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Pamela Hyman Obituary
Pamela G. Hyman passed away on the second of April 2018 at her home in Prospect, CT. She was born on January 15, 1944 in Danbury, CT to Albert and Mary Gillotti.
Pamela grew up in Danbury and graduated from Danbury High School 1961. After high school she attended Western CT State University and graduated Cum Laudi with a Masters in Social Work from Columbia University. She was the Clinical Supervisor for Catholic Family Services in Danbury. She then became the founding Executive Director of Operation Hope in Fairfield, CT where she tirelessly helped countless homeless people for ten years. She and her husband, Mel, then founded Professional Psychotherapy Associates in Milford which is still a highly regarded practice.
Pamela married Dr. Melvyn Hyman in 1983 in Danbury, CT and they were happily married for 34 years. She enjoyed gardening, watching basketball, reading, and above all else spending countless hours with her grandchildren. She also received numerous professional awards and certifications. Pam was a member of the National Association of Social Workers, NOW, and a founding member of The Women's Center of Greater Danbury.
Pamela was preceded in death by her brothers Robert and David, as well as her parents Mary and Albert.
Pamela is survived by her husband Melvyn Hyman of Prospect, CT; her son Jay Gillotti of Mercer Island, WA and his wife Debi; her son Donald Gillotti of Cheshire, CT and his wife Jean and their children Julia, Brenna, and Dylan; and by her sister Eva White of Danbury, CT and an extended family of cousins, nieces, and other relatives, coworkers, and beloved friends.
A memorial service will be held at the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Danbury at 24 Clapboard Ridge Rd in Danbury, CT on Saturday April 7 at 11:30 a.m. The family will be greeting friends and relatives at the church prior to the services starting at 10:30.
In lieu of flowers the family requests memorial donations be made to Connecticut Hospice, 100 Double Beach Road Branford, CT 06405. http://www.hospice.com/donate/. To light a candle or send a condolence in her memory please visit www.danburymemorial.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Pamela Hyman
Kirsten Demir Butler
March 30, 2025
I will always miss Pam being in our world, she was incredibly sweet and lovely.
Pam reminded me I am a valid human being, and she always made me feel welcome, comfortable and appreciated.
I´m sending my best always to her loving family. She adored you all- I´m sure you don´t need me to tell you this.
Kirsten Demir
April 2, 2023
Pam is missed...she will always be one of my favorite people in life.
I send my good wishes to her loving family and dear friends.
Kirsten Butler
April 5, 2022
Thinking of Pam, and miss her guidance.. well wishes to her family, and loved ones - she soooo adored you all...
Kirsten Demir Butler
March 29, 2021
I think of Pam and her influence on my life... I thank God I was lucky and blessed to have known her. I’m grateful for her kindness and guidance everyday...God Bless Pam, her family and all who loved her.
November 28, 2018
Sending wishes of comfort and peace to the family , friends, and all loved ones of Pam, during this holiday season, Thinking of Pam today, as I do often -she was my rock...I miss her as I know you all do- good friend, kind soul- I'm so grateful to have known her, and I'm blessed for all she did for me...God Bless
Kirsten Demir Butler
May 31, 2018
To Pam's Family, friends and loved ones...
Pam was and will always be one of the best people I have met in my 53 years of life...I was devastated to hear this news of her passing; She will remain one of the most respected, compassionate and empathetic people that has graced my life. I wish you all peace and comfort; she is simply waiting until your journeys in this world have been completed so that you can all be together again. Mel, I remember seeing you and Pam playfully teasing each other about your dinner breaks,etc...at the office in Milford. She was so dedicated to her family, and to you, Mel...anyone could see the love she had for you in her eyes: I so remember the smile she would have when she would talk about her children and grandchildren... I miss her terribly, and always will. Her voice on the phone was such a comfort to me; being in her presence gave me strength, especially during the times I didn't think I had any strength left. She gave me the opportunity to find myself again-she was lovely, inside and out,,,God Bless Pam, and God Bless you all...
Joyce and Jim Ketcher
April 6, 2018
Remembering an evening when Pam and I were sitting with our grandchildren. Julia put her strobe light on and we were all dancing and laughing in Julia's room; Pam and I, Julia, Brenna and Dylan. Pam remarked how we will all remember this night fondly, and she was surely right!
We will miss you and we all love you.
Karen L Fischer-Perkins
April 6, 2018
To All Of Pam's Family, 4/6/18
I / we were very saddened to learn of Pam's passing. She was a lovely, accomplished, and remarkable lady who has left this planet far too soon. May many fine memories, good friends, and the presence of a Higher Power be of comfort to all of you. Look for energetic signs- Birds in strange places and at unusual times, flowers and feathers in unusual places, energetic signs such as flickering lights- all often occurring as "Hello's From Heaven".
With Prayers and Sympathy,
Karen L.Fischer-Perkins, Mrs.Nancy W.Fischer, and all of the Family of the Late Dr.Paul H. Fischer
Jeff & Toni Zeleny
April 5, 2018
Mel and Hyman Family, So sorry for your loss. As you mourn her life, we hope you can celebrate that Pam made such an impact on so many people in the Fairfield area. People that were struggling, Board Members, volunteers and community members were all touched by her work and passion.
April 5, 2018
MY HEARTFELT CONDOLENCES GO OUT TO THE HAYMAN FAMILY MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.
April 5, 2018
Dear Mel and Family, It's with much sadness we send to You our sincere sympathy in the loss of Your Dear Pam. Please know we care so very much and are keeping You in our thoughts and Prayers at this very difficult time. Pam was truly a very special person.
Sincerely, Brenda and Ken
Eldridge
Chris & Dorothy Reseska
April 5, 2018
Mel ,
So so sorry for your loss. You will remain in our thoughts and prayers.
God bless you and keep you .
Gerald Davis
April 5, 2018
Sincerest Condolences.
Mike and Marylou Reseska
April 5, 2018
Mel, Our thoughts and prayers are with you, so sorry for your loss.
Greg & Bernadette Salmini
April 4, 2018
Mel our hearts go out to you and the rest of your and Pam's families. You were there for her every step of the way. You are a good husband.
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