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Christine Burns
February 14, 2005
Hello My Valentine,
Happy Valentine's Day! I was thinking of our Valentine's Days together and I smiled. I was remembering the places we've gone and the gifts we gave each other. That cannot be taken away. I am grateful for all of our memories and all that we had. You belong here, My Love. I love you.
Christopher and Julia got their Valentine gifts very early this morning. Julia screamed! She hated her gift! It was the funniest thing. She got a talking Eeyore who flaps his ears around. He plays peek-a-boo and so-big and some other games with his ears. Eeyore scared the stuffing out of Julia. Poor Baby!! I'll be exchanging him for something Julia finds less terrifying!
Christopher was quite happy with his gift, as usual. Hey!!! Christopher only owes you two more, Bunny! Can you believe it? They are both so good. They are beautiful as well. Their smiles melt my heart and make me smile. Just like yours.
Happy Valentine's Day, again,
My Love!
I love and miss you.
All my love always,
Your Valentine Forever,
Christine
XOXOXOXOX
Christine Burns
February 10, 2005
Michael,
Julia is Fifteen months old today. I can't believe it. She's so big. She runs, climbs, dances and talks. She's got quite the vocabulary already. She even says,"I get down now." She cracks me up. She's always so happy. Her new favorite song is, "Pennies From Heaven." Christopher sings it to her and she just smiles, dances and laughs like a nut. Funny little kid. She loves to say, "No!" Still loves her bath. Still loves black olives. There's not much she doesn't like. Julia is a true blessing. Her smiles are contagious and her happiness rubs off on everyone who is lucky enough to be around her. She was saying, "Shhh!" to the boys in church yesterday. I had to laugh. She put her tiny little finger up to her mouth and went, "Shhh!" What a character.
We love her so much and remember every day just how lucky we are to have her. Thank you. You're the best. We all love you and miss you very much.
Love, Hugs and Kisses,
Christine
XOXOXOXOX
Christine Burns
February 5, 2005
Hello Bunny,
I know Christopher already wrote to give you the news but I really wanted to also. Christopher changed Julia's Poopy diaper for the first time....he owes you four more! He did such a good job but it was soooo funny! I video taped the whole thing...both Christopher and Julia will love that when they're older!!! It was a pretty bad one too! Christopher said, "Aw, I'm gonna puke." He didn't though even after he got some poop on his hand. Hahahahaha! He figured that you were laughing at him...I thought so too. It took him 11 minutes and 4 seconds to get the job done. He wasn't happy with the fit of the new diaper so he took it off again to readjust it. He shouldn't have done such a good job...he'll be doing it a lot more often now that we've discovered this new talent of his. Julia was very compliant for her big brother. Like you told Christopher when you won the bet...the bigger the baby, the bigger the poop. Ha! I think he was quite proud of himself and had every right to be. What a great kid!
Speaking of what a great kid he is, he made the honor roll again. Smarty Pants. He is doing very well with his school work and other activities. He has joined the band...drums! AHHHH! He should also be testing for his next belt in Karate this month. He is having a good time doing it and it is doing him a lot of good.
I love you MY LOVE. Miss you, too.
Love, hugs and kisses,
Christine
xoxoxoxox
Christine Burns
January 20, 2005
Dear Michael, My Bunny...
Happy First Anniversary in Heaven. I know you are at peace and that is what calms me. I cannot believe that I have not had you here with me for a year. I am still in shock. The day you died, my heart died with you. It hurts to breathe without you here. Every morning that I wake up, I pray that this has all been a nightmare. It is a nightmare...just not one that I can wake up from. Nothing is the same without you. It is all very sad. When happy things happen, I am just reminded how horrible it is without you here. I do enjoy Christopher and Julia but it saddens me that you are not here to enjoy them with me. You are missing so much. We are missing so much. Your laugh made us happy, your smile made our hearts smile. Your smile would light up a room. Your singing was music to our ears...literally. You gave us comfort and made us feel safe just by being here.
You had such a strong exterior. Most people would never know what a sensitive heart you had. Most would never know how you worried about things, some beyond your control. Most people didn't know that you took on the weight of everyone else's problems. Most people didn't know how much you were hurting. Most people didn't know you at all. I have seen written so many times that you served your community for many years and rose to the rank of Sergeant. That wasn't who you were. That is what you did. You were great at what you did but you were so much more than that. You were an amazing, loving person. You were an incredible artist. You made many beautiful creations from your drawings to your extraordinary tile and patio work that people called on you so often for to Our Julia. She is by far one of your most fantastic creations. You were a loving and devoted Father to all five of your babies. You worried about each one for different reasons. You cared so much. You also let things beyond your control consume you...because that is what you were programmed to do. You could never "walk away" when you were given more than any one person should ever have to deal with. I wish you would have been able to walk away from some things...I would still have you with me today. I so wish that I could have taken on your hurt and anguish and the rage you felt in your chest. I always loved you, from the second I saw you. I was put here for you and you for me. I am glad I found you when I did. You gave me the best years of my life. You gave Christopher the best years of his life, too. You are and will be his Dad and best friend forever. He wishes he could have done something to keep you safe. He is so sad. Please help him, he needs you. We all do.
Although I started writing this on January 19th, it is now the 20th. I keep typing and deleting. There is so much about you that everybody should know. I consider myself extremely blessed that I have the ability to tell because you let me know who you really were and how you really thought and how much and how well you really loved. Thank you, Bunny. Thank you for giving all of yourself to us. We will be forever yours and you will be forever mine.
All of my love, hugs, kisses and
All of my heart,
Your Tigerlily....
Christine
xoxoxoxo
Christine Burns
January 10, 2005
Hello My Bunny,
Julia is 14 months old today. She's absolutely beautiful. What a personality! She loves to make funny faces and she loves to laugh. She's got a great laugh, it is so happy. She still wrinkles her nose all the time. She will point to her nose, eyes, ears and head when asked where they are. She says, "Shoe and shoes," and tries to put them on her little feet all by herself. She got boots for Christmas and she loves wearing them. She stomps all around and even tries to run when she wears them. What a cutie! She also likes to climb the stairs and explore upstairs as though she's discovered some fantastic secret place. She's learned how to spin in circles. Ugh...it makes me dizzy to watch her! She LOVES her BIG BROTHER, Christopher!!! She always has lots of smiles for him! He is so good to her. He helps with her all the time. No diaper changes yet though! Soon...I promise. Julia had a chance to play in the snow the other day. She was thrilled until her mitten fell off and her little hand touched the snow. WOW! She screamed and wanted no part of the snow after that. She was all dressed in her pink ski pants and jacket. She looked like a little doll. She is a little doll. She's got the most beautiful brown eyes...just like yours. They twinkle like yours also. We are so lucky to have her. We know you see everything that we see and that you are always with us but we still love to give you our regular "updates".
We love you and miss you! Big hugs and kisses from all of us!
All of my love,
Christine
xoxoxoxox
Christine Burns
January 1, 2005
Happy New Year, Bunny!
It is now 2005. Christopher and Julia managed to stay up until midnight. Christopher admitted that he was struggling to do it but wanted to stay awake anyway. Julia had a blast when the ball dropped and everybody on the television started to clap and yell. She clapped and laughed, had some sparkling white grape juice with Christopher and then they both basically collapsed on the living room floor. I was not too far behind them. It was not and will never be the same without you here with us. We miss you.
I love you!
Love, Hugs & Lots of Kisses,
Christine
xoxoxoxox
Christine Burns
December 29, 2004
Happy First Birthday in Heaven, Bunny!
It is your 37th Birthday today. I never thought we would be visiting you at the cemetery on your 37th Birthday. But...we did and Christopher & Julia brought you some balloons. A balloon that says, "Happy Birthday Daddy," one that says, "I Love You," and a Football balloon. I think they did a tremendous job picking them out for you...they're perfect.
