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Realand Uddyback Obituary

Uddyback, Realand
Realand Roberta Turner Uddyback, 80, died peacefully at her daughter's home in Lafayette, IN on April 14, 2013. She was a beloved educator, musician, mother and grandmother. Born in Roanoke, VA on November 20, 1932, she was the daughter of the late Augustus and Realand (Ervin) Turner. She graduated from Roger Ludlow HS in Fairfield, CT and went on to receive a BS degree from Virginia Union and MS degrees from the University of Bridgeport, University of New Hampshire, and Springfield College.She worked as an educator for over 30 years in the Westport and Bridgeport school systems. As an accomplished pianist, she enjoyed singing, writing and directing plays. She also delighted in cooking and was active in the arts and many educational programs. She was a member of The Girlfriends, Inc., Les Treize, and a variety of other organizations. Realand married Curtis O'Neil who preceded her in death. Surviving are four children, Linda (Robert) Daniels of Fremont, CA; Wendell (Victoria) Uddyback of Alexandria, VA; Marion "Beth" (Darryl) Ragland of Lafayette, IN; and Joseph (Janna) Uddyback of Charlotte, NC. A brother, William (Dorothy) Hardy of Atlanta, GA, survives, and she was preceded in death by her other brother, Augustus (Gladys) Turner II. She also leaves behind five grandchildren, Rachel, Elizabeth, Lauren, Henry, and Madison, and a host of family and friends. Funeral service will take place at 2:00 PM on Saturday, May 4,2013, at the Rehoboth Church of God in Christ, 72 Beardsley Street, Bridgeport, CT 06607, Pastor Augustus D. Pullen officiating. In accordance with her wishes the family requests no flowers. In lieu of flowers the family suggests memorial contributions to The Turner Family Fund for scholarships in her name to: The Turner Family Fund c/o 13612 S. Sycamore Olathe, KS 66062 Memories and condolences may be mailed to: The Realand Uddyback Family 5920 Ewing Place Alexandria, VA 22301

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Published by Connecticut Post on Apr. 24, 2013.

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Regina McCluster

April 28, 2013

Beth, Joey, Wendell and Linda my prayers are with you all.

constance Richardson

April 27, 2013

Hello Linda
and the rest of bootsie's children , so sorry to,learn of the passing of your mother , I often times think of her and the rest of the family . also gladys be the best you can at this time and only reflect on her love fr all of you her smile is contagious ,

Nona Turner-Craft

April 25, 2013

Aunt Bootsie! How you will be missed. You provided summer jobs for me and mentored me. My mother adored you and I did also. Such a unique laugh, such zeal. A marvelous mother of marvelous children. Some will remember her creativity, others her generosity,others her work ethic, but everyone who remembers Bootsie should remember her in a positive loving way. Love you Boots!When Jesus comes again I hope we all will gather together and sing a song Bootsie wrote. I think she would like that!

April 25, 2013

My Friend my mentor a special light in my life sweet memories. Sincere condolences to all the family.
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Lisa Edmonds-Anakwa

April 25, 2013

This teacher was so wonderful to me and even had me over to her house to discuss what I needed help in to improve my educational experience...I always appreciated her influence in my life. R.I.P. Mrs. Uddyback.

Cindi Hyatt-Mazzucco

April 24, 2013

Linda and Wendell, I am so sorry for the loss of your mother. I will always remember her as a wonderful person. I have such happy memories from all those years ago when we lived in Fairfield.

Julia Thuston

April 24, 2013

Praying for you my family. The Thustons love you.

Kay Hairston Wells

April 24, 2013

Mrs. Uddyback was one of my first drama teachers in a Bridgeport summer program. I remember the song, "Politics, It Is No Joke." I remember every word to that song. She made a tremendous difference in my life. My condolences to the family and friends of Mrs. Uddyback.

Vernita Sullivan

April 24, 2013

Wendell and Vicki, please accept my sincere condolences. May you find comfort in knowing that you God is in control. Your family will continually be in my prayers.

April 24, 2013

Dear Linda, I am so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. I remember her so full of positive energy and beautiful melodies. I know the memories you hold close will help ease the loss over time...but nothing will ever replace her. I hope you and the rest of your family are well. You are in my thoughts frequently. Helen Carroll-Levine

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