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Stephen Sebestyen Obituary

SEBESTYEN Rev. Mr. Stephen Joseph Sebestyen, age 76, of Fairfield, husband of the late Joan Watcke Sebestyen, entered into eternal rest on Sunday, July 10, 2011. Born in Bridgeport, raised in Stratford, Mr. Sebestyen moved to Fairfield and lived there for most of his life. He was also a Veteran, serving in the US Army. Mr. Sebestyen worked as an educator in the Bridgeport School system where he taught at Thomas Hooker and Blackham schools. Following his retirement, he answered God's calling and began studies for the permanent Diaconate of the Diocese of Bridgeport and was ordained by Bishop Edward Egan in June 2000 and has since served the people of Holy Family Church in various ways including the Director of Religious education, Sacristin and assisting with Baptisms and other church services and also belonged to the Church Holy Name Society and was a past Grand Knight of the Holy Family Knights of Columbus. A quiet and gentle man, Steve will be fondly remembered for his love for his family which was second only to his love for the Church. He will be greatly missed. He is survived by his son, Stephen John Sebestyen and his wife Melissa of Brookfield and his cherished grandchildren, Clare, Peter, John Paul and Samuel, all of whom he adored. Steve also leaves behind several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his brother Emery and sister in law Barbara Sebestyen. Funeral services will begin on Thursday at 9:15am in the Lesko & Polke Funeral Home, 1209 Post Rd., Fairfield Center and his Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated by the Most Rev. William Lori at 10am in Holy Family Church, 500 Old Stratfield Rd., Fairfield with burial to follow in Lawncroft Cemetery. Calling hours will be held on Wednesday from 4-8pm in the Funeral Home. Memorial contributions may be made to Holy Family Church. To sign an online register, get directions or to purchase flowers, please visit www. LeskoPolkeFuneralHome.com.

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Published by Connecticut Post from Jul. 12 to Jul. 13, 2011.

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Helen Lucas

July 20, 2011

Such a gentle, caring person
To all of us did God bestow,
Ever humble, ever serving,
Placed upon this earth below.
How fulfilling, how enriching,
Every life that felt your touch,
Never taking, always giving,

Seldom even asking much.
Ever faithful to your calling,
Blessed to serve your fellow man,
Even when your health was failing,
Still following the Master's plan.
Though God has called you to His home,
Your life in us will never end,
Earthly toils and troubles gone,
Now rest in peace, dear friend.

July 18, 2011

Steve was a wonderful asset to Holy Family Church. I loved listening to his sermons and his funny one liners at end of mass. He will be missed by all.Peggy Child

Lois DeManche

July 14, 2011

Sebestyen Family

I am sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest sympathies to all of you. May Deacon Steve rest in eternal peace.

Larry Patterson and Amy Patterson

July 14, 2011

So sorry to learn of your loss. Deacon Steve was a wonderful, dedicated, and hard-working individual who was truly loved by all at Holy Family. He will be sadly missed.
With deepest sympathies,

July 13, 2011

Deacon Steve was one in a million - A truly great guy! He'll be sadly missed by all!

Grace Krzynowek

July 13, 2011

So sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Grace Krzynowek

July 13, 2011

So sorry for your loss. Prayers coming your way.

Theresa Conte

July 13, 2011

Deepest sympathy to the family of Deacon Steve. He was such a kind man with a great sense of humor. My sons will miss him at CCD. He really was a wonderful example of our Catholic faith. May God rest his soul.

Jacqueline Tuozzoli

July 13, 2011

Deacon Steve, there will never be another you. You were always so upbeat and your little jokes at the end of mass were a treat for all of us. God bless you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

The Staff of Lesko-Polke Funeral Home

July 13, 2011

Offering our sympathies at this time.

Leah Adintori

July 12, 2011

Sorry for this loss, Decon Steve was such a gentle man. Would come to Luigi's Restaurant with Father Montinaro and Father Small every Saturday. Loved when I would come to the table when they were done and he would tell me to wrap just one bean and one piece of pasta and we would always laugh every week!
You will be greatly missed Steve!!!! oxoxo

Lauren Cavalli

July 12, 2011

Your family is in our prayers. Deacon Steve will truly be missed. From Everyone at Luigi's Restaurant

Paul Bodnar

July 12, 2011

With sincere sympathy, all our thoughts and prayers with the family. We had many fun picnics with Steve and his parents so many years ago. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Paul & Pat Bodnar

Susan Barrett

July 12, 2011

We were so blessed to have Deacon Steve at Holy Family. He had a special way to make everyone feel special. Our prayers for his family.

Barbara Pace

July 12, 2011

Sending our deepest sympathies to the Sebestyen and Watcke families.

Thomas Groholy(Palm Springs, CA)
Barbara Morra-Pace (Fairfield, CT)

Joe and Phyllis Piccirillo

July 12, 2011

Very sorry for your loss. May our Lord
bless and care for you in this time of grief.

Monsignor Blase Gintoli

July 12, 2011

Dear Stephen and Melissa, I was so sorry to learn of your dad's illness and death.He was truly one in a million. A true gentleman. Now he is with the love of his life, your dear mother Joan. There is no doubt in our minds that this gentle giant of a man is rejoicing with the saints in heaven. I pray that he is now praying for us here on earth. So sorry that I cannot be with you at the funeral Mass. I now reside in Florida. I will be with you in spirit as I remember him in my Mass. God bless you.

Chris Watcke

July 12, 2011

Although I can't be with you while you remember your loved one, you're in my thoughts from afar.

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