I was thinking about your last birthday. I found you sitting at the table in the dining room at 4 o'clock in the morning. You were writing your feelings down on a piece of paper and you told me that you were old. You told me that you worried about not having the means to provide for us what you wanted to or thought that you should. All I wanted was you. All we needed was you. Everything else would have fallen into place. I so badly wanted you to see that. You were so important to us. You weren't old...you were young. Too young to be where you are today.
You did have a few birthday wishes though. You wanted any kind of beef for dinner, a salad and a cheese cake for your birthday cake. You told me that you didn't want anything else because you wanted to be able to eat lots of meat and cheese cake. That's exactly what we did! I made you filet mignon, a little salad and a heart shaped cheese cake. Christopher made you a giant chocolate chip cookie in the shape of a tie. He decorated it and put a "D" on it for "DAD". You ate up your dinner, blew out your candles, ate your cake and did it all with a big smile on your face. I wish we could do the same this year.
I love you and I miss you.
Happy Birthday, Bunny!
Love, Hugs and Kisses,
Christine
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Christine Burns
December 28, 2004
December 19, 2004
Hello Lovey Bunny,
It has been 11 months since you've been gone. Each day is as miserable as the one before it. We are preparing for Christmas. Christopher insists on doing nothing for Christmas. We have been watching home movies of last Christmas. That was a much happier time for all of us. Julia pulls her ornaments off the tree and Christopher patiently puts them back. It is horrible without you. It is almost impossible to find fun in anything. Christopher bought and decorated a little Christmas tree for you. He personalized all of the little ornaments and took the tree to the cemetery for you. It was taken away, which crushed Christopher because he brought it to you because he loves you. So...Christopher got another tree and more decorations and brought that one to the cemetery. He is hoping that you'll be able to keep that one until Christmas. It is so sad. As hard as it is for me to try and understand what happened and constantly wonder how this could have possibly been avoided, I cannot even begin to imagine how hard it is for a child to process. This is a pain that nobody should ever know. I can only imagine how you felt and I wish I could have taken away your pain and suffering. It is something I would have gladly done if it meant keeping you here with us. I love you so much. More and more each day. I am so thankful for our memories, pictures, movies and our babies. Never does a second go by that you are not in our thoughts and our hearts. Until the next time, My Love,
Love, Hugs and Kisses,
Your Tigerlily,
Christine
xoxoxoxoxo
Christine Burns (Trumbull, CT)
Christine Burns
December 25, 2004
Hi Bunny,
It is Christmas Day. It is not a very good day. Just like every other day, you are sadly missed. Today was very quiet. Christopher said that he was hoping for two things this Christmas...You and some snow. He didn't get either. He told me that was his wish even though he knew it couldn't come true. I can't say his wish was any different than mine...except for the snow. Julia was not very excited today. She did get a baby doll from Santa that she seems to be very fond of. She puts the baby in her seat and "feeds" her a bottle. It was very cute. I had to open her presents for her. She was more interested in eating the candy that Santa left in her stocking!
I wish you were here. You are missing so much. You are supposed to be here. I miss you. My heart hurts. I love you.
Merry Christmas, Bunny.
All My Love,
Christine
xoxoxoxoxo
Christine Burns
December 10, 2004
Hello My Love,
Julia is thirteen months old today. She is so beautiful! She loves her Christmas Tree and really likes taking the ornaments off to play with them. She loves to look at the lights...especially your candy cane lights.
We watched some home movies the other day. We watched the day Julia was born, the day she came home from the hospital and every other day between then and Christmas. It was so nice to see your smile and hear your voice. Christopher and I cried for a while but we smiled too. Christopher was reminded that he owes you five poopie diaper changes! Julia couldn't take her eyes off of the television. She was especially interested when she saw you cuddling with her under the Christmas Tree. You were looking at the lights and hitting the ornaments on the bottom of the tree so she could see them move. She went right over to the tree and started hitting the same ornaments. I wish we could go back. You looked so happy. You were smiling, singing and blowing kisses to me. It hurts not having you here. You made our days easier. We miss you so much.
I know I promised you colored lights this year...so...Christopher bought you a little Christmas Tree and decorated it for you. He put colored lights on it along with little snowmen and ormanents with all of our names on them. He loves you so much. He had an ornament made for you but it is glass and he was afraid it would get broken at the cemetery so he hung it on your tree while he decorated it but then brought it home and hung it right at the top of our tree, where it will be safe. He is a good boy. Julia tried to take a few of your ornaments home with her but we convinced her to leave them on your tree.
I love you, Bunny.
I miss you too.
All my love, hugs and kisses,
Christine
xoxoxoxo
Christine Burns
November 25, 2004
Hello Bunny!
Happy Thanksgiving. You would have had such a good time today with all of the food that was around! It was always fun watching you eat. I had never known anyone else who appreciated food like you did...until Julia!!!! She had an awesome time today! She ate and ate and ate. And ate some more! She loved every last bit of her food. She loved the stuffing the best, I think. She ate everything though. She ate a million black olives, too. Aunt Gin and Uncle Tom put the olives on her fingers and she didn't like it very much...she gave those olives to me. We know not to do that again! She loved the pumpkin pie, chocolate pie and whipped cream too!
I remember how excited you were to show her off last year and all she did was sleep! Not this year...Christopher woke her up in time to watch the parade with him and she didn't sleep a wink all day. She loves seeing everybody, just like Christopher. She didn't want to miss anything. She was walking all over the place and dancing, too! She had a big day and will probably sleep until noon tomorrow. Crazy kid!
I miss you so much and I wish you could be here with us. Nothing is right without you. You made the holidays perfect. They will never be the same.
I love you, My Bunny.
All of my love, hugs and kisses,
Christine
xoxoxoxoxo
Christine Burns
November 19, 2004
Hi Bunny,
It has been ten months today. I miss you. The holidays are right around the corner and I could do without them this year. It is painful to do anything without you. It doesn't seem right and I'm just not interested.
Your Baby Girl is walking! She loves it and thinks she's hot stuff. She is, of course!! She is a climber, too. Help me out with that, will you!?!
She had a blast at her birthday party. There were about five dozen balloons floating around and an entire sheet cake all for Julia...she was a sweet girl and shared with everyone, though. Everybody came to see her. She loved every bit of the attention she got. Her new favorite song is "Happy Birthday." She doesn't get sick of hearing it either!
Your Buddy made the Honor Roll again. Shocked? Me neither. I think he was proud of himself. He's doing very well. He's had a tough few weeks though. He is missing you terribly. However, he's still taking care of me. I love that kid.
I love you too, Bunny!
Love,Hugs, kisses and Snoopy Dances,
Christine
xoxoxo
Christine Burns
November 10, 2004
Hi Bunny,
Our Julia is one year old today. She is so big. It's hard to believe.
I remember you grabbing Julia from the doctor and holding her for the longest time. I didn't think I'd get a chance to hold her. You looked so happy, you had a smile from ear to ear. I just sat and watched you. I tried to listen in on the conversation the two of you were having. I was happy to see you so happy. I am so glad we have her.
Julia is standing, she has six teeth, she will quack when asked what a duck says, blows kisses and loves to play with magnets. She loves to look at pictures, has the happiest laugh, the biggest smile and quite the sense of humor!
Julia tore into her presents tonight. I think her favorite was a pink horse that is as big as she is. She pets it and gives it lots of hugs and kisses. It's pretty funny. She ate a bunch of chocolate cake. She wore a bunch of it, too! What a funny kid!
I can't tell you enough that I wish you were here with us. I also can't tell you enough that I love you with all of my heart. I do love you, Bunny.
