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Raymond J. Hageney

1930 - 2021

Raymond J. Hageney obituary, 1930-2021, Fairfield, CT

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Raymond Hageney Obituary

Raymond J. Hageney
Raymond Joseph Hageney, Jr., 91, of Fairfield, CT, passed peacefully among family at his home on December 20, 2021.
He was a man of few words but generously giving in sincerity and warmth. Born February 10, 1930 in Manhattan, NY and raised in Woodside, Queens, NY by parents Raymond and Margaret Hageney. Survived by Barbara Ellen Hageney of Elmhurst, Queens, NY, his energetic, loving and devoted spouse of 60 years. Also survived by his beloved children Ellen Lewis, Jen Kahn (Chip), Richard (Victoriya), Trish Naidich (Jason) and Dan (Jennie). Also survived by his beautiful grandchildren Ray, Sam, Jake, Nate, Aidan, Wyatt, Daniel, Emma, Eli, Theo, Cat, Henry, Tate, Casey, Tess and great-grandchild Althea. Predeceased by sister Joan Berner and brother Jerry and survived by sister Maureadh Dimarco.
Ray attended Power Memorial Academy High School in Manhattan, NY. After serving honorably in the US Army at the age of 17 he went on to earn a bachelor's degree from Iona College in 1960. He retired as a Senior Systems Analyst after 34 years with IBM at the age of 58. Upon retirement, Ray found himself enjoying 30 plus years of beachside comfort in Fairfield, CT where he cherished reading countless books and spending time with his family. While in Fairfield, Ray was active and dedicated to his Catholic faith as evidenced by his service to Saint Anthony of Padua Church.
A man of deep Catholic faith he was most honored and proud to recollect his service to the Lord as an Alter Server at the famed Saint Patrick Cathedral in Manhattan for 6 years. But in truth his legacy will always be sustained in remembrance of his dedication to self-responsibility and love of family.
A private celebration of Ray's life was held on December 23, 2021 at St Anthony of Padua Church in Fairfield, CT. In lieu of flowers, the family wishes donations be made in Ray's honor to the Alzheimer's Foundation of America.
To sign his online guest register, please visit www.LeskoPolkeFuneralHome.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Darien Times & Connecticut Post on Dec. 23, 2021.

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Tony Cusato

November 10, 2025

I knew the Hageney family through my highschool years as I was friends with Rich.

I respected Mr. Hageney and have nice memories of him as kind and warm man. He was also an inspiration in my early career at IBM, as I looked up to him as a senior fellow IBMer.

Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him.
May the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen.

Barbara Hageney

February 12, 2022

Love this picture of my honey...

Gary Horblitt

February 4, 2022

So sad to hear, our condolences. It was a pleasure to have known all these years.

Barbara Hageney

January 24, 2022

I am so missing my husband Ray. Hope I will be back with him someday so we can be together again

John O´Connell

December 24, 2021

One of the finest men I´ve ever known. A heart as big as the sky with an ever present Ray Smile. A friend like no other, He will be missed, certainly by me.

The Staff of Lesko-Polke Funeral Home

December 23, 2021

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