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Sergeant Major Stanley J. Sandlock

1929 - 2020

Sergeant Major Stanley J. Sandlock obituary, 1929-2020, Stamford, CT

BORN

1929

DIED

2020

FUNERAL HOME

Bosak Funeral Home - Stamford

453 Shippan Avenue

Stamford, Connecticut

Stanley Sandlock Obituary

Stanley J. Sandlock
Sergeant Major Stanley J Sandlock, 90, passed away at home in Bel Air, MD, peacefully with family by his side on February 3, 2020. He was born August 11, 1929 in Stamford, Connecticut to the late Joseph and Bertha Sandlock and was the youngest of two children. He was married to the late Elizabeth Sandlock for 68 years.
Stanley attended Old Greenwich Grammar School and Greenwich High School, graduating in 1947. During his time there he played on the baseball and basketball teams. At age 14, he began working for the Sterling Watts Hardware store in Old Greenwich, CT. Stanley went on to spend 53 years in the hardware business with Watts Hardware where he eventually became the store's manager. He then continued on at the same store after it was sold in 1986 and became Feinsod Hardware.
Stanley enlisted in the Army National Guard 192nd Field Artillery 2nd Battalion in 1946 with which he served for 42 years. As a member of the Army National Guard, he was stationed in Germany for a year during the Korean War. While serving he also was part of the unit's baseball and basketball teams. He retired from the National Guard as a Sergeant Major in 1989. He also led the National Guard Honor Firing Squad for more than 30 years. Stanley earned the Connecticut Medal of Valor in 1958, the state's highest and most prestigious award of military heroism in the performance of duty in state emergency operations.
Stanley married Elizabeth in 1951 and started their family shortly after. Stanley loved being a "Papa" to his three grandchildren and three great-grandchildren. Some of his happiest times have been spent surrounded by friends and family.
Stanley will forever be loved by those that he left behind. He is survived by his two daughters, Susan Salerno and her husband Paul of Trumbull, CT and Patricia Sandlock of Bel Air, MD; his three grandchildren, Brittany (Lorenti) Binger and husband Josh of Monroe, WI, Allison (Lorenti) Burriss and her husband Zach of Forest Hill, MD, and Tim Salerno of Boston, MA; and his three great-grandchildren Bodhi Binger, Makenzie Burriss and Kyla Binger. Besides his parents and wife, Stanley was predeceased by his one sister Bertha Viesta.
Family will receive relatives and friends on Monday, February 10th from 4 p.m. to 8 p.m. at Bosak Funeral Home, 453 Shippan Avenue, Stamford, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, February 11th at 10:30 a.m. at Holy Name of Jesus Church, 325 Washington Blvd., in Stamford, CT. His interment will follow at Fairfield Memorial Park Cemetery, 230 Oaklawn Ave., Stamford, CT.
The family has entrusted the funeral arrangements to Bosak Funeral Home, 453 Shippan Avenue, in Stamford, CT. If you would like to leave a condolence message for the family you may visit the guestbook on bosakfuneralhome.com or on Facebook at facebook.com/bosakfuneralhome.



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Published by Connecticut Post & Greenwich Time on Feb. 5, 2020.

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Frances C. Uva

February 10, 2025

May you continue to rest in everlasting peace.
Blessings to your family and
friends.
Sincerely,

Frances C. Uva

January 30, 2023

A perfect human being...
How grateful I am that
he was part of my life.
May he continue to rest
in everlasting peace.
Sincerely,

sharon potter paris

January 30, 2023

great guy very much missed by the town of
Greenwich

Robert Donovan

February 3, 2022

I just saw that Your father had died. I grew up in Old Greenwich; worked with your father at Watts hardware for about 6 years; was in the National Guard with him as well and knew your mother also.
I am very sorry to learn of his passing. We shared many memories.
I currently live in Scarborough, ME if you see this note. I would like to make contact if possible.
Bob Donovan

Chris Isidro

October 25, 2020

Proud to hand known you Sgt. Major!

Wells Berni

February 18, 2020

thoughts and prayers are with the entire Sandlock family.Stanley was a great man.God Bless all of you.

Al+Lori Simeone

February 12, 2020

To Susan Paul and Family, Very sorry to hear of the loss of your father Stanley. A great guy, always remember of talks at the store! Our thoughts and prayers go out to you...

Vincent Tassone

February 11, 2020

I served with MSG Sandlock for many years in thew Connecticut Army National Guard. He was a very good man and an excellent soldier. He will be missed by everyone.My condolences to his family and friends.

Nancy Rondano

February 10, 2020

To Stanley's family,
Sergeant Stanley was a total gentleman thru and thru...
His work ethic, compassion and friendliness toward everyone who walked thru the door was never comprised. He was so proud of his family - adoring them all. I will always remember Stanley the hardware
man with love and sincere gratitude for all the times he helped me and my mom Ruth. God Bless you Stanley. Also, I never sent my condolences when your mom passed away so please accept my since sympathy in your loss of both Mom and Dad. I hope they are dancing together in Heaven
With Love
Nancy Chicatell (Jamroga/Rondano)

Steph (stevie) Watts

February 10, 2020

Dear Patty and Susan,

So many memories -

Saturday(?) nights at the store when the two of you and your Mom would wait patiently for your dad to finish up so he could take you all to dinner. He was so proud of you two.

