Jonathan Law as a player, and now I am finishing it here as a coach and a Lawmen." His love and passion for sports inspired and touched many students throughout his career and he will be greatly missed. In addition to his successful professional life, Joe enjoyed a fun and rich personal life spending time with his loving family and socializing with his friends. He loved to play golf and travel. In addition to his wife and mother, survivors include four cherished children, Crystal Beam and her husband Greg of Edmond, OK, Joseph V. Beler, III of West Haven, Josh Beler and his wife Hilary of Monterey, CA. and Heather Beler of Manhattan and two precious grandchildren, Jade Beam and Jacob Beler. He is also survived by a brother Michael Beler, sister Carol Mansfield and several nieces and nephews. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Thursday, June 10th at 10:30 a.m. in St. Mary Church, 70 Gulf Street, Milford. Committal will be private. Family and friends may call on Wednesday June 9, from 4 to 8 p.m. at the Cody White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street on the Green, Milford. Memorial contributions may be made to the Joseph V.Beler, Jr. Scholarship Fund, c/o Jonathan Law High School, 20 Lansdale Avenue, Milford, CT. www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.

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Published by Connecticut Post on Jun. 8, 2010.

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Mike Beene

August 19, 2010

Joe III. I was one of Joe's Air Force buddies and teamates on the intramural teams back in the day. I just heard the sad news today. I am sorry for your loss. Joe was a good man and friend.

John Luce

June 11, 2010

While I didn't know Joe very well, as a member of the JLHS Class of 1965 I do remember his athletic endeavors. I am sad at his passing and yet know that he has left great memories to his family and his friends. God Bless you all.

June 11, 2010

To the Beler Family,
I am so sorry to hear of Coach Beler's passing. I cannot begin to tell you how much he inspired me during my years at JLHS. He continued to offer his support during my years after as i followed his footsteps in coaching baseball. He was a great inspiration to me.
George Dummar
JLHS Class of 77

Jackie Williams

June 10, 2010

Melissa and Family,

I am so sorry to hear of Joe's passing! I will never forget his laughter and the good times we had at my mom and step-dad's (Pat and Joe Heard) place in West Haven. He was such a wonderful friend to both of them.
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this sad time. Please take comfort in knowing so many people are thinking of you...

Jackie and Dave Williams

Fallon Bevino

June 9, 2010

To the Beler family, this past few days have been rough, from remembering all the funny, amazing times ive personally had with joe, when i heard his name is would think of teeth. I remember seeing him him at the foran law thanksgiving day game, and i remember him asking if i knew who he was and i answered teeth? Great times, I cry often at the thought of not seeing his smiling face or him joking around and taking out his teeth. He had coached with my dad at many many places i cant even name, but my dad grew to love him and they became best friends, i can't believe hes gone. My heart goes out his family, for loosing such a great man, a friend, a coach, and a role model. I love and miss him, RIP joe<33333333333

June 9, 2010

Dear Joe,
We were so sorry to hear the news about your dad. Please accept our deepest sympathy.
The Williston Family

Anne Minuit

June 9, 2010

Dear Melissa, Jim and I were deeply sorry to hear of Joe's passing. I wish we could be with you but please know that our thoughts are with you as we love you. Love Anne Minuit

June 9, 2010

Dear Melissa, Jim and I are deeply sorry to hear of Joe's passing. Our thoughts are with you today as we love you. Anne Minuitf

sante Faustini

June 8, 2010

Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Paula Gentry

June 8, 2010

Melissa~ I know words can not really help at at time like this. I will always remember Joe with fond memories from our days at Central. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Paula and Michael Gentry

Delgado Family

June 8, 2010

We are sorry for the loss of such a great coach and teacher. The Delgado siblings had the pleasure of having him as a teacher at Law. We all had so much fun with him. He was a great man. Our prayers are with the Beler family, may you find peace with God during this time. Delgado Family (Milford, CT)

Laura J. Kandro

June 8, 2010

I have found memories of Joe from Kay Avenue School and Jonathan Law. RIP.

