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Kathleen Donohue Obituary
Kathleen Agnes Donohue, age 55 of Fairfield, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, October 2, 2013 with her loving family by her side. She was born in Bronx, NY and raised in Staten Island, NY to the late John J. and Agnes Theresa McGovern Donohue. She graduated from Blessed Sacrament, attended St. Joseph by the Sea High School and graduated from Port Richmond High School. She was a graduate of Fairfield University. Kathleen was a Corporate Paralegal at Finn, Dixon and Herling in Stamford, for many years.
Kathleen is survived by her devoted brothers, Patrick Donohue and his wife, Mary Jane of West Babylon, NY, James Donohue and his wife, Donna of Beachwood, NY and her sister, Mary Theresa Accardi of Wake Forest, NC. She will also be missed by her 13 nieces and nephews, Kerri, Joseph, Kourtney, Kristie, John, Donald, Patrick, Alissa, Nicole, Kathleen, Carol Ann, James and Shannon; and her devoted dog, Hannah. In addition, she will be extremely missed by her devoted aunts; cousins; grandnieces and grandnephews.
Friends are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial on Saturday, October 5, 2013 at 9:00 a.m. directly at St. Thomas Aquinas Church in Fairfield. Interment will follow in Oak Lawn Cemetery. Friends may greet her family on Friday, October 4, 2013 from 4-8 p.m. at the Shaughnessey Banks Funeral Home, 50 Reef Rd. in Fairfield Center.
Memorial donations may be made in Kathleen's name to The Lustgarten Foundation: 1111 Stewart Avenue, Bethpage, New York 11714.
To send an online condolence, please visit www.shaughnesseybanks.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Kathleen Donohue
Andrew Baldasare-Krolides
October 21, 2013
I am so sorry to hear of Kathleen's passing. Growing up in Connecticut, Kathleen made an influential impact on me during my formative years. Her encouragement, unrelenting optimism, and vigor were second only to her contagious laughter. My fondest memories of Kathleen include our movie nights - going to see "Legally Blonde" together and literally laughing to the point of tears - ironic considering I now find myself in law school, referencing that movie on a near-daily basis; her encouraging my singing ability as we jammed out to the Spice Girls (my singing ability is still questionable, but I appreciated the encouragement); her enthusiastically coaching me through a list of French vocabulary - fitting since I now find myself living in a French-speaking city; and above all, her unwavering support through so many childhood endeavors - from watching me as a ball boy at our local tennis tournament (bursting with excitement from the sidelines), to my high school graduation. Kathleen watched me grow up, and I so wish she could continue to see me do so. More than anything else, Kathleen showed me what it is to be an amazing person: to open her home to a kid looking for a friend; to be constantly warm and welcoming; to going on adventures (movies and popcorn and playing with dogs can be huge adventures for a twelve-year-old); to speaking to that kid as someone who has ideas, valuing his opinion and thoughts on life. She treated me as I am sure she treated everyone else - with kindness, respect, and an open heart. If we could all live our lives the way Kathleen did, the world would be a kinder, gentler, and better place. Do not rest tranquilly my friend - live it up and have a ball, wherever you are. I hope you are doing just that. Love you.
Ellen Wasneuski
October 14, 2013
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I know it has been years, but I still remember our times growing up in SI. Many good childhood memories on Dickie Ave. My condolences to the Donohue family. RIP
Maria & Pavol Saly
October 9, 2013
Dear Donahue Family,
Our sincerest condolences to all who loved Kathy.
We had the privilege to know Kathy as a beautiful and caring person.
May she rest in peace.
Donna Harris
October 9, 2013
The Harris family sends their deepest condolences to the Kathy's family. Although we only knew her for a few years she has left a lasting impact on us all. Our thoughts and prayers go out to her family.
