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Roy Ervin Obituary
Roy Henry Ervin, 89, beloved husband of Joan (Hrivnock) Ervin, his wife of over 60 years, passed away peacefully at home on Tuesday, October 6, 2020.
A lifelong Fairfield resident, he attended St. Thomas School and Fairfield Preparatory School. He graduated from Fairfield University and Boston University Law School.
Roy was a self-employed attorney in Fairfield for over 60 years, working with his son Roy Jr. for over 30 years as Ervin and Ervin. He served two terms in the Connecticut General Assembly (1968-1972). Locally, he served on the Fairfield Board of Tax Review, the Board of Recreation, the Charter Revision Committee, and as Chairman of the Parks Commission and was a long term member of the Republican Town Committee. He was the Fairfield Town Attorney for 10 years during the administration of Jacky Durrell.
Roy was a member of the Fairfield Kiwanis Club for over 50 years and served a term as its president. He was a founder, president, and former member of Easton Racquet Club, and a former member of Black Rock Yacht Club and The Patterson Club. He was a competitive tennis player for many years and in his later years took up the frustrating game of golf. He and Joan enjoyed several cruise vacations and their winter stays in Florida. Roy enjoyed his life fully and brought joy to his family and friends with his warmth and humor.
In addition to his wife, he is survived by his four children Roy Jr. (Kate) of Fairfield, Kerry (Edgar Spalding) of Middleton, WI, Theodore of Guilford, CT, and Robert (Julie) of Lunenberg, MA, and his niece, Robin Beacham of Sante Fe, NM. He adored his grandchildren Zachary and Laura, Henry, Keelyn and Douglas, and Isabella and Dylan. He was predeceased by his parents Henry and Stella Ervin and sisters Blanche Caire and Cordelia Lougheed.
The family will greet friends with a pass through visitation on Thursday, October 8th from 4-7 p.m. in the Spear-Miller Funeral Home, 39 South Benson Road, Fairfield. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Friday, October 9, 2020 at 10 a.m. at St. Pius X Church, Fairfield. Masks will be required at both services. All other services will be private. A celebration of Roy's life will take place in the future when it is safe to do so.
In lieu of flowers, those desiring may make a contribution to The Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson's Research, PO Box 5014, Hagerstown, MD 21741.
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Connie
September 30, 2024
For the twenty years spent doing business at 88 post Fairfield renting the store front from you,l will never forget about you.
Connie.
Janet Geary Haffnerl
October 9, 2020
Although many years have passed,I remember the wonderful times as a member of the Catholic Graduates Club and our meetings in the mansion at Seaside Park.Roy was always ready to join in every activity and to give advice to anyone in need.He was just “ a real nice guy”.My condolences go out to his family. Janet Geary Haffner
Bob BELLITTO
October 8, 2020
Roy, a great lawyer and credit to his profession; A gentleman, committed to his family and profession. He will be missed.
george & Cathy klarmann
October 8, 2020
Our deepest sympathy Joan to you and your family on the loss of your beloved husband, Roy. We have so many wonderful memories of all the years we played tennis together at ERC.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
The Staff of Spear-Miller Funeral Home
October 7, 2020
Offering our deepest condolences during this time.
Jim Stapleton
October 7, 2020
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Hugh & Jane Hoadley
October 7, 2020
Roy was a true friend who we enjoyed being with over the years. From The Patterson Club, Our home on Jenny Lake in the Adirondacks, in Sarasota at the TPC Prestancia Golf course and his office in Fairfield.
Constance Richardson
October 7, 2020
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Connie Richardson
Gail Nickowitz
October 7, 2020
From the tennis court to the golf course, I have fond memories of Roy. My deep condolences to Joan and family.
Mary Jane Drummy
October 7, 2020
60plus years of happy memories..RIP
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