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Joseph Fleming Obituary

FLEMING Joseph "Lloyd" Fleming Sr., age 64, of Milford, passed away suddenly on Tuesday, October 14, 2003. Mr. Fleming was a lifelong resident of Milford, born on May 25, 1939, a son of the late Lloyd and Alice Moran Fleming. He was a U.S. Army veteran, serving in the 82nd Airborne. He worked as a millwright foreman at Meyer Rigging of Stratford for more than 25 years. He served on the Board of Alderman for 14 years in Milford, and once served as aldermanic chairman. He also filled in as acting mayor. Mr. Fleming was running for his eighth term. He was an avid hunter, a former member of the Milford volunteer fire department who achieved the rank of lieutenant, and a former member and founder of the fire department scuba diving team. Mr. Fleming leaves his fiancée and loving companion, Sandra Laslett, of Milford; three daughters Kelly Anne Cirillo of Milford; Kim Merk and her husband, Lars, and Karen (Kiki) Enders and her husband, Dave, of Milford; a son, SSgt. Joseph Lloyd Fleming Jr., USAF, and his wife, SSgt. Tarasia, USAF, of Okinawa, Japan; a sister, Eleanor Petrucelli Enyedy of Pennsylvania; a sister-in-law, Barbara Gale of Milford; nine grandchildren, whom he loved and cherished; Sandy s children, William Laslett and his wife, Michelle, and Lauri Curseaden and her husband, Kevin, all of Milford; and several nieces and nephews. He also leaves his former wife, Sheila Fleming Richards. He was predeceased by a brother, Thomas Fleming; and his aunt, Anne Cummings. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. in St. Mary Church, 70 Gulf Street, Milford, on Monday, October 20, 2003. Interment in Kings Highway Cemetery, Milford. Friends may call on Sunday from 2 to 6 p.m. in the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, on the Green, Milford. In lieu of flowers, contributions in his memory may be made to the Armed Forces Emergency Service, c/o The American Red Cross Milford Chapter, 1 Plymouth Place, Milford, CT 06460.

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Published by Connecticut Post on Oct. 17, 2003.

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Kelley Fleming

June 27, 2004

Dear My In-Laws,

I am here in Iraq and believe I have a guardian angel watching over me every step I take. I truely believe Lloydy is my guardian angel. I miss him dearly but from somewhere I get strength. I love and miss you all.

Dale & Melissa Prompovitch

November 18, 2003

Dear Kiki, Dave & family,



We are very sorry for your loss. There is not a day that goes by that we don't think of you. We know what it feels like to lose a parent and are here to support you. We will keep you in our prayers.



Love,

Dale and Melissa

Pat & Patty Fallon

November 14, 2003

Kiki, Dave & Family-

We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts & prayers are with you during this difficult time.

We are here for you if you need anything!!

jackie (Petrucelli) Leo

November 12, 2003

Kiki and Family,

Not a day or even part of a day goes by that I don't think about Uncle Lloyd. Words don't describe the way so many of us feel about him. There will always be only one LLoyd Fleming. Kiki, you know how special you are to me -- please don't ever forget our "pact." Love to you always,

Jackie

Darcie and Raul Sanchez

November 5, 2003

Kiki, Dave, David and Ryan,

A day does not go by that we are not thinking about you. Always know that your friends are here to help you through these tough times, for a talk, a laugh or just a shoulder to cry on.



Love, Darcie and Raul

Cortny Cirillo (oldest grandchild)

November 5, 2003

"We will all miss my grandfather very much but we all have to get through with this very said death. I love and miss him very much and he was always there for me when I was in pain or if it was just a soccer or basketball game. He was my only grandfather I ever met but now he's gone, I know he wouldn't want me to be said but I will always have that hole in my heart that no one can ever fill, but him. I will miss his twinkle in his eye and his shiny bald head. I love you so much "Grampy." "LOVE ALWAYS, YOUR OLDEST GRANDAUGHTER, CORTNY CIRILLO."

Dana Enders

November 5, 2003

There simply are no words to express the sorrow we feel for the loss of truly a great man. He was caring and compassionate. I always enjoyed talking with him and will miss his humor and laugh.

