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Paul Salerno Obituary

SALERNO Mr. Paul J. Salerno, J.D., age 46 of Branford, previously of Laurel Beach, Milford, beloved husband of 18 years to Paula J. DeMeola Salerno, passed away suddenly Tuesday, January 6, 2009. Son of Richard A. and Phyllis Simone Salerno of Milford, he was born in Milford, October 18, 1962. Paul was a scholar athlete graduating from Jonathan Law High School. He received his bachelor's degree in business at Fairfield University and law degree from Quinnipiac University. Paul was an award winning MetLife financial planner employed by Barnum Financial Group for the past 10 years and for several years hosted a self help financial radio program on WICC. He will be remembered as an avid sailor defined by his quick wit and wonderful sense of humor. He was dearly loved by family and many friends. In addition to his beloved wife and parents, survivors include his two children, Andrew and Olivia Salerno of Branford; a brother, Richard Salerno and his wife, Lisa of Fairfield; three sisters, Felicia Arciuolo and her husband, Matt of Milford, Claudia Walles and her husband, Todd of Glastonbury and Laura Pitaniello and her husband, Steve of Fairfield. He is also survived by his father-in-law, Andrew DeMeola and his wife, Fran of North Haven; two sisters-in-law, Dawn Moran and her husband, Richard of Hamden, and Andrea Cole and her husband, Matt of Hamden, as well as 15 nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his mother-in-law, Roberta DeMeola. A Memorial Service will be celebrated Monday, January 12, 2009 at 11 a.m. at Trinity Episcopal Church, 1109 Main St, Branford. Interment will be private. There will be no calling hours. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Salerno Family College Fund, C/O Milford Bank, 33 Broad St. Milford, CT 06460. The Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street on the Green, Milford, has been entrusted with the arrangements. www.codywhitefuneralservice.

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Published by Connecticut Post from Jan. 9 to Jan. 11, 2009.

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Dawn Pamer

January 26, 2009

To the Salerno Family,
I have just heard of Paul's passing. I am sorry for your loss. We lived in the same neighborhood and went to school together. It has been a long time since I have seen him or your family but my childhood days with you are forever. May God Bless You All. I will keep you in my prayers.

Deborah Augustitus

January 26, 2009

Dear Salerno family,

I want to extend my sincere sympathy. I just heard of your loss. I met Paul when I began my career as a Financial Rep at Barnum Financial. He was always willing to extend a helping hand - I learned a great deal from his experience and wealth of knowledge. I will always be grateful. My prayers are with all of you - again, I am so very sorry.

CAROLYN GAROFALO

January 22, 2009

Dear Paula, although it has been years since we have seen each other at US Surgical, my prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time..and may the happy times remembered help you thru the difficult days.

cindy vaporis

January 18, 2009

laura and steve, i am so sorry to hear of your brother passing. Don't ever forget he is always with you.

Sharon and Fred Callahan

January 15, 2009

Dear Salerno family, Our thought and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. May the memories you have of your wonderful son, husband, and father serve to sustain you both now and in the coming years.

Lucio DeLuca

January 15, 2009

Dear Paula: I did not have the courage to speak to you at the memorial mass. I have no words to express other than to offer you, Olivia and Andrew my deepest and sincerest sympathy. Paul and I were friends for almost 20 years going back to our clerkship days. I could always count on Paul - he was a true gentlemen and scholar. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you and the kids. I would be honored if you called upon me. God Bless you. Lucio.

Joanne Blanco

January 14, 2009

To Paula and Family,
I heard about Pauls passing and I couldn't believe it when I heard. I used to sit in the office next to him when I used to do work for Tony P. and I'll never forget his big smile, and the trips we all took togegther at Leaders Conference. He was a wonderful person. I haven't seen you in a while but I haven't forgotten you. In this time of loss let the memories and good times give you the strength you need. Your time with him was short but cherish the time you did have with him. Sometimes things happen and we can't make any sense of them but God is with you to carry you thru it.
You are in my prayers...

kronk ratanasaka

January 14, 2009

I am so sadden to hear about Paul. I will always remember him as the friendly, fun loving, happy guy who was always ready to make you smile. We were truly blessed to have known him. My heart and prayers go out to you.

