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Philip Ness Obituary
Born in York, PA, to Marlet and Ruth (Ebersole) Ness on June 2, 1930. Both preceded him in death, as well as siblings Marlet and Faith. Phil went to his heavenly reward on January 31, 2024, surrounded by family.
Phil's formative years were spent in York. His family moved to Bridgeport, CT, while he was in high school, and he went on to attend Springfield College. His time at Springfield was interrupted by honorable service in the US Army during the Korean Conflict. Upon returning, he married the love of his life and wife of 69 years, Patricia (Hudzik). She survives. Upon graduation from Springfield, Phil began a successful career as an educator, serving as teacher, coach and administrator at different schools in Stratford, CT. Together, Phil and Patty raised three children in Fairfield, CT: Phil (Katie) Ness Jr., Celia (George) Kyer and Kirsten (Tony) Wingen. They survive as well as grandchildren Jake (Laura) Kyer, Corey (Liz) Wingen, Will (Meg) Ness, Luke (Danielle) Kyer, Sara (Greg) Wilhelm, James Ness, Jessica Wingen and Thomas (Jennifer) Ness. Phil was further blessed with great-grandchildren Abby Kyer, Nate Kyer, PJ Wingen, Caleb Wilhelm, Charlie Wingen, Hannah Wilhelm, Mae Wingen and Luke Kyer. He loved and was loved by numerous nieces, nephews and other family members.
Phil was known to friends and family as "Moose." Beyond being an acclaimed educator and coach, Moose was a true friend to many and a valued member of his parishes. He loved his wife, family and a great joke. He enjoyed the ocean and gardening. His presence, like his stature, was enormous, filling the room with joy, laughter and love.
Arrangements are being handled though Hinman Funeral Homes (410-651-0990) Princess Anne, Maryland, www.hinmanfuneralhome.com with the assistance of Timothy K. Slater Funeral Services, Inc. (412-381-3337) Pittsburgh (Mt. Oliver), PA www.timothykslater.com .
Services will be private and at the discretion of the family.
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David M. Ocame
January 6, 2025
I knew him as "Mosse", but I always liked and respected him for his calm demeanor. One time, my lunch money was taken (a shake down)! I don't know how he found out, but I was called to his office and he asked how much was taken. I think it was like $1.50, or something like that. He reached into his own pocket and gave me his own $$ so I could buy lunch!
I also remember how he would quietly dare NOT to laugh at his signature on hall passes...P.Ness (but the way he wrote the period looked a lot like a lower case "i"). I'm sure anyone who knew him remembers this!
RIP Mr. Ness!
Melissa Blake
February 28, 2024
To Ness family sorry for your loss Philip Ness was my principal at Stratford high he was a good man he always teased the seniors. He will be missed
Richard Szamotula
February 17, 2024
My Condolences...
RIP
Jay Cowperthwaite
February 17, 2024
Mr. Ness and Mr. Harvey were our 2 athletic coaches at either Wooster Jr. High, Wilcoxson, or Bunnell High School where I graduated in 1969? Real nice guy but, his physical size was very imposing.
Jay Cowperthwaite III
Phil Ness
February 14, 2024
Thank you all for taking the time to express what our Dad meant to you. It has been great comfort to all of us especially Mom. He loved his family his students, colleagues and his players. We are so appreciative of your words.
Phil Jr.
Frank Trisko
February 12, 2024
I would like to express my deepest condolences to his family. Mr Ness was the assistant principal at Stratford High School when I was a sophomore (1979). He played a huge role in my future, because he talked Mr Crawford (Principal) into not having me thrown out of the entire Stratford school system. The following year he became Principal and because of him I graduated with my class (1981) For that I am forever grateful. Thank you Mr. Ness.
Daryl Guberman
February 11, 2024
This does not even touch the surface of Mr. Ness, my principal, while at Strafford high school, 1981 graduating class.
From time to time there appear on the face of the earth men of rare and consummate excellence, who dazzle us by their virtue, and whose outstanding qualities shed a stupendous light. Like those extraordinary stars of whose origins we are ignorant, and of whose fate, once they have vanished, we know even less, such men have neither forebears nor descendants: they are the whole of their race.
JEAN DE LA BRUYÈRE
Lee Drake
February 10, 2024
My condolences to the family of Coach Ness. A giant in more ways than one. Superb educator and great coach. One of the most influential teachers I ever had.
