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Mary Schmecker Obituary

SCHMECKER Mary Anne Schmecker, age 86 of Shelton, entered into rest Thursday, May 22, 2008 at Shelton Lakes Health Care Center. She was the devoted wife of the late Louis J. Schmecker, Sr. Mrs. Schmecker was born in Derby, September 11, 1921, daughter of the late Louis W. and Mary Bridget (Cuddy) Beatrice and moved to Shelton in 1933. She was a retired ceramics teacher, having taught for more than 40 years between the Shelton Senior Center and the Boys and Girls Club. In 2007, she was honored for her longtime service to the Boys and Girls Club with induction as a charter member into the Boys and Girls Club of the Lower Naugatuck Valley Hall of Fame. She was also a member of the Ladies Guild at St. Margaret Mary Church and she loved to travel overseas, particularly to Ireland, which she visited 28 times. She is the beloved mother of Louis J. Schmecker Jr. and his wife, Charlotte, Mary Louise Barnstien and her husband, Ralph, and Francis Michael Schmecker and his companion, Angela Hall, all of Shelton. She is also survived by seven loving grandchildren, Joseph, Daniel, Michele, Mary Angela, Jillian, John, and Benjamin; five great-grandchildren; and several nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by a son, John, L. Schmecker; a grandson, Michael Schmecker; and four brothers, Louis Joseph, John Joseph, George Joseph, and Finton Joseph Beatrice. Friends may greet the family in the Riverview Funeral Home, 390 River Road, Shelton, Friday from 3 to 7 p.m. On Saturday, her funeral will leave the Riverview Funeral Home at 8:30 a.m. for a Mass of Christian Burial at 9 a.m. at St. Margaret Mary Church. Burial will follow at Mt. St. Peters Cemetery in Derby. At the request of the family, memorial contributions may be made to the Mary Anne Schmecker Scholarship at the Boys and Girls Club of the Lower Naugatuck Valley, 1 Positive Place, Shelton CT 06484. Offer condolences to the family at www.riverviewfh.com.

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Published by Connecticut Post on May 23, 2008.

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Greg Fusco

May 28, 2008

I am sorry to hear of your mom's passing. She will be remembered in my prayers.

Sharon (Jordan) Gagnon

May 24, 2008

So sorry to learn of your Mom's passing. Our prayers go out to you and yours. Your family has been life-long friends with our family, and no one was more compassionate than your Mom & Dad. They will be sadly missed. We've had very fond memories of you all throughout our lives. God Bless.

May 23, 2008

Alexa Mollica

May 23, 2008

To the Whole Family-
I am so sorry for your loss. Mrs. Schmecker meant alot to me, words can't explain how much. She has taught me so much in life. When she left the Boys & Girls Club it was never the same, and it still isn't. I would look forward to going to the club everyday just to see her. I would always have to remind her to take her iron. She was the most warm hearted person I have ever met. Mrs. Schmecker has made a big difference in my life.

And to Mrs. Shmecker,
i will never forget you, and the way you always said the little leprechaun died your hair green on St. Patty's Day. I love you so much and will miss you. i will never forget all of the things that you have taught me. You have always been there for me, through the hard times that I had and I Thank You so much for that.

Love Always,
Alexa Mollica

May 23, 2008

To The Schmecker Family,
Our neighborhood has lost a beautiful person. May she rest in peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Nelson & Carol Curtis (Plaskon Dr.)

Arlene Bellotti

May 23, 2008

To the Whole Family-
I am so sorry for your loss. Words can't express how much she was loved, not only by you but the ones who knew her.The club will never be the same. We are better people for knowing her and we will miss her terribly. I take comfort in knowing that she's where she wanted to be and no longer suffering. I will never forget her and our times together.
And to Mrs. Schmecker, I love you and I'll miss you -until we meet again and thank you for being a part of my life. Words can't express how much you meant to me and continue to be....All of our Love to you and your family now and always-Arlene & Samantha Bellotti

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