Thank you for Julia and thank you for you. You're two of my three greatest gifts. Which brings me to my third...Christopher. He made it through his first year as a Big Brother! He still owes you five poopie diaper changes though! He thinks the longer he waits, the easier it will get. Ha! He has no idea. Not to worry, you'll get every single one that was promised to you! I'll be supervising with a smile on my face. I know you will be, too!
We love you and send lots of really big hugs and kisses!
All of My Love,
Christine
xoxoxoxoxo
Christine Burns
October 31, 2004
Happy Halloween, Bunny!
Christopher & Julia had a great time today. It was nice and warm out, just like last year. Julia looked a bit concerned when we began our Trick-or-Treating but she soon realized that she was getting something to eat from every house we stopped at and I think she liked that idea. She had her own little bag that Christopher happily carried around for her. He also picked out appropriate treats for her...raisins, lollipops, etc. They looked great in their costumes and didn't want to take them off. Julia cried a little when I took her costume off...she liked being a Butterfly. What a cutie! Spiderman went easy on me and changed out of his costume without incident! We dumped out both bags as soon as we got home to see what yummy things we got. You would have loved it...there is more chocolate here than we know what to do with! Julia put every last treat right back into her bag, which was a little black cat! She then took everything out only to put everything right back again. She had raisins, a lollipop and fruit snacks and went right off to sleep. Christopher and I had a good time watching her have such fun. We missed you, Bunny. We just had to remember how much fun we had when we were all together last Halloween. We looked at pictures, saw your smile and felt a little better. The sight of your face always did make me feel better. I love you, Beautiful. The Kids send hugs and kisses and some candy, too! Hugs and kisses from me, too!
All My Love,
Christine
xoxoxoxoxo
Christine Burns
October 19, 2004
Hi Bunny,
Today is nine months. I miss you so much. Julia will be having her first birthday soon. I cannot believe she is almost one and I can't believe that you're not here. She is so funny! She's always smiling and wrinkling her tiny nose. She loves to listen to music and she loves to dance. She yells when she sees animals. It's really funny. She eats anything that's not nailed down. She had chili for dinner last night! Julia is a very happy Baby Girl and she keeps us happy. Your Buddy misses you so much. He is having a very hard time without you. He is such a good Boy and is taking very good care of us. We are having a hard time knowing that Julia's Birthday and the Holidays are right around the corner. We would do anything to have you here with us. You made those days very special and happy for us. Please help us through these times. I know you do what you can to keep us strong and I love you even more for it. Thank you, Bunny.
Christopher and I were looking at pictures from our "Yankee Party" last year. We laughed and cried. We all had on our rally caps...even the Giraffe. We have our rally caps on now too since the Red Sox are forcing Game 7! You've got to be laughing at me right now....they're killin' me!!
I used to tell you that you were magnetic. You would laugh because you could never understand why I thought that. You are magnetic...I was drawn to you and you stuck on me. I'm still stuck on you and always will be. I love you. You are my heart.
All of My Love, Hugs and Kisses,
Christine
xoxoxoxox
Christine Burns
September 19, 2004
Hello Bunny,
It has been eight months. I hate not having you here. I miss you so much. We are all so sad. With every new day comes another new struggle.
Christopher and Julia are getting so big. Christopher is almost as big as I am and is such a good boy. He's such a great Big Brother! He loves Julia so much and is so happy to have her. Julia is about to walk any day now. That will keep Christopher on his toes!
With every happy new thing that happens, we miss you more and more. We take comfort in knowing that you are at rest and don't hurt anymore.
When the sun shines on our faces, we know it is coming from you and it reminds us that you are always with us...even if we can't always see you.
Love you forever, Bunny.
Hugs & Kisses,
Christine
xoxoxo
Christopher Burns
September 19, 2004
Dear Dad,
Hi Dad, it's me, Christopher. I wanted to say hi and I love You. I miss you. Julia is getting bigger and is starting to stand up on her own without holding on to anything. I'm getting better at sports. I'm practicing what you taught me. I tell Julia stories about you so she will know you like I do. Remember when I would sing in the shower and you would yell, "You stink!!" I miss that. It made me happy. We all miss you Dad. I got my expander out and my braces off and I don't have to wear my head gear anymore.
I hope you are having a good time in Heaven. Please keep watching over us. I can't wait to see you. I Love You Dad.
Love,
Christopher
Christine Burns
August 19, 2004
Dear Michael,
You are with the angels for seven months today. Although you've been resting, I know you've been busy. You took good care of us while you were here and in watching over us now, continue to do the same. Thank you. My Grandmother told me that you're with her and are keeping yourself busy. She also said that you're a good boy...her words, not mine. Sounds like something a Grandma would say, doesn't it? She said that she'll take good care of you. I am glad you're with her, though I'd be happier if you were here with me. Thank you for the sunshine today. It helped brighten up an otherwise gloomy day. It is my first birthday without you and I must say that it hurts very much. You always made today a special one for me. Remember last year? You were so excited about my present!! Holy cow, so was I!! He is ok and will be back in the spot you made for him, so that he could "keep his eye on everybody," very soon. I can't believe you actually got me a giraffe. Your gifts were always so special but you were the best gift of all!! Nothing else could ever come close. You're the best, Bunny.
I love you so much...
A hundred days have made me older since the last time that I saw your pretty face. A thousand lies have made me colder and I don't think I can look at this the same. All the miles that separate, disappear now when I'm dreamin' of your face. I'm here without you baby but you're still on my lonely mind I think about you baby and I dream about you all the time. I'm here without you baby but you're still with me in my dreams and tonight, there's only you and me. The miles just keep rollin' as the people leave their way to say hello. I've heard this life is overrated but I hope that it gets better as we go...Everything I know, and anywhere I go, it gets hard but it won't take away my love. And when the last one falls, when it's all said and done, it gets hard but it won't take away my love. I'm here without you baby but you're still on my lonely mind I think about you baby and I dream about you all the time. I'm here without you baby but you're still with me in my dreams and tonight, there's only you and me.(3DD)
You will forever be My Love.
Lots of Love, Hugs and Kisses from Me, Christopher and Julia...
Christine
Christine Burns
August 11, 2004
Bunny,
Your Papoose is nine months old today. She is doing so well. She is growing so fast and is so smart. She crawls around like a crazy woman. She pulls herself up on everything. She stands for a long time and is trying to walk. Uh oh. She's into everything. She claps her hands and dances whenever she hears music. She's such a happy baby. She loves mirrors and always has a great big smile for the pretty baby looking back at her! She's absolutely beautiful!She's been going swimming with Christopher as often as they can. They have such a good time. She loves him so much. She seems to have no fear of anything. She loves animals!! Sunny and Hunny won't let her near them. Poor baby. She keeps on trying though. She has better luck with Isabelle! Julia keeps her days busy but makes up for it at night. She cuddles up with her special "Bear" at the end of the day and is immediately out like a light. What a doll. Again, I thank you for her. Her special moments with you are priceless. We all miss you and love you Bunny. Thank you for watching over us.
Love and Kisses,
Christine
xoxoxoxoxo
Christine Burns
July 19, 2004
Hello My Love,
Today marks six months. It gets harder with each day that goes by. Time goes by so slowly. It feels like it has been a lifetime since we were all together. I was told that things would get easier with time. It does not feel that way. My heart aches for you. I miss you Bunny.
The babies are doing well. Christopher is almost as big as I am but just as loving and gentle as ever. He helps me with Julia all of the time. He reminds me of you...he loves his sister so much and is so very protective of her. He is growing up so fast. Wasn't he just a baby not too long ago? He is such a good boy, God bless him.
Julia is getting pretty big herself. She's got two little teeth that help her eat EVERYTHING in sight. Her eyes sparkle and her smile melts my heart! She is so nice. So happy. So very strong. She waves hello and good bye, claps her hands and dances around when her hands are held. She plays peek-a-boo and gives me big kisses. She still loves her bath and loves to swim in the pool. She loves animals too. She almost picked Isabelle up by her head. OUCH! She's a beautiful baby that we are so lucky to have. What a little doll. Her facial expressions make me laugh...she's a tiny version of you.