Jayne Fischer Calano
October 6, 2013
Although it has been years. My heart is breaking. She was one of the best. I will always remember are wild and crazy spaghetti nights on dickie avenue. We lived together for a short period of time out of high school and we were like sisters. We lost touch yet she has always held a special place in my heart. I can hear her laughing and telling me. I got your back even from afar. Her smile and goodness will be with me forever. Sleep we'll my sweetest friend. Till me meet again. You friend forever. Jayne
Jenny Santana-Bruen
October 6, 2013
Rest in peace my friend! You were an angel here on earth and now a guardian angel in heaven. I'll never forget your heart and what a special person you were to all that knew and loved you! God Bless the entire Donohue family! Our deepest condolences!
Janet Biasi
October 5, 2013
MJ, I am so sorry for your loss. The postings on facebook have been a testament to what a beautiful family you have. God Bless your sister-in-law, and your entire family. Sincerely, Janet & Chris Biasi
Carol Young
October 4, 2013
Our heartfelt sympathy is with all the family. Only knew Kathy a short amount of time but her bubbly personality left a memorable impression on all of us.
The Young Family
Diane & Jim Marsh
October 4, 2013
So Sorry for the Loss of Your Sister Kathy. Kathy Was A Best Friend In High School & After. Our Trip to Bermuda, Senior Year was The Best. Kathy was A Great Friend & A Beautiful Girl. We Lost Touch, I often thought of Kathy & the Great Times We Had, Wondering How She Was Doing. Sorry We Lost Contact. Kathy is An Angel Watching Over Her Family Now. Rest In Peace My Friend. May God Bless Your Family!
Patricia Cook
October 4, 2013
We are so very sorry for your loss. Kathleen will always remain in your hearts.
Killian Beldy
October 4, 2013
I think what I'll miss most is your voice-strong with excitement and bursting with positive energy. Always quick to offer advice or encouragement. It's been a pleasure to travel with you and a delight to know you. Rest in peace Kathy Donohue.
October 4, 2013
Our deepest sympathies to all of Kathleen's family. She was a special person who could light up a room with her smile and personality and you will always have beautiful memories to treasure.
Love Elaine and Butch
Rajkumar Nakkeeran
October 4, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Jeanne Pawliczki
October 4, 2013
To The Donohue/McAleavey Family, My sincerest condolences to you. I know how much you are all hurting and missing her. So sorry for your loss. she will always be in your heart. Now a guardian angel looking down and watching out For all of You! ...Jeanne Pawliczki(Petagine-Woodcliff)
Greg DeForest
October 3, 2013
My heartfelt condolence to Kathy's loved ones. I will always remember fondly Kathy's magnificent smile. Rest Easy my beautiful friend!
Sharon McAleavey
October 3, 2013
October 2nd the feast of the guardian angels. We are blessed with a very special Angel watching over all of us.
October 3, 2013
Rest in peace, Kath. You will be missed by many. You were a wonderful person.
Cathy Sommer
Dennis and Katie Spear
October 3, 2013
God Bless all of you Dear Family! So sorry for your loss! She was so loving, kind and fun! Many hugs and Prayers for all of you! We were blessed to know her! Dennis and Katie Spear
Cindi LeMay
October 3, 2013
I am terribly sorry for your loss. Kathy was a terrific, high energy and extremely kind friend. She will be missed by all who knew and loved her.
Tracey Bennett
October 3, 2013
My sincerest condolences to you all. Kathleen was a wonderful and giving person and she will be missed dearly.
October 3, 2013
To the Donohue family,
We offer our deepest condolences to you and the family, May the memories of Kathleen help you find peace.
Love,
Dennis & Jessica Moylan
October 3, 2013
So sorry for your loss. Hope your memories will bring you comfort.
Bobby and Pam MacDonald
Vicki Sullivan
October 3, 2013
To the Donohue family:
My deepest condolences to you on the loss of Kathy. She was a very dear friend who was loved by so many. All my thoughts, love and prayers to you. She will truly be missed.
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