Gloria B

January 14, 2009

I just can't believe he's gone....i'll always remember paul...i met him in the eighties...he always said hi and gave me a kiss when he saw me....rest in peace....my thoughts are with u and your family

cyndi zajic

January 13, 2009

Dear Paula and Family,
We are deeply saddened to hear about Paul's passing. We knew him for such a short time, but enjoyed his presence every minute - he was a very good and loving man. Our production of Oklahoma was a much better experience because he was there. He had a great committment to the show and a sense of humor that eased any tension. May God give you peace at this time and know we are with you in thought and prayer always.
-Cyndi and John Zajic

Jeanne Consiglio

January 13, 2009

Laura,
I was so sad to hear about the loss of your brother. I remember how fondly you spoke of him during our summers at the beach. Although I never had the pleasure of meeting him, it sounds like you will have many great memories to comfort you in this difficult time.
Rich and I will keep you and your family in our prayers.
Best Regards,
Jeanne Consiglio

Vanessa (Brackett) Schaefer

January 13, 2009

To All the Salerno Family,

I have such fond memories of Paul from our younger days. Many times in the summer he would come down in the sailboat to visit friends at Cedar Beach. Paul was always willing to give a sailing lesson.
Often times, I would see him at the Saley's house. Sometimes, we would be there for the Sunday morning cookouts. He was always friendly, smiling, laughing, and joking around. Paul had such a huge personality! Seeing him again as adults, a few times over the years, he was always engaging in conversation and asking about others.
He will be missed by everyone that had the pleasure of knowing him.
I am very sorry for your loss of a husband, a father, a brother, and a son.

Sincerely,

Kimberly DeGrazia

January 13, 2009

I remember when I first met Paul, working at MetLife, while I was working in the admin. department. Paul had just been hired with MetLife, and also just had a newborn son, Andrew. I knew right away that Paul had the drive and determination to be a tremendous success and asset to the company. I found him to be very motivating,energetic and a true talent. Shortly thereafter, Paul offered me a position to work directly with him, and I jumped at the opportunity. Over the course of six years, I learned more than I could have ever imagined. Paul was extremely knowledgable, an innovator, self starter, always brave and never afraid to try something new within his career and make it happen. It is because of Paul that I was able to become a true Personal Marketing Assistant He always pushed me to be the best that I could be in my career, even with things I didn't think I could achieve. I helped Paul with many new ideas and also to get many programs off the ground and running, including various seminar programs and a radio show. I am proud and honored to have worked with him and support his career.. He was truly an asset, with a tremendous sense of humor, he always had an ear for me, when I needed one. He was understanding, patient and supportive to me through some difficult times, and I will never forget that. There are so many great memories I have working for Paul, he encouraged me always, and treated me like a partner within our practice. I truly appreciate all of the things the Paul taught me and all of the laughs and good times we had. I will always respect what Paul has done for me and the opportunity he gave me. My thoughts and prayers are with Paula, Andrew, Olivia, Paul's wonderful parents, and the rest of his family through this difficult time. Paul will be truly missed, and never forgotten. I am so thankful to have had the priviledge to know him as a co-worker and a friend, and will miss him always.

Dick Fisher

January 13, 2009

To the Salerno Family:

Although I hadn't seen Paul for the last few years, I was a colleague of his in the CBA Elder Law Section and enjoyed our relationship and his professional knowledge.

In fact, my wife and I bought our long-term care policies from him.

I feel for all of you and express my sincere condolences. The outpouring of support should help you through this difficult time.

karen tomaszewski

January 13, 2009

To Laura and the Salerno Family, I am so saddened to hear of Paul's passing. I was blessed to have met him and your family. I will remember his smile and his sense of humor; just like yours Laura. Know that your family is in my prayers.

Sandy Hennessey

January 13, 2009

Paul was a kind and fun loving person. I had the great pleasure of knowing him at Jonathan Law and remember being his spirit buddy for football and once the season was over he found out it was me and track me down at one of my classes and gave me a special thank you gift. Just thinking of him brings a smile to me face. He will be greatly missed and his memories shall live on forever. God Bless!