The cupcakes your Mom would pack in his lunch for his afternoon snack.

Your Dad's work ethic, loyalty, precision and steel toed boots.

Memorial Day Parades, feeling so much pride as your Dad's squad marched by and despite our cheering and clapping he would not break his Sarge face. Altho I swear you could see a twinkle in his eye.

Watts Hardware Christmas parties with your Mom and Dad (and his very long legs) dancing the polka around our living room - the signal of a successful party and a very relaxed Bubsy and Stan.

All of these memories are as clear to me now as they ever were. He was a formidable force in many people's lives, all for the better. I know you and your children miss him dearly, I know he loved you all dearly. Thank you for sharing him with us.

My warmest wishes to you and your families at this time of sorrow.

Some of the Wattsie's Gang, 1976

February 9, 2020

We are grateful to have worked with Stan. One of his greatest legacies is his training and mentoring of hundreds (thousands?) of young people at Watts Hardware. Being a man of few words but great action, he trained us by example and quietly praised our accomplishments. He taught us all the intrinsic value of a job well done. Stan's involvement undoubtably changed the life-trajectory of many teenagers.

Our deepest condolences to Susan and Patricia and families.

Ashley Watts and Dan Nelson

Bill Sandberg

February 9, 2020

I can still hear Stanley saying "good morning Mr. S" as I walked into Watts on a Saturday. He knew where every item in the store was. If you needed a suppler--painter, plumber, electrician, etc-you had to go no further than Stan. He also proudly marched in the OG Memorial Day Parade year after year. We will miss you Stanley

February 9, 2020

Dear Patty,Susan, and family,
The passing of your father, Stanley, is a profound loss for you,his daughters and your families and a sad occasion for all of us,his friends that loved him so dearly.
The Sargent Major was proud of his wife, family and his love for his country. A true American who served the military for over four decades.
Stan was a man with a smile and dry sense of humor, always willing to share a laugh or two. Joan and I will cherish the times we shared with him and Betty over the many years of friendship. We will miss his friendly and warm personality and think of him and your mother now and forever.
Sincerely Joan and Guy

sharon potterparis

February 8, 2020

Stanley was one of a kind i knew him
very well living in old Greenwich for many
years
and going to watt's hardware store all the time
Stan was a great guy and will be missed by many people and friends and my sorrow
goes out to his family

Jim O'Mara

February 7, 2020

Saddened to hear of the passing of Stanley. He was a tremendous asset to the Old Greenwich community for so many years. In particular he was a great help to my parents, Ed and Helen O'Mara. I am sure he was of great help to many others as well. Condolences to all his family.

Eternal Friendship Remembrance Bouquet - VASE INCLUDED

PATRICIA BINGER

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Peter Orbanowski

February 7, 2020

Our thoughts are with the Sandlock family. I will always remember Stanley for all the assistance he gave me while at Sterling Watts and Feinsod hardware store. He was a wonderful man and will be missed.

Candace Burke

February 7, 2020

So sorry to hear about the passing of Stan, one of the great resources from Sterling Watts. Always friendly and helpful.

Sandra Bria

February 7, 2020

So sorry to hear of " Stanley of Watts's Hardware" I grew up on Sound Beach Ave and was very fond of him.My father, Frank Abbazia, owned the Old Greenwich Garage just down the street. Rest in Peace.
Sandra Abbazia Bria

February 6, 2020

Please accept my condolences on the passing of a great NCO & a true gentleman. I served under Sgt. Sandlock from 1970 to 1976 & he was a tough but fair leader who exhibited patience with the young men under his command. I pray the the Good Lord will give him Mercy & that he along with his entire Family will be at Peace.

February 6, 2020

Rest In Peace, Sarge.

Michael J. Raduazzo
192 F.A.B.

Terry Saunders

February 5, 2020

A Very "Good Man" - "Full Of Kindness" -Thinking Of Stanley's C0-Worker - "Andrew" - Yes - "Stanley Set A Perfect Example For Others To Follow"!! A Sincere "Thank You For Your Service" - Always Enjoyed Our Conversations - with "Stanley"!! May 'God' Continue To Bless All "The Sandlock Family"!!
Terry and Morgan Saunders - Old Greenwich, Ct.

February 5, 2020

Thank you for your service to our country.
A grateful American

Frances Cyboski Uva

February 5, 2020

Thank you for your service to our country.
You truly are one of the kindest
individuals I have ever met.
May God bless you and your family.
Sincerely,

Anthony & Laura DeFelice

February 5, 2020

Sorry to read about Stanley He was a Great Man May he RIP

JOSEPH GOLIA

February 5, 2020

Stanley was a very good friend. I remember Stanley in all our National Guard events together. My sincere condolences to family and friends.

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