Janet Void

June 8, 2010

My Deepest Sympathy to the Beler Family;

Mr. Beler was a fun loving teacher. I had Mr. Beler for a few classes and he was fun but yet stern. But you knew he cared about you. I pray God's peace upon the Beler family during your time of bereavement.

God Bless you.
Janet Void
Milford, CT

June 8, 2010

My deepest, heartfelt sympathy to the Beler Family. I will always remember what a great coach he was at Foran High.
Pat Wrigley

Scott Zellner

June 8, 2010

My deepest condolences to the Beler family and all those close to Joe Beler Jr. I played for Coach Beler at Foran High for three years. During this time he exemplified what it meant to be dedicated to what you believed in and to stand up for what you thought was right. After graduating high school our paths separated but the lessons he taught remain with me to this day. Unfortunately the world has lost a good man. However, the legacy of caring and determination that Joe Beler Jr. has left behind has made the world a better place that will endure as his spirit will be in all those he touched in his life.

June 8, 2010

We are so sorry for your loss. We really enjoyed your dad during the football season and know that he will always be in Joey's heart. Our deepest sympathies.

Love,
The Dobbins Family

Mary Booth

June 8, 2010

Gayle and Family,
Bill and I send our deepest condolences..may he rest in peace..Mary & Bill Booth

Meaghan Baye-Scrofani

June 8, 2010

I attended JLHS from 1994-1998 and learned many life lessons from Mr. Beler. RIP

Joan Stanislawski

June 8, 2010

I met Joe when I started my job in the office at Foran H.S. He was a straight forward person and cared deeply for his students. He will be missed by family, friends and co-workers. My deepest sympathy to his family.

Crystal

June 8, 2010

My deepest sympathy to the Beler Family and Friends. Mr.B was a great gym teacher. Law class of 98.

Jeanie DeLoughery

June 8, 2010

One of the greatest men I have ever had the priveledge to call "FRIEND" - Words cannot express how much I'm going to miss you - luv you Joe and Shuuuuuuut uppppppppp
Jeanie

Ruggiero Family

June 8, 2010

We will never forget the fun times we had in the neighborhood. You will be missed!

The Innamorati's

June 8, 2010

Joe and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

The Shoop Family

June 8, 2010

One of the most compassionate acts I ever saw an educator do was done by this man.He never boasted about his behind the scenes acts .He was a friend when the going was tough ,he was kind even when he knew none would see , he was Dad to his students when they needed a Dad.Milford is a better place because we had Joe Beler Jr.

June 8, 2010

I played for Coach Beler at Milford Academy for two years. He was an
inspiration to me and helped me go on with my career in football. He
stressed the value of dedication if your goal was to be achieved. After
my Milford Academy time he kept in touch. I will miss him and always
be greatful for his guidance.
Rob Sack

Pat Falaro

June 8, 2010

I wish to send the family my deepest condolences, Joe will be greatly missed by all of us that had the privilage of knowing him. I remember the great times we had in high school manily on the football field, dam was he bowlegged. He will be missed at the reunion but be assured that we will raise our glass in tribute.

Sincerely

Pat Falaro Jr
Class of 64

Nemeth

June 8, 2010

Our Deepest Sympathy...the Nemeth Family

June 8, 2010

1994-1998 highschool's best years! rip mr.b !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

June 8, 2010

you were a great gym teacher!!!!!!!!!!!!! everyone loved you! very fun!!!!!!! may u rest in peace,we will always remember you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

law -1998 the best years!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Steve Racz

June 8, 2010

To the family of Joe, I was so saddened to hear of the passing of Joe. You are in my thoughts and prayers.Even though we went our separate ways after our days at JLHS, I still followed his career as an educator, coach and friend. Joe will be missed by many RIP#25

Craig Kell

June 8, 2010

My deepest sympathy to the Beler family.

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