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Matthew Deptula Obituary

Deptula, Matthew A.
Matthew A. "Butch" Deptula, age 79, husband of Mary Lou (Mace) Deptula and resident of Ansonia, passed away Sept. 2. Matt was born on Feb. 10, 1937 at Griffin Hospital, the son of the late Frank & Mary (Wrazien) Deptula. He was raised in Shelton and graduated from Shelton High School Class '54 as well as Peekskill Military Academy. Butch also attended the U. of Colorado. He was employed by the Deptula Trucking Co. until entering the U.S. Army in 1959. He served in the Counter Intelligence Corp. until 1962. After his military service, he was employed by Avco Lycoming in parts/contracts Dept. for 37 years, retiring in 1998. Matt moved to Ansonia in 1960 and was a member of The Church of The Assumption in Ansonia. He was a past member of the Parish Council and past president of the Home School Association. He was a social member of Charter Hose Fire Co. and the Ansonia Senior Center. He coached the Ansonia Biddy Basketball Bucks to many championships in the 1970's. Matt and his family spent many enjoyable summer vacations at their beach house at Bayview Beach in Milford. Matt also enjoyed cheering for the N.Y. Yankees, N.Y. Giants and the UCONN basketball teams. He was predeceased by a brother Frank Deptula. In addition to his wife Mary Lou, Matt leaves his daughters Mary Deptula and Kathleen Gonzalez, son Matthew D. (Kathleen) Deptula, his sister Patricia Randall, granddaughters Nicole Brancato and Marissa & Jacky Gonzalez, grandsons Matthew & Ryan Deptula and many nieces & nephews. Friends may call on Tuesday, Sept. 6 at The Jenkins King & Malerba Funeral Home, 12 Franklin St. Ansonia from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held Wednesday at 10:00 a.m., with friends asked to go directly to Assumption Church. (www.jenkinskingfh.com) Burial will follow in Mt. St. Peter Cemetery in Derby with Military Honors rendered.

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Published by Connecticut Post on Sep. 4, 2016.

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September 9, 2016

Mary Carl & I would like to extend our deepest sympathy to you and yours at this time of sorrow. Our prayers are with you. Carl &Gloria Badamo

Tom Clifford

September 6, 2016

Dear Mary and Family - I am terribly sorry to learn of Matt (Duke's) passing. I always
enjoyed running into him and discussing his days at Shelton High, Avco, sports and local issues. When I was at Charlie & Leon's, I would look for him. Generally, I would initially hear his deep resonant voice. I would tease him as appearing for the third shift at the restaurant, later in the evening. We shared many laughs. He was a perceptive, genuine, and kind gentleman. We shall all miss him.
Sincerely,

Jo Ann Adamson

September 5, 2016

Very sorry to hear of your loss, in my thoughts and prayers.

Joan seeger

September 4, 2016

Dear Mary Lou, I am so sorry for your loss. You and I worked together at SNET many years ago and I well remember Matt. I lost Wayne six months ago. It is a very lonely time and I wish the best for you. Joan Peckingham Seeger

Joan Seeger

September 4, 2016

Dear Mary Lou, I am so sorry for the loss of Matt. You and I worked together at SNET many years ago and I well remember Matt. I lost Wayne six months ago. It is a very lonely time and I wish you the best. Joan Peckingham Seeger

September 4, 2016

The country is in mourning for a veteran has passed away. Rest in peace .

Kim Ehlert

September 4, 2016

Sending my thoughts and prayers to your family.

Jack Hillman, Sr

September 4, 2016

I will miss you old friend. Jocko

September 4, 2016

sorry for your loss Marge and Debra Roberts

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