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Charles hunziker
November 21, 2023
Worked with him at st johns nep church in bpt, during summer 73
John L. Kirn
April 20, 2008
Pete sort of led a dual life. I say that in the sense that Pete had a family of friends other than those on the east coast where he lived. I speak of his Burning Man family.
We met Pete, it seems like nearly 10 years ago out on the desolate wind-swept dry lake known as the Black Rock Desert in northern Nevada where the yearly Burning Man festival is held. No doubt, Pete came by our camp one day and being the sociable, out going and fun-loving guy he was, introduced himself and a friendship grew. He made a point of reconnecting each year there after, as we were easier to find. We’d catch up on the year’s events in the real world then see each other off and on through out the week long event.
This last year my wife didn’t go thus Pete and I had a boys night out a couple of times. I am so grateful to have had that opportunity, leaving me with some special memories of Pete and me partying on well into the night.
Pete loved the event and despite the logistical obstacles it presented for him living so far away, he went every year. I was always amazed at that. This year he was very excited about his new home and made the hard decision to skip The Burn this one year as so he could concentrate on his house. I secretly bet that he would fold and make a last minute decision to come after all. Now…he will not be there for sure…ever again.
However, we believe he will be there in spirit. Each year an artist builds an enormous structure known as The Temple. People leave memorials, pictures, a few written words for loved ones they have lost during the year. It is about the only quiet, peaceful and serene place in the community of 30,000 people, where one can sit quietly and reflect. This year, we will build a memorial in honor of Pete and set it up within The Temple. At the end of the week, The Temple will burn along with everything in it.
Pete would have liked that.
Jane Kirn
April 20, 2008
I met Pete several years ago at Burningman Festival in Nevada along with my husband. We use to camp near him, and he would come over and share stories with us. He was kind, quiet, gentle. Each year we went out there we would look for Pete. Recently I ask him to email me photos of his house so I could see the snow. He did this and then told me he won't be going to Burningman this year because he wanted to work on the house. From reading the guest book I can see the many people he impacted. He definitely made a difference in this world. I picked up early on that he was a fabalous giver to people. He often talked about his family, work and his life at home. I will always hold him in my thoughts, and trust that he is in a better place, resting in peace. My sincere condolences go out to his family and friends at this time.
Maureen Curran
April 17, 2008
Dear Bobalki Family,
I met Peter many many years ago when my mom worked with him at Must Software in Wilton. She did not like to drive in the snow and she sent Peter and Mike Dogali to pick me up several times from my job. I was 19 at the time. They were not boring rides with the 2 of them. I always thought that it was nice of them to do that. My mom saw the obituary and said to me "this is one of your drivers on the snowy days".
Having read the obituary, I can see Peter did for others... Thank you Peter.
My deepest sympathy,
Joe Carbone
April 16, 2008
I was a co-worker of Pete's many years ago and several years back he installed some ceiling fans in my daughter's house. He really knew how to do things and he had a great sense of humor. He was a class guy and will be missed.
Sonya DeBiase
April 16, 2008
Dear Bobalki and Lalwani Families:
It is with great sadness that I express my heartfelt condolences for the tragic loss of Peter.
May your closeness and fond memories help you get through these most difficult times.
As he will always be in your prayers, Peter will also be looking out for you from his place of rest.
May his memory be eternal!
Mary Ann Wasil Nilan
April 15, 2008
Bobalki Family~
My family goes way back with yours, to St. John Nepomucene and Boy Scouts, where my oldest brother Eddy was active with Peter.
My Dad was Asst. Director at Bullard Havens and thought the world of Peter.
Peter and I got to know each other better at Saint Ann's in Devon, where I am the Director of Advancement. Peter was always full of genuine interest and encouragement in all the efforts of our small school. We especially enjoyed talking about our family's favorite Christmas Eve dish - bobalki! - and reminiscing about the good ol' days on the east side of Bridgeport!
My children and I will miss Peter's smiling face and genuine interest in our lives, however, his gentle ways and faith-filled heart will remain with us always.