KATHY HENNESSEY (DAVIES)

January 13, 2009

I Just Heard About Paul's Passing. My Heart & Thoughts Go Out To His Family & Many Friends, He Was Such A Good Man &
Loved by Everyone, He Will Be MISSED. Rest In Peace. My deepest Condolences.

Meg Rosa

January 12, 2009

To the Salerno Family,

I was so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. It is so difficult to lose a loved one, but I hope that in time you can appreciate the cherished memories that you have and take comfort in them.

flo shephard

January 12, 2009

I will miss you Paul. a good man, a good friend, an amazing Fagan!
love to your family. Felicia, I am thiniing of you and yours.

Pat/John Bruno

January 12, 2009

Though we are miles away, we feel your loss.

Colleen Casey

January 12, 2009

Paul's Memorial Service was a beautiful tribute to a beautiful man. Warm thoughts and prayers to all his family and friends.

Marie (D'Addona) Bavone

January 12, 2009

To the Salerno Family,
I was so sad to hear of Paul's passing. I have many fond memories of him back in High School. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Liz Carr

January 12, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time. Paul brought lots of joy to my life. I remember him from high school and we had tons of fun.

Diane Montelli Morrisey

January 11, 2009

Dear Paula, I was shocked and saddened to hear the news of your dear Paul. Words cannot express how sorry I am for the loss of your beloved husband. Even though it has been many years since our paths have crossed, please know that at this time of sorrow, I am praying for you, your children and the rest of your family.
God Bless you.

Mary (Gallagher) Laudenslager and family

January 11, 2009

To the Salerno Family, We are so sorry to hear about your loss of Paul. Thinking back to our days at Law and all the fun memories that we all had......Please know that we are keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Doreen (Scharf) Van Horn

January 11, 2009

I am so saddened to hear of Paul's passing! I remember him fondly in the school production of "Oliver!" back in the 80's where he shared the stage with my sister and played the marvelous part of "Fagan". He was the hit of the play and the talk about town! If there was an Academy Award given for high school performances, Paul would have won it hands down! Paul had a special way of making everyone feel comfortable around him with his quick wit and great sense of humor and always seemed to have a group of people around him at every turn. I was amazed too at the close bond that existed between all the Salerno siblings. You could tell they really loved and cared for one another, and held each other in high regard. The world has lost a truly special person, but the heavens have gained a beautiful angel. Prayers and thoughts of comfort are being sent now to the entire Salerno family on Paul's passing. May he rest in peace always.

Sandra Simpson

January 11, 2009

To The Salerno Family:

I was blessed to have had the opportunity to work for Paul Salerno a few years ago at Met. I remember thinking to myself, I don't quite know if this position is for me in the begining, and I remember Paul sitting me down and encouraging me to always do my best and praising my abilities and potential. He taught me to never ever say "I can't do this". He was not only an amazing teacher but a tremendous asset to Met. He was someone who brought so much opportunity to the table not just for his own practice but for others as well. If it was not for Paul, I probably in all honesty would not be alive today, I would not know how important it is to plan for the future, and I also as a single parent would not have a clue as to the best way to plan for my own son's future and when to start. There are several achievements I have made in my life because of the advice and knowledge Paul Salerno has given me, and I will never forget that. He is truly an amazing person that will be missed. I am very sad to hear of his passing and my heart goes out to Paul's loving family and close friends. He touched many people's lives. He is a wonderful person that will be missed dearly.

Susan Kallmeyer

January 11, 2009

We took Paul's course at Trumbull Town Hall and there was nothing like it. He was charming, witty, informative, and threw stuffed Metlife dogs. He managed our Metlife accounts and us with skill, enthusiasm, & pizazz. He was a special person and we will miss him terribly,too. Hugs to you all.

Beth (Weiss) Soulier

January 11, 2009

My mind is flooded with wonderful memories of Paul and family. Please know that my prayers are with you all. Paul was a super guy, saw him back in 2002 while doing some business with Met. His classmates at Law will our old friend.

