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Memories and Condolences
for Judith Troiano
Lourdes Rodriguez
August 22, 2011
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Dearest Michelle and Family:
Finding the right words to express the loss of a loved one is never easy. My memories of Judy are that of a woman who knew her fate and didn’t waste a moment. She knew she was in the fight of her life. On those good days, she savored every precious minute with her family and friends. Whether she was sitting at the kitchen table with a glass of wine and laughing with her family or spending time at the beach with her grandchildren, she lived in every moment. It’s this spirit I admired most about Judy, she literally laughed at her mortality. She fought the fight, and now it’s time for her to rest. I believe the poem “Miss Me – But Let Me Go” encapsulates Judy’s strength and wish for those she loved more than anything to live each day to the fullest.
“MISS ME – BUT LET ME GO!”
“When I come to the end of the road and the sun has set for me I want no rites in a gloom-filled room. Why cry for a soul set free? Miss me a little--but not too long and not with your head bowed low. Remember the love that we once shared Miss me--but let me go. For this is a journey that we all must take and each must go alone. It's all a part of the Master's plan a step on the road to home. When you are lonely and sick of heart go to the friends we know and bury your sorrows in doing good deeds. Miss Me - But Let me Go!”
In honoring Judy’s spirit, let’s celebrate life. God’s speed, Judy! You will be dearly missed!
Love, Lou
Susan Richter
August 21, 2011
To Judy's family,
I was away and returned to this sad news. I hadn't seen Judy in many years, but will always remember her smile and her sweet helpfulness for everyone she met. I hope you will all find much comfort in your chersished memories. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Robert Pascarell Sr.
August 20, 2011
Don, I know there are no words to express what you are feeling. Judy was one of the good people and I will always remember the good times we all had over the years!!
My Sincere Regrets,
Bob Pascarell Sr.
Matt Beaupre
August 19, 2011
Troiano Family, we were saddened to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Respectfully, The Beaupre's (Matt, Jenn, Madison, Kara, Julia, Kelsey)
joe kristy
August 19, 2011
Don ;so sorry to hear about your loss i know you were very close i hope the memories will help you in this difficult time
Maggie Walsh
August 19, 2011
Dear Danielle and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. With love, Wechter Cape Cod (Maggie, Gretchen, Harriet, Alison and Stephanie)
Dom Quinto
August 18, 2011
Dear Michelle , Danielle , Jason and Mr. Troiano,
Judy was an Amazing Woman , with
the Best Personality . 30 years
ago at St Vincent's She saved my
Dad and I am forever grateful
for her help .
I am deeply sorry for your loss .
Heather Jones
August 18, 2011
My father died when I was 10 years old and my mom had to get a job, something she hadn't done since becoming a mother. My family had just moved to CT from NJ 18 months before, so my mom didn't have much of a support system to help her cope with the grief of losing a spouse much less the daily challenges of working full-time and raising two kids. Luckily, one of the few people my mom had had the opportunity to meet was Judy Troiano. Judy was a tremendous help to our family at a very fragile time. It was Judy who drove me home from my first middle school dance, from CPR class, and from countless other activities during middle school and into high school. I will remember her most for her dry, sarcastic sense of humor, which inevitably left me holding my sides! My family moved away from CT when I started college, but over the years I came back to Monroe several times to visit with Danielle, one of my oldest friends. The last time I saw Judy I had just recently become a wife and mother. It was great to talk with her and to hear her say that she was proud I had "turned out OK" despite some struggles during those agonizing teen years. Judy is a small part of who I am today, and I will always be thankful that I knew her.
Marsha Lynas
August 18, 2011
Danielle, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your Mom. I hope as time passes you will find comfort in the loving memories of the times you shared together. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Ray Fahringer
August 18, 2011
My most sincere condolences to the Troiano family
Sue Wilgan & Family
August 18, 2011
Danielle ... my deepest condolences on the passing of your mother. I know the sadness you are feeling, as I lost my father this month as well. Zack and Kyle's hearts must be aching. May God's peace be with you and your family at this difficult time, and may cherished memories sustain you in the days, weeks, and months ahead.
Anne Murray
August 18, 2011
To Judy's family,
I also worked with Judy for many years at St. Vincent's. You could always be sure that there would be laughter when you were in her presence. Please accept my deepest condolences. Judy will be missed.
Anne Murray R.T.
SVMC Radiology Dept
The Staff of Spadaccino Funeral Home
August 18, 2011
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
Cecile Rodia
August 17, 2011
My sincere sympathy to the Troiano family.
August 17, 2011
Dear Troiano Family,
I had the honor of working with Judy for many of my 30 years at St. Vincent's. She was a cheerleader, a coach , a mother and a friend to all....and she always made sure that every patient's needs came first. Her advocacy and compassion will always be remembered by the lucky staff who had the chance to work within her circle of light of love. Many prayers and tears go out to all of you in honor of an amazing, wonderful woman.
Dale Danowski RN
Chief Nursing Officer SVMC
Louise Wishneski
August 17, 2011
Dear Troiano family~~Don, your wife and Michelle, Danielle and Jason, your mother was one of the most caring, sweet and kind people to be in my life. I cannot begin to fathom your loss. Know that my thoughts and prayers will be with you at this very sad time. ~~Louise Wishneski
Madeline Gregorzek
August 17, 2011
To The Troiano Family:
I had the priviledge of working with Judy at SVMC on 3 North and Level nine, I loved working with her. Judy knew everything going on, and was such a bright light in all of our lives. I pray that your wonderful memories will help you through this difficult time.
Love, Madeline Gregorzek
Sekerak & Tristine
August 17, 2011
Dear Don and Family,
Our deepest condolences. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Dr.Tristine,Dr.Sekerak, Kathy and Staff
August 17, 2011
Don,
There is nothing I can say to take away your pain.
Your Judy made a lasting impression on those of us who were priviledged enough to have known her and worked with her. Judy was one of a kind and will never be replaced.
She relished life and loved you and the kids more than life itself.
Please know that all who were
blessed to have worked with her, share in your devastating loss.
Pat Ochman
Short Stay
Dr . Kathleen Harper
August 15, 2011
A wonderful free spirited person who touched everyone in cardiology and St. V's
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