You are loved and missed so much. You are thought about every second of every day. You are called upon to keep us strong and help get us through the toughest days just as often. Thank you for always listening and for being there. Thank you for being you.
Love you forever,
Hugs and kisses,
Your Love,
Christine
Susan Squitieri
June 22, 2004
Dear Mike,
I just wanted you to know that you are missed and to also thank you for Julia.
Julia is a gift from god, I remember visiting the house and you would open the door holding Julia in your arms. You were so proud of her. Your eyes would light up and you were truly happy. Julia was the light of your life and the greatest gift that you could of given to Christine and Christopher.
When I hold her in my arms and look at her face, I can see so much of you in her. She is absolutely beautiful, perfection. She is growing so fast. I hate the fact that you are not here. But don’t worry she is in good hands. Julia will grow up with lots and lots of love around her.
You would be so proud of Christopher, the little man that he is. He is taking good care of his mother and sister. Christopher is a great kid; I wish I had one just like him. He is so helpful, thank you for making him a big brother.
Mike, I am so sorry that it has taken me so long to write something. Every time I think of you I cry, you were always kind to me. I wanted to write something for a long time, but it is so hard to put my feelings into words.
You will always be in my heart and prays.
Rest peaceful sweet prince, your in Heaven!
Love always,
Susan
Christine Burns
June 21, 2004
Dear Michael,
Happy Father's Day and Happy Anniversary! Today, not unlike the rest, is a very sad day when it should be a happy one. It is you that we are celebrating today. You were the best Dad a kid and their Mom could hope for. To be loved and looked up to by a child is amazing. Even though children don't have the life experience that most adults do, I believe that they see things much more clearly. Your children knew that you were the best Dad that any child could possibly dream of. They loved you so much! They were always so happy to be near you. You offered to them not only unconditional love and lots of fun but structure and stability as well. They could always count on you. You never let them down. Christopher would either stand by the door or have his nose plastered to the living room window, waiting for you to get home from work. He and Jasmine would trip over each other trying to get to the door first! Christopher especially loved how you would wait in the driveway for him to get home from school on your days off. He was so excited when you would take him to movie night at school. He was so happy to be with you and so proud to show you off! I thought Christopher would burst when he found out that you were coaching his basketball team. I loved watching you guys running up and down the court. He was so excited that you were there for him and I knew that you were excited to be there, too. The mutual admiration was so evident. It made my heart happy to see it.
Christopher is hurting so much without you. You were not only his Dad but his best friend as well. He misses you so badly. I am at a loss for words when he says, "I want Daddy back." All I can do is kiss him, hold him and say, " I know Dolly, so do I." He knows that you're with him, though. He never doubted that for a minute. Remember when Christopher was two years old and he told you that it was so cool and you were so lucky because you had glasses like Arthur!?!? You and I laughed like morons just thinking about that...he thought you were so cool and lucky because you had glasses like Arthur the A A R D V A R K. Remember when he learned to spell aardvark? He would waddle around and in that deep little voice say, "Aardvark...a a r d v a r k." That is a nice memory to have. He loved how you would make a big deal about everything he did. He especially loved how you'd do the "Potty Dance" whenever he'd use the toilet. Only while he was potty training, of course! He was a lucky little boy to have you. He thought you were the strongest person in the world and believed that you could fix anything and make everything better. You were his favorite Superhero.
Your Julia, even at such a young age, loved her Daddy too! She knew you fussed over her! You would steal her away the minute you'd come home from work and it was never easy to get you to hand her over either! She would open her eyes as soon as she heard your voice. I guess all of that talking to my belly paid off because she surely knew who you were. You were also the first to make her smile...without her having gas!! We should have known she'd be nuts about you when you rubbed my belly and said, "Okay Julia, you can come out now, Daddy's ready," and I had her the next day...two weeks early! You let even the tiniest baby know that she was loved.
That's why all of your babies loved you so much, because they knew you loved them. You showed them that you loved them all of the time. I thank you for that. Dads like you are hard to find. They are few and far between. You aced that job, Bunny.
Thank you for giving so many years to us. Thank you for giving so many years to me. Today marks yet another. What a happy day to remember and one I will never forget. You always made this day such a nice one for us. Your gifts were unforgetable, from your hugs and kisses to your drawings and sketches to your self and your love. You are unforgetable. You will always be my heart and have my heart. I love you, Bunny.
All of my love, always and forever,
Christine
xoxoxoxoxo
Christine Burns
June 19, 2004
Hello My Bunny,
It has been five months, today, that we've been missing you. It seems like it was yesterday but feels like it's been an eternity. Nothing is the same without you. It is so hard to do even the littlest things without you. Having you made everything seem easier and happier. Having you made big worries seem small. You made bad days good, ordinary days special, and special days that much more special. You are so very much alive in our hearts because of all of the wonderful memories we have of you. When we're quiet, we can still hear your laugh and when we close our eyes, we can see your beautiful smile. With you in our hearts and minds, you will be with us always and forever.
We love you and miss you more than words can say.
Christopher and Julia send lots of hugs and kisses. I'm sending lots of hugs, kisses and Snoopy Dances.
I love you Bunny.
All of our love,
Christine, Christopher & Julia
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo xoxoxoxo
Christine Burns
June 10, 2004
Hi Bunny,
Julia is 7 months old today. She is getting so big. You'd be thrilled to know that she LOVES food of any kind. She's also like you..she must eat every 2 hours or we're all in trouble. She's 21 lbs of a happy, lovey baby. She has your eyes,mouth and your "serious look." She's absolutely beautiful! She brightens up the darkest days. Thank you for her.
We all miss you so much. Right about this time you'd be out in the yard feeding, watering and singing to the plants. Opera, of course, making me smile and Christopher laugh. This was your busy time!!
Although it is always hard to make it through the day without seeing your face, it seems particularly difficult these days. The Spring and Fall were always your favorite times of the year. It's nothing special without you running around playing and just being you. You made those times what they were to us. Although we're all very sad that you're not here with us, we've got so many happy memories of you that we manage to let out a smile or a laugh through our tears every now and then.
Christopher says,"Just like you always said to me Dad, You're a gentleman and a scholar." He's got that right. He loves you and misses you so that he's sworn off of sports and has taken up Karate and Defensive Tactics. Somehow, that doesn't shock me.
Julia went for her first swim in a BIG, BIG pool yesterday!! Clad in a bathing suit covered in little lady bugs and slathered in 50+ sunblock, she took the plunge!! She was a little unsure at first but wrinkled her nose with delight in no time. She even went under twice. She blew bubbles, looked shocked but came back for more. Remember her first bath? It was very much like that. I wish you were here with us to see these things. You'd belly laugh! Actually, I know you see these things, I wish you were here with us so we could see your smile and hear your belly laugh.
We miss you and love you, My Love,
Christine,Christopher and Julia
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo xox
Adriana Odice
May 4, 2004
Zia Anna, Uncle Bob, Bobby D. & Tina,
It's been almost 4 months since Mikey's passing and I know it's been a tough time for you.
I see you guys take each day in strike and know that you'll be okay with time. I wish I could do more or at least tell you when it will all be okay, but I can't.
Know that I'm always here for you.
All my love
Adge
Christine Burns
April 11, 2004
Dear Michael,
Happy Easter To My Easter Bunny!