The world is truly a better place when having people like Lloyd in it and his love and friendship was a gift he gave to us. We will greatly miss him and our love and prayers go out to his whole family.

Love,

Dana and Rich Enders

Laurie Curseaden

November 4, 2003

Lloyd,

We miss you so much.I miss hearing your voice and seeing your smiling face.You touched my heart more than you will ever know.Thank you Lloyd for bringing so much joy to our family and to my mother.Thank you for being so supportive to my husband Kevin,you both shared a common bond.Thank you for doing all that you did for me and Brittany,she will always love her grandpa.



I love you always-Laurie

kiki enders

November 4, 2003

To all who have supported us in our very difficult time, thank you. We will try to go on and be strong. The sparkle in my dad's eyes will be missed, along with his fun sense of humor. Today is especially tough, for it is election day. But, my dad would want us to be happy and would want someone to continue to fight for this city. He will always remain in our hearts and his strong sense of pride and honor will carry on through myself, my brother, sisters and his grandchildren. Thank you Kiki

Dannielle Lewis

October 30, 2003

I remember the times the family got together and shared are love for one another. Lloyd was always giving compliments and bringing smiles to everyone's faces. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to my family. I love you all. May Lloyd rest in peace.

Ben & Rosalie Hess

October 21, 2003

To the Fleming Family. We share in your loss. We remember Lloyd so many years ago with the best of memories. We shall miss him helping to fight our battles with any of our town issues.

Jerry and Jill Kell

October 19, 2003

Lloyd~



The last time we saw you was some time ago, you had stopped over our house with Bill and Laurie. It feels like it was only yesterday we were standing in the driveway laughing and talking. Through out the years you had been there to give us advice, we will not ever forget that.

You will be missed, you will forever be in our hearts. Thank you for honor of knowing you and being a kind friend. Rest in peace.



Love,

Jerry and Jill Kell

Jill Kell

October 19, 2003

To my dear friend Laurie~



I am numb with sorrow for your loss. You and I have been through a lot, and we seem to always be there for each other. Our friendship is strong and is there forever. I know Lloyd held a special place in your heart and in your daughter, Brittany's heart also. He was a great guy to the both of you, helping with your house, being the handy man.Always putting others first, That was Lloyd, there to help. I'm here for you, don't forget that, and please send my sympathy to your Mom.



Love your friend,



Jill

Jerry and Jill Kell

October 19, 2003

Sandy, Laurie, Bill and Brittany~



We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our hearts are heavy with sorrow. Lloyd was a wonderful man. He was the one that was there for each one of you to help with anything that needed to be done. We are here for you, do not hesitate to call for help.



Love,



Jerry and Jill Kell

Patrick Lenehan

October 17, 2003

My family and I are very sorry for your loss. Lloyd always had a smile and encouraging word when needed. He will be missed by all. My best to his children and all that loved him

KEN LARTEY

October 17, 2003

On behalf of the Larteys we send our deepest sorrow to the brave family. Lloyd we missed you.

b romenesko

October 17, 2003

Though I did not know Joe personally, I work for the Records Center of Wm B. Meyer and wish to extend my sincere condolences to the friends and family of Joe on behalf of our division of the company.

Raymond Wasson

October 17, 2003

Me and the rest of my family are very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of your family. Sincerely, Ray Wasson and Family

beth griswold

October 17, 2003

our thoughts and prayers go out to the enitre family of lloyd.



the griswold family

Jim Cortright

October 17, 2003

I'm sadddened by this loss. My prayers go out to the entire family. I became very fond of "Rooster" and son Joey during the many years of hunting in Vermont. Your friend, Jim Cortright

Dave & Donna Kovac

October 17, 2003

Lloyd has touched all of our lives in some way. Words cannot express the grief we are all feeling at this time. He will be greatly missed by all. Our prayers are with the family.

Steven & Brenda Nickerson

October 17, 2003

We are so deeply sorry for your loss.

Ilene Cheesman (Margolin)

October 17, 2003

Kim and family I would like to express my sorrows for the loss of your father. May he rest in peace.I know it is a hard time but you all have to continue on with your lives,it will be hard for a while but just be strong and take each day at a time. My prayers are with you all.

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