Nancy Jones

January 11, 2009

I first met Paul when he answered an employment ad in the local paper. Even then, I knew I was in over my head and sensing his genius and quick wit asked the Managing Director to take the call. Very smart move on my part. Paul was a top producer at MetLife from the get-go. That was 10 years ago, and I am grateful for each and every one that I knew Paul and Paula, Andrew and Olivia.
Paul, my friend, may your family continuously be blessed. You are in all of our prayers. I will always miss your intellect and the privilege of working with you.

Lisa A Buccieri

January 11, 2009

To the Salerno Family -
I've known you all since my days at Jonathan Law, the memories are many. My prayers will be with all of you at this most difficult time.
Booch

Harold and Lois Kluender

January 11, 2009

To the Salerno family,
We were saddened to hear of Paul's passing. His diligence and friendliness had always impressed us as he managed our retirement account. We will miss him. Our sympathies are with your family.

Karen Reyes and Family

January 11, 2009

Dear Loved ones of Paul-

We are so sad to hear of your loss. You are all in our prayers and thoughts.

Kelly (Walsh) Quesada

January 11, 2009

To the Salerno Families:
We were so saddened to hear of Paul's passing. May the LORD give you strength & courage to face the future, but be at Peace knowing that he is HOME at last.
Sending you our love & prayers,
Kelly (Walsh) Quesada & Family

Barbara & Bob Dunn

January 11, 2009

To the Salerno Family:
We are saddened to learn of Paul's passing. He was not only a trusted adviser and concerned individual, but a good friend who will be truly missed. Paul's sense of humor always brought a smile; each time we met he had current pictures of Andrew, Olivia and his family to show us. He was a true family man.

Paula (Boudreau) Duda and family

January 11, 2009

Please know we are thinking of you with sympathy and understanding and hope this will somehow keep you strong at this difficult time.

Kristin Scianna

January 10, 2009

To the Salerno family,

I would like to express my sincere sympathy. I had the honor of meeting Paul and working as a colliege at Barnum Financial. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Eileen (Kosiewicz) Hutchinson

January 10, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time of sorrow. With sincere sympathy.

John Saley

January 10, 2009

To The Entire Salerno family,

Paul was a fixture in my family with my beloved brother Joseph-who I know met him in heaven with outstretched arms-in your grief, may you know that he brightened our house with his presence always and was truly Joe's best friend!

To Mr and Mrs Salerno- You were the first people I saw (you came down to my parent's house) after Joe passed, and your kindess and thoughtful words to me at that terrible time will never be forgotten-nor will Paul.

God Bless,

John Saley and Family

Larry Ciccarelli

January 10, 2009

Dear Paula and the entire Salerno Family,

My heart goes out to you all. I know your pain and wish you God's blessing.

Kevin Flanagan

January 10, 2009

To the Salerno family,
I'm terribly sorry for your loss. Paul was a terrific high school friend; the kind of person you aspired to be more like. Pls know we'll keep your family and Paul in our prayers.

Pat and John Shanley

January 10, 2009

We are greatly saddened to learn of Paul's passing,and it is very difficult to find words to express our heartfelt sympathy.We have fond memoriews of his growing up.Our prayers are with your family

Jonathan Zabin

January 10, 2009

Paul and I became friends in Law School, and worked together afterwards. He was a wonderful man and he will be missed.

Tricia Brady

January 10, 2009

To Paula and Family,

For the three years I spent at BFG, Paul was one of my fondest memories, he was not only a coworker, but a great friend. I enjoyed working with him and getting to know you and your two beautiful kids. I remember the days that he had your son on his lap in his office playing on the computer. He was always so happy with his family around. You have a beautiful family and our prayers are with you!

Love, Tricia and Jim Brady

sharon petrushonis

January 10, 2009

So sorry to hear about Paul, he will be in my prayers

Lori Sicotte Giordano

January 9, 2009

To the entire Salerno Family,
It seems like only yesterday, we were playing in the neighborhood as kids. Paul was a great person and my heart and payers go out to you.

Rich Bova

January 9, 2009

All of our hearts are so saddened hearing of Paul's passing. The fun we had growing up and growing with each other will never be forgotten. Our love to you today and everyday. God bless you all, and my dear friend Paul, rest my friend.

Jim Quish

January 9, 2009

To the Salerno Family
Our Prayers and heart felt sympathies are with you. May your love for each other be your strength.