Christopher and Julia were visited by the Easter Bunny Himself. They both did pretty well, I must say. Julia cleaned up on the Easter Egg Hunt. Christopher thought he was being smart by leaving all of the light Easter Eggs behind, thinking of course that they were empty. Well!!! To his surprise, Your Julia Bug ended up with all of the money!! Christopher ended up with all of the candy. However, since both children are so good, they decided to split everything evenly. Julia absolutely loves Peeps!! She likes the sugar and the marshmallow. She also loves lollipops, sour candy, soft pretzels and cotton candy. She still eats like a champ...just like you! :) Christopher dove into the chocolate as usual. He'll be awake until May! They both had a very nice morning. Julia wore the most beautiful pink dress. She looked like a princess. Christopher sported his suit, of course. Would it have gone any other way? Hold onto your hat...I dressed up too! We then went off to church. It was a nice service. It was painful not to have you there with us. We saw Cariann, Raelyn and Michael. They looked beautiful also.
This holiday thing is very hard without you, my love. I know you're with us but it's still hard. I miss your face, your voice and everything about you. So do your babies. Julia looks at your brother and I know she sees you in him. She's very comfortable with him. Christopher has changed his mind about a few things...he no longer wants to meet George Washington or get Elvis' autograph when he gets to Heaven. He wants you to be the first person he sees. He misses you horribly. He's still your biggest fan.
Not a second goes by that I do not think of you. You are always with me and my love is always with you. Happy Easter.
All of my love,
hugs and kisses,
Your Tigerlily,
Christine
xoxoxoxoxo
Donna Stewart-Eagles
March 22, 2004
To The Family Of Michael Dominguez May God Bless You, And Strengthen You. You Asked That Everyone Pray For His Soul. Jesus Said, Everyone Who Has Faith In Me Will Live Even If They Die. And Everyone Who Lives Because Of Faith In Me Will Never Die. HE LIVES!!!
Christine Burns
March 17, 2004
Hi Bunny! Happy St.Patrick's Day!
It is not the same without you. You made everything so festive. You're the best Honorary Irishman I've known. My favorite part of the day was watching you eat and then sit back, grumble and say,"Ahh, I ate too much." Then you'd rub your belly and somehow eat more. You always made me smile. I miss you Bunny. Christopher and Julia are marching today. Well, Julia will be riding and Christopher will be marching. They're all decorated. It's pretty funny. I know you never wanted a tattooed Daughter but you've got one now! She's got shamrocks all over her. She's a cutie. I think you'd approve for the day. We all miss you and it's a sad day without you. Even the Luck of the Irish won't make this day a good one without you. We love and miss you. Hugs and kisses & A Guinness too!
Love You,
Christine
Tina Dominguez
March 6, 2004
To all who have given their support, kind words, and prayers,
(our family members, old friends, new friends, co-workers, the Bridgeport Police Dept, police officers from other areas, neighbors, and even those who did not know my family but still gave us kindness and support)
I want to thank you from me and my family. It's so nice to read all the wonderful things that everyone has to say about my brother. I know many of you but don't know some. It amazes me that Mike touched so many lives. I don't think he really had any idea that he made a difference to so many. I miss him unbelievably and think about him every single second. Our family is coping but we'll never fill the void and emptiness that is within each one of us. But all your shared memories help to make that hole a little smaller. So thank you from the bottom of our hearts. We are very fortunate to be surrounded by such loving, wonderful people. Your kindness through all of this has been greatly appreciated.
With much gratitude,
The Dominguez Family
Jo Ann Burns
February 29, 2004
Dear Mickey,
If you only knew how much your were loved then you will know why my heart is broken. You left us so quickly and there was no chance to tell you again how I feel.
I will miss your smiling face and precious heart but I know that you can see us and hear us and you know the love that surrounded you.
Please help Chrissie and Christopher cope with your loss - they are in such terrible pain without you.
Until we meet again.
Love Jo Ann (JoJo)
Dear Chrissie, Christopher and Julia
Chrissie I know without a doubt that Mike will wait for you because you were the true love he waited for and he was the love of your life. That kind of love can never change.
I know you are strong and will be both loving mother and father to Christopher and Julia.
His love will always shine down of the three of you and hopefully day by day you will feel stronger and stronger and able to go on with your lives - for this I pray.
Until then all my love is with the four of you - my family.
Mommy
Christopher my love I'm sor sorry that your Dad had to go in such a hurry but just remember one thing - he loved you so much and was not only your Dad but your best buddy.
Julia you made your Daddy's life so happy the day you came into the world - you are a very special little girl to have the mommy and daddy that God gave you to for they will always love you.
Dan O'Sullivan
February 27, 2004
Mike,
You will be missed more than you could ever imagine. You touched all of our lives and gave of yourself for the good of us all. You were a positive influence on all you were around, especially Christopher. I know because of that, when the time is right, he will do the same for baby Julia. I see in him the same tremendous qualities I saw in you. Christine, I would do anything to take this sorrow away from you.
This is a sad loss for all.
Teresa O'Sullivan
February 27, 2004
Dear Chrissie, Christopher, and Julia,
I can't imagine what you guys are going through right now and I know that no matter how many comforting words you'll hear, they'll never ease the pain of losing Mike. Chris, it hurts me so much to see you go through something like this. I am so sorry you are in so much pain. You have always been such a strong and important influence in my life. I love you so much and I have always looked up to you. It comes as no suprise to me that you continue to be the strong and independent woman I know even through this difficult time. Your children are blessed to have you and you will help to ease their pain.
Christopher, the apple of my eye, I love you so much. Everytime I look at you I am reminded that this world is a wonderful place. You can make me smile even when it's the last thing I feel like doing; your innocence and youth remind me how important childhood is; and your sadness at this time breaks my heart. I love you, my little pooper, and your Dad loved you more than you will ever know. He was a wonderful man who never wanted anything but the best for you. Julia, my shortcake, I love you so much baby! Soon you'll be walking and talking and I will help make sure that your first word is a good one so Daddy will laugh! (and maybe shake his head at me!)
Mike, I miss you and I think about you every day. You made my cousin so happy and for that I know that you are in heaven, shining down on all of us and keeping us safe. Thank you for being a part of our family. I think about my birthday this last October when we all sat around and listened to your wacky work stories :) I hope you are at peace...
"...to everything there is a season; a time for every purpose under heaven..."
I love you guys and am always here for you...
with love,
Tee
Aunt Gin
February 27, 2004
Dear Chrissie, Christopher and Baby Julia - I can't tell you how sorry I am for your terrible loss. Mike was such a great Dad and devoted family man who was always there for everyone. I'll always remember his beautiful smile and how happy he was when he was with you, Chrissie - you made him so happy. I'm so glad we have my "house picture" and beautiful brick walk - they will help to keep Mike near. Thank you, Mike, for the help you always gave so willingly - we'll miss you and we won't forget you. Be at Peace!
Silvia (Ortiz) Martins
February 23, 2004
Mikey,
A lifelong friend who I love and will miss. Chris (my best friend), Cariann, Raelyn & Michael will always be a part of my life. Continue to watch over them Mikey. May God Bless your soul.
Christine Burns
February 19, 2004
Bunny,
It has been one month today.It seems like only yesterday but I feel like I haven't seen your face, heard your voice or felt your touch in ages.
You taught me to shoot, you taught me defensive tactics and strategies to keep myself safe. You taught me how to search a building safely. You taught me handcuffing procedures. You taught me the nomenclature of a PR-24 and how to properly use one. I was also the first Bridgeport Police Officer that you certified in the Straight Stick and Expandable Baton. You taught me how to manipulate a skeleton and take down someone twice my size. You made me practice reloading and shooting with my support hand just in case something happend to my strong hand. You also made me master assembling and reloading my duty weapon blindfolded in the dark just in case a situation of the sort should arise. You also armed me with a back-up,two flash lights and a knife just so i'd have a better chance of coming home to you at night. You also taught me to get a "game face" and grow "thick skin" because this was the type of place I'd need both. You were the best instructor I've ever had but those countless things you taught me aren't helping me now. My game face is gone and my skin is just not thick enough.