William Mc Donald
February 10, 2024
rest in peace Mr Ness Great Man, very respected..
Robert Hoey
February 9, 2024
Sorry for your loss.
Judy (Krentzman) Szablak
February 8, 2024
Mr. Ness treated the kids at Stratford High very well
and really made a difference. I have never forgotten his acts of kindness towards me which are as much appreciated today as they were when I was in school.
Rest in peace, and my deepest condolences go out to his loved ones.
Debi Hirth
February 8, 2024
I was just talking about Mr Ness the other, I was telling a co-worker a funny but great memory of Mr Ness from my senior art Stratford High. Thank you Mr Ness for the support during my high school years. You made a difference for so many. Glad to know he lived a long happy life with a great family. My condolences to the Ness family. RIP Mr Ness
Curtis Hopwood
February 8, 2024
Thoughts and Prayers to The Ness Family.
Rest in Peace Sir.
Curtis Hopwood
Class of '81
Michael Fletcher
February 8, 2024
My condolences , he was strict to make you better, was funnier than you thought, i.e. Sylvia Brown incident , blessings upon him and family love..fletch-Army
John Moran
February 8, 2024
I was fortunate to have Phil as a colleague at Stratford High School. He was a good man, a fine educator, and a blessing to both studenmts and staff. God bless you and your loved ones. John Moran
Fred DiMenna
February 8, 2024
A sad day in Stratford. Mr Ness was the reason that I began my college career as a PE major. My sincere condolences to the entire Ness family. May he rest in peace.
Rich Tenk
February 8, 2024
I'm very sorry for your loss. Mr. Ness was my principal in Stratford High School.
Jeffrey Monk
February 8, 2024
My deepest heartfelt condolences, Mr. Ness was a good man I'll never forget him
RIP
Jeffrey & Sonja Monk
Dan MNilewski
February 8, 2024
Patty and family...our deepest condolences on Phil's passing...you all are in our thoughts and prayers...RIP Phil,,,Dan and Chris Milewski
Alfred D'Onofrio
February 8, 2024
Sorry to hear of Mr Ness's passing, but also happy to know of his long life. Prayers for his family. Alfred D'Onofrio SHS Class of 71.
Frank Langston
February 8, 2024
Coach Ness was a good man/coach . His stature and voice were one . When I first met him , he made an instant impression upon me . He help me understand the game of basketball on a different level .May he rest in peace . My condolences to the family.
Frank Langston
Joan Prusaczyk
February 8, 2024
Prayers and condolences to the Ness family. Mr. Ness was a wonderful man. I remember him from Stratford High school.
Toni Natson
February 8, 2024
My sincerest condolences to Mr. Ness family. Mr. Ness was great man and person. I have fond memories of him from Stratford High School. Rest in peace Sir.
Barbara Groholy Pace
February 8, 2024
Phil and family - sending my sincere condolences on the loss of your father. May his memory be a blessing.
Patti(Washaleski)Mino
February 8, 2024
Rest in peace Mr. Ness
Pastor William D. Smart Jr.
February 8, 2024
He was very instrumental in my High School career God Bless his legacy and God Bless the Family during this time.
Jimmy Pickering
February 8, 2024
He made a difference!
Rest Peacefully
Pamela Card Castagna
February 8, 2024
A Wonderful,sharp, good looking Principal who did a fabulous job! Rest in peace.
John Dobos Jr.
February 8, 2024
Rest peacefully, Mr. Ness. Thank you for your service to the youth of Stratford. Loved the stories he always told about playing basketball with my dad. He holds a special place in my heart.
Edward Goodrich
February 8, 2024
Can´t even think of my high school years without thinking of Mr. Ness. Tremendous man. Such great memories. Rest in Peace Mr. Ness
Ken Malchisky
February 8, 2024
So sorry to hear of his passing he was a great man RIP Mr Ness Ken Malchisky class of 1977
Michelina Poremba
February 7, 2024
At 73 years old, I am a former student of Mr. Ness. It was a very long time ago but I think it was at Franklin Svhool in Stratford. Please accept my sincere condolences. He was a terrific educator.
Charlotte Tillman Matthews
February 7, 2024
My sincere sympathies to Phil's family. He was always a positive presence to me in the Stratford School System. Blessings!
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