The Quish Family

Paul Caseria

January 9, 2009

To The Salerno Family
I am sorry for your loss. Paul was a good man and he always made me feel welcome when ever I would come over to your house to see Laura. He is now up in Heaven and can keep my father company and talk about the old Saint Gabriels basketball teams. He will not be forgotten. God Bless.......
Paul Caseria and the Caseria Family

Lisa Fabrizi

January 9, 2009

Steve, Laura and family,

I am so very sorry for your loss. I didn't have the pleasure of meeting Paul, but I do know from you Laura how very close knit your family is.

Please accept our deepest sympathy at this time and may God fill your days ahead with the happy times you shared together.

Love,
Lenny & Lisa Fabrizi

Lisa (Nolan) Germain

January 9, 2009

To the Salerno Family,
My deepest sympathy goes out to all of you in your loss of Paul. It was an honor to be his friend and to have known such a kind person. He will always be remembered with affection.

Faye(Scharf) Marklinsky

January 9, 2009

My heartfelt condolences to the Salerno family.Paul was a senior,when his sister Claudia and I were freshmen..and he was always so pleasant and personable to everyone.....and the drama class reproduction of Oliver was a HUGE success due to Paul's performance as Fagan.....even after 25 yrs I still remember him fondly,,,,,,My prayers are with you(Claudia) and family,please know that he is at peace now and in God's infinite care.

Mary (Ruhman) Murphy

January 9, 2009

We are all very sorry for your loss, Nancy and I went to Jonathan Law with Paul, and knew him to be a nice guy. Our Sympathy to all of you. Mary (Ruhman) Murphy and Nancy(Ruhman) Lozick

Tom Slater

January 9, 2009

The Salerno Families: I am very sorry for loss.My God be with you in this time of sorrow. Paul was a great man and a joy to know. Please accept my deepest condolences.

Tom (TR) Slater

Burton Yaffie

January 9, 2009

To the Salerno Family:
We were terribly saddened to read of your loss. We first met Paul back in 1995 on a family matter and were very impressed with his knowledge of his field; his good counsel; and his genuine friendship to my father-in-law, Ben, and the rest of us. Whenever a friend or client was in need of insurance guidance, Paul was always the first to be contacted. We thought of him not only as an extremely able professional to take care of our needs but also as a friend. We hope that, in time, you will find comfort in the many happy memories you have of the time you shared.

Sheila and Burton Yaffie

Laura Greene

January 9, 2009

Please accept my condolences on your loss. Seeing Paul's smiling face in today's paper was a reminder to me of his spirit and personality. May your family find peace and comfort in fond memories.

Chris Schulte

January 9, 2009

To the Salernos:

I'm so sorry for your loss. My memories of Paul and the fun we had in high school during track and field, watching him run over people during football games and all the other activities will always be remember. May the Lord comfort your family at this time.

Sandy & Bernie Bruder

January 9, 2009

To the Salerno Families:
May God bless you in this time of grief and sorrow. Our love and prayers are with you all.

Sue DiMartino

January 9, 2009

Paula, I heard the sad news from Diane Morrisey and I am so sorry. I know it's been forever since I have been in-touch but remember our fun times fondly at US Surgical. Please know my thoughts are with you and your family.

Sharen Mathews Thompson

January 9, 2009

I haven't seen Paul for 30 years but someone so special...will never be forgotten.

Thinking of You with Sympathy

Tanya Lascari

January 9, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Susan (Kirmaier) Sage

January 9, 2009

My heart goes out to you in your time of sorrow. May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead. My deepest condolences.

Heather Sciarappa

January 9, 2009

I am so very sorry for your loss. I had the pleasure of working with Paul for a few years at MetLife. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Dawn Rising

January 9, 2009

To the Salerno Family:
Paul was a good man and I was very saddened to learn of his passing. Please take comfort in knowing that he will be at peace now and that he will always be with you in your hearts.

Marvin Brown

January 9, 2009

Our heart-felt condolences to Paula and family. Paul was a very special man who took pride in his work and in his family. Paul always had a kind word and outstretched hand. We will miss him dearly.

Jacquie Norris

January 9, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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