I lost my best friend, my love and my heart the day I lost you. Our babies lost the best Daddy they could have ever asked for. Christopher is crushed but is trying to be strong for me. You know that's just his way. When it was time for the Basketball Team Picture to be taken, he held up Jersey #7 for Coach Dad/Mike, who couldn't be in the picture but he knew you were at the game. Oh, by the way, the #7 was for you to have good luck in Heaven. Christopher loves you so much. Julia has gotten so big! She's beautiful. She will know you through pictures, videos and all the perfect memories we all have of you. Christopher is already telling her stories. You were always there for everyone. You would always treat family like gold and you echoed the true meaning of Holidays..togetherness and love. You were my Holidays. I don't know what we'll do without you.
I miss your singing. You would truely make my heart smile and make me smile out loud when you would sing around the house. I know Christopher misses it too and your goofy games as well. He just wants his Dad back and I want my Bunny back. Our hearts hurt. You were very special to us and can never be replaced. We will be together again someday. Not too soon because there's work here to be done and babies to be taken care of. Don't worry about the Babies, I will take care of them like you would have wanted and make sure they have everything you would have wanted them to.
I hope you wait for me. I don't know what my competiton is like with all those Angels flying around up there but If I know you, you'll be waiting for me when I get there. I miss you more than words can say and love you even more. You'll be forever MY Bunny and MY Heart. Lots of hugs and kisses until I can give you real ones again.
Love forever, Your Tigerlily.
Rita O'Sullivan
February 7, 2004
Dear Christine, Christopher, and Julia,
You are in my thoughts and prayers always. I know that it is very difficult to deal with the events that have taken place in your lives, and hope that healing and recovery come in time. Remember all the loving support that you do have, although I know that we can't take Mike's place in your hearts. We will remember Mike as a loving and devoted Dad to Christopher and Julia, and will surely share with them all good memories. May God bless you.
Bernard & Tjuana Webb
February 4, 2004
We would like to say sorry for your lost, may God continue to look upon the Dominguez's family and pray are with you.
JOHN AND MARIA SANTIAGO VIVO
February 2, 2004
TO THE DOMINGUEZ FAMILY, I MARIA KNEW MIKE AND WORKED WITH MIKE HE HELPED ME OUT ALOT IN THE DEPT, HE WAS MY UNION STEWART AND WHEN I NEEDED HIM, HE WAS THE ONE WITH ALL THE ANSWERS HE MADE ME FEEL GREAT JUST KNOWING HE WAS BY MY SIDE AND ON MY SIDE. HE WILL BE MISSED GREATLY, MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. RETIRED BPT PD MARIA SANTIAGO VIVO AND JOHN VIVO
John Perry
February 2, 2004
To the Dominguez Family, i offer my sincere condolence on the loss of your son and my co-worker mike. He was always pleasant to work with and to get along with, he will be missed deeply. It's our loss, but God's gain! My family will keep your family in our prayers and may God bless you and the heavens shine upon you!.
benita bailey..... BPT.P.D.
February 2, 2004
His memory is as dear today as in the hour he passed away.
For memory is the only friend that grief can call its own.
My deepest sympathies to the entire family.
Tracey Simmons
February 1, 2004
To the Domiguez Family:
Mike was one of my First Training Officers after the Police Academy in 1990. He was a wondeful teacher. We would talk about the respect we had about our fathers who had both worked as police officers for Bpt. P.D. He always raved about his mothers cooking and the admiration and respect he had for his brother and sister. Mike will be missed and I hope and feel that he is at peace now. God bless you all.
Det. Tracey L. Simmons
LOUISE KAROLI-GALLAGHER
February 1, 2004
TO BOB, ANNIE, BOBBY & TINA:
TOMORROW WILL BE TWO (2) WEEKS THAT MIKE PASSED ON. TO BRING ME COMFORT, I LIKE TO REMEMBER SOMETHING OR EVENT INVOLVING MIKE. IN THE FALL OF 1996, I WORKED WITH HIM ABOUT THREE (3) TIMES AS HIS PARTNER IN THE "M.O.S.T." DETAIL, DURING THE DAY SHIFT, ON THE WEST SIDE. ONE DAY, WE WERE PARKED AT MAPLEWOOD AND COLORADO, FACING EAST, 'WATCHING' THE STOP SIGN. I HAD JUST MARRIED JIM THAT SUMMER, AND I WAS SAYING HOW GREAT BEING MARRIED WAS, THAT EVEN THOUGH I WAITED UNTIL I WAS 44 YEARS OLD TO GET MARRIED FOR THE FIRST TIME, IN MY LIFE I WAS TRULY HAPPY. I HAD A CAREER I LOVED, A HUSBAND I LOVED, A STEP-SON AND DAUGHTER-IN-LAW THAT I LOVED, AND WOULD EVENTUALLY HAVE GRANDCHILDREN THAT I WOULD LOVE, AND ALL THESE PEOPLE LOVED ME. MIKE WAS SAYING HOW MUCH HE LOVED HIS WIFE AND TWO (2) DAUGHTERS (HIS SON WASN'T BORN YET). HE SHOWED ME THEIR PICTURES. HE WAS SO PROUD OF HIS FAMILY AND THEIR HOUSE IN HUNTINGTON. HE THEN TOLD ME ABOUT THEIR THANKSGIVING DINNERS. MIKE SAID THANKSGIVING WAS HIS FAVORITE HOLIDAY, TO HAVE THE WHOLE FAMILY TOGETHER WAS GREAT. HE SAID HIS GRANDMOTHER WAS THE BEST COOK AND HER PIES WERE 'OUT OF THIS WORLD'. I REMEMBER COMING HOME AND TELLING JIM THAT I HAD SUCH A GOOD TIME WORKING WITH MIKE; I WAS SO IMPRESSED BY HIM, HIS DEVOTION TO HIS CAREER; BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY, HIS DEVOTION AND GREAT LOVE FOR HIS FAMILY. PLEASE TAKE COMFORT IN THIS, AS I DO. GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU. AND MIKE, GOD BLESS YOU, MY FRIEND, I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU SO FONDLY.
Lynn Gorman
January 27, 2004
So sorry for your loss.
Detective Lynn Gorman, Bridgeport
Garthalia Johnson
January 27, 2004
To the Dominguez Family: No words can express the sorry I feel for your loss. Mike was a wonderful person and a good friend. Please accept my condolences on your loss. LOOK TO GOD FOR YOUR STRENGTH AND COMFORT.
Michele DeCarlo
January 27, 2004
To the Dominguez Family, I didn't know Mike, but we know his dad very well. Bobby & my father were on the police force together. Bobby our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. I think of you always looking at the police clock you made for our father for father's day. Its hard to understand why things happen, there's not a day that goes by that we don't think of our mom. Our prayers are with you all, we love you Bob your always so good to us!! THE DECARLO'S
Heidi V
January 27, 2004
Chris, Cariann, Raelyn and Michael.
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Alexandra Epstein
January 26, 2004
To the Dominguez family my prayers are with you. I never met Mike, but met Chris (Tina) through a good friend Margaret Memoli. May god bless you and sorry for your loss.
-Alex
Georgina Montanaro (Kosnoski)
January 26, 2004
I too am part of the "Balsam Ave. Gang" and how I wish we were still 12 and playing around the world in your driveway. Rest in Peace, Mike...
Donna Portonova
January 26, 2004
Dear Mr.& Mrs. Dominguez, Bobby and Tina;
My deepest sympathies.
Donna
megan anderson
January 25, 2004
My husband and I send our deepest sympathy to Mike's family and children. We both knew Mike as a Bridgeport Police officer and I knew him from high school. He was a great person and he will be missed.
