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Julie Beitman
June 9, 2025
We are sorry for your loss. Thinking of all of you. Julie & Russell Beitman
Andrew Marchand
June 1, 2025
There is nothing like your first best friend in elementary school. Scott was mine.
Scott lived around the corner from me growing up. When the elementary school bus pulled up to my street, Gilbert Lane, I could see Scott in the window, excitedly patting the seat next to him, waiting for me. When you are little, going to that big school on the hill, Greens Farms Elementary, there is no more reassuring feeling than your buddy´s big smile each and every morning.
At Greens Farms, Scott and I had classes together. And we would talk. And talk. I do not know what we talked about.
What I do know was: Mrs. Hazard, our third grade teacher, did not want us to talk. She would make us write what I think were called, "Times."
They could be five times, 10 times, 50 times or, if you were really bad, 100 times. We would have to write, "I will not talk. I will not talk. I will not ..." On and on.
What Mrs. Hazard didn´t know: If Scott or I had to finish our work, the other one would pay the penance and scrawl out our punishment. That is what best friends do.
One day that third grade year, the mom of our friend, Chipper Dunn, picked us up from school. It must have been a half day. We thought we were all going to Chipper´s house, but Mrs. Dunn first dropped off Scott at his home. I´ll never forget this. As Scott went up his driveway, Mrs. Dunn told us Scott´s mom had passed away from cancer. I still can´t even imagine.
Soon after, my family moved to Miami. Scott´s sister, Gayle, would tell my mom that Scott would ride his bike around the corner and down Gilbert Lane, past our old house.
I ended up moving back to Westport in middle school. Things change and people do, too. We were at different schools, and didn´t see each other as often. But there was always a bond. I would have told you this before the recent tragic news.
We were different from Elementary School, but we had a special connection. Scott made it so. I always felt like I could count on him if I needed him. I hope he felt the same.
He always went out of his way to try to get together when he came east. In recent years, we connected even more. His birthday was a day apart from my mom´s, which made it easy for all of us to remember. He often wrote really thoughtful notes to my mom. That connection never ends. We will always love the Cussimano Kid.
To Patrick, Gayle, Eric and all the Cussimanos, I wanted to wish our sincerest condolences from the whole Marchand Family. Scott´s loss is shocking, but he was a great man and a great best friend.
The Staff of Lesko-Polke Funeral Home
May 29, 2025
Offering our sympathies at this time.
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