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Philip Paolini Obituary
Philip J Paolini, age 54, a longtime Easton resident, beloved husband to Kelly and loving father to Ciara, Joseph, and Anthony passed away peacefully at his home on Monday, December 7, 2015. Born April 28, 1961 to Albert (deceased) and Barbara Paolini. A 1979 graduate of Fairfield Prep, Philip went on to attend West Point continuing and graduating from the University of New Haven. He created a thriving business with longtime friend and now business partner William Chappa opening Chappa & Paolini Engineering. Philip was also an AYSO coach beloved by all. Philip's support of his children's activities was always a priority. In addition to his wife, children and mother he is survived by a sister Elizabeth Tronolone , two brothers Albert and Christopher Paolini and several nieces and nephews. A funeral service for Philip will be celebrated Friday, December 11, 2015 at 10 AM in the Spear-Miller Funeral Home, 39 S Benson Rd., Fairfield , interment will be private. Friends may call Thursday, December 10 from 4-8 PM in the funeral home. In lieu of flowers donations may be made in Philip's memory to: AYSO, care of: Christine Calvert, 10 North St., Easton, CT 06612 (203) 261-7325. For further information or to sign an online guest book, please visit, www.spearmillerfuneralhome.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Philip Paolini
Thomas Schmutz
January 6, 2016
I am truly sorry to hear of the loss of our brother, Pao. I had the fortune to be in his company at West Point and visited his home and enjoyed the hospitality of his family several times, for which I was very grateful. I have lost touch with Phil and his family since then, and I am very sad to hear this news. My greatest memory of Phil was that smile of his you knew he was up to something! He was very genuine in his pure enjoyment of the moment. I miss you my friend and my condolences to your family.
Barbara (Gethard) Gerovac
January 6, 2016
To Phil's family,
I'm so sad to hear of his death. "Pao" and I were in the same company at West Point, thirty-some years ago. I rarely saw him after graduation in 1984, but I remember him vividly as a stand-up guy, and a good man.
I'm so terribly sorry for your loss.
Dominic Caraccilo
January 5, 2016
The loss of Pao, my dear friend, West Point Roommate, and best man in my wedding saddens me greatly. I loved Phil like a brother and his memory and our times together will always be dear and special to me. My heart goes out to his family who I dont personally know, but if there are anything like Pao I know you are special and loved.
John Quigg
January 5, 2016
I met Phil at West Point and had the privilege of meeting his extended family and enjoying Grandma Paolini's fantastic Sunday brunches on several occasions. He was one of the toughest, honest, and loyal people I met at an institution full of them and his friendship kept us going through some very hard times. I could always get a sense of the truth of things talking to Phil and will miss him greatly. My sincerest condolences to you all and I am so sad that he was taken from us too soon.
Sean Callahan
December 31, 2015
Dear Paolini Family, I was shocked and saddened to hear of Phil's death from one of my sisters, who lives in Connecticut. I am a West Point class mate of Phil's and was one of his companymates for two years, as well as a roommate for one semester. He was a friend and someone I respected for his strength and toughness. I remember Phil with great affection. I am terribly sad for your loss and pray that Phil rests in peace. I also pray you find some comfort in knowing so many others loved him too.
December 12, 2015
Dear Kelly, Ciara, Joe and Tony,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We are so sorry for your loss.
The Wenzel Family (Elizabeth, Brian, Mackenzie, BJ and Hope)
Justine labate
December 11, 2015
Kelly so sorry to hear, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your children.
James Salvia
December 11, 2015
My thoughts and prayers are with the whole family, I am very sorry for your loss.
Carl Back
December 10, 2015
I am deeply saddened to hear of Philip`s passing. May his family be strengthened by their faith and the prayers of all his friends. Rest in peace neighbor and friend.
Randi Brawley
December 10, 2015
Kelly, Ciera, Anthony & Joe,
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. If there is anything we can ever do to help, we are right next door. We are thinking of you all at such a difficult time. Randi, Luke & Jake
Kim Rioux
December 10, 2015
Albert
My deepest sympathy to you and your entire family on the news of your brother's passing. All my thoughts and prayers to you and your family during this very difficult time. Kim Petro Rioux
December 10, 2015
Kelly, Ciara, Anthony and Joe
We are so incredibly sorry for your loss. Such sad news. Sending prayers for your whole family. Barbara, Gary, Jackie and Emily Whittaker
December 10, 2015
Everyone at the Easton Senior Center was so sad to hear of Philip's passing. We are all so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you especially at this Holiday Season. Love from Val Buckley, Kay, Randy, Chris and Herbie and all the Volunteers.
Peter Redgate
December 10, 2015
I am so sorry to hear of Phil's passing. God bless his wife and children.What a wonderful guy.
December 9, 2015
Ciara, Tony, Joey, and Mom---
I am so very sorry and utterly crushed by you loss.
Ex corde,
Magistra
December 9, 2015
Dear Kelly, Ciara, Joey and Tony,
We will truly miss Phil with his big friendly neighbor wave each day. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Robin and Jim Ward, Matt, Amanda and Austin.
Shelli Mealha
December 9, 2015
Dear Kelly, Ciara, Joey & Tony,
We are so sorry for your loss. May God bless you all during this very difficult time. Our thoughts & prayers are with you. Know that we are here if you ever need anything. With deepest sympathy,
The Mealha Family
Pappalardo Michael
December 9, 2015
I will always remember Phil's pleasant, affable personality on the sidelines of many soccer fields and his obvious love for his wife and children.
December 9, 2015
Our condolences to Kelly and the children, Barbara, Albert, Chris, and Elizabeth and we are praying that your family can find the strength. We are deeply sadden by Philip's passing.
John and Grace Stanczyk.
December 9, 2015
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all-This is such a difficult time- With love and heartfelt sympathy-
The D'Addario and Kennedy Families
December 9, 2015
Our thoughts and sympathy are with you at this time. -Angela Staron and family.
Judi Back
December 9, 2015
To Our Long Time Friends and Neighbors~~The Paolini Family,
God Bless You all during this difficult time. Our hearts are truly saddened by Phil's loss and all of you are in our thoughts and prayers always!
Peace and love,
Judi, Joy, G.Carl, and Robbie Back
The Staff of Spear-Miller Funeral Home
December 10, 2015
Offering our deepest condolences during this time.
Gina Gazsi
December 9, 2015
Dear Kelly,Ciara,Joseph and Anthony,sorry for your loss, may God give you strength and comfort in this time of need
December 9, 2015
Dear Kelly, Ciara, Anthony, and Joe,
Words cannot express how saddened we are by the passing of your beloved husband and father. We are thinking of you and will keep you in our prayers. May he rest in peace.
Love,
Marion and Bob Carlson
December 9, 2015
Living in a small town friends become family. Know that your family is praying for you at this time and here for you for whatever you need. Love, The Visellis Family
Ellen Waugh
December 9, 2015
Dear Kelly, Ciara, Joe and Tony,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. We are so sorry for your loss.
With love,
The Waugh Family
December 9, 2015
Kelly and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. We will keep you in our prayers.
Love, The Sherwood Family
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