Rob Anderson (MTA police)
Megan (Weldy) Anderson NDCHS '84
JIM AND LOUISE GALLAGHER
January 25, 2004
DEAR BOB, ANNA AND FAMILY:
YOU WERE BLESSED WITH MICHAEL, FOR AS LONG AS GOD WANTED HIM TO BE ON EARTH. HE TRULY WAS SUCH A GOOD, KIND PERSON; AND A DEDICATED, DEVOTED POLICE OFFICER, SERVING BRIDGEPORT PROUDLY. I USED TO SEE HIM EVERY DAY, WHEN I WAS IN THE OUTSIDE O.T. OFFICE, WHICH WAS THEN LOCATED IN THE POLICE ACADEMY. IT WAS SUCH A PLEASURE TO WORK WITH MIKE. HE HAD SUCH A WONDERFUL SMILE, AND GREAT DISPOSITION. MIKE IS AT REST NOW, WITH OUR LORD. IF THERE IS ANYTHING WE CAN DO FOR YOU, PLEASE DO NOT HESITATE TO CALL. BOB, GIVE JIM A CALL---WE'RE IN THE PHONE BOOK. GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU. SINCERELY, JIM AND LOUISE
JERRY WARREN
January 25, 2004
BOB AND ANNA; PLEASE ACCEPT MY
CONDOLENCES ON YOUR LOSS. WORDS
CANNOT EXPRESS MY FEELINGS.WE'RE
BORN,WE DIE, AND WE SPEND SO LITTLE TIME IN BETWEEN.
JERRY
Ivonne Hernandez
January 25, 2004
As part of his last graduating recruit class in 2002, we never got the chance to work along side Sgt. Dominguez instead we took in all he had to offer as an Instructor. My memories of him go back to when I was coming close to graduation and due to an injury in the Academy I had to make-up my defense tactics after hours with a classmate and him. During and after our sessions he would talk about his family and kids, tell us stories that were interesting and the funny ones about him growing up. I'm glad for that little time I got to know him as the person aside the Instructor. During class his views on what "he" would do to make the city and the system better always took over him and we loved to get him started. Afterwards the class would yell out "Dominguez for Mayor", he'd smile and chuckle and get back into his conversation. That's how I will always remember him. To the Dominguez and Burns families my most heart-felt condolences go out to you, and may God keep and bless his soul.
CHRIS ROBINSON
January 25, 2004
A BROTHER IN BLUE IS GONE
BUT HIS CHARACTER LONG LIVES ON
HIS SOUL WILL BE EMBRACED
WITH THE ACCEPTANCE OF GODS GOOD GRACE
HIS MEMORIES WILL STAY
WITH US ON EACH PASSING DAY
ALTHOUGH WE CAN’T SEE HIM
WE KNOW HE STILL EXIST
AND HIS SMILE WILL SURELY OF COURSE BE MISSED
WE CAN SEE HIS SOUL IN ALL OF OUR HEARTS
HE IS VERY MUCH STILL APART
OF ALL OF THOSE HE HAS TOUCHED
ALONG HIS WAY HE WAS LOVED SO MUCH
BY HIS FRIENDS, HIS FAMILY AND HIS BROTHERS IN BLUE
THERE WAS NOTHING THAT HE WOULDN’T DO FOR YOU
A FATHER, A POLICEMAN A FRIEND
FOR HIS FAMILY OUR HEARTS ARE THEIRS TO LEND
AS THEY WILL TURN TO US FOR SILENT SUPPORT
WE WILL BE THERE WHEN THEIR HEARTS ARE SORE
A SUDDEN GOOD BYE – WE ASK THE QUESTION WHY
AND IT IS UNANSWERED.
FOR WE WILL NEVER KNOW THE LAST THING ON HIS MIND
BUT WE DO KNOW THAT HE WAS ONE OF A KIND
WHY HE HAD TO LEAVE
IT IS JUST TOO DAMN HARD TO BELIEVE
WHEN A BROTHER IN BLUE IS GONE
IT IS US WHO WILL FOREVER HOLD ON
AND NEVER LET HIM GO
Donna Viselli
January 24, 2004
To the Dominguez Family-
My husband, Maurizio and I both went to St. Raphael's with Michael, Bobby and Tina. We have many fond memories from those happier days. We are so sorry for your loss. May God bless you and keep you during this very difficult time.
Chris Robinson
January 24, 2004
It is said, “ It is not how you died but how you lived that matters”.
It is not how many friends you have (although Mike did have many) but how many you have been a friend to - that matters.
He loved his family. He loved all of his friends. He loved his brothers and sisters in blue.
He was everything that defined a great cop, knowledgeable, courageous and professional. He was everything that defined a great person, loving, caring, companionate.
My heart goes out to all that have been involved in Mike’s life both professionally and personally.
His baby Julia will grow up and ask the question “ What was my Daddy like?” and she will get to know him through the stories and through all of the lives that he had touched along the way and she will know her Father as we have known him.
Rest in Peace Brother
Diana (Batista) Weber
January 24, 2004
To the Dominguez Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss my prayers are with you all. May god bless your family.
KEITH BELCHER
January 24, 2004
ANNA DOMINGUEZ I AM SORRY FOR THE LOST OF YOUR SON LOSING CHILD IS ONE OF THE HARDEST THING A MOTHER WILL EVER HAVE TO GO THROUGH IN LIFE HE IN GOD HAND NOW MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY (CO) WORKER.KEITH BELCHER&FAMILY .
Nick and Jen Grasso
January 23, 2004
To the Dominguez Family-
We are deeply saddened by your tragic loss and our hearts go out to all of you. Mike has always been a great friend and fellow officer and the memories that we have of him will never be forgotten. Mike has been a huge influence throughout my career as a Bpt. Police Officer and he will truly be missed.
Jose and Engracia Rivera
January 23, 2004
To Dominguez family:
Our prayers and thoughts are with the family. God bless the family.
Jose & Grace Rivera
Tabatha Skelton
January 23, 2004
When it's dark enough men see stars.
--Ralph Waldo Emerson
Look to the stars. They will be with you always; to light your way when you think you can no longer see to keep going. Stay strong and know you are in thoughts with sincere love.
Chantea Jones
January 23, 2004
To the Dominquez family, May God Bless your family.
To Christine Dominquez, may God watch over you and your blessed children.
Lucy Faiella (Grillo ) NDCHS CLASS OF 83
January 23, 2004
To the Dominguez Family, Please accept my sincere and heartfelt condolences on the loss of your son and brother. I did not know Michael personally but heard of him.. I knew Bobby in high school. May God bless you all in this tragic and sorrowful time.
Hiram Jimenez
January 23, 2004
My last memory of mike was of him, with an ear to ear smile, talking about his children,and how happy he was with his new baby, Julia. I'll remember him like that.
KEITH BELCHER
January 23, 2004
ANN DOMINGUES & FAMILY I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOST OF YOUR SON MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY R.I.P (CO)WORKER.KEITH BELCHER.&FAMILY
KEITH BELCHER
January 23, 2004
ANN DOMINGUES I AM SO SORRY FOR THE LOST OF YOUR SON MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AT THIS VERY HARD TIME R.I.P(CO)WORKER/KEITH BELCHER&FAMILY
Chris & Bernadette Lee
January 23, 2004
To The Dominguez Family,
We are sorry for the loss of Mike. He was a wonderful person to be around, he would always tell you what was on his mind, whether good or bad, we have never met anyone quite like him. Mike will be dearly missed and in our prayers.
Valerie Day-Hall
January 23, 2004
To the Dominquez Family,
Please accept my condolences on your loss. Look to God for your comfort. Remember the good person that Mike was and focus on that to get you through the hard times. His children are going to need you to be strong for them. May God bless and keep you.
Amanda Skelton
January 23, 2004
"Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted."