God bless you~
Mary Ann Wasil Nilan and children
John Janda
April 15, 2008
Dave / Tom, sorry to hear about the loss of your brother, I didn't know him but if he was anything like you guy's he was a good and decent man, sorry for your loss, best wishes, John Janda
Laura Dogali
April 15, 2008
My sister and I have known my "Uncle" Pete since we were born. He was more than a friend of my parents, he was part of our family. I mean, we made him watch Beauty & the Beast with us as kids! (Now suffering thru that with 2 little girls means your family!) He will be missed by everyone that has met him and I hope we can all be a little like my Uncle Pete.
Erin Bamford
April 14, 2008
"As a well-spent day brings happy sleep, so life well used brings happy death."
Leonardo da Vinci (1452 - 1519)
To Pete's Family and Friends,
Like Victoria Mancuso, I did not know Pete in life but did help try to help save him this past Saturday.
From what I have heard and read about Pete, the quote from DaVinci seemed appropriate.
My thoughts and prayers of strength are with all of you during this time; prayers of peace are with you always.
Erin Bamford
Noreen Ahern
April 14, 2008
Tom & Dave
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time of grief. Sincerely, Noreen Ahern (BFD)
Mike & Jackie Dogali
April 14, 2008
Pete was my best friend and a part of our family for the last 35 years. Our girls grew up knowing that
"Uncle Pete" could fix or repair anything! He was a son to my
parents always willing to help them in
anyway he could. He was always a friend that you could count on. I'll miss our pizza and beer nights and our annual "fishing trip" to the N.Y.car show. We have all been touched by something special for having had Pete be a part of our lives.
He was more a brother than a friend. We looked up to Pete, he was a skilled craftsman who could do anything perfectly. I'll miss his humor, advice, his friendship and just
being there for us.
We miss him already! God and the Angels are lucky to have him. Knowing Pete he is probably repairing the Gates to Heaven as I write this.
We love you Pete..
Joseph Slossar
April 14, 2008
Sincere Condolences to all family members.I knew Pete for many years.We had fun volunteering at St. Johns' Bingo.I speak for my wife,my sister,and my sons saying he will be missed.
Ken Mencel
April 14, 2008
Pete and I were friends since grammer school. We worked together at St. John's Nepomucene School and Church with Pete's father and mine for quite awile. We had good times and things were alot simplier then. I would see Pete when he worked for the Town of Trumbull at the power station by Hawley La. I would stop and say hello and we talked for a bit. He stayed the same all those years I knew him. Good and honest. It's a long story but Pete and I called each other Sam for as long as we worked together at St. John's. Well, Sam you are in heaven now with your parents and I'm sure God is pleased to have you up there as well.
Ginger Weller
April 14, 2008
Pete was the youngest in his family, and was always there to care for those who needed him. He felt God put him in a position of responsibility, and he honored those responsibilities. He was also never one to sit still; working tirelessly on one home improvement project after another ... unless he was tinkering with the car. He was quietly an activist in a personal way; composting and respecting nature’s resources. Pete had a lot to do with the person I am today, and my life is better for having shared part of it with him. I miss him, and anyone who knew him will never forget him. God must have had a reason for taking him; I have every faith that Pete is in Heaven. He surely earned it.
Emma and Bob Wheway
April 14, 2008
Dear Margaret, David, Tommy, Al
With deepest sympathy - all of you are in our prayers - May God Bless all of you - Margaret & Peter, David, Tommy and Al
Victoria Mancuso
April 14, 2008
To all of the Dear Family
i didnt know Pete in life but was one of the women who helped bring him out of the basement and perform CPR until EMT came.
i give you my sincerest condolences and your brother Pete and your family are in my prayers.
may god bless you all and keep your family strong througout his passing.
george d dennis
April 14, 2008
im so sorry to hear of your brother
hes in heaven now. with our lord.
John and Maryann Kratky
April 14, 2008
Our deepest condolences to the family and friends of Peter. We didn't know him personally but know he will be missed and remembered by everyone. May he rest in peace.
John and Maryann Kratky
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