Matthew 5:4
My prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Joyce Croteau
January 23, 2004
To Christine and The Dominguez Family I am so very sorry for your loss.
Mr. & Mrs. Dennis Martinez
January 23, 2004
We send our deepest condolences to Mike's family and know that our prayers and thoughts are with you during and after this difficult time.
Al Pace
January 23, 2004
To Bobby & the Dominguez Family.
There are never the right words to express the sadness for such a great loss. My deepest sympathies & prayers are with you all.
Ret. Bpt. P.D.
Nicholas Novia
January 23, 2004
Mike Dominguez...a strong man, a very loyal friend...when loyalty is hard to find these days.
Although we hadn't seen each other in a long while, you were there when you were needed.
I will always remember you as a gentleman, a man of quick wit with a great sense of humor...along with your pragmatic, and serious side.
I will miss you buddy, and remember you fondly the rest of my life.
My deepest sympathies to the entire family.
Margaret Stewart
January 23, 2004
To The Burns & Dominguez Families,
I am so very truly sorry for your loss. I can't begin to imagine what you're all going through right now. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.
Be strong for each other!
(Friend of Christine Burns)
edward ewaskewich
January 23, 2004
DEAR BOB AND ANNA I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND MICHAELS CHILDREN.PLEASE ACCEPT MY CONDOLENCES.
ED
Rafael & Dolores Fonseca
January 23, 2004
May God Bless your family in your time of sorrow. Our prayers are with all of you.
Respectfully,
Rafael & Dolores Fonseca of Bpt.
Sheryl Roser
January 23, 2004
Anna and family, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time.
Kim Forbes
January 23, 2004
Dear Mr.& Mrs. Dominguez, Bobby and Tina;
Some of the sweetest memories of my childhood are of Micheal: telling "real or make-believe" stories ontop of his swing set; playing "around-the-world" and baseball in your yard. And just talking with him, he was a good story-teller and sweet and funny.
I'm so sorry for your loss, and am praying for you all.
Kim Portonova Forbes
Margaret Memoli
January 23, 2004
I was linked to the Dominguez family through Tina, who I met in high school. I remember when Michael became a police officer and how "cool" it was to see him in his uniform, cruising around in the patrol car.
At this difficult time, I extend a prayer for strength to Mike's entire circle of family and friends.
Love,
Margaret
Jack Watcke
January 23, 2004
To The Dominguez Family,may Mike rest in peace,so sorry for your loss. Retired Police Off.
Jackie, Theron, & Jason Knapp
January 23, 2004
Our love, prayers, and thoughts are with Michael and those who loved him. Michael will live in our memories as the wonderful father, son, brother, and uncle that he was - The Knapp Family
Devin & Lis Skelton
January 22, 2004
No words can take away the pain. All we have are the wonderfull memories to last us a lifetime. Celebrate all those many memories. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family, always.
Nancy Watson
January 22, 2004
To Christine Dominguez and the Dominguez family. Be strong in the Lord. Lift up your eyes to the hills-from where will your help will come? Psalm 121:1
Bridget Connolly
January 22, 2004
To Christine and your family. Our deepest sympathy. We will all pray for you. From all of the Connolly's
michaelyn
January 22, 2004
i am giving you my deepest sympathy. i am very sorry about michael david dominguez. i didnt know him, but i did know his sister and his mother and father. i am very sorry.*michaelyn*
Vesna (Nedeljkovic) Cottrell
January 22, 2004
My sister Oli & I grew up with Michael, Bobby and Tina on Balsam Avenue in Bpt; we've practically known the Dominguez family our entire lives. We cannot put into words how sad we feel about this tragedy. The multitude of entries here only reinforces the fact that there are many caring people around the Dominguez family who will offer support and assistance to them through this difficult time. On behalf of the Nedeljkovic family, we offer our sincere condolences. We hope that Michael has found peace.
Yvonne Andrasi
January 22, 2004
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Tina. ~Yvonne
Tracy Smith NDCHS'84
January 22, 2004
Unfortunately no words can take away this pain. Time may help mellow the feelings of loss. My wish for you, and for your Mom most of all, is that something joyful comes into your lives to fill the void. I'm only sorry that I can't do more.
Karen (Brown) Philippas
January 22, 2004
To the Dominquez Family;
My deepest sympathy during this difficult time. Michael and I attended St. Raphael's together. He was a great kid and a kind man. I will keep him in my prayers.
Mathey Cuminotto, Jr.
January 22, 2004
Bob and Anna, Robert and Cristina, Christine, I offer my condolences in your time of sorrow. You are not alone in this time of grieving. As with all Police Officers deaths, no matter what the circumstances, other Police Officers feel the sorrow and loss of one of our "brothers". More so when you have worked with or still work with that individual. I only worked with Mike closely for a short while in the Detective Bureau but we were always friendly and had good conversations. Bob and Anna I remember all your children from our christmas parties we had in our 5th platoon days. Bobby my heart goes out to you not only as a brother police officer but as a father. If you need any help with matters afterwards do not hesitate to call. Christine the loss of Mike is equally as hard on you. I guess that I don't have to tell you that me and Tiffany are there for you also. God Bless all of you in your time of sorrow.
FF. Larry Noga
January 22, 2004
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Dominguez family at this difficult time. Keep comfort in all the fond memories and good times you've shared. If there is anything that we can do, please let us know.
Sincerly, Larry and Heather Noga
resident
January 22, 2004
I just want to say that i am very sorry for your lost,,,But have faith and god will pertect you all,,god bless
Olivera Nedeljkovic
January 22, 2004
To the Dominguez Family,
Vesna and I grew up with Michael, Bobby, and Tina on Balsam Avenue in Bridgeport. We spent many afternoons playing wiffle ball in the back yard. Michael usually pitched, and struck me out every time. We have been friends for 28 years, and we are deeply saddened by this passing. Our sympathy and hearts are with you.
We will miss you Michael and we love you.
Oli, Vesna, Louie, and Jela Nedeljkovic
Debi (Carrano) Bardinelli
January 22, 2004
To the Dominguez Family, I am so very sorry for your loss, my prayers are with you and Michael's children, he will not be forgotten.
Debi Bardinelli
Lisa Bertanz
January 22, 2004
My deepest condolences and love go to Michael's family. As his cousin I will truly miss his kind and loving ways that he showed to all of us. There aren't words to express when you lose a family member especially when he had so much more to go. It is deeply hard to be so far away at this time. You are truly a special to me and I love you all. Uncle Bob, Annie, Cristina, Bobbie
Mrs. Norcel Frenchtown Elementary School
January 22, 2004
On behalf of the Staff and Students of Frenchtown Elementary School we hope caring thoughts bring comfort to you and your family at this time of sorrow.
With sincere sympathy.
Mrs. J. Norcel, Students and Staff
Mrs. Norcel
January 22, 2004
On behalf of the Staff and Students of Frenchtown Elementary School we hope caring thoughts bring comfort to you and your family at this time of sorrow.
With sincere sympathy.
Mrs. J. Norcel, Students and Staff
Millie Harp
January 22, 2004
To Christine and The Dominguez Family My deepest Sympathy goes out to your family for your lost of Micheal my prayers are with you at this time of lost.
Al Croteau
January 22, 2004
I knew you since I was a little boy when you were dating mt Aunt Chris, who later became your wife. We used to play football in my Grandparents yard and you got me interested in becoming a cop (which never panned out). I was at your wedding. I was there when your children were born and we spent many a superbowl at your home. It's hard to believe you are no longer with us. I will miss you buddy. I just wish I had a chance to say goodbye since I haven't seen you in a while. Rest in peace. I will always remember your service to Bridgeport and the kind heart you had. I just can't understand how it came to this.
Christine Fensky
January 22, 2004
God-speed!
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